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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or do you believe that men and women perceive sex differently?

I find that fundamentally the majority of men want to consistently have multiple sexual partners even when they have a partner at home whilst the majority of women fundamentally prefer one, but yet we live in a society where both men and womens natures exist so I find it interesting as to why is it looked down apon in todays society to have multiple partners whilst your with someone.

Whats your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are you getting those opinions from out of interest? I'm definitely in the male catagory there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally opposite to us too. He's not that interested in others partners. When we meet other fems she has to have something special for him to join in.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Is it just me or do you believe that men and women perceive sex differently?

I find that fundamentally the majority of men want to consistently have multiple sexual partners even when they have a partner at home whilst the majority of women fundamentally prefer one, but yet we live in a society where both men and womens natures exist so I find it interesting as to why is it looked down apon in todays society to have multiple partners whilst your with someone.

Whats your thoughts?"

How many partners do you have at the moment?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I think there are differences in this between men and women.

However there's a much bigger difference between some men and other men! And some women and other women.

Men and women can have a lot more in common with each other than every person of their sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

From every honest person around me that are honest with themselves and through past experiences. I know girls are obviously capable of having and curious about multiple partners however on a foundation level would you say your essance is to want multiple partners

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

How many have you got OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Where are you getting those opinions from out of interest? I'm definitely in the male catagory there!!"

sorry that last message was for you I pressed the wrong reply option lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally opposite to us too. He's not that interested in others partners. When we meet other fems she has to have something special for him to join in."

I see. Your a lucky girl

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Is it just me or do you believe that men and women perceive sex differently?

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Yes


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I find that fundamentally the majority of men want to consistently have multiple sexual partners even when they have a partner at home

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Yes this has been shown for the majority of men to be true


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whilst the majority of women fundamentally prefer one, but yet we live in a society where both men and womens natures exist so I find it interesting as to why is it looked down apon in todays society to have multiple partners whilst your with someone.

Whats your thoughts?"

No that's not true, there is no statitsically significant difference between men and women who are naturally predisposed towards non-mongamy. It's ~70% in both cases. It is true that women has less drive for the frequency of sex, on average, but that is nothing to do with the number of partners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" How many have you got OP?"

single at the moment mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everybody is different its as simple as that

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" How many have you got OP?

single at the moment mate"

Right o...

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"everybody is different its as simple as that"

Yay ....exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you believe that men and women perceive sex differently?

Yes

I find that fundamentally the majority of men want to consistently have multiple sexual partners even when they have a partner at home

Yes this has been shown for the majority of men to be true

whilst the majority of women fundamentally prefer one, but yet we live in a society where both men and womens natures exist so I find it interesting as to why is it looked down apon in todays society to have multiple partners whilst your with someone.

Whats your thoughts?

No that's not true, there is no statitsically significant difference between men and women who are naturally predisposed towards non-mongamy. It's ~70% in both cases. It is true that women has less drive for the frequency of sex, on average, but that is nothing to do with the number of partners. "

interesting point of view but lets say hypothetically you had a choice between 70 different guys or one guy that can fuck you like those 70 different guys and is able to adjust his size and shape so thats not a issue. Which would you choose

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Is it just me or do you believe that men and women perceive sex differently?

Yes

I find that fundamentally the majority of men want to consistently have multiple sexual partners even when they have a partner at home

Yes this has been shown for the majority of men to be true

whilst the majority of women fundamentally prefer one, but yet we live in a society where both men and womens natures exist so I find it interesting as to why is it looked down apon in todays society to have multiple partners whilst your with someone.

Whats your thoughts?

No that's not true, there is no statitsically significant difference between men and women who are naturally predisposed towards non-mongamy. It's ~70% in both cases. It is true that women has less drive for the frequency of sex, on average, but that is nothing to do with the number of partners.

interesting point of view but lets say hypothetically you had a choice between 70 different guys or one guy that can fuck you like those 70 different guys and is able to adjust his size and shape so thats not a issue. Which would you choose"

Rather odd question, the appeal of variety is not just the penis or the fucking. It's not really a point of view either, it's scientific consenus that most people are not naturally predisposed towards monogamy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men and womens attitudes towards sex are very different, but I also know a lot of men that really are quite content with one woman.

But if you take the gay cruising, or dogging areas these are far more populated than the heterosexual dogging areas, have you ever heard of a lesbian dogging area? If such thing exsisted it would soon be overrun with men.

But I think the main difference is lots of women are quite happy to cheat, to have multiple sex partners and experiment sexually but they don't feel the need to boast, brag or ensure it becomes public knowledge and take fewer risks in publics, whereas a man gets his dick wet and whole the world needs to know, therefore men are more often seen as being more sexually liberated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you believe that men and women perceive sex differently?

I find that fundamentally the majority of men want to consistently have multiple sexual partners even when they have a partner at home whilst the majority of women fundamentally prefer one, but yet we live in a society where both men and womens natures exist so I find it interesting as to why is it looked down apon in todays society to have multiple partners whilst your with someone.

Whats your thoughts?"

Multiple sex partners are looked down on by society because of the perception of dishonesty, insecurity, it's perceived conflict with stable family life and jealousy.

The generalisation that women only want monogamy is in the same place as women all want to be virgins on their wedding night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact is that every single person in the world perceived every aspect of life differently not just sex.

Isn't that what makes us human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you believe that men and women perceive sex differently?

I find that fundamentally the majority of men want to consistently have multiple sexual partners even when they have a partner at home whilst the majority of women fundamentally prefer one, but yet we live in a society where both men and womens natures exist so I find it interesting as to why is it looked down apon in todays society to have multiple partners whilst your with someone.

Whats your thoughts?"

I don't think monogamy is healthy as a general rule (obviously for some that's what they'll want and so be it)...

As a self proclaimed high sex drive woman I'm turned on by variety... As a bisexual woman I'm turned on by men and women and mostly by those who have healthy libido's and those who express their sexuality.

I'd like to be with someone I'm in love with who's needs I'll respect as long as I'm aware of them... ie if my partner "needs" sexual variety, I'd be ok with that as long as I knew about it, it'd even turn me on and I'd like to be included... These days tho I have less of a need to fuck about, so I'd like a period of just being with someone I love and who loves me as much, with a whole lot of personal freedom and mutual support thrown into the mix. I only get jealous if someone's trying to manipulate my emotions, otherwise I'm dandy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No that's not true, there is no statitsically significant difference between men and women who are naturally predisposed towards non-mongamy. It's ~70% in both cases. It is true that women has less drive for the frequency of sex, on average, but that is nothing to do with the number of partners.

interesting point of view but lets say hypothetically you had a choice between 70 different guys or one guy that can fuck you like those 70 different guys and is able to adjust his size and shape so thats not a issue. Which would you choose"

I'd choose having sex with one guy I'm in love/lust with because the sex is off the chain awesome and I'll never experience that again quite the same with anyone else lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is too much of a generalisation OP. Not all men are looking to meet multiple women and not all women are looking for monogamy. It's a little more complicated than that. It really is down to individuals, rather than a battle of the sexes. There are so many variables involved. It's not as cut and dried as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a bit of a generally swiping opinion, no? Each person is different and the roles you describe can be flipped quite easily.

Nah, I don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" How many have you got OP?

single at the moment mate

Right o... "

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

What is with all the people saying everyone is different, what a meaningless statement in this context. The OP is simply saying there are men and women who are either monogamous or not. Those are four categories right there. If we widen then for trans people and asexual people we'd have nine but either way, all ~7bn people in the world can fit into those catgeories. The OP simply saying which catgeories he thinks are most populated.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Is it just me or do you believe that men and women perceive sex differently?

I find that fundamentally the majority of men want to consistently have multiple sexual partners even when they have a partner at home whilst the majority of women fundamentally prefer one, but yet we live in a society where both men and womens natures exist so I find it interesting as to why is it looked down apon in todays society to have multiple partners whilst your with someone.

Whats your thoughts?"

statistically your wrong about men being more promiscuous than women and statistically woman cheat more than men .

have you ever heard this says divide by 3 the number of sexual partners a man claims to have had and times by 2 the number sexual partners a woman claims to have had and then you will be approaching the correct number .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is with all the people saying everyone is different, what a meaningless statement in this context. The OP is simply saying there are men and women who are either monogamous or not. Those are four categories right there. If we widen then for trans people and asexual people we'd have nine but either way, all ~7bn people in the world can fit into those catgeories. The OP simply saying which catgeories he thinks are most populated. "

That's your paraphrasing of what he said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you believe that men and women perceive sex differently?

I find that fundamentally the majority of men want to consistently have multiple sexual partners even when they have a partner at home whilst the majority of women fundamentally prefer one, but yet we live in a society where both men and womens natures exist so I find it interesting as to why is it looked down apon in todays society to have multiple partners whilst your with someone.

Whats your thoughts?

statistically your wrong about men being more promiscuous than women and statistically woman cheat more than men .

have you ever heard this says divide by 3 the number of sexual partners a man claims to have had and times by 2 the number sexual partners a woman claims to have had and then you will be approaching the correct number . "

Who cheats more is a different question than OP posed.

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