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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .

Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Date like in what way?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I've never used any dried fruits while swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define what a date is to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging."

Try root ginger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging.

Try root ginger.

I have rooted a ginger person before. It was nice.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging."

Nor nuts.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging.

Nor nuts."

Well there was that one time in band camp...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging.

Nor nuts.

Well there was that one time in band camp..."

You didn't with a flute you didn't put in your mouth after

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Define what a date is to you? "

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define what a date is to you?

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun ."

A date to me wouldn't end in sex. Having a drink or meal before sex is foreplay. We did it yesterday. It definitely wasn't a date.

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Define what a date is to you?

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .

A date to me wouldn't end in sex. Having a drink or meal before sex is foreplay. We did it yesterday. It definitely wasn't a date. "

is this don't read the post properly Monday or something .

I'm sure I used the term date like experience i.e not really dating but date like .

jessus

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I like the meal to come after the sex!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .

Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?"

Yes John, I think there is, why not. Some people want that and others just want sex. There are people on here who have met their partners and gone on to have successful relationships, so yes.

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I like the meal to come after the sex!

I cant answer that due to giving away trade secrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define what a date is to you?

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .

A date to me wouldn't end in sex. Having a drink or meal before sex is foreplay. We did it yesterday. It definitely wasn't a date.

is this don't read the post properly Monday or something .

I'm sure I used the term date like experience i.e not really dating but date like .

jessus

People have different ideas of what dates mean. Why is it a bad thing to clarify?

There's a place for everything on here. From fuck n go to dates to romance.

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .

Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?

Yes John, I think there is, why not. Some people want that and others just want sex. There are people on here who have met their partners and gone on to have successful relationships, so yes.

glad to here it as to be honest I wouldn't dream of playing with anyone who would be seem in public with me that the acid test for getting into my pants

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By *lusive.UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Dungeonville

Yes.. having a date like experience beforehand gives you time to talk about what you both like and also helps build up the excitement if you tease a little. I went to the loo and came back and stuffed my panties in the guys top pocket.. that certainly did the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define what a date is to you?

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .

A date to me wouldn't end in sex. Having a drink or meal before sex is foreplay. We did it yesterday. It definitely wasn't a date.

is this don't read the post properly Monday or something .

I'm sure I used the term date like experience i.e not really dating but date like .

jessus

It doesn't feel like a date to me. So, it's not date like. It's just having a drink before we fuck..

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A packet of crisps would be fine for me

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Yes.. having a date like experience beforehand gives you time to talk about what you both like and also helps build up the excitement if you tease a little. I went to the loo and came back and stuffed my panties in the guys top pocket.. that certainly did the trick

harlot

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"A packet of crisps would be fine for me

oh dear I can see your mail box filling up as we speak with messages accompanied by a cock shot also featuring packet of crisps in frame

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging."

I just went to a shop, and not a greengrocer (this is pertinent). The man at the till was holding a large cucumber in his left hand when I went to pay. Slightly disconcerting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging.

I just went to a shop, and not a greengrocer (this is pertinent). The man at the till was holding a large cucumber in his left hand when I went to pay. Slightly disconcerting. "

Did you get his number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strawberries maybe

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Define what a date is to you?

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun ."

I totally agree! This is what I call social skills, and this is why I struggle, as most men in my area just expect a fuck and go, so I have gone months with nothing as I wont compromise how I use this site or myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define what a date is to you?

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .

I think a lot of men (most... not all!) come to this site *because* they have no social skills. Their brain can't handle it when women say no thanks to their kind offer of a shag.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Define what a date is to you?

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .

I think a lot of men (most... not all!) come to this site *because* they have no social skills. Their brain can't handle it when women say no thanks to their kind offer of a shag. "

Unfortunately I totally agree with you

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .

Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?"

I think so. I've met a few fabbers for dinner now, which is a traditional dating activity, rather than for a coffee social. I feel equally sick with nerves for a fab social or a vanilla date!

I think it all depends on your interaction with the person you're talking too. I'm quite clear about wanting to enjoy someone's company socially as well as sex, so I guess going out for a bite to eat is fairly natural in this scenario.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've been for meals, bowling, gigs, parties, drives and parks with people from here.

If they aren't prepared to spend time with me out of the bedroom they sure as hell ain't getting the chance to spend time with me in the bedroom (unless there are exceptional circumstances)

Even in a club, you don't just walk up to someone and fuck them do ya, you still need to converse in some way, even if it's sign language.

I've met my closest friends here on fab. Some people have a lot more to offer than a cock or vag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been for meals, bowling, gigs, parties, drives and parks with people from here.

If they aren't prepared to spend time with me out of the bedroom they sure as hell ain't getting the chance to spend time with me in the bedroom (unless there are exceptional circumstances)

Even in a club, you don't just walk up to someone and fuck them do ya, you still need to converse in some way, even if it's sign language.

I've met my closest friends here on fab. Some people have a lot more to offer than a cock or vag. "

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging.

I just went to a shop, and not a greengrocer (this is pertinent). The man at the till was holding a large cucumber in his left hand when I went to pay. Slightly disconcerting. "

What kind of shop was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on your Nellie! I'm completely socially inept, can't talk and even worse at listening. I'm a crap shag too. Good job I stopped trying to meet people really.

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By *andsonjohn OP Man
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Define what a date is to you?

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .

I think a lot of men (most... not all!) come to this site *because* they have no social skills. Their brain can't handle it when women say no thanks to their kind offer of a shag. "

I don't think its all the men's thought

when I first joined fab and started using the forums

I used to get told off for using the term date instead of meet by women I might add not men .

date to me inverse friendly social fun where as meet inverse business like serious

even to this day my mind still thinks on them terms although I use the term meet today as it saves me being told it meet not date by woman .

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I've been for meals, bowling, gigs, parties, drives and parks with people from here.

If they aren't prepared to spend time with me out of the bedroom they sure as hell ain't getting the chance to spend time with me in the bedroom (unless there are exceptional circumstances) "

Absobloodylutely!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .

Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?"

Not for us no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .

Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?

Not for us no

You being a couple I get that. But I think the singles who use this site may feel a lot different....you already have a partner and too much socialising is probably not what a couple is looking for

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .

Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?

Not for us no

You being a couple I get that. But I think the singles who use this site may feel a lot different....you already have a partner and too much socialising is probably not what a couple is looking for

I agree.

Having said that, if I was single and looking for NSA sex, I wouldn't want to be dated or have a date like experience either. I would probably make sure I had a social before meeting but that would be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used any dried fruits while swinging.

Try root ginger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if youre not prepared to chat the small stuff - the bigger things aint gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Date like experience with in the swinging / sex meets world .

Well is there my fellow fabbers . ?"

Is that not what a 'social' is?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I wouldn't count having a meal or drink beforehand as a date like experience.

That's just pretty standard and what quite a few people do.

That's just being social, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a "date like experience" even if it's just lunch

That sort of stuff makes me feel fuzzy inside instead of the "business like transaction" that someone else mentioned.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I wouldn't count having a meal or drink beforehand as a date like experience.

That's just pretty standard and what quite a few people do.

That's just being social, isn't it?

Agreed but the guys in my area seem to think they can just come round to mine for a first meet which just isn't going to happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Define what a date is to you?

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .

I think a lot of men (most... not all!) come to this site *because* they have no social skills. Their brain can't handle it when women say no thanks to their kind offer of a shag.

I don't think its all the men's thought

when I first joined fab and started using the forums

I used to get told off for using the term date instead of meet by women I might add not men .

date to me inverse friendly social fun where as meet inverse business like serious

even to this day my mind still thinks on them terms although I use the term meet today as it saves me being told it meet not date by woman .

I suppose everyone uses different words. If someone on here asked me on a date I'd find it odd but that's just me. I'd clarify first though. Use the terms you like.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I hate been described as 'a meet', it makes me feel like I'm one of a long line of women! It feels cold and well just horrid. I don't want to be referred to as 'a date' either, and I'm not in a position to be. A date says to me you're going out socially to see if you are relationship material together.

Hell I don't know.....Im just me, no labels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate been described as 'a meet', it makes me feel like I'm one of a long line of women! It feels cold and well just horrid. I don't want to be referred to as 'a date' either, and I'm not in a position to be. A date says to me you're going out socially to see if you are relationship material together.

Hell I don't know.....Im just me, no labels

Could try liaison

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I wouldn't count having a meal or drink beforehand as a date like experience.

That's just pretty standard and what quite a few people do.

That's just being social, isn't it?

Agreed but the guys in my area seem to think they can just come round to mine for a first meet which just isn't going to happen!

Ah yes, I'm in your area can I come now and give you a pounding? Hell no twinkle toes, we've never even spoken before

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I wouldn't count having a meal or drink beforehand as a date like experience.

That's just pretty standard and what quite a few people do.

That's just being social, isn't it?

Agreed but the guys in my area seem to think they can just come round to mine for a first meet which just isn't going to happen!

Ah yes, I'm in your area can I come now and give you a pounding? Hell no twinkle toes, we've never even spoken before

Or they agree to a social and when they keep making excuses about when suits them as I always state a weekend only, they then say, well I'll just come to yours then......hmmm no you wont! That's all I've had this year

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Hell I don't know.....Im just me, no labels

Could try liaison

What's that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell I don't know.....Im just me, no labels

Could try liaison

What's that?"

Dangerous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell I don't know.....Im just me, no labels

Could try liaison

What's that?"

Main Entry: affair

Part of Speech: noun

Definition: illicit sexual relationship

Synonyms: affaire, amour, carrying on, extracurricular activity, fling, goings-on, hanky-panky, intimacy, intrigue, liaison, love, playing around, relationship, rendezvous, romance, thing together, two-timing

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Could try liaison

What's that?

Main Entry: affair

Part of Speech: noun

Definition: illicit sexual relationship

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Thanks, I know what it means! I thought it was another website I didn't know about!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could try liaison

What's that?

Main Entry: affair

Part of Speech: noun

Definition: illicit sexual relationship

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Thanks, I know what it means! I thought it was another website I didn't know about!!"

Aw feck off

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Define what a date is to you?

really

isn't it the same for anyone you spend a couple of hours in someone's company over a meal then you get down to fun it you both feel that way ,

if its a regular you still enjoy a meal together as part of the fun even if that meal is half way through a day of fun or near the end of a day of fun .

A date to me wouldn't end in sex. Having a drink or meal before sex is foreplay. We did it yesterday. It definitely wasn't a date. "

The only dates I get are in a fkin box at Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a lot of meets like that. So I would have to yes lovely

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Could try liaison

What's that?

Main Entry: affair

Part of Speech: noun

Definition: illicit sexual relationship

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Thanks, I know what it means! I thought it was another website I didn't know about!!

Aw feck off

*blows raspberry*

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes.

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