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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york

After spending the night with mine last night we were chatting and worked out that we had been doing this for 26 years!!

We've had long gaps sometimes but always are drawn back to each other and have been since I was 14 and him 16!

Anyone else in this long term situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I'm impressed with you longevity. It's probably a record!

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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york

I think it could be too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been in similar fwb relationship but only about 7 years.

Yours is a long time, may i ask if maybe you both drawn towards eachother cause there is feelings involved more than just friends with benefits?

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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york

I 'loved' him in my early teens. There are no feelings involved now apart from friendship. I can totally relax with him, he has seen me in every stage of my life and we always reminisce and have a good laugh. He used to be the ultimate bad boy and now is mr sensible but the attraction is still the same. We couldn't figure out why we still do this but we do. It's not a regular thing probably every couple of months but occasionally could be a few times in a week but rarely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends with benefits are all fabulous ladies. The benefits come in the form of booby hugs, gin, fandango fabulousness, huge amounts of silliness and many snogaroos. I'm a smug cowbag.

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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york


"My friends with benefits are all fabulous ladies. The benefits come in the form of booby hugs, gin, fandango fabulousness, huge amounts of silliness and many snogaroos. I'm a smug cowbag. "

You can be your beautiful!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After spending the night with mine last night we were chatting and worked out that we had been doing this for 26 years!!

We've had long gaps sometimes but always are drawn back to each other and have been since I was 14 and him 16!

Anyone else in this long term situation? "

To be fair, that's pretty fucking cool! There's obviously something burning bright after all these years

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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york

It is I guess - and you know what it's never been messy with jealousy or unreciprocated feelings etc so I guess it's pretty perfect haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is I guess - and you know what it's never been messy with jealousy or unreciprocated feelings etc so I guess it's pretty perfect haha "

I actually think that's a pretty amazing thing myself. 26 years!

I

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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york


"It is I guess - and you know what it's never been messy with jealousy or unreciprocated feelings etc so I guess it's pretty perfect haha

I actually think that's a pretty amazing thing myself. 26 years!

Longer than my longest relationship of 11 years

I"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After spending the night with mine last night we were chatting and worked out that we had been doing this for 26 years!!

We've had long gaps sometimes but always are drawn back to each other and have been since I was 14 and him 16!

Anyone else in this long term situation? "

I think this is lovely to hear!

I am one for developing lasting long term bonds with playpartners as long as they also want the same. The idea of still meeting the same wonderful people who enrich my life so much years and years from now is a beautiful thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to the OP for having the same friend with benefits for 26 years .

I could do with a new FWB myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair play to the OP for having the same friend with benefits for 26 years .

I could do with a new FWB myself "

I'm sure they will be queuing up

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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york


"After spending the night with mine last night we were chatting and worked out that we had been doing this for 26 years!!

We've had long gaps sometimes but always are drawn back to each other and have been since I was 14 and him 16!

Anyone else in this long term situation?

I think this is lovely to hear!

I am one for developing lasting long term bonds with playpartners as long as they also want the same. The idea of still meeting the same wonderful people who enrich my life so much years and years from now is a beautiful thought."

Thank you I do feel very blessed. Especially as I have 3 but one has been in my life 20 years but sexually 16 months and the other 9 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After spending the night with mine last night we were chatting and worked out that we had been doing this for 26 years!!

We've had long gaps sometimes but always are drawn back to each other and have been since I was 14 and him 16!

Anyone else in this long term situation? "

Fucking at 14?

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I had same fwb for approx 22yrs ... but did go years without seeing him ... he's now married and although wants to continue I feel I can't - hence move to fab x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Fair play to the OP for having the same friend with benefits for 26 years .

I could do with a new FWB myself "

I'd happy volunteer if you weren't so bloody far away hot stuff!

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By *ude13Man
over a year ago

durham

Amazing ?? all mine get to strong feelings and doesn't work for long a think you do have a record there x

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Well done guys.

We were similar on and off for a long time 16 years now. kept comming back and eventually ended up getting married

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By *ild-1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

york


"After spending the night with mine last night we were chatting and worked out that we had been doing this for 26 years!!

We've had long gaps sometimes but always are drawn back to each other and have been since I was 14 and him 16!

Anyone else in this long term situation?

Fucking at 14? "

Yes I was as are many at that age!

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