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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the best message to get? What catches your attention or what have you had the best response with?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Fancy a fuck - works every time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fancy a fuck - works every time "

Hahah yeh so I've heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi hate "hi" I always send something quick but tell them something about me. At least it's genuine. Even if it does just get deleted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi hate "hi" I always send something quick but tell them something about me. At least it's genuine. Even if it does just get deleted "

It's a hard one isn't it! Never know what people want

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I tend to use a click bait approach. So in the subject I will say something like...

'Here are 10 things I want to do to your fajiner, you wont believe number 6!!!!'

Works a charm lads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard when you need to be discreet so can't post public face pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to use a click bait approach. So in the subject I will say something like...

'Here are 10 things I want to do to your fajiner, you wont believe number 6!!!!'

Works a charm lads. "

Hahah surely not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's hard when you need to be discreet so can't post public face pics. "

Yeh can't dive straight in with the face pics

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

You've got it all wrong guys... The best opening line by any is...

"Can I fist punch you in your fart box"

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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there isn't one really.

i had a really good message off a lad who got past my age filters (coz i don't set them hard and leave my inbox open to anyone usually) and he showed interest in something on my profile that was non-sexual. if he was within my criteria i'd have been happy to reply to that, in fact if he was only up for chatting i'd have been totally happy to reply.

coming off as a sex pest is probably the best way for conversations to shut down or not even start, for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also you don't want to spend ages composing a really good message for it to get lost in the 100s some women and couples must get

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've got it all wrong guys... The best opening line by any is...

"Can I fist punch you in your fart box"

"

Noted down

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

" Yummy !!"

Will charm every one almost immediately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there isn't one really.

i had a really good message off a lad who got past my age filters (coz i don't set them hard and leave my inbox open to anyone usually) and he showed interest in something on my profile that was non-sexual. if he was within my criteria i'd have been happy to reply to that, in fact if he was only up for chatting i'd have been totally happy to reply.

coming off as a sex pest is probably the best way for conversations to shut down or not even start, for me anyway."

100% makes sense

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say it depends on the reader...

I sent a few mails to new people, trying to be polite, trying to pick out something in profile, and make it it interesting, also included a face and a topless pic, out of about 10, I got 1 response which was a nice one

Something in your own profile may catch them.. you have to accept no matter what you write that if the person or people don't find you attractive then there is nothing you can do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say it depends on the reader...

I sent a few mails to new people, trying to be polite, trying to pick out something in profile, and make it it interesting, also included a face and a topless pic, out of about 10, I got 1 response which was a nice one

Something in your own profile may catch them.. you have to accept no matter what you write that if the person or people don't find you attractive then there is nothing you can do "

I am probably a 10/10 though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a lovely first message today that was well thought out and no one could resist it's beautiful content.

It was off a male from a m/f couple.

It read.

(Mrs at work so get here now and let's fuck)

Unfortunately I was washing up so I had to refuse hahahaha

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By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester


"there isn't one really.

i had a really good message off a lad who got past my age filters (coz i don't set them hard and leave my inbox open to anyone usually) and he showed interest in something on my profile that was non-sexual. if he was within my criteria i'd have been happy to reply to that, in fact if he was only up for chatting i'd have been totally happy to reply.

coming off as a sex pest is probably the best way for conversations to shut down or not even start, for me anyway."

But awfully difficult when the profile in question reads, " woman looking to meet men" or "will fill in later".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the best message to get? What catches your attention or what have you had the best response with?"

Can i borrow ur quim for the evening! Ive met at least 20 woman

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"What is the best message to get? What catches your attention or what have you had the best response with?"

Wit, humour, intelligence and a face I like

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I rarely send unsolicited messages to non-forumites, in fact I think in the time I've been on the site I have maybe sent 4 or 5 in total. In each one I've introduced myself, given a brief bit of detail over and above what's on my profile, picked something out of the recipients profile to comment on, especially if I'm able to use it to explain why I think we'd be a good match. Am always polite, courteous and respectful.

I think of those messages I've only had one that went without reply.

Any other messages will be to forumites and usually off the back of a thread/post so relate to that and then if things spin off in other directions from there then it's a plus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is the best message to get? What catches your attention or what have you had the best response with?

Can i borrow ur quim for the evening! Ive met at least 20 woman"

Yes Cpl

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

In my opinion most women prefer a bit more than FAF in a message...

So guys expand it to something like

"Fancy my mayonnaise cannon slamming deep in your pink velvet sausage wallet"

Far more classy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely attraction.. without this you'll never get passed first base.. add a few pics including a face pic to you're message and if the other person fancies you then you'll get a reply.. if not then just move on and don't take it personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to find the perfect message is like trying to make one nut fit every bolt.

A message tailored to the individual, which shows interest in them is the best in my opinion.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Well today op

Its seems to be a quick fancy a fuck message accompanying a gash shot

Or a picture of a pair of tits accompanied by a message saying compliment my tits and I will give you blow job

You take your pick op

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