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"I agree with what you say. I would also say somewhat negatively I'm afraid that as a group swingers are some of the most closed minded people I've ever encountered. "Would have to agree with this in part. Lots of 'if you don't do it our way then you're wrong'  | |||
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"I agree with what you say. I would also say somewhat negatively I'm afraid that as a group swingers are some of the most closed minded people I've ever encountered.
Would have to agree with this in part.
Lots of 'if you don't do it our way then you're wrong' "Maybe that's just an we're over 40 thing?!! lol x | |||
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"your opinions "Of course not i copied and paste,do you think i know all facts on broccoli and carrots and beets | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me?" Yes you. | |||
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"I agree with what you say. I would also say somewhat negatively I'm afraid that as a group swingers are some of the most closed minded people I've ever encountered. "We would totally agree with the original post , and 100% agree with this too . In the six years that we have been swinging , we have been judged by so many other supposedly open minded swingers more times than you would imagine . Whether that be on the fab forums , pm's , social gatherings , clubs or parties , there is an element who feel we are way too promiscuous . It's this which is the most surprising thing that we have found since we started swinging . | |||
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"your opinions
Of course not i copied and paste,do you think i know all facts on broccoli and carrots and beets "Where's the article from?  | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you." Dont think thats your business do you? | |||
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"your opinions
Of course not i copied and paste,do you think i know all facts on broccoli and carrots and beets
Where's the article from? "6 Myths About Swinging - 29Secrets | |||
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"your opinions
Of course not i copied and paste,do you think i know all facts on broccoli and carrots and beets
Where's the article from?
6 Myths About Swinging - 29Secrets"Dont know how to do link thing | |||
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"your opinions
Of course not i copied and paste,do you think i know all facts on broccoli and carrots and beets
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6 Myths About Swinging - 29Secrets
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"It’s one of the most mysteriously intriguing sexual practices and yet swinging is also one of the least understood by those who don’t take part in the world. Since everyone seems to have an opinion and yet never really looks into the facts, we decided to set the record straight with six swinger myths that many people believe to be reality. Myth: People who swing aren’t happy in their relationships In fact it is quite the opposite. Swinging involves a level of commitment, trust, and communication that many couples might never be able to achieve. Couples who swing are often happier because they’ve talked about their wants and needs and have put them into motion. Myth: Swinging is cheating Cheating is when you have something to lie about or to hide from your other half. Swinging, on the other hand, is a mutually agreed upon activity that a couple discusses, and usually engages in, together. Myth: Swingers will have sex with anyone Swingers are actually incredibly picky when it comes to choosing their partners. Just as anyone is when they are choosing someone to be sexual with, swingers often choose their additional sexual partners based on attraction, chemistry, and who turns them on at the time. Myth: Swinging is all about having multiple partners Dead wrong. Many couples prefer to stick to the simplicity of threesomes (yup, those are considered swinging!) or having one-on-one sex with a single outside partner in a night. Contrary to popular belief, swinging isn’t like those orgies you see in porn. Myth: STDs run rampant amongst swingers Just like any other person who is sexually active, STDs are always a risk. That said, there is no research that shows that they are any more common in the swingers community, who often go to great lengths to protect themselves with condoms and selective partner choosing. Myth: Women who swing are slutty Don’t hate on a girl just cause she’s living out her sexual desires! Often the words spoken by those who are repressed in their own fantasies, the truth of the matter is that, just like you have things that you enjoy within a sexual relationship, so do swinger women. Instead of calling her slutty, try calling her empowered for going after what she wants." Myth; single men and women are swingers... In actual fact they just enjoy having casual sex | |||
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"I agree with what you say. I would also say somewhat negatively I'm afraid that as a group swingers are some of the most closed minded people I've ever encountered.
We would totally agree with the original post , and 100% agree with this too .
In the six years that we have been swinging , we have been judged by so many other supposedly open minded swingers more times than you would imagine .
Whether that be on the fab forums , pm's , social gatherings , clubs or parties , there is an element who feel we are way too promiscuous .
It's this which is the most surprising thing that we have found since we started swinging ."You are like fab royalty. This might get me some grief for saying it but i suspect a lot of it is jealousy. | |||
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"I read that HIV is rising faster within the swinging community than any other social group. " I have heard it said this is because they are more aware and get tested more than the general population. Consequently they show up more in the statistics. The greatest numbers of new cases of HIV in the UK are still amongst gay and bi men. | |||
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"I agree with what you say. I would also say somewhat negatively I'm afraid that as a group swingers are some of the most closed minded people I've ever encountered.
We would totally agree with the original post , and 100% agree with this too .
In the six years that we have been swinging , we have been judged by so many other supposedly open minded swingers more times than you would imagine .
Whether that be on the fab forums , pm's , social gatherings , clubs or parties , there is an element who feel we are way too promiscuous .
It's this which is the most surprising thing that we have found since we started swinging ."Same here, think some of the judgement is just jealousy, some is a sense of being better than us, some just don't get what swinging is actually about.... | |||
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" Myth; single men and women are swingers... In actual fact they just enjoy having casual sex "Nope. I'm currently single yet consider myself a swinger. I like the ethics of it, suits me fine. Oh and _loswingers, I think you're ruddy marvellous. Sod the judgemental, you're sexual libertines!! | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you. Dont think thats your business do you?" I'll take that as a no. It is my business when a single guys starts sprouting about what he thinks swinging is. Of course you didn't actually say in your OP that you'd simply pasted it from somewhere else. | |||
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"I'm a single girl and I consider myself a swinger. I enjoy playing with couples and multiple men in swingers clubs. I want to find a man who wants a relationship and to swing together. It's a lifestyle choice which is what I like about it, the social side to it and meeting like minded liberated people and having adult fun at the same time. "What she said minus the finding a man ( happy singleton ) x | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you. Dont think thats your business do you? I'll take that as a no. It is my business when a single guys starts sprouting about what he thinks swinging is. Of course you didn't actually say in your OP that you'd simply pasted it from somewhere else. " I still think its none of your f***in business,and the word is "spouting" not "sprouting" | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you. Dont think thats your business do you? I'll take that as a no. It is my business when a single guys starts sprouting about what he thinks swinging is. Of course you didn't actually say in your OP that you'd simply pasted it from somewhere else. I still think its none of your f***in business,and the word is "spouting" not "sprouting"" Send her my regards x | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you. Dont think thats your business do you? I'll take that as a no. It is my business when a single guys starts sprouting about what he thinks swinging is. Of course you didn't actually say in your OP that you'd simply pasted it from somewhere else. I still think its none of your f***in business,and the word is "spouting" not "sprouting" Send her my regards x" Hazing a newbie again clem to see if he has what it takes  | |||
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"It’s one of the most mysteriously intriguing sexual practices and yet swinging is also one of the least understood by those who don’t take part in the world. Since everyone seems to have an opinion and yet never really looks into the facts, we decided to set the record straight with six swinger myths that many people believe to be reality. Myth: People who swing aren’t happy in their relationships In fact it is quite the opposite. Swinging involves a level of commitment, trust, and communication that many couples might never be able to achieve. Couples who swing are often happier because they’ve talked about their wants and needs and have put them into motion. Myth: Swinging is cheating Cheating is when you have something to lie about or to hide from your other half. Swinging, on the other hand, is a mutually agreed upon activity that a couple discusses, and usually engages in, together. Myth: Swingers will have sex with anyone Swingers are actually incredibly picky when it comes to choosing their partners. Just as anyone is when they are choosing someone to be sexual with, swingers often choose their additional sexual partners based on attraction, chemistry, and who turns them on at the time. Myth: Swinging is all about having multiple partners Dead wrong. Many couples prefer to stick to the simplicity of threesomes (yup, those are considered swinging!) or having one-on-one sex with a single outside partner in a night. Contrary to popular belief, swinging isn’t like those orgies you see in porn. Myth: STDs run rampant amongst swingers Just like any other person who is sexually active, STDs are always a risk. That said, there is no research that shows that they are any more common in the swingers community, who often go to great lengths to protect themselves with condoms and selective partner choosing. Myth: Women who swing are slutty Don’t hate on a girl just cause she’s living out her sexual desires! Often the words spoken by those who are repressed in their own fantasies, the truth of the matter is that, just like you have things that you enjoy within a sexual relationship, so do swinger women. Instead of calling her slutty, try calling her empowered for going after what she wants." I quite agree, too. Unfortunately, there are some of those out there that do believe in those myths and are prejudice towards singers, both in the vanilla world and the swinging community. | |||
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"I agree with what you say. I would also say somewhat negatively I'm afraid that as a group swingers are some of the most closed minded people I've ever encountered.
We would totally agree with the original post , and 100% agree with this too .
In the six years that we have been swinging , we have been judged by so many other supposedly open minded swingers more times than you would imagine .
Whether that be on the fab forums , pm's , social gatherings , clubs or parties , there is an element who feel we are way too promiscuous .
It's this which is the most surprising thing that we have found since we started swinging ."I think you're brilliant. We'll never meet cos you don't do coffee. But I'd love to. | |||
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"Label for shaggin about" You say this and then you wonder why people say single guys can't be swingers | |||
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"Label for shaggin about You say this and then you wonder why people say single guys can't be swingers "Single guys? Or single married guys? | |||
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"Label for shaggin about You say this and then you wonder why people say single guys can't be swingers
Single guys? Or single married guys? "The ones that bareback | |||
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"Label for shaggin about You say this and then you wonder why people say single guys can't be swingers
Single guys? Or single married guys?
The ones that bareback"Single married barebacking guys! | |||
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"Label for shaggin about You say this and then you wonder why people say single guys can't be swingers "I've seen couples profiles say that about single people, and they have 3 somes with singles. If having sex with people you aren't in a relationship with is shagging around, we're all doing it. Having a partner to accompany you to clubs doesn't make it any different. | |||
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"Label for shaggin about You say this and then you wonder why people say single guys can't be swingers
Single guys? Or single married guys?
The ones that bareback
Single married barebacking guys!"You forgot bisexuals. | |||
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"Label for shaggin about You say this and then you wonder why people say single guys can't be swingers
Single guys? Or single married guys?
The ones that bareback
Single married barebacking guys!
You forgot bisexuals."Can't bisexuals be swingers? | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you. Dont think thats your business do you? I'll take that as a no. It is my business when a single guys starts sprouting about what he thinks swinging is. Of course you didn't actually say in your OP that you'd simply pasted it from somewhere else. I still think its none of your f***in business,and the word is "spouting" not "sprouting" Send her my regards x Hazing a newbie again clem to see if he has what it takes "Newbie? This is my 3rd profile iv been here 6 years.newbie haha,and my first profile me and ckem used to "get on" in the forums,not so much now it seems | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you. Dont think thats your business do you? I'll take that as a no. It is my business when a single guys starts sprouting about what he thinks swinging is. Of course you didn't actually say in your OP that you'd simply pasted it from somewhere else. I still think its none of your f***in business,and the word is "spouting" not "sprouting" Send her my regards x Hazing a newbie again clem to see if he has what it takes
Newbie? This is my 3rd profile iv been here 6 years.newbie haha,and my first profile me and ckem used to "get on" in the forums,not so much now it seems"You just should have made it clear that you'd copy and pasted it. For me it seemed like Here's some married guy, telling us what HE thinks swinging is... i took umbridge to that. | |||
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"Label for shaggin about You say this and then you wonder why people say single guys can't be swingers
Single guys? Or single married guys?
The ones that bareback
Single married barebacking guys!
You forgot bisexuals.
Can't bisexuals be swingers? "Bisexuals are not really swingers. They are just desperate people that will fuck anything with a hole. Fact. | |||
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"Label for shaggin about You say this and then you wonder why people say single guys can't be swingers
Single guys? Or single married guys?
The ones that bareback
Single married barebacking guys!
You forgot bisexuals.
Can't bisexuals be swingers?
Bisexuals are not really swingers. They are just desperate people that will fuck anything with a hole. Fact. "
Hang on isn't that rule 1 in the Swinging Handbook? | |||
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"I agree with what you say. I would also say somewhat negatively I'm afraid that as a group swingers are some of the most closed minded people I've ever encountered.
Would have to agree with this in part.
Lots of 'if you don't do it our way then you're wrong'
Maybe that's just an we're over 40 thing?!! lol x"you missed out hot | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you. Dont think thats your business do you? I'll take that as a no. It is my business when a single guys starts sprouting about what he thinks swinging is. Of course you didn't actually say in your OP that you'd simply pasted it from somewhere else. " Wow what's with the chip on the shoulder here!! | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you. Dont think thats your business do you? I'll take that as a no. It is my business when a single guys starts sprouting about what he thinks swinging is. Of course you didn't actually say in your OP that you'd simply pasted it from somewhere else. Wow what's with the chip on the shoulder here!!" Don't think that's any of your business do you?  | |||
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"Label for shaggin about" Fact.
The term 'Swinging' was introduced by a group of men shaggin about in 1963.
They realised they would get more shags if they could offer their haggard old missus to other men so they could shag their slightly less haggard missus.
The womenfolk were irate at being used this way so the menfolk said that Swinging is all the rage in London. And if you don't do it I'll shag about anyway.
The rest is history.  | |||
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"Label for shaggin about Fact.
The term 'Swinging' was introduced by a group of men shaggin about in 1963.
They realised they would get more shags if they could offer their haggard old missus to other men so they could shag their slightly less haggard missus.
The womenfolk were irate at being used this way so the menfolk said that Swinging is all the rage in London. And if you don't do it I'll shag about anyway.
The rest is history. "So that's why single women are always welcome in clubs! NOW it makes sense! | |||
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"Label for shaggin about Fact.
The term 'Swinging' was introduced by a group of men shaggin about in 1963.
They realised they would get more shags if they could offer their haggard old missus to other men so they could shag their slightly less haggard missus.
The womenfolk were irate at being used this way so the menfolk said that Swinging is all the rage in London. And if you don't do it I'll shag about anyway.
The rest is history. "i would not say you were haggard not one bit | |||
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"Label for shaggin about Fact.
The term 'Swinging' was introduced by a group of men shaggin about in 1963.
They realised they would get more shags if they could offer their haggard old missus to other men so they could shag their slightly less haggard missus.
The womenfolk were irate at being used this way so the menfolk said that Swinging is all the rage in London. And if you don't do it I'll shag about anyway.
The rest is history.
i would not say you were haggard
not one bit "Swinging is the only way I can get laid. | |||
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"Label for shaggin about You say this and then you wonder why people say single guys can't be swingers
Single guys? Or single married guys?
The ones that bareback
Single married barebacking guys!
You forgot bisexuals.
Can't bisexuals be swingers?
Bisexuals are not really swingers. They are just desperate people that will fuck anything with a hole. Fact. "i will not just fuck anyone with a hole a think a lot of couples on here call it swinging, when the bloke is really pimping his women out to get pussy | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you. Dont think thats your business do you? I'll take that as a no. It is my business when a single guys starts sprouting about what he thinks swinging is. Of course you didn't actually say in your OP that you'd simply pasted it from somewhere else. I still think its none of your f***in business,and the word is "spouting" not "sprouting" Send her my regards x Hazing a newbie again clem to see if he has what it takes
Newbie? This is my 3rd profile iv been here 6 years.newbie haha,and my first profile me and ckem used to "get on" in the forums,not so much now it seems
You just should have made it clear that you'd copy and pasted it. For me it seemed like Here's some married guy, telling us what HE thinks swinging is... i took umbridge to that. "I copy n paste all my facts,do you think i know everything about carrots,parsnips and beets? Haha my next one will be on the octopus,such a wonderful creature | |||
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"Label for shaggin about Fact.
The term 'Swinging' was introduced by a group of men shaggin about in 1963.
They realised they would get more shags if they could offer their haggard old missus to other men so they could shag their slightly less haggard missus.
The womenfolk were irate at being used this way so the menfolk said that Swinging is all the rage in London. And if you don't do it I'll shag about anyway.
The rest is history.
So that's why single women are always welcome in clubs! NOW it makes sense! "Yep. Never ever as bait for the men paying £50 to enjoy a lukewarm spunky hot tub. | |||
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"Are you and your wife on here as a couple? Who me? Yes you. Dont think thats your business do you? I'll take that as a no. It is my business when a single guys starts sprouting about what he thinks swinging is. Of course you didn't actually say in your OP that you'd simply pasted it from somewhere else. I still think its none of your f***in business,and the word is "spouting" not "sprouting" Send her my regards x Hazing a newbie again clem to see if he has what it takes
Newbie? This is my 3rd profile iv been here 6 years.newbie haha,and my first profile me and ckem used to "get on" in the forums,not so much now it seems
You just should have made it clear that you'd copy and pasted it. For me it seemed like Here's some married guy, telling us what HE thinks swinging is... i took umbridge to that.
I copy n paste all my facts,do you think i know everything about carrots,parsnips and beets? Haha my next one will be on the octopus,such a wonderful creature"the octopussy would be a good profile name if not taken | |||
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"I agree with what you say. I would also say somewhat negatively I'm afraid that as a group swingers are some of the most closed minded people I've ever encountered.
Would have to agree with this in part.
Lots of 'if you don't do it our way then you're wrong'
Maybe that's just an we're over 40 thing?!! lol x
you missed out hot"I find "Hot"ness isn't age related but person specific... though some get hotter with age which I think is in direct relation to not giving a shit about what other people think of you... Imo obviously lol x | |||
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"Label for shaggin about Fact.
The term 'Swinging' was introduced by a group of men shaggin about in 1963.
They realised they would get more shags if they could offer their haggard old missus to other men so they could shag their slightly less haggard missus.
The womenfolk were irate at being used this way so the menfolk said that Swinging is all the rage in London. And if you don't do it I'll shag about anyway.
The rest is history.
So that's why single women are always welcome in clubs! NOW it makes sense!
Yep. Never ever as bait for the men paying £50 to enjoy a lukewarm spunky hot tub. "I was thinking more about couples night's where it seems to be couples and single women. Is it a case of "'ere luv, go and talk to Sue about wallpaper while i fuck this hot chick." | |||
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"Label for shaggin about Fact.
The term 'Swinging' was introduced by a group of men shaggin about in 1963.
They realised they would get more shags if they could offer their haggard old missus to other men so they could shag their slightly less haggard missus.
The womenfolk were irate at being used this way so the menfolk said that Swinging is all the rage in London. And if you don't do it I'll shag about anyway.
The rest is history.
So that's why single women are always welcome in clubs! NOW it makes sense!
Yep. Never ever as bait for the men paying £50 to enjoy a lukewarm spunky hot tub.
I was thinking more about couples night's where it seems to be couples and single women. Is it a case of "'ere luv, go and talk to Sue about wallpaper while i fuck this hot chick.""That's it | |||
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"Label for shaggin about Fact.
The term 'Swinging' was introduced by a group of men shaggin about in 1963.
They realised they would get more shags if they could offer their haggard old missus to other men so they could shag their slightly less haggard missus.
The womenfolk were irate at being used this way so the menfolk said that Swinging is all the rage in London. And if you don't do it I'll shag about anyway.
The rest is history.
So that's why single women are always welcome in clubs! NOW it makes sense!
Yep. Never ever as bait for the men paying £50 to enjoy a lukewarm spunky hot tub.
I was thinking more about couples night's where it seems to be couples and single women. Is it a case of "'ere luv, go and talk to Sue about wallpaper while i fuck this hot chick."
That's it "That's the 1 lol | |||
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"I'm a single girl and I consider myself a swinger. I enjoy playing with couples and multiple men in swingers clubs. I want to find a man who wants a relationship and to swing together. It's a lifestyle choice which is what I like about it, the social side to it and meeting like minded liberated people and having adult fun at the same time. "Totally agree but we're are these illusive partners x | |||
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