FabSwingers.com forum: Sensitive.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right try to be a bit delicate here.but.........

When u look at a profile as you do..browse through the veris sometimes I get suprised by the two people that have fucked. I'm sure as hell one wouldn't look at the other twice if they met in a bar.

Mainly it is guys see them ripped to shit and then look at the woman they fucked. Would never happen the conventional way.

Gobsmacks me .

Women certainly get the pick of the dick in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a buyers market?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opposites attract?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

...says the man who joined two weeks ago, has no avatar and no veris.

Sour grapes??

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Glad to see that those years spent on the how to be delicate course paid off.

Bravo. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people like the intimacy of sex and aren't solely interested in a shallow appreciation of the worlds expected female look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it never happen in a conventional way? Are you saying ripped guys would only be attracted to the female equivalent?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Nobody is forcing the guy in your scenario so they must be happy with the situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You all no what I'm saying ,beauty and the beast is just a Disney film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things must be bad when even the munters won't shag ya, eh OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...says the man who joined two weeks ago, has no avatar and no veris.

Sour grapes??"

exactly the green goddess of jealousy me thinks lurks behind the op

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"Glad to see that those years spent on the how to be delicate course paid off.

Bravo. xx"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically if you see a lady that YOU think is punching above their weight that is wrong?

What is your solution?

And what if an average bloke pulls a stunner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what your saying is that it's all about looks?

What if that person you class as not good enough for them was there type?

What if they had things in common.Or they both really got on and had a amazing together?what if they laugh together and share the same interests?

Your judgement on others and there good times could be viewed by others as very jelous and narrow minded.

Don't hate smiles create them x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Right try to be a bit delicate here.but.........

When u look at a profile as you do..browse through the veris sometimes I get suprised by the two people that have fucked. I'm sure as hell one wouldn't look at the other twice if they met in a bar.

Mainly it is guys see them ripped to shit and then look at the woman they fucked. Would never happen the conventional way.

Gobsmacks me .

Women certainly get the pick of the dick in here."

We do the go for a night out and my wife pulls in the bar , as well as meeting up on here .

The quality of guys she pulls in a bar is invariably equally as good as those she meets on here , in some cases they're more physically attractive .

So your theory is flawed .

Not withstanding that our case may be different , guys will meet women they feel a connection with . They will get to try different things with different women . And a heck of a lot buff guys like the curvy women .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So basically if you see a lady that YOU think is punching above their weight that is wrong?

What is your solution?

And what if an average bloke pulls a stunner?"

Lucky bastard of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So basically if you see a lady that YOU think is punching above their weight that is wrong?

What is your solution?

And what if an average bloke pulls a stunner?

Lucky bastard of course

Oh and the OP definitely wants to be a lucky bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...says the man who joined two weeks ago, has no avatar and no veris.

Sour grapes??"

nail head coffin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it works both ways.. I'm a monger and all my meets are stunners.. can't believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it works both ways.. I'm a monger and all my meets are stunners.. can't believe it

I meant minger.. but monger is good.. Mingemonger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like the intimacy of sex and aren't solely interested in a shallow appreciation of the worlds expected female look. "

Very well put... are you sure you write that x x

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By *ooncat123Woman
over a year ago

Sutton

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag. "

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you mean. But, most of the guys on here stick their dick in anything, in the real world or not, ripped or not.

But when youre talking about the general public, the ripped guy, who is nice, normal, doesnt sleep around.. rare to see them sitting with someone overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag. "

Or maybe these guys found that person (or something about them) attractive but you didn't?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right try to be a bit delicate here.but.........

When u look at a profile as you do..browse through the veris sometimes I get suprised by the two people that have fucked. I'm sure as hell one wouldn't look at the other twice if they met in a bar.

Mainly it is guys see them ripped to shit and then look at the woman they fucked. Would never happen the conventional way.

Gobsmacks me .

Women certainly get the pick of the dick in here."

Lol dont forget theres like 9 men to every 1 woman so courssme she gonna get a good selection. Shes just going to find her bertie bassett!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just concentrate on making a connection with others to shag. Bashing women for what you perceive as punching above their weight is not going to do you any favours. I don't see any men I meet as above me or below me. We are on equal footing.... Or perhaps it's just my meet conditions are not based purely on superficiality. There's more to a potential meet than just looks for me.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag. "

Is this, still you being sensitive and delicate?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Right try to be a bit delicate here.but.........

When u look at a profile as you do..browse through the veris sometimes I get suprised by the two people that have fucked. I'm sure as hell one wouldn't look at the other twice if they met in a bar.

Mainly it is guys see them ripped to shit and then look at the woman they fucked. Would never happen the conventional way.

Gobsmacks me .

Women certainly get the pick of the dick in here."

What a charmer you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag. "

What a charming gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There goes his meets down the swanny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag. "

Reminds me of that (old!!) joke - what have a fat bird and a moped got in common? They're both good for a ride until your mates find out!

But seriously - why bother yourself with what other people are up to? If any of the ladies are not to your taste simply skip past them and focus on those (10's I presume!?

) that you are interested in! It shouldn't matter who ladies you aren't interested in meet should it?

And don't forget what you consider to be a 10 someone else might consider a 2 (and vice versa). And for some it's not *all* about looks. It's about a connection as well!

Good luck on the site, I hope you find all you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Meets or no meets you all kinda agree with me. Just I forgot to put it delicate and sugar coat it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are more attracted to the rounder more curvier woman so who are you to say they are lowering their standards perhaps that's their sexual preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do believe some get upset when all the best gummy bears have been eaten

bit like a chippy get in early and its a nice treat

wait until closing time and its scraps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men are more attracted to the rounder more curvier woman so who are you to say they are lowering their standards perhaps that's their sexual preference "

well put xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a man utd fan. Sour and bitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meets or no meets you all kinda agree with me. Just I forgot to put it delicate and sugar coat it."

I don't agree with you at all. We all find different people attractive, you didn't find these women attractive but maybe they did. Many men on here have standards and I like and respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like a man utd fan. Sour and bitter

thats quite funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like a man utd fan. Sour and bitter

thats quite funny

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"it works both ways.. I'm a monger and all my meets are stunners.. can't believe it

Agreeing with your comment not that you're monger/minger

In their defence alcohol might of been involved, Beer goggles and all that

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By *hampagnebubbliesCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag. "

How do you rate women? And if you are a regular guy, what score do you give yourself. If you're say a 7, would you lower your "standards" and fuck a 5?

Good luck Op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, any mingers fancy lowering their standards a little bit please?

It's the weekend and I could do with a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right try to be a bit delicate here.but.........

When u look at a profile as you do..browse through the veris sometimes I get suprised by the two people that have fucked. I'm sure as hell one wouldn't look at the other twice if they met in a bar.

Mainly it is guys see them ripped to shit and then look at the woman they fucked. Would never happen the conventional way.

Gobsmacks me .

Women certainly get the pick of the dick in here."

Works both ways, I,'ve fucked some ugly, hairy overweight men, as well as hot, tasty ones. It's all about personality and sexual prowess, not looks. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people choose to lower their standards that is their prerogative.

Some of the most beautiful, richest, people in the world are single. Some of the ugliest people in the world attract fanny/cock like flies to poo.

You're attracted to who you're attracted to. Can't fight chemistry.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Right try to be a bit delicate here.but.........

When u look at a profile as you do..browse through the veris sometimes I get suprised by the two people that have fucked. I'm sure as hell one wouldn't look at the other twice if they met in a bar.

Mainly it is guys see them ripped to shit and then look at the woman they fucked. Would never happen the conventional way.

Gobsmacks me .

Women certainly get the pick of the dick in here."

so why are the ripped to shit guys on here then? Surely it can't be difficult for them to meet women outside of fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hell no I love a rounder curvier woman as u put it.

There was a woman on here the other day moaning she gets used for sex and her meets never contact her again. Well prime example of her meeting men out her league they fuck her cus as discussed most us men will stick a length anywhere, then never bother again.classic case of the woman punching, due what I said above

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag. "

Keep going OP - I am sure there's room in your mouth for at least one more foot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell no I love a rounder curvier woman as u put it.

If you press reply+quote, you can add your comment to the person it was aimed at OP.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Hell no I love a rounder curvier woman as u put it.

Put the shovel down and back away........ slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like a man utd fan. Sour and bitter

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you so bothered about what others are doing on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what the op is complaining about is if the ripped guys are having to stoop to a women as low as a 2 then normal guys (I'm assuming the op classes himself as such) stand no chance. With anyone. I can see why he would be frustrated at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right try to be a bit delicate here.but.........

When u look at a profile as you do..browse through the veris sometimes I get suprised by the two people that have fucked. I'm sure as hell one wouldn't look at the other twice if they met in a bar.

Mainly it is guys see them ripped to shit and then look at the woman they fucked. Would never happen the conventional way.

Gobsmacks me .

Women certainly get the pick of the dick in here."

And there goes another single male spoiling our already tattered reputation. So much for being delicate

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

You can tell it's the school holidays

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag. "

you have quite a low opinion of men and women though

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think what the op is complaining about is if the ripped guys are having to stoop to a women as low as a 2 then normal guys (I'm assuming the op classes himself as such) stand no chance. With anyone. I can see why he would be frustrated at that. "

But are they stooping low? They may have actually found something about them attractive.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Meets or no meets you all kinda agree with me. Just I forgot to put it delicate and sugar coat it."

Maybe the persons personality win someover......people maybe look for different things to a certain extent than maybe they would in a relationship.....just think that the way you worded the post, put a lot of peoples backs up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think you've hit the nail on the head there...must be very disillusioning to have his high hopes on here dashed so quickly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But are they stooping low? They may have actually found something about them attractive."

i assumed that comment was sarcasm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Keep going OP - I am sure there's room in your mouth for at least one more foot

With all those feet in his mouth, he wont be able to suck all the pussy he's going to be offered after this thread. Whatever shall he do then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights. "

They know......

This ain't about getting someone's back up its just a fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights. "

Surely it's not a case of lowering standards for a shag. Surely if that's what they wish to shag then that IS their standard? Isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Keep going OP - I am sure there's room in your mouth for at least one more foot

With all those feet in his mouth, he wont be able to suck all the pussy he's going to be offered after this thread. Whatever shall he do then?"

Turn fab straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But are they stooping low? They may have actually found something about them attractive.

i assumed that comment was sarcasm!"

Lots of assumptions flying around here hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things must be bad when even the munters won't shag ya, eh OP

Ha ha

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By *hampagnebubbliesCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

And the women who have no desire to sleep with a 'ripped' guy is left with the cannon fodder?

I personally think the 'normal' look is much better and as for marking out of 10 alot of them points would have to go on their personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" And a heck of a lot buff guys like the curvy women . "

Yeah thank God they do!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

Surely it's not a case of lowering standards for a shag. Surely if that's what they wish to shag then that IS their standard? Isn't it?

If you read ths OP properly he's comparing "conventional" standard with "fab" standard. So no it doesn't follow that just because you fucked someone on fab that you would go after them in a bar or send them a message on match.com

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Any port in a storm?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

They know......

This ain't about getting someone's back up its just a fact."

But it's a great opportunity for guys to pretend there are no objective standards of attractiveness in the hope a female buys their bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I had had such a good day until....

Can I suggest OP that if you are in any way dissatisfied with this site then you make use of the options available to you.

I don't really know where to start there is just so much material here I could probably write a novel, but let's try

1 This is a swingers site we come in a complete range of shapes sizes emotional and intellectual capacities. Just like the real world

2 Do you give scores out to people based on some International Standard or just your own subjective prejudices

3 Do you accept it gracefully that if you score people on a scale they have the right to do likewise with you.

4 Would you normally turn up anywhere and abuse all genders based on your own preconceptions...

Sod this I'm bored now...

If your not happy here and wish to disparage those who you consider do not match your expectations of how they should behave or interact with can I suggest you move next door to...

Instashag dot not very likely dot try a little humanity

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

Surely it's not a case of lowering standards for a shag. Surely if that's what they wish to shag then that IS their standard? Isn't it?

Ah, you're talking about shag standard vs marriage standard. Can you imagine being married to someone who watches what they eat and spends every spare moment at the gym while all you want to do is watch Corrie whilst eating Doritos and cake!? Must be hell for both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well fella at least while all those ripped buff dudes are shagging us mingers at least it leaves the way open for you to swoop in on all the fit birds that are queuing up outside for you... crack on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And the women who have no desire to sleep with a 'ripped' guy is left with the cannon fodder?

I personally think the 'normal' look is much better and as for marking out of 10 alot of them points would have to go on their personality."

Oh so no guy ever had been nice to a woman where the only objective is to bust a nut?? Personality can be adjusted to suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

Surely it's not a case of lowering standards for a shag. Surely if that's what they wish to shag then that IS their standard? Isn't it?

I knew there was a reason you married me. ..except must we watch corrie??

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"And I had had such a good day until....

Can I suggest OP that if you are in any way dissatisfied with this site then you make use of the options available to you.

I don't really know where to start there is just so much material here I could probably write a novel, but let's try

1 This is a swingers site we come in a complete range of shapes sizes emotional and intellectual capacities. Just like the real world

2 Do you give scores out to people based on some International Standard or just your own subjective prejudices

3 Do you accept it gracefully that if you score people on a scale they have the right to do likewise with you.

4 Would you normally turn up anywhere and abuse all genders based on your own preconceptions...

Sod this I'm bored now...

If your not happy here and wish to disparage those who you consider do not match your expectations of how they should behave or interact with can I suggest you move next door to...

Instashag dot not very likely dot try a little humanity "

Do you suppose that if we showed 10,000 men a picture of diane abbott and a picture of scarlett johansson and asked them to rate the attractiveness, then 5,000 would rate diane as more attractive than scarlett?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

Surely it's not a case of lowering standards for a shag. Surely if that's what they wish to shag then that IS their standard? Isn't it?

I knew there was a reason you married me. ..except must we watch corrie??"

No way. Not until one if us is on benefits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow some of you are fragile little souls ain't ya. I ain't kicked ya cats ya know. It's ok to have a opinion without getting them panties twisted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather spend time with a lady who appreciates good conversation and me being a gentleman than a stunner who's up her own arse....

And I'm not suggesting for a second I'm ripped.... before that gets used against me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather spend time with a lady who appreciates good conversation and me being a gentleman than a stunner who's up her own arse....

And I'm not suggesting for a second I'm ripped.... before that gets used against me haha "
amen to that! Kissing. convo. Flirting is all key. Cant stand the essex no offence to anyone. The TV fake type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh well fella at least while all those ripped buff dudes are shagging us mingers at least it leaves the way open for you to swoop in on all the fit birds that are queuing up outside for you... crack on

Hahaha literally laughed my cock off at this...(stuck it back on though!!!)

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By *hampagnebubbliesCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

"And the women who have no desire to sleep with a 'ripped' guy is left with the cannon fodder?

I personally think the 'normal' look is much better and as for marking out of 10 alot of them points would have to go on their personality.

Oh so no guy ever had been nice to a woman where the only objective is to bust a nut?? Personality can be adjusted to suit. "

Believe me we have come across our fair share of cock wombles.

Why the judgement anyway? Why do you care?

Surely as long as you get your 10 or some saucy pics to wank over you will be happy right?

Live and let live.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

A lot of Men and Women will "lower their standards" probably more so at clubs,

Not everyone is looking for their perfect match but they must have some sexual attraction to them or they wouldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And the women who have no desire to sleep with a 'ripped' guy is left with the cannon fodder?

I personally think the 'normal' look is much better and as for marking out of 10 alot of them points would have to go on their personality.

Oh so no guy ever had been nice to a woman where the only objective is to bust a nut?? Personality can be adjusted to suit.

Believe me we have come across our fair share of cock wombles.

Why the judgement anyway? Why do you care?

Surely as long as you get your 10 or some saucy pics to wank over you will be happy right?

Live and let live."

Not really a judgement more a observation, and Ur right pics + wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

Surely it's not a case of lowering standards for a shag. Surely if that's what they wish to shag then that IS their standard? Isn't it?

Yes I get that and see the distinction.

But he later said "Listen this site and any other dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards"

But 'Dating' is different to 'Casual Sex'. So an individuals 'Dating Requirements' may be different to their 'Casual Sex Requirements'. They are meeting their casual sex standards on here.

I don't necessarily want my Fab meets to be girlfriend / wife material. I want her to be someone to have good sex with. The 'standard' may be different - if a guy is prepared to shag someone he wouldn't wish to date he's still operating at his casual sex standard!

Maybe if he said "guys on here are looking for different things that in the conventional world" everyone would be in universal agreement

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

People shouldn't rated others, it all about not just being attractive it about cemetery and how you feel x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yet another unsubtle attempt to blame other people for someone's lack of sexual success. That's my opinion.

The oral of the story is 'beggar thy neighbour that they don't beggar you first'

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

Surely it's not a case of lowering standards for a shag. Surely if that's what they wish to shag then that IS their standard? Isn't it?

Yes I get that and see the distinction.

But he later said "Listen this site and any other dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards"

But 'Dating' is different to 'Casual Sex'. So an individuals 'Dating Requirements' may be different to their 'Casual Sex Requirements'. They are meeting their casual sex standards on here.

Maybe if he said "guys on here are looking for different things that in the conventional world" everyone would be in universal agreement

Ok with all of that, so what are we disagreeing about then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow some of you are fragile little souls ain't ya. I ain't kicked ya cats ya know. It's ok to have a opinion without getting them panties twisted "

People are giving their opinions. Just like you gave yours. Apologies if not everyone agrees with you. If you think this is people getting their panties in a twist, then you haven't been on the forums for long. The reaction to this thread has been tame cimpared to other threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People shouldn't rated others, it all about not just being attractive it about cemetery and how you feel x"

Hoping you mean chemistry...?!

cemetary attraction is a whole other rather niche thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

Surely it's not a case of lowering standards for a shag. Surely if that's what they wish to shag then that IS their standard? Isn't it?

Yes I get that and see the distinction.

But he later said "Listen this site and any other dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards"

But 'Dating' is different to 'Casual Sex'. So an individuals 'Dating Requirements' may be different to their 'Casual Sex Requirements'. They are meeting their casual sex standards on here.

Maybe if he said "guys on here are looking for different things that in the conventional world" everyone would be in universal agreement

Ok with all of that, so what are we disagreeing about then?"

I haven't a clue!!

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

"People shouldn't rated others, it all about not just being attractive it about cemetery and how you feel x

Hoping you mean chemistry...?!

cemetary attraction is a whole other rather niche thing!

Oooo I should read it back before I posted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol seen

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By *hampagnebubbliesCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

"And the women who have no desire to sleep with a 'ripped' guy is left with the cannon fodder?

I personally think the 'normal' look is much better and as for marking out of 10 alot of them points would have to go on their personality.

Oh so no guy ever had been nice to a woman where the only objective is to bust a nut?? Personality can be adjusted to suit.

Believe me we have come across our fair share of cock wombles.

Why the judgement anyway? Why do you care?

Surely as long as you get your 10 or some saucy pics to wank over you will be happy right?

Live and let live.

Not really a judgement more a observation, and Ur right pics + wank "

But you are.

You thought you may be funny, even a little clever with your observations.

Every human being is equal and no better than anyone else.

Some will like you, some won't but scoring people out of 10 when you haven't really spoke to to them is playground behaviour.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People shouldn't rated others, it all about not just being attractive it about cemetery and how you feel x

Hoping you mean chemistry...?!

cemetary attraction is a whole other rather niche thing!

Hahaha holy crap..... brilliant! X

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"And the women who have no desire to sleep with a 'ripped' guy is left with the cannon fodder?

I personally think the 'normal' look is much better and as for marking out of 10 alot of them points would have to go on their personality.

Oh so no guy ever had been nice to a woman where the only objective is to bust a nut?? Personality can be adjusted to suit.

Believe me we have come across our fair share of cock wombles.

Why the judgement anyway? Why do you care?

Surely as long as you get your 10 or some saucy pics to wank over you will be happy right?

Live and let live.

Not really a judgement more a observation, and Ur right pics + wank

But you are.

You thought you may be funny, even a little clever with your observations.

Every human being is equal and no better than anyone else.

Some will like you, some won't but scoring people out of 10 when you haven't really spoke to to them is playground behaviour. "

Well said

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Right try to be a bit delicate here.but.........

When u look at a profile as you do..browse through the veris sometimes I get suprised by the two people that have fucked. I'm sure as hell one wouldn't look at the other twice if they met in a bar.

Mainly it is guys see them ripped to shit and then look at the woman they fucked. Would never happen the conventional way.

Gobsmacks me .

Women certainly get the pick of the dick in here."

Pick of the dick

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"People shouldn't rated others, it all about not just being attractive it about cemetery and how you feel x"

Why shouldn't people rate others?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And the women who have no desire to sleep with a 'ripped' guy is left with the cannon fodder?

I personally think the 'normal' look is much better and as for marking out of 10 alot of them points would have to go on their personality.

Oh so no guy ever had been nice to a woman where the only objective is to bust a nut?? Personality can be adjusted to suit.

Believe me we have come across our fair share of cock wombles.

Why the judgement anyway? Why do you care?

Surely as long as you get your 10 or some saucy pics to wank over you will be happy right?

Live and let live.

Not really a judgement more a observation, and Ur right pics + wank

But you are.

You thought you may be funny, even a little clever with your observations.

Every human being is equal and no better than anyone else.

Some will like you, some won't but scoring people out of 10 when you haven't really spoke to to them is playground behaviour. "

Metaphorical rating. Dnt take it literally

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"And the women who have no desire to sleep with a 'ripped' guy is left with the cannon fodder?

I personally think the 'normal' look is much better and as for marking out of 10 alot of them points would have to go on their personality.

Oh so no guy ever had been nice to a woman where the only objective is to bust a nut?? Personality can be adjusted to suit. "

you're right. You haven't worded it well and you've generalised terribly but some men will say anything to get sex. Whether all men will have sex with a woman they don't actually find attractive I have no idea but most single women on here have (according to what they say in the forum) been on the receiving end of messages telling them they're absolutely stunning only to turn into the ugliest woman alive when they turn a guy down.

I reckon that as long as you're both getting what you want its best not to worry too much about the motives of your temporary partner.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"And the women who have no desire to sleep with a 'ripped' guy is left with the cannon fodder?

I personally think the 'normal' look is much better and as for marking out of 10 alot of them points would have to go on their personality.

Oh so no guy ever had been nice to a woman where the only objective is to bust a nut?? Personality can be adjusted to suit.

Believe me we have come across our fair share of cock wombles.

Why the judgement anyway? Why do you care?

Surely as long as you get your 10 or some saucy pics to wank over you will be happy right?

Live and let live.

Not really a judgement more a observation, and Ur right pics + wank

But you are.

You thought you may be funny, even a little clever with your observations.

Every human being is equal and no better than anyone else.

Some will like you, some won't but scoring people out of 10 when you haven't really spoke to to them is playground behaviour. "

You don't need a conversation to rate physical attractiveness. Nor does being physically attractive make someone a better human being as you imply.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Glad to see that those years spent on the how to be delicate course paid off.

Bravo. xx"

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"And the women who have no desire to sleep with a 'ripped' guy is left with the cannon fodder?

I personally think the 'normal' look is much better and as for marking out of 10 alot of them points would have to go on their personality.

Oh so no guy ever had been nice to a woman where the only objective is to bust a nut?? Personality can be adjusted to suit.

Believe me we have come across our fair share of cock wombles.

Why the judgement anyway? Why do you care?

Surely as long as you get your 10 or some saucy pics to wank over you will be happy right?

Live and let live.

Not really a judgement more a observation, and Ur right pics + wank

But you are.

You thought you may be funny, even a little clever with your observations.

Every human being is equal and no better than anyone else.

Some will like you, some won't but scoring people out of 10 when you haven't really spoke to to them is playground behaviour.

Metaphorical rating. Dnt take it literally

How can you methaphorically rate someone out of 10?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If these ripped men could pull any woman they wanted in a bar or club, why are they on here pulling women you deem to be not worthy of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my good mates is to die for big. Ripped. Blonde hair blue eyes. As soon as he opens his mouth he sounds like joe pasquale. Woman run a mile. Bad personality aswell and pouts too much!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oh, those bastard men who are ripped and fit AND have an engaging personal and humorous character

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Or maybe those guys you think of as such a catch are such self-centred narcissistic arseholes that no decent woman wants a relationship with them and only us few raving nymphos on fabs will lower their standards enough to meet them trying in vain to get a half decent shag....

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

"People shouldn't rated others, it all about not just being attractive it about cemetery and how you feel x

Why shouldn't people rate others? "

Me personally I don't rate others that all x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag. "

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

You may be driven soley by that thing you call a penis and what you visually clap eyes on, but you aren't everyone. There are more views and perceptions than just your own. To some people there is more to engaging with a sexual partner than simply their physical body. Who'd have thought it eh?

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"People shouldn't rated others, it all about not just being attractive it about cemetery and how you feel x

Why shouldn't people rate others?

Me personally I don't rate others that all x"

But what's the harm in other people rating other people? I mean i understand why it's rude to tell someone how you rate them if they didn't ask. But i don't see anything inherently wrong with rating people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Oh, those bastard men who are ripped and fit AND have an engaging personal and humorous character

Where would these men be? I'm asking for a friend obviously.

Of course I know that you're one of them

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

Surely it's not a case of lowering standards for a shag. Surely if that's what they wish to shag then that IS their standard? Isn't it?

Yes I get that and see the distinction.

But he later said "Listen this site and any other dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards"

But 'Dating' is different to 'Casual Sex'. So an individuals 'Dating Requirements' may be different to their 'Casual Sex Requirements'. They are meeting their casual sex standards on here.

Maybe if he said "guys on here are looking for different things that in the conventional world" everyone would be in universal agreement

And women are too. Fabswingers is hardly bulging with marriage material lol!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll. "

Are you suggesting there is no correlation between people that would be rated a 2 and people that would be rated a 9 by a statisically representative sample? I do agree that at the individual level it could fluctuate as you describe.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. "

And the opposite - you start chatting to someone only to realise they are a revolting person and you cannot being yourself to stoop so low.....just playing devils advocate here.

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll. "

Calm down princess.

I agree I have been attracted to someone after chatting that I wasn't to start with.

But this ain't about that. We don't spend days weeks getting to know one someone on here . Some ask women is he hot? Big dick? Tick.

Men ask one question will she fuck me?tick .looks and personality dnt come into it..

Of course real world u are correct.

My point is some of these people wouldn't bump into eachother in real life . So why lower urself to do it here

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Hugs to all the people deluding themselves that men won't lower their standards to get laid. Bless you white knights.

Surely it's not a case of lowering standards for a shag. Surely if that's what they wish to shag then that IS their standard? Isn't it?

Brilliant observation and oh so true

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By *hampagnebubbliesCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become.

And the opposite - you start chatting to someone only to realise they are a revolting person and you cannot being yourself to stoop so low.....just playing devils advocate here."

Once you get the ick it's there to stay

Even if they were sculpted by the gods haha

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

"People shouldn't rated others, it all about not just being attractive it about cemetery and how you feel x

Why shouldn't people rate others?

Me personally I don't rate others that all x

That's fine you are in titled to do so as others are, I just wouldn't put a number on someone just for there looks x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

Calm down princess.

I agree I have been attracted to someone after chatting that I wasn't to start with.

But this ain't about that. We don't spend days weeks getting to know one someone on here . Some ask women is he hot? Big dick? Tick.

Men ask one question will she fuck me?tick .looks and personality dnt come into it..

Of course real world u are correct.

My point is some of these people wouldn't bump into eachother in real life . So why lower urself to do it here"

Because there aren't enough decent men to go round, so women are having to lower their standards and shag the leftovers. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is fun and enjoyable and that is the way it should be. You never know OP they may never in person under normal circumstances ever have sex but if they exchanged messages on here and got on like a house on fire then you know all of what you said goes out of the window.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"People shouldn't rated others, it all about not just being attractive it about cemetery and how you feel x

Why shouldn't people rate others?

Me personally I don't rate others that all x

That's fine you are in titled to do so as others are, I just wouldn't put a number on someone just for there looks x"

I would and I'd give a seperate score for their personality. I'd weight the two scores and look to meet people that were a nice balance.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become.

And the opposite - you start chatting to someone only to realise they are a revolting person and you cannot being yourself to stoop so low.....just playing devils advocate here.

Once you get the ick it's there to stay

Even if they were sculpted by the gods haha"

Haha 'get the ick' - you obviously know what I mean!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sex is fun and enjoyable and that is the way it should be. You never know OP they may never in person under normal circumstances ever have sex but if they exchanged messages on here and got on like a house on fire then you know all of what you said goes out of the window.

On mental level I agree. But ya still gotta have a physical attraction u dnt get that from talking .

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

Example - let's say someone doesn't like gingers. They really don't like gingers. They spot the ginger, let out an ewwwww without taking much notice and rate that them a 2 at best. Later on a beauty is spotted. Oh my Lord, body to die for, great looks and the silkiest black hair... she's your ideal woman. Actually, she's not, she's that ginger bird in a wig.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

What you find attractive might be different to what others do !.I've seen it other way round too and deduce that the person they have met must have had something appealing about them.

Miss

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become.

And the opposite - you start chatting to someone only to realise they are a revolting person and you cannot being yourself to stoop so low.....just playing devils advocate here."

Again, this is very true

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Oh, those bastard men who are ripped and fit AND have an engaging personal and humorous character

Where would these men be? I'm asking for a friend obviously.

Of course I know that you're one of them

I explained on another thread - it's called 'bicep envy'. I can't help it, people look at me abs, look at theirs and before you can say '2 pasties please' they're crying and in despair.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

Yes but that's variation at the individual level again. I'm asking if you believe there is strong correlation at the group level. Is it reasonable to assume the majority of people would rate scarlett johansson as more attractive than diane abbott?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having read through this thread

the best advice given

a blow up doll is the way forward

it will not deflate his ego

so all is good there

kitty

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

Calm down princess.

I agree I have been attracted to someone after chatting that I wasn't to start with.

But this ain't about that. We don't spend days weeks getting to know one someone on here . Some ask women is he hot? Big dick? Tick.

Men ask one question will she fuck me?tick .looks and personality dnt come into it..

Of course real world u are correct.

My point is some of these people wouldn't bump into eachother in real life . So why lower urself to do it here"

See, this is where I have to disagree with you again. You may not spend days or weeks getting to know the person you wanna give the wham bam, an awful lot do. Oddly enough these are the ones that I find I become close friends with as well as jump their bones.

For me, makes the sex so much more relaxed and there isn't any awkwardness afterwards. Winning.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"having read through this thread

the best advice given

a blow up doll is the way forward

it will not deflate his ego

so all is good there

kitty"

I tried a blow up doll but it wouldn't go down on me. Until I pulled the plug.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

And, the other thing is this is a SEX site - some of the porky mingers may be great in bed and some of the pumped up hotties utter rubbish! I might meet a guy who looked like a 10, but reduced himself to a mere 2 after a few minutes of ineptitude...

Oh yes, there's lots of factors to consider here......

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

It's reasonable to assume that yes. I'd be interested to know the results varying between ages, ethnicities and what not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might meet a guy who looked like a 10, but reduced himself to a mere 2 after a few minutes of ineptitude...

Have we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems some are. Very sensitive

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By *hampagnebubbliesCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become.

And the opposite - you start chatting to someone only to realise they are a revolting person and you cannot being yourself to stoop so low.....just playing devils advocate here.

Once you get the ick it's there to stay

Even if they were sculpted by the gods haha

Haha 'get the ick' - you obviously know what I mean!

I certainly do! I got the ick in the middle of a meet

let's just say he may have been ripped and WE but he certainly had no clue wtf to do with it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I might meet a guy who looked like a 10, but reduced himself to a mere 2 after a few minutes of ineptitude...

Have we met

Oh was that you, I thought I recognised that arse.....

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

It's reasonable to assume that yes. I'd be interested to know the results varying between ages, ethnicities and what not."

Good, so we agree there are objective criteria we can use to assess what most people will find attractive. It is really wrong for the OP to remark that men on fab will have sex with women who they wouldn't consider attractive enough to date? I appreciate it might be rude but that doesn't make it factually incorrect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

Calm down princess.

I agree I have been attracted to someone after chatting that I wasn't to start with.

But this ain't about that. We don't spend days weeks getting to know one someone on here . Some ask women is he hot? Big dick? Tick.

Men ask one question will she fuck me?tick .looks and personality dnt come into it..

Of course real world u are correct.

My point is some of these people wouldn't bump into eachother in real life . So why lower urself to do it here

For me, makes the sex so much more relaxed and there isn't any awkwardness afterwards. Winning."

Of course sex is better with someone u get to know... Again this isn't about that. It's about the have u got a hole.yes ok let me stick my schlong in there .with no regards for looks or personality. 2 with a 10 then the 2 gets annoyed the 10 didn't come back. But who's to blame the 10 or the 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might meet a guy who looked like a 10, but reduced himself to a mere 2 after a few minutes of ineptitude...

Have we met

Oh was that you, I thought I recognised that arse.....

Was the 2 just for my arse then

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become.

And the opposite - you start chatting to someone only to realise they are a revolting person and you cannot being yourself to stoop so low.....just playing devils advocate here.

Once you get the ick it's there to stay

Even if they were sculpted by the gods haha

Haha 'get the ick' - you obviously know what I mean!

I certainly do! I got the ick in the middle of a meet

let's just say he may have been ripped and WE but he certainly had no clue wtf to do with it

Oh shame....luckily my 'ickometer' has become very sensitive and I get the icks WAY before it ever comes to meeting most people lol!!

There was that male model type where I felt I had to use the word 'jackhammer' in the veri in order to forewarn the good ladies of fab......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

It's reasonable to assume that yes. I'd be interested to know the results varying between ages, ethnicities and what not.

Not really rude at all. It's just touches nerves cus we have all done it and regretted it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I might meet a guy who looked like a 10, but reduced himself to a mere 2 after a few minutes of ineptitude...

Have we met

Oh was that you, I thought I recognised that arse.....

Was the 2 just for my arse then

Exactly, ornamental use only...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On mental level I agree. But ya still gotta have a physical attraction u dnt get that from talking ."

I see your point but it is entirely possible that you can connect and looks past flaws in others and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"having read through this thread

the best advice given

a blow up doll is the way forward

it will not deflate his ego

so all is good there

kitty"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On mental level I agree. But ya still gotta have a physical attraction u dnt get that from talking .

I see your point but it is entirely possible that you can connect and looks past flaws in others and vice versa"

Of course u can look past flaws. But there still has a to be a physical attraction. Like u were 6 say and had Webbed feet. Look past that flaw if u had a wicked personality. But if your a 2 and have webbed feet and a good personality be harder to ignore the webbed feet!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

Calm down princess.

I agree I have been attracted to someone after chatting that I wasn't to start with.

But this ain't about that. We don't spend days weeks getting to know one someone on here . Some ask women is he hot? Big dick? Tick.

Men ask one question will she fuck me?tick .looks and personality dnt come into it..

Of course real world u are correct.

My point is some of these people wouldn't bump into eachother in real life . So why lower urself to do it here

For me, makes the sex so much more relaxed and there isn't any awkwardness afterwards. Winning.

Oh man. It's not that cut and dry tho! You may look at someone and think pwoaaar, a definite 10. She may look in the mirror and rate herself a 3.

But for the easiest answer.

The 10 must be high and horny and the 2 must be dreaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So basically if you see a lady that YOU think is punching above their weight that is wrong?

What is your solution?

And what if an average bloke pulls a stunner?"

Totally correct! In our relationship i'm sure many would say I (Mark) was punching well above my weight, but the bottom line is that it truly isn't just about looks. I love that Ellen gets to be noticed and approached by people (she's gorgeous and totally deserves that) but it hardly makes me worthless. Physical attraction is important, but that connection with someone on the day in a club can make a massive difference to how memorable it'll be, so if anyone thinks it's not real it's probably because they themselves are new to all this. Definitely comes across as sour grapes from someone's bruised ego.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

It's reasonable to assume that yes. I'd be interested to know the results varying between ages, ethnicities and what not.

Not really rude at all. It's just touches nerves cus we have all done it and regretted it "

I'd never regret fucking a woman unless she gave me some sort of venereal disease or got pregnant. Every hole is a goal bro, didn't you get the memo with your man card?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"So basically if you see a lady that YOU think is punching above their weight that is wrong?

What is your solution?

And what if an average bloke pulls a stunner?

Yup, some people are 'worth' way more than their looks, and others way less!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

It's reasonable to assume that yes. I'd be interested to know the results varying between ages, ethnicities and what not.

Not really rude at all. It's just touches nerves cus we have all done it and regretted it

I'd never regret fucking a woman unless she gave me some sort of venereal disease or got pregnant. Every hole is a goal bro, didn't you get the memo with your man card? "

Amen.

But I have walked out after the nasty and thought what was I thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

Calm down princess.

I agree I have been attracted to someone after chatting that I wasn't to start with.

But this ain't about that. We don't spend days weeks getting to know one someone on here . Some ask women is he hot? Big dick? Tick.

Men ask one question will she fuck me?tick .looks and personality dnt come into it..

Of course real world u are correct.

My point is some of these people wouldn't bump into eachother in real life . So why lower urself to do it here"

For me, this isn't real life. It's fantasy. I've had sex with some really lovely, gorgeous men BUT I would not want a relationship with them and I know they wouldn't want a relationship with me. We fulfill a sexual need, that's all.

To compare this site to meeting in bars and clubs is completely missing the point of Fab and of swinging in general.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"So basically if you see a lady that YOU think is punching above their weight that is wrong?

What is your solution?

And what if an average bloke pulls a stunner?

PS "The measure of a man is in the size of the smile on the face of the woman sitting beside him".

Nothing more beautiful than a well-loved woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So basically if you see a lady that YOU think is punching above their weight that is wrong?

What is your solution?

And what if an average bloke pulls a stunner?

I'm pleased u have found love mark.well done. But sour grapes it is not . Just me looking at a profile and thinking wtf. It's like when Ur younger and Ur mate shagged a ropey one next day in the pub he gets a ribbing.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

It's reasonable to assume that yes. I'd be interested to know the results varying between ages, ethnicities and what not.

Not really rude at all. It's just touches nerves cus we have all done it and regretted it

I'd never regret fucking a woman unless she gave me some sort of venereal disease or got pregnant. Every hole is a goal bro, didn't you get the memo with your man card?

Amen.

But I have walked out after the nasty and thought what was I thinking."

Maybe the women did too - I know I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't read the thread, but....

If you men could kindly line up, with your dicks out, its time for me to make my pick for the night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

It's reasonable to assume that yes. I'd be interested to know the results varying between ages, ethnicities and what not.

Not really rude at all. It's just touches nerves cus we have all done it and regretted it

I'd never regret fucking a woman unless she gave me some sort of venereal disease or got pregnant. Every hole is a goal bro, didn't you get the memo with your man card?

Amen.

But I have walked out after the nasty and thought what was I thinking.

Maybe the women did too - I know I have."

That's my point.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Right try to be a bit delicate here.but.........

When u look at a profile as you do..browse through the veris sometimes I get suprised by the two people that have fucked. I'm sure as hell one wouldn't look at the other twice if they met in a bar.

Mainly it is guys see them ripped to shit and then look at the woman they fucked. Would never happen the conventional way.

Gobsmacks me .

Women certainly get the pick of the dick in here."

And? Works for me. I've met some great men and women. I can't vouch for their conventional attractiveness ratio since my tastes run to the catholic in who I am attracted to but I can guarantee I haven't had to persuade them to meet me. And I've ended up being seen in public with a fair few of them. After the sex (or between rounds). They didn't seem overly concerned about being spotted with a minger.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

It's reasonable to assume that yes. I'd be interested to know the results varying between ages, ethnicities and what not.

Not really rude at all. It's just touches nerves cus we have all done it and regretted it

I'd never regret fucking a woman unless she gave me some sort of venereal disease or got pregnant. Every hole is a goal bro, didn't you get the memo with your man card?

Amen.

But I have walked out after the nasty and thought what was I thinking.

Maybe the women did too - I know I have.

That's my point."

What, that women are lowering their standards to sleep with good looking arseholes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

Calm down princess.

I agree I have been attracted to someone after chatting that I wasn't to start with.

But this ain't about that. We don't spend days weeks getting to know one someone on here . Some ask women is he hot? Big dick? Tick.

Men ask one question will she fuck me?tick .looks and personality dnt come into it..

Of course real world u are correct.

My point is some of these people wouldn't bump into eachother in real life . So why lower urself to do it here

To compare this site to meeting in bars and clubs is completely missing the point of Fab and of swinging in general."

But do you stop and think u were just a vagina to these men? Nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't read the thread, but....

If you men could kindly line up, with your dicks out, its time for me to make my pick for the night.

Ooooh is it dick picking time?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I haven't read the thread, but....

If you men could kindly line up, with your dicks out, its time for me to make my pick for the night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

It's reasonable to assume that yes. I'd be interested to know the results varying between ages, ethnicities and what not.

Not really rude at all. It's just touches nerves cus we have all done it and regretted it

I'd never regret fucking a woman unless she gave me some sort of venereal disease or got pregnant. Every hole is a goal bro, didn't you get the memo with your man card?

Amen.

But I have walked out after the nasty and thought what was I thinking.

Maybe the women did too - I know I have.

That's my point.

What, that women are lowering their standards to sleep with good looking arseholes?"

Nope we all lower standards

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Right try to be a bit delicate here.but.........

When u look at a profile as you do..browse through the veris sometimes I get suprised by the two people that have fucked. I'm sure as hell one wouldn't look at the other twice if they met in a bar.

Mainly it is guys see them ripped to shit and then look at the woman they fucked. Would never happen the conventional way.

Gobsmacks me .

Women certainly get the pick of the dick in here."

* Shrugs *

If someone is lowering their standards to fuck me. That's their problem, I'm not going to complain. It's not me, who's lowering their standards, win win for me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

I personally like gingers, especially the biscuit variety

It's reasonable to assume that yes. I'd be interested to know the results varying between ages, ethnicities and what not.

Not really rude at all. It's just touches nerves cus we have all done it and regretted it

I'd never regret fucking a woman unless she gave me some sort of venereal disease or got pregnant. Every hole is a goal bro, didn't you get the memo with your man card?

Amen.

But I have walked out after the nasty and thought what was I thinking.

Maybe the women did too - I know I have.

That's my point.

What, that women are lowering their standards to sleep with good looking arseholes?

Nope we all lower standards "

Ah well, I won't argue with you there - glad to know you understand even the porky mingers are highly likely to be lowering their standards on here sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

R.I.P thread

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"R.I.P thread"

Bit premature there hun.....

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I haven't read the thread, but....

If you men could kindly line up, with your dicks out, its time for me to make my pick for the night.

Pick me, pick me, i'll bring cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Listen this site and anyother dating site is all about looks. Just seems some men have some low standards

No sour grapes here . Like some one said above buyers market .

Let's be honest if a women is a 2 on here she's made to feel like A 10 cus there's so many guys that would fuck a dustbin if it had a vag.

Oh I do enjoy it when someone posts a pearler like this. I get to introduce them to the real world instead of their own little bubble one.

What YOU perceive as a 2 rating could be someone else's 9.

I've tried to put it in the most basic language you may grasp. Not everyone looks through the same eyes as you!

Also... hang on there, are you buckled up coz this really may come as a shock.

Have you ever been chatting to someone you may have not found particularly attractive? But somehow, the more you get to know them the more attractive they become. This happens!

Good luck on your quest for finding someone who suits what you want. I'm gonna suggest a blow up doll.

Calm down princess.

I agree I have been attracted to someone after chatting that I wasn't to start with.

But this ain't about that. We don't spend days weeks getting to know one someone on here . Some ask women is he hot? Big dick? Tick.

Men ask one question will she fuck me?tick .looks and personality dnt come into it..

Of course real world u are correct.

My point is some of these people wouldn't bump into eachother in real life . So why lower urself to do it here

To compare this site to meeting in bars and clubs is completely missing the point of Fab and of swinging in general.

But do you stop and think u were just a vagina to these men? Nothing more."

No, if I've enjoyed the meet why would I care if I was just a vagina to them?

Yes, I definitely was to some but they definitely weren't the ones who were ripped and good looking.

Funnily enough, the ones I would deem to be good looking and able to pick up any woman they wanted have been some of the loveliest men I've met, and I still chat to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't read the thread, but....

If you men could kindly line up, with your dicks out, its time for me to make my pick for the night.

Ooooh is it dick picking time?

Looking for dick? Try start of this post lol

Every one is attractive to some one, some people you are attracted to on looks, some on personality sometime it is as simple as there smile, just because they aren't attractive to you doesn't make it the same for other people, if we were all attracted to the same person there would be one very busy woman and a lot of disappointed men.

And if you think only the super fit buff men get meets you are mistaken, luckily for those of us that aren't many ladies on here value personality and men being able to hold a conversion, and do I get to punch above my weight absolutely and I'm a lucky boy

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

To "Go ugly early".

From the urban dictionary.

The act of admitting to oneself that you will not pull a good looking bird not matter how long you hang around the night club. You always end up taking the ugliest bird anyway, so why not just go ugly early and get it over with.

It was only half past ten when Steven left the club with a salad dodger on his arm. His friend Jim passed him in the carpark and remarked "Eh up Steve, going ugly early?". Steven sighed, glanced at the fugly minger, and replied "Fraid so Jim, got work in the morning, so I don't have all night"

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