FabSwingers.com forum: stupidity

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so im not perfect most will know that lol

i have given someone more chances than i have every given others and when i was let down again yesterday i was gutted and angry

but its my own stupid fault i believed the crap the player was giving me and yet when he didn't turn up i blocked and deleted and he then texts me to moan that i could be going to chams and he offered to take me( not that he will show) LOL

im wondering how many people are stupid like me or is it just me

(feeling very stupid that i was played)

jacqs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there, done that, got the T-shirt.

I have learnt from my mistakes and got smarter in the process.

Hugs to you!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It happens you are not the only one it has happened to and you won't be the last.. Its his lose.. Just put it down to a bad experience and keep smiling..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ive blocked deleted him and told him to do one

new profile updated and gonan try get new photos in the week

im not upset just pissed off that i fell for the shit lol x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Happened to most of us at some time or another.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you are not alone...

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

you are not stupid just maybe alil too trusting. wanting to see the good in others and give them benifit of the doubt are good traits and dont ever change .you dont want to be totally jaded just because one persons taken advantage of your trust .just be alil more wiser and know that sometimes others dont deserve it. fool me once shame on you ,fool me twice shame on me ! people can only take advantage if you let them .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like players, can't stand those who are manipulative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont put up with crap , Just move on and say ....... your worth so much more then that .

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By *urvyhornygirlWoman
over a year ago

hull

"Ok so im not perfect most will know that lol

i have given someone more chances than i have every given others and when i was let down again yesterday i was gutted and angry

im wondering how many people are stupid like me or is it just me

(feeling very stupid that i was played)

jacqs "

Who's the stupid one here!? I'd say the idiot who had the chance of a meet with you- who is now prob sat wanking into his sock

Stay the lovely person you are n definitely don't change cos of that wanker X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like players, can't stand those who are manipulative.

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You get one or two here who think thay are .. players ... as had one or two shags and now think gods gift .. Do make me smile , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who i think was lying about who he was, wanted to see me last week, then he said he couldnt make it. Then he said he wanted to see me another day. He had been bombarding me with emails and text messages, every day, i sort of felt sorry for him. Then the day before he was meant to meet me, he said he wasnt sure he wanted to see me after all. At least he did let me know i supose. I have blocked him now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well its all subjective to what u think is a player isnt it????????- I promise nothing but hopefully laughs n sex, i dont chase dont beg dont hassle dont take the hump dont get abusive dont get dismissive

but I'm a player

cos i like shagging lots of new people and recurring friends

fuck sorry I thot i was on the lookatme thread!!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"you are not alone...

xx"

Is that you Michael ??

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think most of us at sometime have been played, i know what you mean about being more angry than upset.

Just dust your self down and carry on, plenty of gorgeous guys out there who dont piss about

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Jaqs...... he's an arse hole and you already have one xxx no loss xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well its all subjective to what u think is a player isnt it????????- I promise nothing but hopefully laughs n sex, i dont chase dont beg dont hassle dont take the hump dont get abusive dont get dismissive

but I'm a player

cos i like shagging lots of new people and recurring friends

fuck sorry I thot i was on the lookatme thread!!!"
Well your the player we like x can't stand those who are manipulative and out to mess your head up ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

not at all

i havent got a problem with people playing with others but i hate people who say this and that and dont follow through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but I'm a player

cos i like shagging lots of new people and recurring friends

fuck sorry I thot i was on the lookatme thread!!!Well your the player we like x can't stand those who are manipulative and out to mess your head up .... "

never wanna mess with anyones head...but love messing a pretty face hehehehehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A vanilla gent expressed interest to meet me, yet in the month since we had started to exchange naughty text messages, he had yet to arrange a meet.

He would go for days without a message, then they would re-appear at weekends, especially when he knew I could be busy having fun.

I dismissed him the first time as I suspected he is a player. However, I was intrigued by him, after he toned down his crassness and crudeness in his messages.

Text exchanges went for another week and a half or so.

In the end, I got fed up with being strung along, and told him I am no longer interested in whatever he may have to offer.

I now ignore his messages. Hopefully, he will get bored and move on to his next victum soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not at all

i havent got a problem with people playing with others but i hate people who say this and that and dont follow through "

u said follow thru lol...sorry ...heheheheeh xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To err is human, to forgive is divine...................for all else there is block and delete. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

if u agree to meet surely u should meet

after all u cant have sex alone unlone masbiation is what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been there done that hun and got the T shirt was played by a fella a cpl of years ago who i fell for but who couldnt keep it in his pants despite what he said to me about loving me etc.

And at xmas fell for a guy who i met through mutual friends off here and thought we had something good he even lived with me while he had nowhere and i helped him out financially as we were making plans for the future etc.......now im the fool as he says he cant have a relationship cos he got too much going on in his life and im alot of money out of pocket and struggling myself now.... lesson learnt tho now never gonna be that trusting again !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been there done that hun and got the T shirt was played by a fella a cpl of years ago who i fell for but who couldnt keep it in his pants despite what he said to me about loving me etc.

lend me a fiver eh?-will even shag if u like...oooops...i meant, make love baby xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there done that with living with a sponger too! Hence I am very wary about whom I invite home nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im wondering how many people are stupid like me or is it just me

(feeling very stupid that i was played)

jacqs "

Join the club hun! I've been there done it and got the t-shirt too and no doubt I'll do it again ( you know who you are, you annoying man!) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i dont accom much but im starting to think thats a good decison

i think my chams meets will contuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been there done that with living with a sponger too! Hence I am very wary about whom I invite home nowadays.

only asked for a cuppa and a lickout...hardly sponging is it!...sakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To err is human, to forgive is divine...................for all else there is block and delete. Xx"
Yes its divine block and delete ,

if he said he was meeting then did not turn up and let me down i would block delete ...... thats me forgiving him . Had one man do this who was telling me was a bi woman. Found out as done it to other local people.. had put of loads to meet .. you live and learn .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To err is human, to forgive is divine...................for all else there is block and delete. Xx Yes its divine block and delete ,

lick my juicy clit pls game...please....its throbbing xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To err is human, to forgive is divine...................for all else there is block and delete. Xx Yes its divine block and delete ,

the best is he is still texting me and im just deleting them no replying and hes blocked

and i only block when i have to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To err is human, to forgive is divine...................for all else there is block and delete. Xx Yes its divine block and delete ,

lick my juicy clit pls game...please....its throbbing xxxxx"
you must be one of them rear men that have a clit too , lol xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Jaqs...... he's an arse hole and you already have one xxx no loss xxx"

Love this comment.

It is such a shame there are men who are so awful, as it really makes me wary about arranging meets and the majority of people on here are genuine.

But of course I try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Some people are just not worth it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all know there are both men and women out there who do this and it will continue. I can't see what they get out of stringing a woman along but they do.

We were going to meet a couple once and got to the hotel bar and just the woman was there. We think she recognised us but she obviously didn't want to approach us alone or give us eye contact without the guy. They had told us they weren't married and would be travelling to the meet separately. She kept going up to the hotel receptionist, I'm assuming to see whether he had checked in and she was constantly texting and ringing and seemingly not getting a response.

We had a drink and waited half an hour after the allotted time and then left to go to Chams. Its not a problem if you are a couple but I felt very sorry for that woman who had been stood up by him. She seemed very embarrassed and it was obvious from body language that she didn't want us to approach her.

I didn't block but I did remove them from our friends list and a day later they requested our friendship, to which I messaged back telling them never to contact us again. A guy who can leave a woman waiting in a hotel knowing another couple would be there is not a guy I want to share my body with. Maybe there was a genuine reason but I don't particularly want to wait around hearing it.

Some guys like the chase and some will have a few meets lined up and choose one on the night and let down the rest and some will opt for a night with their mates. They don't feel they owe a swinger who wants nsa an explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems to me HE is the stupid one for not turning up.......

He must be mad...move on and have fun with people worth your time....xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"seems to me HE is the stupid one for not turning up.......

He must be mad...move on and have fun with people worth your time....xx"

thanks for your kind words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so im not perfect most will know that lol

i have given someone more chances than i have every given others and when i was let down again yesterday i was gutted and angry

im wondering how many people are stupid like me or is it just me

(feeling very stupid that i was played)

jacqs "

I do not have experience of full on swinger sites as this is the first real such site I have joined the other site were more like dirty chat and web cam sites less married couples far more singles .

I do think this is down to one thing only there are certain kinds of people who think the normal rules of respect do no apply to people who are looking for sex .......deep down they have a problem with you expressing your sexualality by actively finding partners for sex ...they are the kind of person who has real trouble separating sex from love and excepting deep down if there a man women like sex lucky escape for you if they don't turn up as guys ir women like this have a habit of becoming stalkers .......you can see that in the fact they always keep trying to stay in contact with you .....as for why couples let over couples down I do not no maybe there was a argument before they left or maybe one got cold feet.......men or women who brake dates with out telling you first they can't make it ...I.e leave you standing there waiting like a stuffed lemon .....should be given no second chance or a second thought I know its hard to do this but just think lucky escape because only a very unbalanced personality would ever do this to a fellow human being

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok so im not perfect most will know that lol

i have given someone more chances than i have every given others and when i was let down again yesterday i was gutted and angry

im wondering how many people are stupid like me or is it just me

(feeling very stupid that i was played)

jacqs

I do not have experience of full on swinger sites as this is the first real such site I have joined the other site were more like dirty chat and web cam sites less married couples far more singles .

Thanks for this when i read it i thought no im thankful i havent got a bunny boiler but the last few hours im starting to agree with you

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