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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the etiquette and criteria of the first msge and what makes women wana reply??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be original

Be humorous

Show you've read their profile

Show why they should meet you instead of the next guy

Don't be a dick

Make sure you know that you're what they're looking for

Keep fingers crossed that they like what the see when they look at your profile before even opening your message

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Free now fancy a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Free now fancy a fuck "
Oooh and add five dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Free now fancy a fuck "
haha haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be original

Be humorous

Show you've read their profile

Show why they should meet you instead of the next guy

Don't be a dick

Make sure you know that you're what they're looking for

Keep fingers crossed that they like what the see when they look at your profile before even opening your message

"
but don't count on a reply ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be original

Be humorous

Show you've read their profile

Show why they should meet you instead of the next guy

Don't be a dick

Make sure you know that you're what they're looking for

Keep fingers crossed that they like what the see when they look at your profile before even opening your message

but don't count on a reply ...."

That's the best attitude to have as it goes. Set your expectations low and if replies come, it's a nice surprise.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Show you have read their profile

Include some humour

No cock pics included or asking to meet up straight away.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be original

Be humorous

Show you've read their profile

Show why they should meet you instead of the next guy

Don't be a dick

Make sure you know that you're what they're looking for

Keep fingers crossed that they like what the see when they look at your profile before even opening your message

"

Would add to this, be respectful and add a clear face pic.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be original

Be humorous

Show you've read their profile

Show why they should meet you instead of the next guy

Don't be a dick

Make sure you know that you're what they're looking for

Keep fingers crossed that they like what the see when they look at your profile before even opening your message

Would add to this, be respectful and add a clear face pic.

Fuzz"

I covered respectful under 'don't be a dick'

But I'll give you the face pic'. That was my one of my oversights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it six, some people are greedy

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Catching them at a good time. I don't read even 5% of the messages I get.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What is the etiquette and criteria of the first msge and what makes women wana reply??"

It varies from woman to woman, there isn't one message that will make all women respond. If it's just single women you're after you're a small fish swimming in a very big pond and will probably need a lot of patience. Personally I think you'd stand more chance combining sending messages on here, getting yourself noticed in a positive way on the forums and going to clubs and socials.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

As most women are inundated with mail, most messages end up unread.

Send a message when the person is on line, more chance of it being noticed.

Still no guarantee though so try to make the header and first line interesting of funny to pique their interest as it can be seen without opening the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a numbers game lol

It sure like ice fishing too

There's a lot of ice queens here lol

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