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By *Johm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near Bilingshurst

Just wonder! Why for lots of couples it is so essential to bring out that they are that called PROFESSIONALS! What is that, do they seeking for same peer couples, or they just put themselves higher? Clearly it didn't make them more intelligent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wonder! Why for lots of couples it is so essential to bring out that they are that called PROFESSIONALS! What is that, do they seeking for same peer couples, or they just put themselves higher? Clearly it didn't make them more intelligent! "

There have been previous threads devoted to the definition and the why of folk using the term on here. It's just another thing up there with being "genuine" and "no time wasters"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its just a word that people use to describe themselves. For some reason it makes a lot of people very angry. It doesn't mean they think they're better or more intelligent than anyone else.

If somebody describes themself in a way you don't like it simply means you're not compatible.

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By *Johm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near Bilingshurst


"Its just a word that people use to describe themselves. For some reason it makes a lot of people very angry. It doesn't mean they think they're better or more intelligent than anyone else.

If somebody describes themself in a way you don't like it simply means you're not compatible."

That's a bit passive aggressive! How it makes us incompatible? Incompatible to what! I have simply explanation to that, but it might be a bit rude, so I just keep to myself. And ask what everyone else is thinking, that's is called conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just a word that people use to describe themselves. For some reason it makes a lot of people very angry. It doesn't mean they think they're better or more intelligent than anyone else.

If somebody describes themself in a way you don't like it simply means you're not compatible.

That's a bit passive aggressive! How it makes us incompatible? Incompatible to what! I have simply explanation to that, but it might be a bit rude, so I just keep to myself. And ask what everyone else is thinking, that's is called conversation. "

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its just a word that people use to describe themselves. For some reason it makes a lot of people very angry. It doesn't mean they think they're better or more intelligent than anyone else.

If somebody describes themself in a way you don't like it simply means you're not compatible.

That's a bit passive aggressive! How it makes us incompatible? Incompatible to what! I have simply explanation to that, but it might be a bit rude, so I just keep to myself. And ask what everyone else is thinking, that's is called conversation. "

You are very incompatible with them. Don't be mad. You will find someone that likes you for what you are.

What is the explanation?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Its just a word that people use to describe themselves. For some reason it makes a lot of people very angry. It doesn't mean they think they're better or more intelligent than anyone else.

If somebody describes themself in a way you don't like it simply means you're not compatible.

That's a bit passive aggressive! How it makes us incompatible? Incompatible to what! I have simply explanation to that, but it might be a bit rude, so I just keep to myself. And ask what everyone else is thinking, that's is called conversation. "

It isn't passive aggressive. I was just pointing out that if someone uses a word to describe themselves that you find offensive it means you're not compatible i.e. suitable for each other.

I was joining in the conversation by putting my point of view forward.

I'm aware that English isn't your first language so maybe you misunderstood my intention.

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By *Johm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near Bilingshurst


"Its just a word that people use to describe themselves. For some reason it makes a lot of people very angry. It doesn't mean they think they're better or more intelligent than anyone else.

If somebody describes themself in a way you don't like it simply means you're not compatible.

That's a bit passive aggressive! How it makes us incompatible? Incompatible to what! I have simply explanation to that, but it might be a bit rude, so I just keep to myself. And ask what everyone else is thinking, that's is called conversation.

It isn't passive aggressive. I was just pointing out that if someone uses a word to describe themselves that you find offensive it means you're not compatible i.e. suitable for each other.

I was joining in the conversation by putting my point of view forward.

I'm aware that English isn't your first language so maybe you misunderstood my intention. "

Well if someone are saying that I am incompatible, and point out foreign origin. To me it is a bit offensive! But that is how we choose to express.

Yes indeed, English is our third language. Maybe that's why I chose really carefully what we say, and that why I am so curious why there is such an urge to state they're professionals and what relation it takes to sex!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Its just a word that people use to describe themselves. For some reason it makes a lot of people very angry. It doesn't mean they think they're better or more intelligent than anyone else.

If somebody describes themself in a way you don't like it simply means you're not compatible.

That's a bit passive aggressive! How it makes us incompatible? Incompatible to what! I have simply explanation to that, but it might be a bit rude, so I just keep to myself. And ask what everyone else is thinking, that's is called conversation.

It isn't passive aggressive. I was just pointing out that if someone uses a word to describe themselves that you find offensive it means you're not compatible i.e. suitable for each other.

I was joining in the conversation by putting my point of view forward.

I'm aware that English isn't your first language so maybe you misunderstood my intention.

Well if someone are saying that I am incompatible, and point out foreign origin. To me it is a bit offensive! But that is how we choose to express.

Yes indeed, English is our third language. Maybe that's why I chose really carefully what we say, and that why I am so curious why there is such an urge to state they're professionals and what relation it takes to sex!"

Nobody is saying that you're incompatible because you're foreign.

Saying you're professional has no bearing on sex. Some guys say they're lorry drivers on their profile, some that they're in the army. Its just how they choose to describe themselves and give a little more information.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an amateur

No point getting chewed up about what people put in their profiles.

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By *Johm OP   Couple
over a year ago

near Bilingshurst


"I'm an amateur

No point getting chewed up about what people put in their profiles."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm awesome. Works for me.

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