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By *otgirl32 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Is it possible to find love on FabSwingers? I mean true love, with the person accepting you for whatever you are?

I ask because recently been talking to a bloke on Fab who I 'click' with so much and so deeply it's scary. Yet exciting. Afraid that it may not go long just 'cause good things don't last.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Is it possible to find love on FabSwingers? I mean true love, with the person accepting you for whatever you are?

I ask because recently been talking to a bloke on Fab who I 'click' with so much and so deeply it's scary. Yet exciting. Afraid that it may not go long just 'cause good things don't last."

Go for it - love is the most precious commodity on earth and should never be wasted (the wisdom of age speaking).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think any of us singletons like to think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is how we got together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as likely that it will find you here as anywhere else really. Fact is you never know if it will "go long" until it's been going long.

If it feels good, do it.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Is it possible to find love on FabSwingers? I mean true love, with the person accepting you for whatever you are?

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Of course..you're very lucky to have found it. Enjoy every single moment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like i always say

Follow your

Who knows where it will lead

Good luck OP

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

its possible to find love anywhere.

Don't invest too much emotion in someone you have only spoken to on line though

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I met a lovely lady on here last summer. We dated for six months. We are not together now but she is still my best friend. X.

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By *uymartinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Can't see why not!! I have made some great friends on here and think it's because of the lifestyle,so if you really click with someone and you both feel the same way go for it !! Life is for living with no regrets!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not. Life is to short. Trust is a main issue I think. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people have found love on the forums. It's a great place to look if you want a swinging relationship, but also some couples have left and just been monogamous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met Adam the guy from up north on here back end of 2011 and we were seeing each other for about 18 months. Wasn't true love but it was alright. Still speak to him now on Facebook and WhatsApp. He's not on here anymore but you can find more than NSA on here.

Like it doesn't matter where you meet or how just that you find each other.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Why not?

You can meet the person of your dreams in a "normal" place and they can turn out to be an abuser, you could meet someone on here when not looking who may not be perfect, but perfect for you.

They could also turn out to be an abuser.... or they might not. Point is, you will never know unless you take a chance.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I met Adam the guy from up north on here back end of 2011 and we were seeing each other for about 18 months. Wasn't true love but it was alright. Still speak to him now on Facebook and WhatsApp. He's not on here anymore but you can find more than NSA on here.

Like it doesn't matter where you meet or how just that you find each other. "

This about sums it up for me to but I fully get that it's going to fuck up feeling as it always does. Hope it works sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met as singles on fab and have been living together for four years now

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We met here as singles too Nov 15 and now live together ,so yes it can and does happen.

With so many like minded people,why not

Hope it all goes well xx

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a hard one to answer as there are so many factors to consider . but yes you can deffo fall for one another what happens from there depends on any rules put in place and how much you can trust one another and not get jealous

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Love sneaks up on you when you least expect it, so Fab is definitely the kind of place for that to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where you meet a true love bears no relevance, the only thing that matters is you met.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city


"Love sneaks up on you when you least expect it, so Fab is definitely the kind of place for that to happen "

Thats so lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hope so.

I'd like to meet someone for permanent and I don't want another vanilla x

Go for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens... one of my friends met a young lady at a social in 2015 and they got married last month and I've truly never seen two people more in love.

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By *wingtolifeCouple
over a year ago

who knows

Can find love anywhee, whether it lasts is another story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell for someone i met on here. But it isn't mutual. We are still friends but it's bittersweet.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, it definitely can. Be open to it and it can happen (almost probably!) anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes yes a huge big YES . Totally and utterly in love and we would have never ever have met if not for fab .

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I'm starting to think so as I seem to have same!!

Chuffed for you lovely - just go with the flow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it doesn't matter where you meet if you click then just go for it and see how it goes ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know a couple who met on here great friends of ours and still enjoy a little fab fun time

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By *otgirl32 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

TY all for the lovely replies. I guess I should clarify - don't know if it's love, it IS more than sex for sure. But have been there and been burnt before so always wary. Nice to see some here have had something lasting (years) that's amazing.

xoxo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trick is let love find you do not search for it

Hope it goes well for you

D and L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to find love on FabSwingers? I mean true love, with the person accepting you for whatever you are?

I ask because recently been talking to a bloke on Fab who I 'click' with so much and so deeply it's scary. Yet exciting. Afraid that it may not go long just 'cause good things don't last."

I think you can find it anywhere.. but it's never where you're looking.. I hope it's possible on here, I suspect it's quite common actually.. but I'm certainly not looking for it here!!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to find love on FabSwingers? I mean true love, with the person accepting you for whatever you are?

I ask because recently been talking to a bloke on Fab who I 'click' with so much and so deeply it's scary. Yet exciting. Afraid that it may not go long just 'cause good things don't last."

Absolutely - we met 6 years ago via Fab - married for last couple of years and blissfully happy - good luck ! xxx

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

We met 4 years ago yesterday, he proposed to me a year later. We got married in may 2 years ago.

It can happen but it's always best to be a little cautious until you're both sure how you feel about each other

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Go for it everyone deserves some happiness for however long it lasts x Storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd absolutely love to find someone on here to have a proper relationship with. So everything is open and honest from the start!! I personally have some preferences such as cuckholding and of course being fully bi that can be difficult to open up about in day to day life so finding someone hasn't gone according to plan so far. But I'd rather wait than be in a relationship that isn't honest and fully satisfying for all involved!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Lots of people have found love on the forums. It's a great place to look if you want a swinging relationship, but also some couples have left and just been monogamous.

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Well I never knew the latter. Interesting

Yes OP it is possible, happened to us. Total whirlwind stuff. Met last October off here and will be formally moving in together end of this month. Never met anyone so compatible and loving

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"The trick is let love find you do not search for it

Hope it goes well for you

D and L x"

I do agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to find a partner on here but I don't think it'll happen TBH..

Had my confidence knocked a little recently but I'll be back looking soon, watch out girls lol x

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I think it's actually a recipe for a strong relationship, meeting on something like this. A lot of relationships break down because of incompatibility, whereas you could be sure one facet is sorted due to where you met ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet someone on here but think its unlikely.

I'm open minded though. x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"TY all for the lovely replies. I guess I should clarify - don't know if it's love, it IS more than sex for sure. But have been there and been burnt before so always wary. Nice to see some here have had something lasting (years) that's amazing.

xoxo"

What ever it is he's a lucky guy. Best of luck

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By *otgirl32 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"TY all for the lovely replies. I guess I should clarify - don't know if it's love, it IS more than sex for sure. But have been there and been burnt before so always wary. Nice to see some here have had something lasting (years) that's amazing.

xoxo

What ever it is he's a lucky guy. Best of luck "

I'd like to think maybe I'm the lucky one. We'll see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day falling in love can happen anywhere.... who says meeting someone the old fashioned way, smashed in a bar, is the way to go!!!! Hope it's everything you want it to be. X

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By *ink and inkedCouple
over a year ago

Essex

You can find love anywhere ... if you connect then you connect

We found each other through swinging and although not everyone knows how we really met we have some truly wonderful swinging friends that have rooted for us from the start

Sex is very important between two people so if you happen to meet someone and have mind blowing sex then why can't that be a start to s great relationship

We have been together 2 years and in that time can probably only count on one hand the days we have missed sex together due to illness etc and we are engaged and planning our wedding next year

So if you feel something more then go for it

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

if he's not chasing anyone else then it could happen.

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By *ezzelsMan
over a year ago

cheshire and north wales

I guess it is..but remember two things which I would like to pass on...If you can be the poet be the poem....and..never fall in love, rise in love..wish you the best..kezxx

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By * kiss like morphineMan
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed


"Is it possible to find love on FabSwingers? I mean true love, with the person accepting you for whatever you are?

I ask because recently been talking to a bloke on Fab who I 'click' with so much and so deeply it's scary. Yet exciting. Afraid that it may not go long just 'cause good things don't last."

Go for it

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We did!!

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if he's not chasing anyone else then it could happen.

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This really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fallen in love with someone's bottom just looking at one of their public photos. Does this count?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I did, well I thought I did. Turns out he just manipulated me to make sure I wasn't meeting others whilst continuing to hook up behind my back he's now "loved up" with someone else who he's probably cheating on

Anywho I still have hope that it could happen with someone off fab, at least you know you have something in common

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Who could ever possibly attempt to control the heart?

I met someone in a swinging club, we became friends on here. We started having REALLY intense sex, I got confused, excited, crazy, scared, the happiest I've ever been. When I told her I loved her it just fell out and I freaked out but then she said it back. Now we know we have something bigger than we have both ever felt, we are both still married to others but we know our futures are already written together.

Good luck OP. If you get even half of what we have you will be very lucky indeed. X

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By *andJ2227Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote

We did back in 2008

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It's absolutely possible. Don't let where you met put you off pursuing something that could make you happy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a girl on another site similar to this one. We dated and fell madly in love over a short time.

Unfortunately we are not together anymore as my work takes me overseas for long periods of time. And it was too much for the girl.. But my point is, love can exist anywhere.

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