FabSwingers.com forum: did i do right thing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i meet a guy few wks bk gd meet. he then started to get pushy to meet again telling me to cancel other guys and meet and getting funny with me if i had family round and couldnt meet.

last night he phoned at 1am woke me up so i politely txt and asked him not to phone. he phoned two more times so i told him never to contact me again. he tells me to fuck off. then at 3am phones me again.

just wondered if anyone else would of told him not to contact them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bunny boilers..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have had him blocked off for all contacts as soon as he showed signs of being a bunny boiler!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block his number or threaten to report him to the police for harrassment.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

You really need to ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i meet a guy few wks bk gd meet. he then started to get pushy to meet again telling me to cancel other guys and meet and getting funny with me if i had family round and couldnt meet.

just wondered if anyone else would of told him not to contact them again "
get an old mobile phone to use for yer meets so u can easily switch it of he soon get bored - report the profile also - and for him report your profile to other guys - he has no clue who they are unless you told him

so i wont worry about it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Block his number or threaten to report him to the police for harrassment."

You such a man!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just wondered if anyone else would of told him not to contact them again "

The very fact that you need to ask that question would worry me..

Did you commit to him that you would see no one else, you would be at his beck and call 24/7... if you answer Yes.. he is a cool guy.

if NO... well over to you to decide...

good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You really need to ask?"
+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block his number or threaten to report him to the police for harrassment.

You such a man!!

Awww shucks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would have had him blocked off for all contacts as soon as he showed signs of being a bunny boiler!

met him of another site and im no longer a member.

not sure how to block number on a blackberry curve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had smiliar to this, met a guy once socially, that night he called me at 2am to tell me the friend he was stayin with had locked him out ? and? was he expecting me to take him in? i think not!

i now have a cheap pay as you go phone, fab contacts get that number (fuk phone) its always on silent and i check for texts, once trusted they get my number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should never cold call anyone, even if you had said "sure call me anytime"in the past, just seeing the time, 1am, normal people just would'nt.

Him gettin nasty just confirmed any nagging doubts you'd of had i bet.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I would have had him blocked off for all contacts as soon as he showed signs of being a bunny boiler!

met him of another site and im no longer a member.

not sure how to block number on a blackberry curve."

try your network provider and see if they can block x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You did HALF the right thing. You should have blocked his number.

1. Vet properly

2. Stop meeting tossers

3. Never give benefit of the doubt to net meets

4. Apply no tolerance

5. Remember it's N.S.A

6. Keep in mind he wasn't texting you.

7. Keep in mind he was texting your pussy.

8. Keep all emotions for your family n kids.

9. Turn your phone off at night.

10. When a man says well 'Fuck You' it means Mummeeee she won't let meeeeee.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't meet as I attract weirdo's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet as I attract weirdo's

*cough*

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

My honest opinion... did you do the right thing by telling him not to contact you again last night.... NO.

You should have told him that when he first started getting pushey... nip things in the bud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet as I attract weirdo's

In my vanilla side of life I meet all the nutters, lol

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

You really needed to ask about what you've done?

Of course, you did the right thing!

It isn't your problem at all?

He's the one with the problem. No normal person will ring someone else up in the early hours of the morning!

Move on! There are plenty of other more reasonable, decent guys out there!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hes just txt again asking if i want sex today the bloody cheek

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Block his number,tell him to bog off or just ignore the texts!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You did HALF the right thing. You should have blocked his number.

1. Vet properly

2. Stop meeting tossers

3. Never give benefit of the doubt to net meets

4. Apply no tolerance

5. Remember it's N.S.A

6. Keep in mind he wasn't texting you.

7. Keep in mind he was texting your pussy.

8. Keep all emotions for your family n kids.

9. Turn your phone off at night.

10. When a man says well 'Fuck You' it means Mummeeee she won't let meeeeee. "

brilliant advice........ And here ends today's lesson!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"hes just txt again asking if i want sex today the bloody cheek"

well what are you going to do?

1.... ignore his texts and calls... he will get the message, bored or find someone else.

2....answering fuels it

3.... contact network provider

4....consider a new number

5.... consider police if appropriate

6....most importantly, learn an important lesson... BE IN CHARGE of any situation... control the goings on.. and the first sign.. stop all contact

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put a block on your phone,the prat deserves to be banned from hear ,if he is doing it to you who ells is he doing it too,i ahd a simaler thing a had to block him and change my mob number, i am now glad i did not invite him to mine ,as i believe he would have started calling at my home in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just ignore him ... have a look in the app store see if there is one to block people

wish iphones had one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You did HALF the right thing. You should have blocked his number.

1. Vet properly

2. Stop meeting tossers

3. Never give benefit of the doubt to net meets

4. Apply no tolerance

5. Remember it's N.S.A

6. Keep in mind he wasn't texting you.

7. Keep in mind he was texting your pussy.

8. Keep all emotions for your family n kids.

9. Turn your phone off at night.

10. When a man says well 'Fuck You' it means Mummeeee she won't let meeeeee. "

This is fantastic advice and im taking this all on board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hes just txt again asking if i want sex today the bloody cheek"

Err do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Ignore him and don't give him any attention,any response you give him is going to make him feel that you really do have an interest in him regardless of what you tell him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"hes just txt again asking if i want sex today the bloody cheek

Err do you?

yh but not with him im always horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search for BerryBlocker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ive only met 3 losers in 11mths not too bad. i normally block on here before they get chance to meet if they are pushy. this guy was nice not pushy til after we met.

gonna take the advice and ignore totally in the hope he gets the message dont want to change number had it 4yrs would be a real pain.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"hes just txt again asking if i want sex today the bloody cheek

Err do you?

yh but not with him im always horny."

maybe some soft self fingering and vibe play till you find someone else..

that may help xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hes just txt again asking if i want sex today the bloody cheek

Err do you?

yh but not with him im always horny."

You'll get .lots more messages now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive only met 3 losers in 11mths not too bad. i normally block on here before they get chance to meet if they are pushy. this guy was nice not pushy til after we met.

gonna take the advice and ignore totally in the hope he gets the message dont want to change number had it 4yrs would be a real pain."
dont need 2 change number - just ignore it - he get the message eventually

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"hes just txt again asking if i want sex today the bloody cheek

Err do you?

yh but not with him im always horny.

maybe some soft self fingering and vibe play till you find someone else..

that may help xx

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

I must lead either a boring life or a charmed life, because after several years of meeting guys I have NEVER had any problems like this....

Maybe it's because I handle meeting guys differently?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A vanilla gent expressed interest to meet me, yet in the month since we had started to exchange naughty text messages, he had yet to arrange a meet.

He would go for days without a message, then they would re-appear at weekends, especially when he knew I could be busy having fun.

I dismissed him the first time as I suspected he is a player. However, I was intrigued by him, after he toned down his crassness and crudeness in his messages.

Text exchanges went for another week and a half or so.

In the end, I got fed up with being strung along, and told him I am no longer interested in whatever he may have to offer.

I now ignore his messages. Hopefully, he will get bored and move on to his next victum soon.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well in the time ive been on this site ive had one guy overstep the mark and what he did was ring me at 7.30 one morning. After the message i sent him i think i can honestly say he wouldnt have dared message/ring/speak/contact me in any way shape or form. It only takes them to step out of line once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A vanilla gent expressed interest to meet me, yet in the month since we had started to exchange naughty text messages, he had yet to arrange a meet.

He would go for days without a message, then they would re-appear at weekends, especially when he knew I could be busy having fun.

I dismissed him the first time as I suspected he is a player. However, I was intrigued by him, after he toned down his crassness and crudeness in his messages.

Text exchanges went for another week and a half or so.

In the end, I got fed up with being strung along, and told him I am no longer interested in whatever he may have to offer.

I now ignore his messages. Hopefully, he will get bored and move on to his next victum soon.

Oops, posted this in the wrong thread, meant to post in Jacqs' thread about players!

My bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must lead either a boring life or a charmed life, because after several years of meeting guys I have NEVER had any problems like this....

Maybe it's because I handle meeting guys differently?"
+1

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I must lead either a boring life or a charmed life, because after several years of meeting guys I have NEVER had any problems like this....

Maybe it's because I handle meeting guys differently?"

I WAS thinking that Jane .... but you know ...... im gentle :P

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

"I must lead either a boring life or a charmed life, because after several years of meeting guys I have NEVER had any problems like this....

Maybe it's because I handle meeting guys differently?

I WAS thinking that Jane .... but you know ...... im gentle :P"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must lead either a boring life or a charmed life, because after several years of meeting guys I have NEVER had any problems like this....

Maybe it's because I handle meeting guys differently?"

im gonan start being tougher

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"put a block on your phone,the prat deserves to be banned from hear ,if he is doing it to you who ells is he doing it too,i ahd a simaler thing a had to block him and change my mob number, i am now glad i did not invite him to mine ,as i believe he would have started calling at my home in person"

1. She said he isn't from this site.

2. If people are getting harrased away from the site, the relevant authorities should be told as the site can't do anything.

3. if the man is doing it to others, then they can block his text/calls either from the phone or with help from their phone provider.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...I will repeat what others have said.....do you really need to ask?

Turn it around and think of what you would advise someone else with the same problem ( although for me it wouldn't be a problem, as we would just block)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i felt i wasnt safe i would phone the police and report

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"i meet a guy few wks bk gd meet. he then started to get pushy to meet again telling me to cancel other guys and meet and getting funny with me if i had family round and couldnt meet.

just wondered if anyone else would of told him not to contact them again "

FFS, id have called the police,i think u were incredibly tolerant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had smiliar to this, met a guy once socially, that night he called me at 2am to tell me the friend he was stayin with had locked him out ? and? was he expecting me to take him in? i think not!

i now have a cheap pay as you go phone, fab contacts get that number (fuk phone) its always on silent and i check for texts, once trusted they get my number"

For some of the new smart phones, I have an HTC you can download a prog (Called Call Blocker) which allows you to limit when certain people or groups of people can contact your mobile. You can limit both calls and texts and set up different rules for different groups of contacts, I first installed it to stop work contacting me out of hours, its brilliant I wouldn't be without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo, I like the sound of that app, thanks for the tip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo, I like the sound of that app, thanks for the tip!

It's brilliant Pearl, I think it cost about £4, but its been well worth it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo, I like the sound of that app, thanks for the tip!

does it work on the blackberry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo, I like the sound of that app, thanks for the tip!

does it work on the blackberry x"

Not sure I got it via Android Market, there will probably be a Blackberry equivalent I'm guessing, but not sure xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo, I like the sound of that app, thanks for the tip!

does it work on the blackberry x

Not sure I got it via Android Market, there will probably be a Blackberry equivalent I'm guessing, but not sure xx"

If you Google "Call Blocker Gold" it gives you all the info about it xx

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