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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So the topics of the last few days got me annoyed and then thoughtful

So I'd like to put this out there. You guys who wouldn't look twice at us chubsters in real life. Whether that's true or not, be honest no BS please we can take it and then we can decide if we want to do the nasty with you honestly rather than being played!!

Anyway, whatever people's reasons are as long as the sex pushes my buttons I'm happy

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i used to use a gym where a good proportion of guys were hot, some do indeed have a good perv. i'm not that fat though so that could be why? idk.

i've got one on here who feels the urge to keep slagging me off in PM though, not sure why he is stalking me in this way but guys like him i'd say are the ones who shouldn't be getting any. they probably hate all women.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

First thing I'd say to the OP is to ignore the crap. Much as they'd like to think otherwise, other people don't know more about you and what you want than you do.

Secondly, a very long time ago I was in a nightclub with some mates and we agreed to play the Ugly game - see who can get off with the ugliest girl. I was 17 and a twat, now I'm much older and a little less of a twat.

Anyway, the night went on and I started talking to this girl who wasn't an absolute stunner. She seemed to be getting into me and we found a dark corner of the club together. Just before we kissed, she said "You're not playing that Ugly game, are you?"

"No" I replied, keeping a straight face.

"Good" she said "I am"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the topics of the last few days got me annoyed and then thoughtful

So I'd like to put this out there. You guys who wouldn't look twice at us chubsters in real life. Whether that's true or not, be honest no BS please we can take it and then we can decide if we want to do the nasty with you honestly rather than being played!!

Chubsters?? Do you not mean real,beautiful polite women and a lot funnier to boot. My personal opinion I'd rather a women with curves the sex is more explosive.

Anyway, whatever people's reasons are as long as the sex pushes my buttons I'm happy "

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Nothing wrong with chubsters, we're some.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Anthony Joshua is on record as saying he prefers BBW.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

How big are we talking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anthony Joshua is on record as saying he prefers BBW."

Seriously, omg Im in love. Bye FAB I'm off to see Ant lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with chubsters, we're some. "

With fantastic boobies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So the topics of the last few days got me annoyed and then thoughtful

So I'd like to put this out there. You guys who wouldn't look twice at us chubsters in real life. Whether that's true or not, be honest no BS please we can take it and then we can decide if we want to do the nasty with you honestly rather than being played!!

Chubsters?? Do you not mean real,beautiful polite women and a lot funnier to boot. My personal opinion I'd rather a women with curves the sex is more explosive.

Anyway, whatever people's reasons are as long as the sex pushes my buttons I'm happy "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First thing I'd say to the OP is to ignore the crap. Much as they'd like to think otherwise, other people don't know more about you and what you want than you do.

Secondly, a very long time ago I was in a nightclub with some mates and we agreed to play the Ugly game - see who can get off with the ugliest girl. I was 17 and a twat, now I'm much older and a little less of a twat.

Anyway, the night went on and I started talking to this girl who wasn't an absolute stunner. She seemed to be getting into me and we found a dark corner of the club together. Just before we kissed, she said "You're not playing that Ugly game, are you?"

"No" I replied, keeping a straight face.

"Good" she said "I am"

"

Men can be twats, not sure why. I'm sure is girls can too at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i used to use a gym where a good proportion of guys were hot, some do indeed have a good perv. i'm not that fat though so that could be why? idk.

i've got one on here who feels the urge to keep slagging me off in PM though, not sure why he is stalking me in this way but guys like him i'd say are the ones who shouldn't be getting any. they probably hate all women."

Bloke and report. I would x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" How big are we talking? "

We won't be each other's type, your comments from the forum yesterday put me off, partly instigated this post!

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Awe..."fitsters", thank fk I didn't post what I was gonna! lolol Read it too quick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awe..."fitsters", thank fk I didn't post what I was gonna! lolol Read it too quick! "
,,, I read it as Fisters lol

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"i used to use a gym where a good proportion of guys were hot, some do indeed have a good perv. i'm not that fat though so that could be why? idk.

i've got one on here who feels the urge to keep slagging me off in PM though, not sure why he is stalking me in this way but guys like him i'd say are the ones who shouldn't be getting any. they probably hate all women.

Bloke and report. I would x"

have done, again. thanks. pretty sure the site do sort him out just they can't stop him making new profiles.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Awe..."fitsters", thank fk I didn't post what I was gonna! lolol Read it too quick! "

Ha ha, I think I need to get the prescription on my glasses checked as I read it the same way as you probably did!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Anthony Joshua is on record as saying he prefers BBW.

Seriously, omg Im in love. Bye FAB I'm off to see Ant lol "

i'm in love as well, he's gorgeous and i wish i hadn't looked, lol.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Anthony Joshua is on record as saying he prefers BBW."

I wouldn't describe Faryal Makhdoom as chubby to be honest with you.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" How big are we talking?

We won't be each other's type, your comments from the forum yesterday put me off, partly instigated this post!

"

Jeeez! Which one!

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Awe..."fitsters", thank fk I didn't post what I was gonna! lolol Read it too quick! ,,, I read it as Fisters lol"

Me too! I clearly need to go to Specsavers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my preference. Always as been and always will be.

I don't understand why some people find that hard to believe just because there type is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's my preference. Always as been and always will be.

I don't understand why some people find that hard to believe just because there type is different "

Love me some clit lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awe..."fitsters", thank fk I didn't post what I was gonna! lolol Read it too quick! "

Lmao that's a whole new thread x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awe..."fitsters", thank fk I didn't post what I was gonna! lolol Read it too quick!

Ha ha, I think I need to get the prescription on my glasses checked as I read it the same way as you probably did!"

Oh dear I hadn't thought of that until your posts

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"So the topics of the last few days got me annoyed and then thoughtful

So I'd like to put this out there. You guys who wouldn't look twice at us chubsters in real life. Whether that's true or not, be honest no BS please we can take it and then we can decide if we want to do the nasty with you honestly rather than being played!!

Chubsters?? Do you not mean real,beautiful polite women and a lot funnier to boot. My personal opinion I'd rather a women with curves the sex is more explosive.

Anyway, whatever people's reasons are as long as the sex pushes my buttons I'm happy "

I've never understood why advocates of big women cling to this notion that slim athletic women are in some way false and miserable who have dull sex. I just don't see that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the topics of the last few days got me annoyed and then thoughtful

So I'd like to put this out there. You guys who wouldn't look twice at us chubsters in real life. Whether that's true or not, be honest no BS please we can take it and then we can decide if we want to do the nasty with you honestly rather than being played!!

Chubsters?? Do you not mean real,beautiful polite women and a lot funnier to boot. My personal opinion I'd rather a women with curves the sex is more explosive.

Anyway, whatever people's reasons are as long as the sex pushes my buttons I'm happy

I've never understood why advocates of big women cling to this notion that slim athletic women are in some way false and miserable who have dull sex. I just don't see that. "

Just out of interest what label does your wife match?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I've never understood why advocates of big women cling to this notion that slim athletic women are in some way false and miserable who have dull sex. I just don't see that. "

Do they? Is it always that black and white? If you like the look of a curvy woman it means that you think all thin women are dreadful for some reason?

Are we not allowed to like some fat women and some thin? When did that rule come in, I must have missed it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well being 6ft 1 an a size 18 42g bust i dont like my stomach like a pouch but ive fun with all types skinny curved an bbw its the attraction i go for granted i do prefer women with a fuller figure as makes me feel little more comfortable and also love big breasted women x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well being 6ft 1 an a size 18 42g bust i dont like my stomach like a pouch but ive fun with all types skinny curved an bbw its the attraction i go for granted i do prefer women with a fuller figure as makes me feel little more comfortable and also love big breasted women x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"So the topics of the last few days got me annoyed and then thoughtful

So I'd like to put this out there. You guys who wouldn't look twice at us chubsters in real life. Whether that's true or not, be honest no BS please we can take it and then we can decide if we want to do the nasty with you honestly rather than being played!!

Anyway, whatever people's reasons are as long as the sex pushes my buttons I'm happy "

However, to answer your OP, I'm not a chubby chaser. I don't chase any type. I fancy who i fancy and think anyone who focuses on some ones eating habits as a sexual preference has issues. Equally selling yourself because you don't exercise or can't control what you eat is wrong. It's no different to fancying people who self harm. Or someone wanting to fuck me because i bite my nails. Just my opinion though. BBW is no different to BBC "fuck me for what i look like.". I'd rather meet someone for their personality not a perception that they will be jolly.

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By *ude13Man
over a year ago

durham

I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Or someone wanting to fuck me because i bite my nails. "

To be honest, that does make you sound hawt

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I've never understood why advocates of big women cling to this notion that slim athletic women are in some way false and miserable who have dull sex. I just don't see that.

Do they? Is it always that black and white? If you like the look of a curvy woman it means that you think all thin women are dreadful for some reason?

Are we not allowed to like some fat women and some thin? When did that rule come in, I must have missed it?"

Ask the guy i quoted. But I've seen it repeated again and again.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day "

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on. "

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure I understand the question

Are we talking about men that fist chubby women ....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team "

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I'm not sure I understand the question

Are we talking about men that fist chubby women ....

"

As long as they don't take a run up, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish. "

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been out with a bbw as of yet but I have been out with curvy women and I'm a slim reasonably toned chap. Get the odd judgemental prick here and there but I'd be lying if I said I cared, personally I'm pretty comfortable with myself and don't feel the need to prove anything. I do what I enjoy and if thats with a beautiful woman it's irrelevant to me what anyone elses views are. How the person I'm with perceives me is the only thing I'm fussed about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys with muscle must be a fetishists then. Because it's not natural is it

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking "

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Guys with muscle must be a fetishists then. Because it's not natural is it "

Do you mean guys who look for body building women? Or women who look for mucsled men? Or just men who body build?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So the topics of the last few days got me annoyed and then thoughtful

So I'd like to put this out there. You guys who wouldn't look twice at us chubsters in real life. Whether that's true or not, be honest no BS please we can take it and then we can decide if we want to do the nasty with you honestly rather than being played!!

Chubsters?? Do you not mean real,beautiful polite women and a lot funnier to boot. My personal opinion I'd rather a women with curves the sex is more explosive.

Anyway, whatever people's reasons are as long as the sex pushes my buttons I'm happy

I've never understood why advocates of big women cling to this notion that slim athletic women are in some way false and miserable who have dull sex. I just don't see that. "

Again Clem where the f did I mention slim athletic women???? No mention anywhere

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By *ude13Man
over a year ago

durham


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team :-

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc. "

I'm on here to for fill my fantasys so personality comes second for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc. "

I have no problem with my preference. And it's not a fetish I date them aswell. As for unfit I go the gym every day and these so called fat big women you refer to give as good as they get. If someone is underweight is that healthy? To carry muscle is that healthy? What ever people want there body size to be as fuck all to do with anyone other then them. Just a shame less perfect people feel a need to put anyone down. They must feel real bad about themselves

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team :-

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc.

I'm on here to for fill my fantasys so personality comes second for me "

Good for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys with muscle must be a fetishists then. Because it's not natural is it

Do you mean guys who look for body building women? Or women who look for mucsled men? Or just men who body build? "

Have you been drinking or having a smoke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys with muscle must be a fetishists then. Because it's not natural is it "

Lové muscles too haha

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc.

I have no problem with my preference. And it's not a fetish I date them aswell. As for unfit I go the gym every day and these so called fat big women you refer to give as good as they get. If someone is underweight is that healthy? To carry muscle is that healthy? What ever people want there body size to be as fuck all to do with anyone other then them. Just a shame less perfect people feel a need to put anyone down. They must feel real bad about themselves "

You're coming over rather garbled. I don't remember ever saying being underweight or a body builder was a healthy lifestyle. Calm your self down.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Guys with muscle must be a fetishists then. Because it's not natural is it

Do you mean guys who look for body building women? Or women who look for mucsled men? Or just men who body build?

Have you been drinking or having a smoke "

I think you're broadcasting your internal monologue.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Guys with muscle must be a fetishists then. Because it's not natural is it

Do you mean guys who look for body building women? Or women who look for mucsled men? Or just men who body build? "

i'm aromantic and have had to fetishise types men to have sex. i don't find them attractive otherwise.

i'm more a slow burner who likes personality and needs time to be turned on, this is why swinging doesn't really suit me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc.

I have no problem with my preference. And it's not a fetish I date them aswell. As for unfit I go the gym every day and these so called fat big women you refer to give as good as they get. If someone is underweight is that healthy? To carry muscle is that healthy? What ever people want there body size to be as fuck all to do with anyone other then them. Just a shame less perfect people feel a need to put anyone down. They must feel real bad about themselves

You're coming over rather garbled. I don't remember ever saying being underweight or a body builder was a healthy lifestyle. Calm your self down. "

Im very calm thanks. It just seems you have a serious problem with bbw/fat/large women. Why I don't really know. Unless you're looking for them why bother talking about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc.

I have no problem with my preference. And it's not a fetish I date them aswell. As for unfit I go the gym every day and these so called fat big women you refer to give as good as they get. If someone is underweight is that healthy? To carry muscle is that healthy? What ever people want there body size to be as fuck all to do with anyone other then them. Just a shame less perfect people feel a need to put anyone down. They must feel real bad about themselves

You're coming over rather garbled. I don't remember ever saying being underweight or a body builder was a healthy lifestyle. Calm your self down.

Im very calm thanks. It just seems you have a serious problem with bbw/fat/large women. Why I don't really know. Unless you're looking for them why bother talking about them "

To provoke maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will not be put in a box.

But I see people happy in couples,all over and they are mixed sizes.

I wont meet or play with anyone who will not meet in public.

There are people with ugly lazy stupid personalities, regardless of dress size.

Toxic haters.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc.

I have no problem with my preference. And it's not a fetish I date them aswell. As for unfit I go the gym every day and these so called fat big women you refer to give as good as they get. If someone is underweight is that healthy? To carry muscle is that healthy? What ever people want there body size to be as fuck all to do with anyone other then them. Just a shame less perfect people feel a need to put anyone down. They must feel real bad about themselves

You're coming over rather garbled. I don't remember ever saying being underweight or a body builder was a healthy lifestyle. Calm your self down.

Im very calm thanks. It just seems you have a serious problem with bbw/fat/large women. Why I don't really know. Unless you're looking for them why bother talking about them

To provoke maybe "

Maybe you didn't read the OP?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc.

I have no problem with my preference. And it's not a fetish I date them aswell. As for unfit I go the gym every day and these so called fat big women you refer to give as good as they get. If someone is underweight is that healthy? To carry muscle is that healthy? What ever people want there body size to be as fuck all to do with anyone other then them. Just a shame less perfect people feel a need to put anyone down. They must feel real bad about themselves

You're coming over rather garbled. I don't remember ever saying being underweight or a body builder was a healthy lifestyle. Calm your self down.

Im very calm thanks. It just seems you have a serious problem with bbw/fat/large women. Why I don't really know. Unless you're looking for them why bother talking about them "

If you don't like my posts please feel free to ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that's been ruined

SuperDILF me and you hook up jobs done!! Let the haters hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc.

I have no problem with my preference. And it's not a fetish I date them aswell. As for unfit I go the gym every day and these so called fat big women you refer to give as good as they get. If someone is underweight is that healthy? To carry muscle is that healthy? What ever people want there body size to be as fuck all to do with anyone other then them. Just a shame less perfect people feel a need to put anyone down. They must feel real bad about themselves

You're coming over rather garbled. I don't remember ever saying being underweight or a body builder was a healthy lifestyle. Calm your self down.

Im very calm thanks. It just seems you have a serious problem with bbw/fat/large women. Why I don't really know. Unless you're looking for them why bother talking about them

If you don't like my posts please feel free to ignore them. "

Maybe you could do the same with posts and threads that don't matter to you. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez! Does it really matter who fancies whom?!

Could we not just stop labelling people as fitsters, chubsters, bbw, bbc and just meet people we fancy and want to shag?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

You see, my wife's a size 18, do you think she'd like it if i told her "i love you alot, certainly more than when you were a 12, but maybe if you went to a 20 I'd love you EVEN more!"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that's been ruined

SuperDILF me and you hook up jobs done!! Let the haters hate "

Best thing I've heard all day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see, my wife's a size 18, do you think she'd like it if i told her "i love you alot, certainly more than when you were a 12, but maybe if you went to a 20 I'd love you EVEN more!"? "

Is you're wife a fetish

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Jeez! Does it really matter who fancies whom?!

Could we not just stop labelling people as fitsters, chubsters, bbw, bbc and just meet people we fancy and want to shag?

"

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You see, my wife's a size 18, do you think she'd like it if i told her "i love you alot, certainly more than when you were a 12, but maybe if you went to a 20 I'd love you EVEN more!"?

Is you're wife a fetish "

Clearly not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see, my wife's a size 18, do you think she'd like it if i told her "i love you alot, certainly more than when you were a 12, but maybe if you went to a 20 I'd love you EVEN more!"?

Is you're wife a fetish

Clearly not. "

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I love BBws and only had them for vanilla to and a lot more lads do than you think a would take fat over skinny any day

I'm happy to go with personality. But you crack on.

So physical attraction don't bother you. You're glad take one for the team

I'm not that desperate. I don't feel the need to limit myself to a fetish.

But you're glad fuck someone you're not attracted to by looks. Shocking

No. *I* won't. It must be strange for someone who fetishizes big women to understand that normal people can find all sorts of body morphs attractive. I don't think that anyone would like the "your fat, i fancy fat women, let me fuck you" approach. Just like i wouldn't want to meet anyone who sold themselves on their body shape. Or sexuality etc.

I have no problem with my preference. And it's not a fetish I date them aswell. As for unfit I go the gym every day and these so called fat big women you refer to give as good as they get. If someone is underweight is that healthy? To carry muscle is that healthy? What ever people want there body size to be as fuck all to do with anyone other then them. Just a shame less perfect people feel a need to put anyone down. They must feel real bad about themselves

You're coming over rather garbled. I don't remember ever saying being underweight or a body builder was a healthy lifestyle. Calm your self down.

Im very calm thanks. It just seems you have a serious problem with bbw/fat/large women. Why I don't really know. Unless you're looking for them why bother talking about them

If you don't like my posts please feel free to ignore them.

Maybe you could do the same with posts and threads that don't matter to you. Thanks "

So..... you didn't read the OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jeez! Does it really matter who fancies whom?!

Could we not just stop labelling people as fitsters, chubsters, bbw, bbc and just meet people we fancy and want to shag?

"

Yes we could indeed but according to other threads tje guys on here don't actually like women bigger than a 14 and so the point of my post was to ask guys to forget the BS be honest and not play us

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Love big boobies and big butts.

Big bellies not so much. Definitely prefer more meat on a woman. There's someone for everyone though. Be whatever shape you like. You can always change your body if you like the way it looks. A body confident woman is sexy whatever her shape.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well that's been ruined

SuperDILF me and you hook up jobs done!! Let the haters hate

Best thing I've heard all day "

Get your coat you've pulled lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's interesting because I have done an "ouch" take on Clem's comments about BBWs on occasion too, Betsy. However, he makes a point here which has made me think about something that I think is important to hear, or I find important to remember personally for myself...I have insecurity about my being fat, and scan comments and attitudes on Fab to ensure someone wouldn't hate or detest me because I'm larger -- but, I concentrate perhaps so much on that aspect (as what I consider to be the most obvious trigger for someone rejecting me) that I forget I am more than just my shape and Clem is saying he is interested in a whole person not just one single aspect (or fetishisation) of a person, their size in this instance. Good point. He also touches on some hard truths (not that these are the case for everyone but...), that again might have aspects of attitude or ways of being that are not appealing -- again, he has a point but to jump on it as completely untrue just because it isn't necessarily true for all, and is hard to hear (it hurts me as there's truth in it for me -- although as per the first point it's not the entirety of me) is wrong.

Anyway, I may be misinterpreting Clem's words but that's how I choose to try and assemble them in a way that holds me mindful in ways I want to be mindful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction "

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction "

I think you're misunderstanding Clem. I really do.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"So the topics of the last few days got me annoyed and then thoughtful

So I'd like to put this out there. You guys who wouldn't look twice at us chubsters in real life. Whether that's true or not, be honest no BS please we can take it and then we can decide if we want to do the nasty with you honestly rather than being played!!

Anyway, whatever people's reasons are as long as the sex pushes my buttons I'm happy "

An open question referring to women you label as "chubsters" not a personal question about yourself.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I couldn't care unless if someone would chat me up in the 'real world' or want to date me.

I'm here purely for fun, if I'm attracted to them, and the sex is good, that's good enough for me.

When it comes to NSA sex, my preferences/what I look for are different to what I'd want in a long term partner. So I assume others are the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of loving on here tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How big are we talking? "

This is the question, along with what is there face and hygiene level like.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction "

Do you think you're not my type because i don't have a fetish for a particular body shape?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction

Do you think you're not my type because i don't have a fetish for a particular body shape? "

What size is you're wife Clem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe

But again the post like the ones yesterday didnt' need to go off on a tangent. We are what we are and we all like what we like. So all I'm asking is for people to not be cocks about it.

There was another thread the other day and youre made to feel like you're disgusting and that there is no way guys can be interested in you as you're not slim and they are looking for pity fucks

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction

Do you think you're not my type because i don't have a fetish for a particular body shape?

What size is you're wife Clem? "

Wtf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And that was a comment from a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe

But again the post like the ones yesterday didnt' need to go off on a tangent. We are what we are and we all like what we like. So all I'm asking is for people to not be cocks about it.

There was another thread the other day and youre made to feel like you're disgusting and that there is no way guys can be interested in you as you're not slim and they are looking for pity fucks "

But the thing I respect about Clem is that he would say I fancy you or not about an individual rather than sweeping generalisations that he'd fancy all BBWs because he likes (fetishises) the size/shape. I find that BS, and offensive as it means the BBWs are nothing more than their size -- a fetish -- and the individual and myriad of other aspects that make them unique irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And that was a comment from a woman "

Which?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction

Do you think you're not my type because i don't have a fetish for a particular body shape?

What size is you're wife Clem?

Wtf "

Simple question. Have I touched a nerve. Not nice is it

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Maybe

But again the post like the ones yesterday didnt' need to go off on a tangent. We are what we are and we all like what we like. So all I'm asking is for people to not be cocks about it.

There was another thread the other day and youre made to feel like you're disgusting and that there is no way guys can be interested in you as you're not slim and they are looking for pity fucks

But the thing I respect about Clem is that he would say I fancy you or not about an individual rather than sweeping generalisations that he'd fancy all BBWs because he likes (fetishises) the size/shape. I find that BS, and offensive as it means the BBWs are nothing more than their size -- a fetish -- and the individual and myriad of other aspects that make them unique irrelevant. "

In a nutshell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And that was a comment from a woman "

There all coming out the woodwork now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction

Do you think you're not my type because i don't have a fetish for a particular body shape?

What size is you're wife Clem?

Wtf

Simple question. Have I touched a nerve. Not nice is it "

No, you're actually being rude and personal, and missing the entire point.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction

Do you think you're not my type because i don't have a fetish for a particular body shape?

What size is you're wife Clem?

Wtf

Simple question. Have I touched a nerve. Not nice is it "

If you bothered to read you'll see I'd already said......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And that was a comment from a woman

Which?"

Pity fucks on the thread the other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And that was a comment from a woman

There all coming out the woodwork now lol "

Thing you don't know is I've met and love Betsy and think she is super hot, awesome, beautiful and this is irrespective of her size -- although her shape is glorious and I would totally bed her! But I also understand Clem's point. And can also see what you're doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction

Do you think you're not my type because i don't have a fetish for a particular body shape?

What size is you're wife Clem?

Wtf

Simple question. Have I touched a nerve. Not nice is it

No, you're actually being rude and personal, and missing the entire point. "

No rude at all. That's you're opinion and tbh It don't really matter. Always have to come to the rescue don't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And that was a comment from a woman

Which?

Pity fucks on the thread the other day"

Ahh I'd have to see that, is there a link -- out of context I can't have any insight. Xx

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Oh my days this thread has so many misunderstood folk having a dig at others !

Anyway , back on topic .

We play with people regardless of size , who we find attractive and who find us equally as attractive . We are decidedly average , carry a bit more weight than we should in a perfect world , but we are easy going , happy and open minded .

I don't think we've ever had a pity fuck with anyone for any reason , least of all because of their size .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction

Do you think you're not my type because i don't have a fetish for a particular body shape?

What size is you're wife Clem?

Wtf

Simple question. Have I touched a nerve. Not nice is it

No, you're actually being rude and personal, and missing the entire point.

No rude at all. That's you're opinion and tbh It don't really matter. Always have to come to the rescue don't you "

Ummm. Read your comment back at yourself dear chap. It's as relevant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have no idea why we are all arguing because I'm confortable which my size, guys love my boobs and bum. For the 10th time I'd just rather know if a fitster is after giving me a pity fuck to get his end away or a genuine one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And that was a comment from a woman

There all coming out the woodwork now lol

Thing you don't know is I've met and love Betsy and think she is super hot, awesome, beautiful and this is irrespective of her size -- although her shape is glorious and I would totally bed her! But I also understand Clem's point. And can also see what you're doing.

"

I do very well thank you. I don't need to brown nose on the forums to get meets. Think again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my days this thread has so many misunderstood folk having a dig at others !

Anyway , back on topic .

We play with people regardless of size , who we find attractive and who find us equally as attractive . We are decidedly average , carry a bit more weight than we should in a perfect world , but we are easy going , happy and open minded .

I don't think we've ever had a pity fuck with anyone for any reason , least of all because of their size .

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh my days this thread has so many misunderstood folk having a dig at others !

Anyway , back on topic .

We play with people regardless of size , who we find attractive and who find us equally as attractive . We are decidedly average , carry a bit more weight than we should in a perfect world , but we are easy going , happy and open minded .

I don't think we've ever had a pity fuck with anyone for any reason , least of all because of their size .

"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be really fit and thin and I've always loved a chubby guy or girl.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And that was a comment from a woman

There all coming out the woodwork now lol

Thing you don't know is I've met and love Betsy and think she is super hot, awesome, beautiful and this is irrespective of her size -- although her shape is glorious and I would totally bed her! But I also understand Clem's point. And can also see what you're doing.

I do very well thank you. I don't need to brown nose on the forums to get meets. Think again "

Oh Lordy, that's not even what I meant!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea why we are all arguing because I'm confortable which my size, guys love my boobs and bum. For the 10th time I'd just rather know if a fitster is after giving me a pity fuck to get his end away or a genuine one"

Boom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And that was a comment from a woman

Which?

Pity fucks on the thread the other day

Ahh I'd have to see that, is there a link -- out of context I can't have any insight. Xx"

It's irrelevant now. And won't help. I can't remember who posted or which day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually Clem you didn't read it because I alreasy know what you think to bigger women. My point was if at any point a guy is trying to get into my knickers be honest and not a player. That's it end of!!

As I'm not your type and visa verse then no further discussion is needed on size and attraction

Do you think you're not my type because i don't have a fetish for a particular body shape?

What size is you're wife Clem?

Wtf

Simple question. Have I touched a nerve. Not nice is it

No, you're actually being rude and personal, and missing the entire point.

No rude at all. That's you're opinion and tbh It don't really matter. Always have to come to the rescue don't you

Ummm. Read your comment back at yourself dear chap. It's as relevant. "

Time I left. I've seen you in action before on threads sadly

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"And that was a comment from a woman

There all coming out the woodwork now lol

Thing you don't know is I've met and love Betsy and think she is super hot, awesome, beautiful and this is irrespective of her size -- although her shape is glorious and I would totally bed her! But I also understand Clem's point. And can also see what you're doing.

I do very well thank you. I don't need to brown nose on the forums to get meets. Think again "

Issues....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You see, my wife's a size 18, do you think she'd like it if i told her "i love you alot, certainly more than when you were a 12, but maybe if you went to a 20 I'd love you EVEN more!"?

Is you're wife a fetish "

So even though you commented on this post, you didn't actually read what i had written. This is not a good was to base your.... well whatever it is that you're doing. I'm not going to call it "arguing".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And that was a comment from a woman

There all coming out the woodwork now lol

Thing you don't know is I've met and love Betsy and think she is super hot, awesome, beautiful and this is irrespective of her size -- although her shape is glorious and I would totally bed her! But I also understand Clem's point. And can also see what you're doing.

I do very well thank you. I don't need to brown nose on the forums to get meets. Think again

Issues...."

Amusing thing is he proves your point, Clem. I'm a BBW but he wouldn't touch me because he doesn't like the fact I have opinions and don't agree with him (or whatever it is) -- hence a sweeping fetishisation isn't helpful -- attraction is individual. And yes, to Betsy's OP -- honesty and communication in any adulting and sexual interaction is paramount!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a size 16. So hardly gym body. I've never had a guy be embarrassed to walk down the street with me. If anyone is ashamed to be with me outdoors, then they sure as hell won't be with me behind closed doors.

I think some just have a preference to bigger. Just like some like slimmer. I don't think feeders are overtly common. Some men just like extra love handles.... It doesn't mean they fetishise them ( though a small number do), it is a preference.

If anyone has a problem with how i look, I see it as their problem, not mine and are best avoided. I just focus on those I have a connection with. I'm not a fan of labelling. The person is what matters to me.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"And that was a comment from a woman

There all coming out the woodwork now lol

Thing you don't know is I've met and love Betsy and think she is super hot, awesome, beautiful and this is irrespective of her size -- although her shape is glorious and I would totally bed her! But I also understand Clem's point. And can also see what you're doing.

I do very well thank you. I don't need to brown nose on the forums to get meets. Think again

Issues....

Amusing thing is he proves your point, Clem. I'm a BBW but he wouldn't touch me because he doesn't like the fact I have opinions and don't agree with him (or whatever it is) -- hence a sweeping fetishisation isn't helpful -- attraction is individual. And yes, to Betsy's OP -- honesty and communication in any adulting and sexual interaction is paramount! "

Amusing? I find it troubling. For both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And that was a comment from a woman

There all coming out the woodwork now lol

Thing you don't know is I've met and love Betsy and think she is super hot, awesome, beautiful and this is irrespective of her size -- although her shape is glorious and I would totally bed her! But I also understand Clem's point. And can also see what you're doing.

I do very well thank you. I don't need to brown nose on the forums to get meets. Think again

Issues....

Amusing thing is he proves your point, Clem. I'm a BBW but he wouldn't touch me because he doesn't like the fact I have opinions and don't agree with him (or whatever it is) -- hence a sweeping fetishisation isn't helpful -- attraction is individual. And yes, to Betsy's OP -- honesty and communication in any adulting and sexual interaction is paramount!

Amusing? I find it troubling. For both parties. "

Actually, you're right.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"And that was a comment from a woman

There all coming out the woodwork now lol

Thing you don't know is I've met and love Betsy and think she is super hot, awesome, beautiful and this is irrespective of her size -- although her shape is glorious and I would totally bed her! But I also understand Clem's point. And can also see what you're doing.

I do very well thank you. I don't need to brown nose on the forums to get meets. Think again

Issues....

Amusing thing is he proves your point, Clem. I'm a BBW but he wouldn't touch me because he doesn't like the fact I have opinions and don't agree with him (or whatever it is) -- hence a sweeping fetishisation isn't helpful -- attraction is individual. And yes, to Betsy's OP -- honesty and communication in any adulting and sexual interaction is paramount!

Amusing? I find it troubling. For both parties.

Actually, you're right. "

It's a curse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Amusing? I find it troubling. For both parties.

Actually, you're right.

It's a curse. "

Don't push it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they just want to fuck and you just want to fuck why does it matter if they'd look at you "in real life"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they just want to fuck and you just want to fuck why does it matter if they'd look at you "in real life"? "

Think that's B's ultimate point, just saying be honest and say it -- whichever way they fall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How big are we talking? "

This is the question, along with what is there face and hygiene level like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How big are we talking?

This is the question, along with what is their face and hygiene level like.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How big are we talking?

This is the question, along with what is their face and hygiene level like.

"

You've got an online stutter going on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without reading all the replies.... my current squeeze is fit as fuck and wants a relationship with me. He works out every day and is tall with a rugby player build. He enjoys the curvier woman so yep in answer to the op fit guys do like fat girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my days this thread has so many misunderstood folk having a dig at others !

Anyway , back on topic .

We play with people regardless of size , who we find attractive and who find us equally as attractive . We are decidedly average , carry a bit more weight than we should in a perfect world , but we are easy going , happy and open minded .

I don't think we've ever had a pity fuck with anyone for any reason , least of all because of their size .

"

Can I be your first then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they just want to fuck and you just want to fuck why does it matter if they'd look at you "in real life"?

Think that's B's ultimate point, just saying be honest and say it -- whichever way they fall. "

Yeah and then we can decide if we want to or not x fed up of the players saying BS to get you into bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't slim women fetishised as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?"

Yes. People fetishise people when they are irrationally or excessively devoted to one aspect of that person being the cause of the attraction. So yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they just want to fuck and you just want to fuck why does it matter if they'd look at you "in real life"? "

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?"

Yes, but they don't have a TLA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?

Yes. People fetishise people when they are irrationally or excessively devoted to one aspect of that person being the cause of the attraction. So yes. "

Or we fetishise ourselves if we promote ourselves as only being one thing (our size in this case) as the object of our attraction -- or what I might do, be so worried about my size that I make it the thing to check out a prospective partner is okay with that I end up making myself out to be nothing but my size and potentially then attract someone who is not interested in the whole of me (pun intended!)

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Oh my days this thread has so many misunderstood folk having a dig at others !

Anyway , back on topic .

We play with people regardless of size , who we find attractive and who find us equally as attractive . We are decidedly average , carry a bit more weight than we should in a perfect world , but we are easy going , happy and open minded .

I don't think we've ever had a pity fuck with anyone for any reason , least of all because of their size .

Can I be your first then? "

How on earth would you be a pity fuck ?

Always loved your outlook , personality and those boobs .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?

Yes, but they don't have a TLA."

What's a TLA?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my days this thread has so many misunderstood folk having a dig at others !

Anyway , back on topic .

We play with people regardless of size , who we find attractive and who find us equally as attractive . We are decidedly average , carry a bit more weight than we should in a perfect world , but we are easy going , happy and open minded .

I don't think we've ever had a pity fuck with anyone for any reason , least of all because of their size .

Can I be your first then?

How on earth would you be a pity fuck ?

Always loved your outlook , personality and those boobs ..... "

You've just made my Saturday, ok, Norwich not losing to Fulham made my day but you are a close second

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?

Yes, but they don't have a TLA.

What's a TLA?"

Three letter acronym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?

Yes, but they don't have a TLA.

What's a TLA?

Three letter acronym."

And how many fat women actually like that acronym?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?

Yes, but they don't have a TLA.

What's a TLA?

Three letter acronym."

FIT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?

Yes, but they don't have a TLA.

What's a TLA?

Three letter acronym.

FIT"

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?

Yes, but they don't have a TLA.

What's a TLA?

Three letter acronym.

And how many fat women actually like that acronym?"

Not sure. Just did a name search, all i can say is 'many'.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?

Yes, but they don't have a TLA.

What's a TLA?

Three letter acronym.

FIT"

BOOM! Take a bow!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Fab Truths #206

Any conversation about size turns into a bun fight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Truths #206

Any conversation about size turns into a bun fight "

Funnily enough I'm currently eating an iced bun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Truths #206

Any conversation about size turns into a bun fight "

Yep, but us fat women love buns so they soon get eaten

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Fab Truths #206

Any conversation about size turns into a bun fight

Funnily enough I'm currently eating an iced bun "

Mmmm buns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Truths #206

Any conversation about size turns into a bun fight

Funnily enough I'm currently eating an iced bun

Mmmm buns "

Your buns are lush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Truths #206

Any conversation about size turns into a bun fight "

It does!

If they're cream buns I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab Truths #206

Any conversation about size turns into a bun fight

It does!

If they're cream buns I'm in "

Grrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren't slim women fetishised as well?

Yes, but they don't have a TLA.

What's a TLA?

Three letter acronym.

FIT

BOOM! Take a bow! "

Ok but don't stand behind me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they just want to fuck and you just want to fuck why does it matter if they'd look at you "in real life"? "

Because some of us are not ok with being a "behind closed doors only" shag ... id be fuming if i found out someone would be ashamed to admit they had sex with me and thats pretty much what not lookkng at you in real life equates to

I dont think its a pity fuck though as much as an opportunistic fuck ... they are not fucking you be ause they pity you ... they are fucking you because it gets them something they want... wether thats sex in that moment or a party invite or whatever

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Fab Truths #206

Any conversation about size turns into a bun fight

It does!

If they're cream buns I'm in "

I was trying to avoid this thread but someone mentioned buns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NN (an ex forumite) had a fantastic thought about this. She said something along the lines of.. if they are ashamed about fucking you, they are the one with the problem as they are fucking a minger- always remember you're the one fucking the hottie so enjoy it.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"If they just want to fuck and you just want to fuck why does it matter if they'd look at you "in real life"?

Because some of us are not ok with being a "behind closed doors only" shag ... id be fuming if i found out someone would be ashamed to admit they had sex with me and thats pretty much what not lookkng at you in real life equates to

I dont think its a pity fuck though as much as an opportunistic fuck ... they are not fucking you be ause they pity you ... they are fucking you because it gets them something they want... wether thats sex in that moment or a party invite or whatever "

The thing is most of us don't fall for the "smooth talk" in the first place, but different people meet for different reasons and that's cool too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Because some of us are not ok with being a "behind closed doors only" shag ... id be fuming if i found out someone would be ashamed to admit they had sex with me"

Could never imagine anyone ever thinking that of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How big are we talking?

This is the question, along with what is their face and hygiene level like.

You've got an online stutter going on!! "

Grammar mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NN (an ex forumite) had a fantastic thought about this. She said something along the lines of.. if they are ashamed about fucking you, they are the one with the problem as they are fucking a minger- always remember you're the one fucking the hottie so enjoy it. "

I think like that every time I have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How big are we talking?

This is the question, along with what is their face and hygiene level like.

You've got an online stutter going on!!

Grammar mistake "

BadGrammar, it reminds me of someone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Because some of us are not ok with being a "behind closed doors only" shag ... id be fuming if i found out someone would be ashamed to admit they had sex with me

Could never imagine anyone ever thinking that of you "

I can assure you i have had messages from people on here that have ignored messages from me on other vanilla sites ... maybe they think i have bobwfocw ... but more likely they just dont fancy me but when it comes to fab and just sex an easy lay is an easy lay in their eyes .. and lets face it that type of guy thinks all women on here are easy

I also never get chatted up when out but get plenty messages on here ... i dnt kid myself on in the slightest that the level of attention i get on here as a woman equates to anything like "the real world" as everyone likes to call it

However i wont go near any guys on here that i have seen put down bigger girls in statuses or forum posts as i know i wold not be " good enough" for them in a public scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Because some of us are not ok with being a "behind closed doors only" shag ... id be fuming if i found out someone would be ashamed to admit they had sex with me

Could never imagine anyone ever thinking that of you

I can assure you i have had messages from people on here that have ignored messages from me on other vanilla sites ... maybe they think i have bobwfocw ... but more likely they just dont fancy me but when it comes to fab and just sex an easy lay is an easy lay in their eyes .. and lets face it that type of guy thinks all women on here are easy

I also never get chatted up when out but get plenty messages on here ... i dnt kid myself on in the slightest that the level of attention i get on here as a woman equates to anything like "the real world" as everyone likes to call it

However i wont go near any guys on here that i have seen put down bigger girls in statuses or forum posts as i know i wold not be " good enough" for them in a public scenario "

I don't get it myself. Looking at your pics I would not be ashamed to admit I'd slept with you, neither would I shy away from being in public with you, you look awesome

And this isn't some shameless ploy to get in your knicks, we live 300 miles apart and are highly unlikely to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't get it myself. Looking at your pics I would not be ashamed to admit I'd slept with you, neither would I shy away from being in public with you, you look awesome

And this isn't some shameless ploy to get in your knicks, we live 300 miles apart and are highly unlikely to meet "

Must just be my face thats failing me then

No in all seriousness you can only see some well posed photos where i carefully cover or crop the bits i dont like ... im a size 16-18 but just happen to have kinda slimmer long legs that i can draw attention to rather than my chubby bits

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"

Because some of us are not ok with being a "behind closed doors only" shag ... id be fuming if i found out someone would be ashamed to admit they had sex with me

Could never imagine anyone ever thinking that of you

I can assure you i have had messages from people on here that have ignored messages from me on other vanilla sites ... maybe they think i have bobwfocw ... but more likely they just dont fancy me but when it comes to fab and just sex an easy lay is an easy lay in their eyes .. and lets face it that type of guy thinks all women on here are easy

I also never get chatted up when out but get plenty messages on here ... i dnt kid myself on in the slightest that the level of attention i get on here as a woman equates to anything like "the real world" as everyone likes to call it

However i wont go near any guys on here that i have seen put down bigger girls in statuses or forum posts as i know i wold not be " good enough" for them in a public scenario "

a lot of guys don't want a 'slag' in general. hence the amount of cheaters on here using women for sex. they want the good sex, they just don't want to date the women who give it to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't get it myself. Looking at your pics I would not be ashamed to admit I'd slept with you, neither would I shy away from being in public with you, you look awesome

And this isn't some shameless ploy to get in your knicks, we live 300 miles apart and are highly unlikely to meet

Must just be my face thats failing me then

No in all seriousness you can only see some well posed photos where i carefully cover or crop the bits i dont like ... im a size 16-18 but just happen to have kinda slimmer long legs that i can draw attention to rather than my chubby bits "

Send me a pic and I'll let you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't get it myself. Looking at your pics I would not be ashamed to admit I'd slept with you, neither would I shy away from being in public with you, you look awesome

And this isn't some shameless ploy to get in your knicks, we live 300 miles apart and are highly unlikely to meet

Must just be my face thats failing me then

No in all seriousness you can only see some well posed photos where i carefully cover or crop the bits i dont like ... im a size 16-18 but just happen to have kinda slimmer long legs that i can draw attention to rather than my chubby bits

Send me a pic and I'll let you know "

Ps nice bum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Because some of us are not ok with being a "behind closed doors only" shag ... id be fuming if i found out someone would be ashamed to admit they had sex with me

Could never imagine anyone ever thinking that of you

I can assure you i have had messages from people on here that have ignored messages from me on other vanilla sites ... maybe they think i have bobwfocw ... but more likely they just dont fancy me but when it comes to fab and just sex an easy lay is an easy lay in their eyes .. and lets face it that type of guy thinks all women on here are easy

I also never get chatted up when out but get plenty messages on here ... i dnt kid myself on in the slightest that the level of attention i get on here as a woman equates to anything like "the real world" as everyone likes to call it

However i wont go near any guys on here that i have seen put down bigger girls in statuses or forum posts as i know i wold not be " good enough" for them in a public scenario

a lot of guys don't want a 'slag' in general. hence the amount of cheaters on here using women for sex. they want the good sex, they just don't want to date the women who give it to them."

So true ... i wont go near anyone who makes comments that suggests thats the way they think of women on here either

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"

Because some of us are not ok with being a "behind closed doors only" shag ... id be fuming if i found out someone would be ashamed to admit they had sex with me

Could never imagine anyone ever thinking that of you

I can assure you i have had messages from people on here that have ignored messages from me on other vanilla sites ... maybe they think i have bobwfocw ... but more likely they just dont fancy me but when it comes to fab and just sex an easy lay is an easy lay in their eyes .. and lets face it that type of guy thinks all women on here are easy

I also never get chatted up when out but get plenty messages on here ... i dnt kid myself on in the slightest that the level of attention i get on here as a woman equates to anything like "the real world" as everyone likes to call it

However i wont go near any guys on here that i have seen put down bigger girls in statuses or forum posts as i know i wold not be " good enough" for them in a public scenario

a lot of guys don't want a 'slag' in general. hence the amount of cheaters on here using women for sex. they want the good sex, they just don't want to date the women who give it to them.

So true ... i wont go near anyone who makes comments that suggests thats the way they think of women on here either "

don't blame you.

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"Fab Truths #206

Any conversation about size turns into a bun fight

Funnily enough I'm currently eating an iced bun

Mmmm buns

Your buns are lush. "

Thanks I've been using the buns of steel DVD I got for xmas

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