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I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them 
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
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 I will look ...i am happy for them to know that I'm per....perusing said profile | |||
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"I can never ever come out of stealth mode. It would terrify some people to know how often I perv over them ". Well this is why we view in stealth mode, some of you sexy feckers would be seriously worried  | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes "We view in hidden mode. Then as part of the interested process, we'll view them on normal mode and then switch it back to hidden. | |||
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"I don't use stealth mode as I don't see the point If I want to check a profile out and I'm not blocked I will look ...i am happy for them to know that I'm per....perusing said profile "Ha, I'm kinda nosey and sometimes I per.......peruse quite a lot, I'd be on everyone's blocked list   | |||
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"there's a stealth mode? If I'd known that I could do way more perving! ". Tee hee, get it switched on | |||
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"I don't use stealth mode as I don't see the point If I want to check a profile out and I'm not blocked I will look ...i am happy for them to know that I'm per....perusing said profile Ha, I'm kinda nosey and sometimes I per.......peruse quite a lot, I'd be on everyone's blocked list "Lol I think I'm on a few ...but I'm a nosey lady like to look at profiles and stuff | |||
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"I used to use stealth mode, but dont bother anymore, more fun to see who as looked at you, Not that many people check me out haha. " | |||
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"Morning mrs blue eyes We look in stealth too,i always assume if someone looks and doesnt message ,they are not interested and have maybe forgotten they have looked . I think it saves people messaging ,asking why you have looked ,but not got in touch. Miss " . Morning miss m That's quite a good way of looking at it actually, thanks, Mrs blue eyes  | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
We view in hidden mode. Then as part of the interested process, we'll view them on normal mode and then switch it back to hidden.". I'm loving that idea, I shall be using it forthwith Mrs blue eyes | |||
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"Nah. Don't want to give them another excuse to block me. forever " | |||
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"I don't use stealth mode as I don't see the point If I want to check a profile out and I'm not blocked I will look ...i am happy for them to know that I'm per....perusing said profile Ha, I'm kinda nosey and sometimes I per.......peruse quite a lot, I'd be on everyone's blocked list
Lol I think I'm on a few ...but I'm a nosey lady like to look at profiles and stuff ". Ah I'm in good company | |||
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"I used to use stealth mode, but dont bother anymore, more fun to see who as looked at you, Not that many people check me out haha.
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"I used to use stealth mode, but dont bother anymore, more fun to see who as looked at you, Not that many people check me out haha. ". Ah but how do you know, they may all be in stealth mode | |||
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I want to have open communication. If we want to fuck each other let's talk. If not cool. Really can't be doing with all the childish games some people play. | |||
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"I view in stealth mode because I don't want the "hi, you looked at me, fancy a fuck messages" just because I looked at them. If I look and I AM interested, I'll message." Exactly! | |||
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"I always view in stealth mode. If you Fab a guys picture just cos you think it's a good picture they message you and maybe you don't want to chat youvwere just fabbing a picture. If guys saw me viewing their profile they would message and sometimes the avatar looks good but you don't like the rest. I know how to message people and will message the people I'm interested in. " . Yeah I get that fag, I suppose it's easier for you to use stealth mode as you get so many messages anyway, it would just add to it if everyone you were nosing at thought you were interested, and yeah we could message if we really wanted too, just not very good at the messaging thing, hence why we club meet | |||
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"I have sex with adults. It smacks of shy teenagers giggling "ooh does he fancy meee?"
I want to have open communication. If we want to fuck each other let's talk. If not cool. Really can't be doing with all the childish games some people play. ". Yeah I get that, but some don't like to engage in weeks of messaging and then meets, we only attend clubs with a see what happens outlook, we have never had an arranged meet, it's not our thing, too much pressure with family life, hate the idea of last minute problems popping up and letting people down, so it's quite good for us that people look repeatedly as its a bit of a reason to get chatting in clubs | |||
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" There's only one reason I use stealth mode....if I like a profile and find the pictures, I may view them in mire than one occasion. Put quite simply I don't want them to feel uncomfortable being looked at several times. Other than that I don't care who knows I looked. In fact...im going to turn it off and see what happens !" . Ooh come back and let us know if it turns out to be a positive experience | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
We view in hidden mode. Then as part of the interested process, we'll view them on normal mode and then switch it back to hidden."I do this | |||
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"I view in stealth mode because I don't want the "hi, you looked at me, fancy a fuck messages" just because I looked at them. If I look and I AM interested, I'll message." . Fair enough | |||
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"I never message a woman who's looked at me. I view it as the opposite, a view with no message means she isn't interested in me so there's no need to message her confirming it. " . Ah, I kind of get that, but what about repeat viewers, are they interested but don't want to make the first move, just a thought Mrs blue eyes | |||
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"I use stealth, mainly because I'd probably get some for stalking if I didn't! I will perv someone 25 times a day if I find them hot ". Ha, and why not, got to love a good perve | |||
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"I have sex with adults. It smacks of shy teenagers giggling "ooh does he fancy meee?"
I want to have open communication. If we want to fuck each other let's talk. If not cool. Really can't be doing with all the childish games some people play. . Yeah I get that, but some don't like to engage in weeks of messaging and then meets, we only attend clubs with a see what happens outlook, we have never had an arranged meet, it's not our thing, too much pressure with family life, hate the idea of last minute problems popping up and letting people down, so it's quite good for us that people look repeatedly as its a bit of a reason to get chatting in clubs "I don't chat for weeks either. I prefer to meet within a week of first contact. Decent people will understand that life sometimes gets in the way. Mail them if you like them, what's the worst that can happen? Chat on here then say hi if and when you see them at a club. | |||
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"I don't even know how to put stealth mode on, so if I look everyone can see x ". Aww, and blissfully happy you are with it | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
We view in hidden mode. Then as part of the interested process, we'll view them on normal mode and then switch it back to hidden."Seriously? | |||
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"I have sex with adults. It smacks of shy teenagers giggling "ooh does he fancy meee?"
I want to have open communication. If we want to fuck each other let's talk. If not cool. Really can't be doing with all the childish games some people play. . Yeah I get that, but some don't like to engage in weeks of messaging and then meets, we only attend clubs with a see what happens outlook, we have never had an arranged meet, it's not our thing, too much pressure with family life, hate the idea of last minute problems popping up and letting people down, so it's quite good for us that people look repeatedly as its a bit of a reason to get chatting in clubs
I don't chat for weeks either. I prefer to meet within a week of first contact.
Decent people will understand that life sometimes gets in the way. Mail them if you like them, what's the worst that can happen? Chat on here then say hi if and when you see them at a club. ". You know what steels, you may well just of made me think differently about how we run our fab life perhaps we might just send that message Mrs blue eyes | |||
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"I have sex with adults. It smacks of shy teenagers giggling "ooh does he fancy meee?"
I want to have open communication. If we want to fuck each other let's talk. If not cool. Really can't be doing with all the childish games some people play. . Yeah I get that, but some don't like to engage in weeks of messaging and then meets, we only attend clubs with a see what happens outlook, we have never had an arranged meet, it's not our thing, too much pressure with family life, hate the idea of last minute problems popping up and letting people down, so it's quite good for us that people look repeatedly as its a bit of a reason to get chatting in clubs
I don't chat for weeks either. I prefer to meet within a week of first contact.
Decent people will understand that life sometimes gets in the way. Mail them if you like them, what's the worst that can happen? Chat on here then say hi if and when you see them at a club. . You know what steels, you may well just of made me think differently about how we run our fab life perhaps we might just send that message Mrs blue eyes "If it goes tits up, blame me. I'm ok with that.
If it goes well it was all down to you. If it goes really well and you make new friends then I'll be a happy bunny. x | |||
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"I don't bother with stealth as I rarely get viewed. Although I may view ladies multiple times it's usually because I like them and they may have changed a picture or something. I'm sure if it was an issue, they'd simply block me." Most women and couples use stealth mode. Thousands of them could be perving over you every day. | |||
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"I can never ever come out of stealth mode. It would terrify some people to know how often I perv over them "Hahaha ditto! | |||
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"I have sex with adults. It smacks of shy teenagers giggling "ooh does he fancy meee?"
I want to have open communication. If we want to fuck each other let's talk. If not cool. Really can't be doing with all the childish games some people play. . Yeah I get that, but some don't like to engage in weeks of messaging and then meets, we only attend clubs with a see what happens outlook, we have never had an arranged meet, it's not our thing, too much pressure with family life, hate the idea of last minute problems popping up and letting people down, so it's quite good for us that people look repeatedly as its a bit of a reason to get chatting in clubs
I don't chat for weeks either. I prefer to meet within a week of first contact.
Decent people will understand that life sometimes gets in the way. Mail them if you like them, what's the worst that can happen? Chat on here then say hi if and when you see them at a club. "I have started to do this more often and I have found people said yes or yes in certain situations | |||
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"I used to use stealth mode, but dont bother anymore, more fun to see who as looked at you, Not that many people check me out haha.
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"I have sex with adults. It smacks of shy teenagers giggling "ooh does he fancy meee?"
I want to have open communication. If we want to fuck each other let's talk. If not cool. Really can't be doing with all the childish games some people play. . Yeah I get that, but some don't like to engage in weeks of messaging and then meets, we only attend clubs with a see what happens outlook, we have never had an arranged meet, it's not our thing, too much pressure with family life, hate the idea of last minute problems popping up and letting people down, so it's quite good for us that people look repeatedly as its a bit of a reason to get chatting in clubs
I don't chat for weeks either. I prefer to meet within a week of first contact.
Decent people will understand that life sometimes gets in the way. Mail them if you like them, what's the worst that can happen? Chat on here then say hi if and when you see them at a club.
I have started to do this more often and I have found people said yes or yes in certain situations "Yay Don't be shy peeps, good things can happen. | |||
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"I never message a woman who's looked at me. I view it as the opposite, a view with no message means she isn't interested in me so there's no need to message her confirming it. " Sometimes it takes a few views over a period of time and getting a feel for someone on the forums before a message would be sent, in my case anyway. | |||
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 but myself I don't mind people knowing I viewed their profiles. It's a compliment if wasn't sexy or interesting I wouldn't have viewed them | |||
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" For single males i dont see the point in stealth mode. Unless you're one of those stalkery kind of guys. Oh... i see the point now." . It's not just guys that stalk clem, I spend at least a couple of mins a day on your profile Mrs blue eyes | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes "If it works for you, in the way you use Fab, then great, carry on as you are | |||
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" For single males i dont see the point in stealth mode. Unless you're one of those stalkery kind of guys. Oh... i see the point now.. It's not just guys that stalk clem, I spend at least a couple of mins a day on your profile Mrs blue eyes "There's not much there to be honest. I guess you live i hope one day i make a go at it! | |||
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" For single males i dont see the point in stealth mode. Unless you're one of those stalkery kind of guys. Oh... i see the point now.. It's not just guys that stalk clem, I spend at least a couple of mins a day on your profile Mrs blue eyes
There's not much there to be honest. I guess you live i hope one day i make a go at it!"I was quite pleased with yesterday's update though. | |||
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Often if someone winks or fabs pics I'll have a nosey, doesn't mean I'll want to meet. However if they see you looking you get the "hey, saw you checking me out so you fancy a fuck then?" Message
I'll check someone out, if I'm interested I'll wink back or fab some pics, maybe even message. If I'm not i wont, prefer to do it by stealth | |||
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" For single males i dont see the point in stealth mode. Unless you're one of those stalkery kind of guys. Oh... i see the point now.. It's not just guys that stalk clem, I spend at least a couple of mins a day on your profile Mrs blue eyes
There's not much there to be honest. I guess you live i hope one day i make a go at it!". Whilst there is hope clem, I shall always cling on to it Mrs blue eyes | |||
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" For single males i dont see the point in stealth mode. Unless you're one of those stalkery kind of guys. Oh... i see the point now.. It's not just guys that stalk clem, I spend at least a couple of mins a day on your profile Mrs blue eyes
There's not much there to be honest. I guess you live i hope one day i make a go at it!
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes "I wish people who perv over others profiles would sometimes bite the bullet and say.. I think I fancy you a bit.. can I watch what you get up to.. someone did that to me recently.. I didn't change my behaviour, to be honest, I forgot we made friends. but every time we spike briefly.. it was a little electric for it. If I was a woman or a couple on here.. or simply desirable enough to suffer from mega mailbox.. I'd defo peruse on the down low.. So I understand. | |||
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"This has made me view things differently. There was me disheartened by the lack of female views to my profile, when in reality there is a possibility that there is a lovely lady or 2 that go stealth on me because they are extremely attracted by me and keep popping on my pics for a lady wank, but they are far too shy to say anything to me for fear of embarrassment and rejection?! It's ok... come show yourself and make your feelings known, this could be the beginning of something beautiful!? "You know it pal! Just be your legendary self.. be happy, be funny, listen.. And voila.. a sexy little succubus may make you an object of her desire. It doesn't happen loads (in my experience) but getting chatted up by a woman, who you had no idea liked you.. is fucking awesome  | |||
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"This has made me view things differently. There was me disheartened by the lack of female views to my profile, when in reality there is a possibility that there is a lovely lady or 2 that go stealth on me because they are extremely attracted by me and keep popping on my pics for a lady wank, but they are far too shy to say anything to me for fear of embarrassment and rejection?! It's ok... come show yourself and make your feelings known, this could be the beginning of something beautiful!?
You know it pal! Just be your legendary self.. be happy, be funny, listen..
And voila.. a sexy little succubus may make you an object of her desire. It doesn't happen loads (in my experience) but getting chatted up by a woman, who you had no idea liked you.. is fucking awesome "Which is why I'm never on Stealth Mode | |||
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I've just realised that it's not only stealth mode that doesn't show up, filters block 'who's looked at me too' ha, what am I like, oh well it's only taken a couple of years to dawn on me Mrs blue eyes | |||
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"I use stealth, mainly because I'd probably get some for stalking if I didn't! I will perv someone 25 times a day if I find them hot " same | |||
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"Oh my goodness, I'm so dim I've just realised that it's not only stealth mode that doesn't show up, filters block 'who's looked at me too' ha, what am I like, oh well it's only taken a couple of years to dawn on me Mrs blue eyes "You're not dim at all, don't think it says anywhere how it works. I learned from the forum. Pretty sure the single man block is the only one that stops them showing on your looked at me. Even if you block women they'll still show up as looking. Unless they are in stealth. | |||
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"Oh my goodness, I'm so dim I've just realised that it's not only stealth mode that doesn't show up, filters block 'who's looked at me too' ha, what am I like, oh well it's only taken a couple of years to dawn on me Mrs blue eyes "Don't you have filters for a reason though? And Stealth Mode? Or have you been sat there all this time hoping in vain that someone would contact you, especially that fit, clever young man you keep looking at. But he never messages.. why not? | |||
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"This has made me view things differently. There was me disheartened by the lack of female views to my profile, when in reality there is a possibility that there is a lovely lady or 2 that go stealth on me because they are extremely attracted by me and keep popping on my pics for a lady wank, but they are far too shy to say anything to me for fear of embarrassment and rejection?! It's ok... come show yourself and make your feelings known, this could be the beginning of something beautiful!?
You know it pal! Just be your legendary self.. be happy, be funny, listen..
And voila.. a sexy little succubus may make you an object of her desire. It doesn't happen loads (in my experience) but getting chatted up by a woman, who you had no idea liked you.. is fucking awesome "Oh this is the stuff that dreams are made of! All the coyness followed by romance and a happily ever after! It would be a box office smash if DreamWorks or Pixar bought into this, it would be magical | |||
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"Oh my goodness, I'm so dim I've just realised that it's not only stealth mode that doesn't show up, filters block 'who's looked at me too' ha, what am I like, oh well it's only taken a couple of years to dawn on me Mrs blue eyes
Don't you have filters for a reason though? And Stealth Mode?
Or have you been sat there all this time hoping in vain that someone would contact you, especially that fit, clever young man you keep looking at. But he never messages.. why not? ". Oh yeah, we have filters for a reason, and stealth mode is so we don't look like we are stalking the fab world, and to be fair and honest all our meeting is in clubs and so viewing profiles is merely to be nosey, it's just through the medium of this thread that I've realised that the filters block 'who looked at me ' and realised how dim I am, that is all | |||
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"Oh my goodness, I'm so dim I've just realised that it's not only stealth mode that doesn't show up, filters block 'who's looked at me too' ha, what am I like, oh well it's only taken a couple of years to dawn on me Mrs blue eyes
You're not dim at all, don't think it says anywhere how it works. I learned from the forum.
Pretty sure the single man block is the only one that stops them showing on your looked at me. Even if you block women they'll still show up as looking. Unless they are in stealth. ". Mmm never knew this either, why Thankyou oh wise one, I think I might come to you for some fab training | |||
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"I can never ever come out of stealth mode. It would terrify some people to know how often I perv over them "This is me too | |||
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"I don't bother with stealth as I rarely get viewed. Although I may view ladies multiple times it's usually because I like them and they may have changed a picture or something. I'm sure if it was an issue, they'd simply block me. Most women and couples use stealth mode. Thousands of them could be perving over you every day. "Ha ha! Well if they are they clearly don't like what they see! | |||
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"Morning mrs blue eyes We look in stealth too,i always assume if someone looks and doesnt message ,they are not interested and have maybe forgotten they have looked . I think it saves people messaging ,asking why you have looked ,but not got in touch. Miss " Same here. I get a bit hurt that men continually forget they've looked at my profile (else why look so often). If they were interested they'd message. | |||
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"Morning mrs blue eyes We look in stealth too,i always assume if someone looks and doesnt message ,they are not interested and have maybe forgotten they have looked . I think it saves people messaging ,asking why you have looked ,but not got in touch. Miss Same here. I get a bit hurt that men continually forget they've looked at my profile (else why look so often). If they were interested they'd message. " Au contraire. Sometimes you look and think, I'll have no chance. Sometimes it's the same old, I'll just get no reply. And sometimes it's a case of savouring the anticipation. Like I fine piece of cake on the dessert stand that you keep looking at, in anticipation of when you will finally indulge. Sorry I know the drooling is off putting. | |||
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"Morning mrs blue eyes We look in stealth too,i always assume if someone looks and doesnt message ,they are not interested and have maybe forgotten they have looked . I think it saves people messaging ,asking why you have looked ,but not got in touch. Miss Same here. I get a bit hurt that men continually forget they've looked at my profile (else why look so often). If they were interested they'd message. Au contraire. Sometimes you look and think, I'll have no chance. Sometimes it's the same old, I'll just get no reply. And sometimes it's a case of savouring the anticipation. Like I fine piece of cake on the dessert stand that you keep looking at, in anticipation of when you will finally indulge. Sorry I know the drooling is off putting. "We're (blokes) a bit like Audrey Hepburn in here; standing outside Tiffany's shop window, looking at all the lovely things we're unlikely to ever have..............sighs | |||
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"I have sex with adults. It smacks of shy teenagers giggling "ooh does he fancy meee?"
I want to have open communication. If we want to fuck each other let's talk. If not cool. Really can't be doing with all the childish games some people play. "^^ This! Oh so much, this! Let's face it, sites like this are the human equivalent of dogs sniffing each others' bottoms. Don't you want to know how often yours was sniffed and who by? Don't you think they're entitled to know the same about you? This is specifically a hook-up site to meet people for sex. Why circumvent one of the best mechanisms for finding out who might be interested? I don't feel 'perved at' because someone looked at the public images in my public profile. If I see someone looking more than once, it might tempt me to look at theirs, and fire off a message if I might want to meet them. I do have a similar feature turned off on a certain other site, but then I don't use that one as a contacts site. Also, if I recall correctly, going stealth on here removes the ability to see who had visited your profile. I check that out occasionally, not least to see if anyone I've blocked on FabGuys is still mooching here, or vice versa. | |||
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"Morning mrs blue eyes We look in stealth too,i always assume if someone looks and doesnt message ,they are not interested and have maybe forgotten they have looked . I think it saves people messaging ,asking why you have looked ,but not got in touch. Miss Same here. I get a bit hurt that men continually forget they've looked at my profile (else why look so often). If they were interested they'd message. " Well this post made me look again but you shouldn't feel hurt as I may just enjoy perving your pictures but realise I'm outside your preferences, too far away etc. | |||
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. I'm sure some would get a virtual restraining order out on me. I do tend to look at profiles I like.... A lot! | |||
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"Oh my God! I darent come out of stealth mode! . I'm sure some would get a virtual restraining order out on me. I do tend to look at profiles I like.... A lot! "Your not only one | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
We view in hidden mode. Then as part of the interested process, we'll view them on normal mode and then switch it back to hidden.
Seriously?"? | |||
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"I don't use stealth mode as I don't see the point If I want to check a profile out and I'm not blocked I will look ...i am happy for them to know that I'm per....perusing said profile "This. | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
We view in hidden mode. Then as part of the interested process, we'll view them on normal mode and then switch it back to hidden.
Seriously?
?"Pretty sure you will only show up on their 'Looked at me' when you are unhidden. If they aren't online at the time you 'unhide' they won't see you've looked.
Sorry for my short response before. I may have typed this out but my wifi keeps dropping and deleting my text, hence my one word eventual reply. I was probably frustrated but not at you. | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes "Ok so I'm not moaning! I'm a paying member where the facility to view 'who's viewed me' is literally the only feature you get for your money. Stealth viewing is ok, everyone has the right to do this but…………… I won't be renewing my 'paid membership' due to this as it seems pointless to pay for something that can be hidden from you anyway! Just my view! No haters please! | |||
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"I took my stealth mode off today but found I didn't look at profiles half as much as I would normally. It's back on now "Almost impulsive
Perhaps we all like to hide away and just watch the world go by sometimes...
And perhaps coming out of the shadows now and then let's us view the world and all its pleasures in different ways.
Each tiny step can take everyone to somewhere new or even see what we thought we knew in a better light.
Says the guy who hides in a man cave.... | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
We view in hidden mode. Then as part of the interested process, we'll view them on normal mode and then switch it back to hidden."If you do that they won't see you have looked. As soon as you go back to stealth mode anbody you have viewed doesn't see you have viewed them. I only know because Admin once said that is what happens. | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
Ok so I'm not moaning!
I'm a paying member where the facility to view 'who's viewed me' is literally the only feature you get for your money.
Stealth viewing is ok, everyone has the right to do this but……………
I won't be renewing my 'paid membership' due to this as it seems pointless to pay for something that can be hidden from you anyway!
Just my view! No haters please! "When you pay to join Fab you get a lot more than just the ability to see who looked at you such as Status updates. Ablility to view more than one web cam in chat. If you are gold supporter you can view 5 web cams. You can upload more photos. You can view your email message history with somebody your emailing. and probably other things I have fogotten about. | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
Ok so I'm not moaning!
I'm a paying member where the facility to view 'who's viewed me' is literally the only feature you get for your money.
Stealth viewing is ok, everyone has the right to do this but……………
I won't be renewing my 'paid membership' due to this as it seems pointless to pay for something that can be hidden from you anyway!
Just my view! No haters please!
When you pay to join Fab you get a lot more than just the ability to see who looked at you such as
Status updates.
Ablility to view more than one web cam in chat. If you are gold supporter you can view 5 web cams.
You can upload more photos.
You can view your email message history with somebody your emailing.
and probably other things I have fogotten about.
"Ok so still not moaning Status updates! (Boring Facebook stuff!) Web cams! (Also boring!) Upload more photos! (How many cock shots feet pictures or painted nails do you really want to see?) Email history! (So you can see that they've read & ignored your messages!) So it's my opinion that my only 'perk' is to see who's viewed my profile! | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
Ok so I'm not moaning!
I'm a paying member where the facility to view 'who's viewed me' is literally the only feature you get for your money.
Stealth viewing is ok, everyone has the right to do this but……………
I won't be renewing my 'paid membership' due to this as it seems pointless to pay for something that can be hidden from you anyway!
Just my view! No haters please!
When you pay to join Fab you get a lot more than just the ability to see who looked at you such as
Status updates.
Ablility to view more than one web cam in chat. If you are gold supporter you can view 5 web cams.
You can upload more photos.
You can view your email message history with somebody your emailing.
and probably other things I have fogotten about.
Ok so still not moaning
Status updates! (Boring Facebook stuff!)
Web cams! (Also boring!)
Upload more photos! (How many cock shots feet pictures or painted nails do you really want to see?)
Email history! (So you can see that they've read & ignored your messages!)
So it's my opinion that my only 'perk' is to see who's viewed my profile! "Don't forget the ability to save 'Private notes' against a profile; most of mine read "Deleted my first message without reply". It's a valuable resource lol | |||
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"Some days i get no views at all. I tell myself it's because of stealth mode and not because i'm a boring, ugly twat. " I tell myself I'm 'one in a million' rather than 'one of a million' lol | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
Ok so I'm not moaning!
I'm a paying member where the facility to view 'who's viewed me' is literally the only feature you get for your money.
Stealth viewing is ok, everyone has the right to do this but……………
I won't be renewing my 'paid membership' due to this as it seems pointless to pay for something that can be hidden from you anyway!
Just my view! No haters please!
When you pay to join Fab you get a lot more than just the ability to see who looked at you such as
Status updates.
Ablility to view more than one web cam in chat. If you are gold supporter you can view 5 web cams.
You can upload more photos.
You can view your email message history with somebody your emailing.
and probably other things I have fogotten about.
Ok so still not moaning
Status updates! (Boring Facebook stuff!)
Web cams! (Also boring!)
Upload more photos! (How many cock shots feet pictures or painted nails do you really want to see?)
Email history! (So you can see that they've read & ignored your messages!)
So it's my opinion that my only 'perk' is to see who's viewed my profile!
Don't forget the ability to save 'Private notes' against a profile; most of mine read "Deleted my first message without reply". It's a valuable resource lol "I just block & move on! | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
We view in hidden mode. Then as part of the interested process, we'll view them on normal mode and then switch it back to hidden.
I do this "you do realise that when you go back in to stealth mode all your views are hidden again
so the guy you want to know you looked at wont know as you wont show up on his list | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes "It's very necessary. Just because you Look,doesn't mean you're interested so in stealth mode you can be the one who chooses weather to move forward from looking to winking or messaging. Without getting the you looked at me,do you wanna meet?. . Erh no...i just looked at your profile. Calm down lol | |||
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"So we always perve in stealth mode
I've started to realise though that this may be counter productive, I say this because we get many repeat viewers, and I've started to wonder is this a way of saying' we're' interested, if so then do they think that we are not interested back because essentially they think we don't look at them
What are your thoughts on stealth mode?
Mrs blue eyes
We view in hidden mode. Then as part of the interested process, we'll view them on normal mode and then switch it back to hidden.
I do this
you do realise that when you go back in to stealth mode all your views are hidden again
so the guy you want to know you looked at wont know as you wont show up on his list "Also think it works the same in reverse. | |||
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