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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I don't block anyone at all love chatting an I'm very sociable. I travel around for work alot and sometimes a social meet in a pub is great for company. However I do get alot of messages from guys offering to suck my cock, again no issue. Just wanted a chat or to hear what people think.

1)Do many straight guys go and get it done?

2)Why do women not just offer, is it a selfish thing or when they say "I love giving head" do they mean as long as you fit hung and gonna bang me after??

3)If you get your cock sucked dies it make you gay/bi? I played with an ex an a guy she wanted to see it so he sucked me while I played with her.

4)Do I say yes??

5)Would you say yes??

Thanks and hope it's a good discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I don't block anyone at all love chatting an I'm very sociable. I travel around for work alot and sometimes a social meet in a pub is great for company. However I do get alot of messages from guys offering to suck my cock, again no issue. Just wanted a chat or to hear what people think.

1)Do many straight guys go and get it done?

2)Why do women not just offer, is it a selfish thing or when they say "I love giving head" do they mean as long as you fit hung and gonna bang me after??

3)If you get your cock sucked dies it make you gay/bi? I played with an ex an a guy she wanted to see it so he sucked me while I played with her.

4)Do I say yes??

5)Would you say yes??

Thanks and hope it's a good discussion"

1 - no

2 - I don't know, ask the women

3 - I'd say bi playful

4 - depends how many women have turned you down and how pissed off at being rejected by them, vs how desperate you are to get your cock sucked

5 - no

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By *0shades 2000Man
over a year ago

coleraine

Just don't do anything you arnt comfortable doing... as for the cock sucking messages I get a lot of those from men. Just politely decline and tell them your not into that they soon leave you alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm ...... straight guys don't engage is same sex activity.....

Ask your Gran or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the % of Straight men that do say yes is much higher than any of us imagine.

No harm in it, and no problem with it. Each to their own.

If you're tempted OP then do it. No ones job to tell you how to live your life or who to let you get your end away with

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sexuality could be seen as a spectrum and if you're not stuck at either end, you can move up and down at different points and different times and for differing time periods.

Label Mable, not your unstable table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the % of Straight men that do say yes is much higher than any of us imagine.

No harm in it, and no problem with it. Each to their own.

If you're tempted OP then do it. No ones job to tell you how to live your life or who to let you get your end away with "

Sorry "straight"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Erm ...... straight guys don't engage is same sex activity.....

Ask your Gran or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me...... "

I've done ya gran

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think the % of Straight men that do say yes is much higher than any of us imagine.

No harm in it, and no problem with it. Each to their own.

If you're tempted OP then do it. No ones job to tell you how to live your life or who to let you get your end away with

Sorry "straight""

Now thats interesting! As one cd psychologist said to the other 'I like your Freudian slip'

You corrected 'the small s'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An honest label if far more respectful than a dishonest label

People who choose to intentionally mislead are hardly demonstrating respect to the victims of their deception ...

Surely it wrong to defend any dishonest behaviour that contributes towards the stigma which still inflicts the gay and bi community ....

Am meringue .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm ...... straight guys don't engage is same sex activity.....

Ask your Gran or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me...... I've done ya gran "

OMG......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Erm ...... straight guys don't engage is same sex activity.....

Ask your Gran or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me...... I've done ya gran

OMG...... "

It was ok. A 'teeth out' blower dahn by the asda bins. Classy ain't she? Top notch totty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm ...... straight guys don't engage is same sex activity.....

Ask your Gran or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me...... I've done ya gran

OMG......

It was ok. A 'teeth out' blower dahn by the asda bins. Classy ain't she? Top notch totty. "

Good job I was adopted ...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Erm ...... straight guys don't engage is same sex activity.....

Ask your Gran or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me...... I've done ya gran

OMG......

It was ok. A 'teeth out' blower dahn by the asda bins. Classy ain't she? Top notch totty.

Good job I was adopted ... "

How man mutha mah!

Ye knaa what ah mean leik?

Eeeh man, ahm gannin te the booza.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm ...... straight guys don't engage is same sex activity.....

Ask your Gran or your mates down the pub if you don't believe me...... I've done ya gran

OMG......

It was ok. A 'teeth out' blower dahn by the asda bins. Classy ain't she? Top notch totty.

Good job I was adopted ...

How man mutha mah!

Ye knaa what ah mean leik?

Eeeh man, ahm gannin te the booza."

Good-grief Steve'O you don't think I talk with an accent do you ?

Lordy-me my man ,,,,,, we're not all colloquial stereotypes......

tut-tut-tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of straight guys go 'gay for the stay' in prison, depends on desperation, willingness to hire a prostitute and sex drive.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm only gonna answer the one about women.

Erm... no it's far from selfish. I don't just love giving head, I fucking adore it but it's not a gift I'll give to any old Tom, Dick or Harry.

I'm trying to work out if the question was in jest but I'm tired and watching athletics too so not really concentrating. That's my answer tho

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's muti-faceted.

Say yes when right or you aren't in a mental or physical straight jacket

Be happy you lived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexuality could be seen as a spectrum and if you're not stuck at either end, you can move up and down at different points and different times and for differing time periods.

Label Mable, not your unstable table. "

Brilliant!

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"So I don't block anyone at all love chatting an I'm very sociable. I travel around for work alot and sometimes a social meet in a pub is great for company. However I do get alot of messages from guys offering to suck my cock, again no issue. Just wanted a chat or to hear what people think.

1)Do many straight guys go and get it done?

2)Why do women not just offer, is it a selfish thing or when they say "I love giving head" do they mean as long as you fit hung and gonna bang me after??

3)If you get your cock sucked dies it make you gay/bi? I played with an ex an a guy she wanted to see it so he sucked me while I played with her.

4)Do I say yes??

5)Would you say yes??

Thanks and hope it's a good discussion"

1) A surprising number have tried. A lot of 'straight' guys are closet bi or bi-curious. And there's the matter of the right to self-identify. If someone says they are straight, just accept that they are straight. Even if, by your own standards,they obviously aren't. I think there's an argument that, as long as you stay away from their cock, you haven't done anything with a man that you couldn't have done with a woman. A mouth is a mouth, though someone who has a penis typically has a better idea of how to pleasure one (I'm sure the same is true of vaginas.)

2) I'm really not sure. Some women love sucking cock, but it's not exactly a given. You'd be hard pushed to find a gay or bi man who doesn't do it and enjoy it. But then 'straight' is still the norm. You have to have pretty strong urges in another direction to be tempted from the righteous path.

3) If you're thinking of doing it, then yours is the only answer that matters. Would it make you bi? Does that bother you? Certainly, at least some people will say that it does, if they find out.

4) Depends on whether you'd feel guilty and hate yourself for 'doing a gay thing' afterwards. Lots of guys do.

5) Yes, I'd say yes, and have done. But then I'm not still trying to convince myself that I'm straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but here’s the thing …..

Why would anyone with defend dishonest or misleading labelling?

By what credible measure do label not matter....

A scenario whereby a male falsely claims to be straight on their profile is being totally disrespectful of the rights of all swingers who have an aversion to meeting guys that engage in same sex activity …

Too defend that by saying labels don't matter displays a reprehensible attitude toward the rights of preferences of genuine members of the site.

Why would any decent minded person defend that kind of untrustworthy behaviour .

Labels do matter

Honest labels provide respectful information which helps break down prejudice and stigmas,,

Dishonest labels identify deceitful untrustworthy people who lack morals .....

That's all I've got on the subject this fine Sunday morning, so I hope you all have a lovely day and please accept this early morning Sox bitch slap with the good nature of it's intention

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By *hunkyThighsMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

No, it's gay/bi.

I'm straight. I have no intention of having my cock sucked by a bloke. I get An offer at least once a day, just hit delete, repeat messages get a

Block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So are we decided it's Gay/Bi to offer and to accept lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So are we decided it's Gay/Bi to offer and to accept lol"

That would be perfectly appropriate, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sucking the cock of a man who has spent time getting to know me and is giving me plenty of sex. There's only one man I would travel to, just to suck his cock.

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