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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A serious discussion, on these swinging sites, alot of women and women in couples say their bi / bi curious, guys and girls are unjudgemental on this, but as a bi guy you do notice how if it's the other way round, it's a very different story, just a very curious difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi women are hot as fuck.

Bi men are sti riddled sluts that will fuck anything.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Bi women are hot as fuck.

Bi men are sti riddled sluts that will fuck anything.

"

You're nawty

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !! "

I'm changing my answer to this.

I think most bi women are just pretending to be bi to get the menfolk horny. At least guys are highly unlikely to suck cock for pretend reasons.

Sharing a cock with a bi guy is hot as fuck.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In the 18 months or so I've been on here as a bi guy - I've not directly found a great deal of prejudice towards me as a person, in fact quite the opposite in some cases.

Sure there are forum threads that pop up with regularity where people's ignorance comes to the fore but I tend to take them with a pinch of salt to be honest, although will always try and give a balanced view as to why I think a poster is wrong in their thinking when appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol, that's quite a change in answer, and I can say for sure I don't have any sti's. I suppose as kids are parents all told us we should share :s

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's very good to hear q

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !! "

Yes, we really are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's personal preference. Some are into it, some aren't, same as anything really!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Bi women are hot as fuck.

Bi men are sti riddled sluts that will fuck anything.

"

Whilst this was a joke, this is literally what people still think. Which is ridiculous, and with that logic everyone should avoid anyone under 30 as they're all riddled too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol, that really tickled me:D

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Bi women are hot as fuck.

Bi men are sti riddled sluts that will fuck anything.

Whilst this was a joke, this is literally what people still think. Which is ridiculous, and with that logic everyone should avoid anyone under 30 as they're all riddled too "

Bi and under 30 that's you fucked....or not

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"Bi women are hot as fuck.

Bi men are sti riddled sluts that will fuck anything.

Whilst this was a joke, this is literally what people still think. Which is ridiculous, and with that logic everyone should avoid anyone under 30 as they're all riddled too

Bi and under 30 that's you fucked....or not "

Yup, I'm already looking to adopt ten cats so I can be the first crazy cat man/woman before I inevitably die young and alone from my numerous and prevelant diseases

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't realise cats carried so many diseases

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Actually OP I've just re-read your post and realised you were asking something entirely different from the way I originally took it

Whilst the phenomenon of "women playing bi to satisfy their partner" is often put about on here, I'm not sure it's as prevalent as some would suggest, certainly not in my experience anyway - most of the women we've played with as part of our couples profile have been very much into the experience for themselves and not to "put on a show" (which to be honest I'd hate if I felt they were).

Think most bi guys are pretty genuine though, and I'm not saying that because I am one, think it may stem from the whole macho notion that some guys hold about being bi/gay that would hold them back from 'pretending' to please a partner.

Of course everyone is entitled to their own sexuality and to play it out however they want and long may that continue.

Certainly an interesting topic/notion though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Bi men are sti riddled sluts that will fuck anything.

"

Apparently this is a true fact - it must be so because I was told it face-to-face by a Doctor at my local STI Clinic...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I think I know him intimately, might explain it;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Bi men are sti riddled sluts that will fuck anything.

Apparently this is a true fact - it must be so because I was told it face-to-face by a Doctor at my local STI Clinic...

"

Wow that's awful, what did you say?

My local sti clinic is similar unfortunately. Small town minds. Really clueless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi women are hot as fuck.

Bi men are sti riddled sluts that will fuck anything.

Whilst this was a joke, this is literally what people still think. Which is ridiculous, and with that logic everyone should avoid anyone under 30 as they're all riddled too

Bi and under 30 that's you fucked....or not

Yup, I'm already looking to adopt ten cats so I can be the first crazy cat man/woman before I inevitably die young and alone from my numerous and prevelant diseases "

Nowt like lots of pussy in da house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have noticed people react differently to bi guys even though I won't play with every guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi women are hot as fuck.

Bi men are sti riddled sluts that will fuck anything.

"

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I have noticed people react differently to bi guys even though I won't play with every guy "

I wasn't aware bi guys could be choosy

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"A serious discussion, on these swinging sites, alot of women and women in couples say their bi / bi curious, guys and girls are unjudgemental on this, but as a bi guy you do notice how if it's the other way round, it's a very different story, just a very curious difference"

Massive double standard in the swinging world. Female bisexuality is highly desirable. Male bisexuality? "Backs to the walls, lads."

I'm sure everything is provable by example and that some women 'play bi' to please their husbands. But mostly, I've known female bisexuals who actually enjoyed both men and women, and sought pleasure with both without prompting. When I was swinging with my ex, she was the one who decided she would dabble with being bi. And she started doing it long before I was allowed to do the same. Putting her as 'bi' and me as 'straight' never caused any issues on here. Once we both started profiling as 'bi', we started getting knocked back by a lot of couples, even though we made it plain that both of us were willing to play straight.

I reckon the real issue here is that straight men often feel threatened by gay or bi men. They're used to being predator rather than prey, and they don't like the idea that another predator might see them as prey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed people react differently to bi guys even though I won't play with every guy

I wasn't aware bi guys could be choosy "

Just can't have anyone sucking my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A serious discussion, on these swinging sites, alot of women and women in couples say their bi / bi curious, guys and girls are unjudgemental on this, but as a bi guy you do notice how if it's the other way round, it's a very different story, just a very curious difference

Massive double standard in the swinging world. Female bisexuality is highly desirable. Male bisexuality? "Backs to the walls, lads."

I'm sure everything is provable by example and that some women 'play bi' to please their husbands. But mostly, I've known female bisexuals who actually enjoyed both men and women, and sought pleasure with both without prompting. When I was swinging with my ex, she was the one who decided she would dabble with being bi. And she started doing it long before I was allowed to do the same. Putting her as 'bi' and me as 'straight' never caused any issues on here. Once we both started profiling as 'bi', we started getting knocked back by a lot of couples, even though we made it plain that both of us were willing to play straight.

I reckon the real issue here is that straight men often feel threatened by gay or bi men. They're used to being predator rather than prey, and they don't like the idea that another predator might see them as prey."

Interesting point. Perhaps the issue is the male aspect and the being bi is almost irrelevant.

Men think other men wouldn't take no for an answer. 'backs to the wall'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !!

Yes, we really are. "

Not all of us

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"A serious discussion, on these swinging sites, alot of women and women in couples say their bi / bi curious, guys and girls are unjudgemental on this, but as a bi guy you do notice how if it's the other way round, it's a very different story, just a very curious difference

Massive double standard in the swinging world. Female bisexuality is highly desirable. Male bisexuality? "Backs to the walls, lads."

I'm sure everything is provable by example and that some women 'play bi' to please their husbands. But mostly, I've known female bisexuals who actually enjoyed both men and women, and sought pleasure with both without prompting. When I was swinging with my ex, she was the one who decided she would dabble with being bi. And she started doing it long before I was allowed to do the same. Putting her as 'bi' and me as 'straight' never caused any issues on here. Once we both started profiling as 'bi', we started getting knocked back by a lot of couples, even though we made it plain that both of us were willing to play straight.

I reckon the real issue here is that straight men often feel threatened by gay or bi men. They're used to being predator rather than prey, and they don't like the idea that another predator might see them as prey."

It's the narrow minded view of some straight men in couples that being bi means your attracted to every man there is so they're afraid that a bi man will either stare at them or try to touch them when in reality it's no different than being straight, straight men aren't attracted to every woman out there are they. I for example am much more attracted to women on the whole and am very picky with men as I don't find that many that appeal to me so most straight men would have nothing to fear from me apart from the fact I may please their wife better than they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get a lot of offers from bi fellas.. not my thing dudes!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I think my life has made me blinkered by having bi partners for such a long time. I can only think of one occasion at a club type place near Boston where my late husband and I turned up to a party night quite early and there were guys chatting around the bar. One was quite mouthy and expressing his disgust at the scene attracting so many puffs.

It was an awkward moment but a good filter for the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get a lot of offers from bi fellas.. not my thing dudes!"
I get a lot of offers from straight guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed people react differently to bi guys even though I won't play with every guy "

I agree. Too many profiles say no bi men. If I was offered one or the other I would pick a lady. I'm happy to play bi with a bi couple but equally happy to play straight if the man was straight

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside


"In the 18 months or so I've been on here as a bi guy - I've not directly found a great deal of prejudice towards me as a person, in fact quite the opposite in some cases.

Sure there are forum threads that pop up with regularity where people's ignorance comes to the fore but I tend to take them with a pinch of salt to be honest, although will always try and give a balanced view as to why I think a poster is wrong in their thinking when appropriate."

For every bi male bashing thread there's others where women say how hot they find it. Never found it being a problem you just find the people you click with and don't pay any attention to the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed people react differently to bi guys even though I won't play with every guy

I agree. Too many profiles say no bi men. If I was offered one or the other I would pick a lady. I'm happy to play bi with a bi couple but equally happy to play straight if the man was straight "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there any ladies or couples around the Bedworth / Coventry area who love bi men?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I do get a lot of offers from bi fellas.. not my thing dudes! I get a lot of offers from straight guys "

Because openly bi males are generally viewed as sti riddled slut, there's a lot of fab straight guys, to the point where straight means nothing on the profile.

Honesty is the first casualty.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !!

Yes, we really are.

Not all of us "

You is well fit innit Bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !!

Yes, we really are.

Not all of us

You is well fat innit Bro "

Yeah

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I do get a lot of offers from bi fellas.. not my thing dudes! I get a lot of offers from straight guys

Because openly bi males are generally viewed as sti riddled slut, there's a lot of fab straight guys, to the point where straight means nothing on the profile.

Honesty is the first casualty. "

I just don't get this. Never had any negative comments about my bi partners on here. Are you saying people are actually making homophobic comments or is just really that some people have a preference not to meet bi guys? To me the two are very different. I'm in no way offended there are people that state no bi guys. Same as I'm not offended by guys that put no women larger than size 12 - I'm a 16. It's all just preference right.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I do get a lot of offers from bi fellas.. not my thing dudes! I get a lot of offers from straight guys

Because openly bi males are generally viewed as sti riddled slut, there's a lot of fab straight guys, to the point where straight means nothing on the profile.

Honesty is the first casualty.

I just don't get this. Never had any negative comments about my bi partners on here. Are you saying people are actually making homophobic comments or is just really that some people have a preference not to meet bi guys? To me the two are very different. I'm in no way offended there are people that state no bi guys. Same as I'm not offended by guys that put no women larger than size 12 - I'm a 16. It's all just preference right. "

Bi men are generally rejected for being bi. I'm OK with that.

But a lot of bi men choose to lie and select straight, to increase their chances.

So bi, 'straight' and gay men still message straight men, because it is a fact wildly acknowledged, that straight can mean straight or fab straight.

So people who say they don't meet bi men probably are, and encouraging men to be dishonest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm openly bi and proud

I'm also a hypocrite as I wouldn't want to meet a bi guy

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I do get a lot of offers from bi fellas.. not my thing dudes! I get a lot of offers from straight guys

Because openly bi males are generally viewed as sti riddled slut, there's a lot of fab straight guys, to the point where straight means nothing on the profile.

Honesty is the first casualty.

I just don't get this. Never had any negative comments about my bi partners on here. Are you saying people are actually making homophobic comments or is just really that some people have a preference not to meet bi guys? To me the two are very different. I'm in no way offended there are people that state no bi guys. Same as I'm not offended by guys that put no women larger than size 12 - I'm a 16. It's all just preference right.

Bi men are generally rejected for being bi. I'm OK with that.

But a lot of bi men choose to lie and select straight, to increase their chances.

So bi, 'straight' and gay men still message straight men, because it is a fact wildly acknowledged, that straight can mean straight or fab straight.

So people who say they don't meet bi men probably are, and encouraging men to be dishonest."

Oh I see what you mean now, although I can't agree.

People have a right to decide who they like to meet and if they openly state that on their profiles great. No bi, no black, no chubby white middle aged women and we happily skip by.

The guys that play the Fab straight game are the problem in my opinion. It's a bit desperate lying to people to get a fuck. So when these Fab straight - and let's face it - unsearchable to us as bi guys decide to message us, they get short shrift and a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get a lot of offers from bi fellas.. not my thing dudes! I get a lot of offers from straight guys

Because openly bi males are generally viewed as sti riddled slut, there's a lot of fab straight guys, to the point where straight means nothing on the profile.

Honesty is the first casualty.

I just don't get this. Never had any negative comments about my bi partners on here. Are you saying people are actually making homophobic comments or is just really that some people have a preference not to meet bi guys? To me the two are very different. I'm in no way offended there are people that state no bi guys. Same as I'm not offended by guys that put no women larger than size 12 - I'm a 16. It's all just preference right.

Bi men are generally rejected for being bi. I'm OK with that.

But a lot of bi men choose to lie and select straight, to increase their chances.

So bi, 'straight' and gay men still message straight men, because it is a fact wildly acknowledged, that straight can mean straight or fab straight.

So people who say they don't meet bi men probably are, and encouraging men to be dishonest.

Oh I see what you mean now, although I can't agree.

People have a right to decide who they like to meet and if they openly state that on their profiles great. No bi, no black, no chubby white middle aged women and we happily skip by.

The guys that play the Fab straight game are the problem in my opinion. It's a bit desperate lying to people to get a fuck. So when these Fab straight - and let's face it - unsearchable to us as bi guys decide to message us, they get short shrift and a no thanks. "

Some straight guys play with other guys on here aswell.

I was chatting to a guy yesterday and because I said he was a nice guy but not my type he opened up to me about what does go on.

He said because the mass amount of single guys on here that vastly outnumber the females and couples he feels single guys don't stand a chance.

He actually admited that he's been that sexually frustrated that he resorted to meeting another guy for a bj.He said he's straight and wouldn't want another guy but out of desperation he did it a few times and he knows of other single guys on here that do the same thing.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"A serious discussion, on these swinging sites, alot of women and women in couples say their bi / bi curious, guys and girls are unjudgemental on this, but as a bi guy you do notice how if it's the other way round, it's a very different story, just a very curious difference

Massive double standard in the swinging world. Female bisexuality is highly desirable. Male bisexuality? "Backs to the walls, lads."

I'm sure everything is provable by example and that some women 'play bi' to please their husbands. But mostly, I've known female bisexuals who actually enjoyed both men and women, and sought pleasure with both without prompting. When I was swinging with my ex, she was the one who decided she would dabble with being bi. And she started doing it long before I was allowed to do the same. Putting her as 'bi' and me as 'straight' never caused any issues on here. Once we both started profiling as 'bi', we started getting knocked back by a lot of couples, even though we made it plain that both of us were willing to play straight.

I reckon the real issue here is that straight men often feel threatened by gay or bi men. They're used to being predator rather than prey, and they don't like the idea that another predator might see them as prey."

i agree with this, the predatory nature does stick out to me and has done since i first joined. it's also possible they had experiences themselves with predatory men rather than being predators themselves.

from my side i've found most bi guys to be submissive and respectful.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"I'm openly bi and proud

I'm also a hypocrite as I wouldn't want to meet a bi guy "

Can I ask out of curiosity you're reasons for not meeting bi men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !!

Yes, we really are.

Not all of us "

That's enough of that young man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm openly bi and proud

I'm also a hypocrite as I wouldn't want to meet a bi guy

Can I ask out of curiosity you're reasons for not meeting bi men?"

My preference is straight guys only.I don't want a man that has been with another man.I also don't ask people why they don't want to meet others or what does it for them.So judgments are for the opinionated.My view on things is you should always stick to what you want and what others want shouldn't really concern you.If there not compatible then move on and find someone that is and don't judge others for what there into.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I'm openly bi and proud

I'm also a hypocrite as I wouldn't want to meet a bi guy

Can I ask out of curiosity you're reasons for not meeting bi men?

My preference is straight guys only.I don't want a man that has been with another man.I also don't ask people why they don't want to meet others or what does it for them.So judgments are for the opinionated.My view on things is you should always stick to what you want and what others want shouldn't really concern you.If there not compatible then move on and find someone that is and don't judge others for what there into."

I pretty much agree with this

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"I'm openly bi and proud

I'm also a hypocrite as I wouldn't want to meet a bi guy

Can I ask out of curiosity you're reasons for not meeting bi men?

My preference is straight guys only.I don't want a man that has been with another man.I also don't ask people why they don't want to meet others or what does it for them.So judgments are for the opinionated.My view on things is you should always stick to what you want and what others want shouldn't really concern you.If there not compatible then move on and find someone that is and don't judge others for what there into."

I wasn't asking to be judgemental I was just genuinely curious as I'd just like to get a cross section of what people's problems with bi men are. I mean to be honest half the women on this site that say they won't meet bi men have more than likely been with a man thats fab straight and just doesn't tell them.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I'm openly bi and proud

I'm also a hypocrite as I wouldn't want to meet a bi guy

Can I ask out of curiosity you're reasons for not meeting bi men?

My preference is straight guys only.I don't want a man that has been with another man.I also don't ask people why they don't want to meet others or what does it for them.So judgments are for the opinionated.My view on things is you should always stick to what you want and what others want shouldn't really concern you.If there not compatible then move on and find someone that is and don't judge others for what there into.

I wasn't asking to be judgemental I was just genuinely curious as I'd just like to get a cross section of what people's problems with bi men are. I mean to be honest half the women on this site that say they won't meet bi men have more than likely been with a man thats fab straight and just doesn't tell them. "

I think it's the same problem with race. People who put no black guys are automatically deemed to be racist by some. People who put no bi men, homophobic. Maybe some are, but also some are not.

I'd offer the following on top of the ladies reply, bi men are more at risk of STDs than straight guys. Yes the Fab straight little feckers make a farce of this, but not having the integrity to be honest with folk is a whole new ball game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm openly bi and proud

I'm also a hypocrite as I wouldn't want to meet a bi guy

Can I ask out of curiosity you're reasons for not meeting bi men?

My preference is straight guys only.I don't want a man that has been with another man.I also don't ask people why they don't want to meet others or what does it for them.So judgments are for the opinionated.My view on things is you should always stick to what you want and what others want shouldn't really concern you.If there not compatible then move on and find someone that is and don't judge others for what there into.

I wasn't asking to be judgemental I was just genuinely curious as I'd just like to get a cross section of what people's problems with bi men are. I mean to be honest half the women on this site that say they won't meet bi men have more than likely been with a man thats fab straight and just doesn't tell them. "

No not at all.I have no problem with bi men as people but sexually we all have our type and men that go with other men are just not for me.If I could change that I would but it's just not what I find appealing.

No matter what sexual preference or colour or size we should all love and support each other but at the same time we should also stick to what ticks our boxes sexually.

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By *ubswitchdomCouple
over a year ago

Sussex

Anyone else notice that there is this mentality with a lot of people on fab that for some reason just because you're bi, you must immediately be attracted to every single guy on here? And the ones that do like bi guys don't seem to understand that you can be bi and still be picky haha, just because I like guys and girls doesn't mean I want to shag everything that moves.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Anyone else notice that there is this mentality with a lot of people on fab that for some reason just because you're bi, you must immediately be attracted to every single guy on here? And the ones that do like bi guys don't seem to understand that you can be bi and still be picky haha, just because I like guys and girls doesn't mean I want to shag everything that moves. "

In a word, No!

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By *ubswitchdomCouple
over a year ago

Sussex


"Anyone else notice that there is this mentality with a lot of people on fab that for some reason just because you're bi, you must immediately be attracted to every single guy on here? And the ones that do like bi guys don't seem to understand that you can be bi and still be picky haha, just because I like guys and girls doesn't mean I want to shag everything that moves.

In a word, No!"

Ah well we have had people try and say I'm not bi just because we said they aren't what we're looking for, was curious if that was a common occurrence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would any bi couples play with me after reading my profile?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Would any bi couples play with me after reading my profile? "

Openly bi - yes

Age right - yes

Verified - yes

Location not too far - yes

Prefer to see more than cock pics, but potentially you're looking good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all comes back to the idea that femininity in men is bad. Feminists will tell you this is because femininity is seen as worse, thus a man indulging in it is lowering themselves, whereas a woman can only 'improve' in want of a better word.

Now I don't know if that is the right explanation of where it comes from, but it is certainly the case that society is much more judgemental when it comes to male sexual and gender expression than female.

Sometimes hetero-normative women see a bisexual as less masculine, and thus less attractive. That's what they mean when they say 'not to my taste'.

To me its pretty weird and shows underlying homophobia. I don't see bi woman as inherently more masculine than their straight peers. Sure, if they dress themselves in a 'butch' way, then they are more masculine in manner/appearance, but the majority are just as feminine as any other woman.

Fortunately for me, I'm not interested in someone who has such a boring ideas of sex and gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !! "

I agree with this - most women we've met have played 'bi' for the sake of their partners.

It pisses me off that I'm constantly the giver. Ffs bitches, state it properly on yr profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !!

I agree with this - most women we've met have played 'bi' for the sake of their partners.

It pisses me off that I'm constantly the giver. Ffs bitches, state it properly on yr profile!! "

In all my swinging years I've always been the giver.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !!

I agree with this - most women we've met have played 'bi' for the sake of their partners.

It pisses me off that I'm constantly the giver. Ffs bitches, state it properly on yr profile!!

In all my swinging years I've always been the giver. "

I prefer being a giver tbh so it's all fine with me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think I might have a bit of bisexuality about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A serious discussion, on these swinging sites, alot of women and women in couples say their bi / bi curious, guys and girls are unjudgemental on this, but as a bi guy you do notice how if it's the other way round, it's a very different story, just a very curious difference"

Couldn't give a monkeys

I am happy in myself

If others want to judge because I suck the odd cock, let 'em

It isn't gonna make it any less horny

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"A serious discussion, on these swinging sites, alot of women and women in couples say their bi / bi curious, guys and girls are unjudgemental on this, but as a bi guy you do notice how if it's the other way round, it's a very different story, just a very curious difference

Couldn't give a monkeys

I am happy in myself

If others want to judge because I suck the odd cock, let 'em

It isn't gonna make it any less horny "

Ah true dat !!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Some people like girls, some people like boys, some people like both..... The End.

Taken from Wikipedia......

Innate bisexuality (or predisposition to bisexuality) is a term introduced by Sigmund Freud (based on work by his associate Wilhelm Fliess), that expounds all humans are born bisexual but through psychological development (which includes both external and internal factors) most become monosexual while the bisexuality remains in a latent state

Anyhow, I'll be in the Manchester Pride Parade, waving my bisexual flag, doing my bit to represent the B in LGBTQ+

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Some straight guys play with other guys on here aswell.

I was chatting to a guy yesterday and because I said he was a nice guy but not my type he opened up to me about what does go on.

He said because the mass amount of single guys on here that vastly outnumber the females and couples he feels single guys don't stand a chance.

He actually admited that he's been that sexually frustrated that he resorted to meeting another guy for a bj.He said he's straight and wouldn't want another guy but out of desperation he did it a few times and he knows of other single guys on here that do the same thing."

Hate to break it to your friend, but a man who meets other men for sex isn't straight.

It can be difficult for a single man to get a meet on here. But there are pubs, clubs, massage parlours, and other websites to meet women who may be willing to play.

Situational homosexuality e.g. prisons, sailors, Muslim countries, occurs when women are not available.

Not getting a meet with a woman from fab doesn't count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !!

Yes, we really are.

Not all of us

That's enough of that young man "

Young?

What are you smoking down in Brighton?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi but don't have any sort of sexual contact with men anymore and have only done anything sexual with a man 4 times in 30 odd years. Since I actually admitted to myselfI was bi I have had absolutely no sexual contact with men. I like a bit a irony

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Some straight guys play with other guys on here aswell.

I was chatting to a guy yesterday and because I said he was a nice guy but not my type he opened up to me about what does go on.

He said because the mass amount of single guys on here that vastly outnumber the females and couples he feels single guys don't stand a chance.

He actually admited that he's been that sexually frustrated that he resorted to meeting another guy for a bj.He said he's straight and wouldn't want another guy but out of desperation he did it a few times and he knows of other single guys on here that do the same thing.

Hate to break it to your friend, but a man who meets other men for sex isn't straight.

It can be difficult for a single man to get a meet on here. But there are pubs, clubs, massage parlours, and other websites to meet women who may be willing to play.

Situational homosexuality e.g. prisons, sailors, Muslim countries, occurs when women are not available.

Not getting a meet with a woman from fab doesn't count. "

Bloody good post

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"Hate to break it to your friend, but a man who meets other men for sex isn't straight."

Neither is a man (or woman) who masturbates. Masturbation is 'gay sex for one.' Most men already know they like being wanked off by a man: themselves. Most men would suck themselves off if they could. The majority have probably tried at least once.

I suspect that when straight guys resort to meeting guys, out of desperation, they see it more as masturbation than sex. It's just someone else doing what they'd do (or like to do) to themselves. "Sex" means different things to different people. Some might argue that anything short of vaginal or anal penetration doesn't count. Bill Clinton, for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think bi men worry that a lot of women will be put off and not want to meet them. Personally I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !!

I agree with this - most women we've met have played 'bi' for the sake of their partners.

It pisses me off that I'm constantly the giver. Ffs bitches, state it properly on yr profile!!

In all my swinging years I've always been the giver. "

Really?? Nothing down for me then wahhhh ha. Wish people would just say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny u say bi men have lots of STI when Thier is more straight people with STI then gay bi trans put together u would only need to do a simple Google search and u would know that idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn, thought this was going to be football match or something...

There is a bias I believe, but more than that there is a society thing where it's OK for women to touch, kiss, hug, etc. In a non sexual context as a greeting or whatever, while it is not acceptable for men to do this.

Maybe it's to do with male on male affection being an imprisonable offense for so long.

Society is a weird place, the rules are not equal even though we want them to be.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Bi women are women so meh.

Bi men are yummmy

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"In my opinion most bi women aren't that bi, I think a lot do it to please the crowd.

Bi guys - are well, hot !!

I agree with this - most women we've met have played 'bi' for the sake of their partners.

It pisses me off that I'm constantly the giver. Ffs bitches, state it properly on yr profile!!

In all my swinging years I've always been the giver. "

We've not met any bi women with their partners, but i'm sure angel would like to meet someone who gave as good as she got, some have seemed a bit rabbit in the headlights. I don't mind, i get two women to fuck, but i reckon she would love a proper passionate knock down drag out roll around, the sort that would cause me to stand back in awe and say "holy shiiit!"

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Funny u say bi men have lots of STI when Thier is more straight people with STI then gay bi trans put together u would only need to do a simple Google search and u would know that idiot "

I believe the post you refer to was tongue in cheek

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

People who are not straight seem to be far more willing

to look & enjoy sex so much more .

That'll pi55 the straight police for the angry response brigade !!

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale


"Funny u say bi men have lots of STI when Thier is more straight people with STI then gay bi trans put together u would only need to do a simple Google search and u would know that idiot

I believe the post you refer to was tongue in cheek "

Some folks have no concept of sarcasm.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I thought this was going to be about wrestling in jelly

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"Funny u say bi men have lots of STI when Thier is more straight people with STI then gay bi trans put together u would only need to do a simple Google search and u would know that idiot "

Percentage wise, "men who have sex with men" are still by far the highest risk group. Yes, more straight people have STI's from a total numbers point of view, but only because the vast majority of the population are practising heterosexuals.

What's telling is that while new cases of HIV are on the decline amongst men who have sex with men, they're still on the rise amongst heterosexuals. The former are getting tested and going on medication that makes them non-infectious when taken correctly. The latter are still largely treating HIV as something only gay and bi people have to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny u say bi men have lots of STI when Thier is more straight people with STI then gay bi trans put together u would only need to do a simple Google search and u would know that idiot

I believe the post you refer to was tongue in cheek "

was in a bitch mood haha sos

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