FabSwingers.com forum: fucking on the first date/meet

By *un bbw lover OP Man
over a year ago

coventry

now im not saying that i usually fuck on the first date/meet but if the woman wants to then who am i to say no? but am just wondering who actually does?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never

*cough*bullshit*cough*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never

*cough*bullshit*cough*

Offence.

Taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not what a terrible thing to do! I'm astounded that anyone would

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By *assionate Pleasures 1964Woman
over a year ago

Isle of Wight

Never fuck on a first date but on a first meet, yes of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely not what a terrible thing to do! I'm astounded that anyone would

Unthinkable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One man brought a weekend packed bag with him to a 'social meet'. I couldn't get him to understand what a social was. He insisted the social was meet, kiss, sex if we fancied each other. He wasn't doing anything this weekend, so he thought we could have a weekend of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never

*cough*bullshit*cough*

Offence.

Taken.

Ftfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never

*cough*bullshit*cough*

Offence.

Taken.

Ftfy

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I may have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One man brought a weekend packed bag with him to a 'social meet'. I couldn't get him to understand what a social was. He insisted the social was meet, kiss, sex if we fancied each other. He wasn't doing anything this weekend, so he thought we could have a weekend of fun

Did you knee him in the balls and run for the hills?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might have, and a first meet x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It depends......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No of course I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you knee him in the balls and run for the hills?"

Nooooo. He just couldn't understand. If you met and you liked, why not have sex. Why not have sex all weekend, he wasn't doing anything else.

The best bit was, I was working 2 x 12 hour shifts that weekend. He said 'it's all right, I'll keep your bed warm til you come home'. But I can't leave a stranger in my house all weekend ? 'I'm not a stranger now we have met'.......

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

First date yes, first meet no(t yet)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fucked people when I didn't even know their name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a drama, we're in it for one thing, it's a fab hobby and we arrange meets for the purpose of sex.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Of course! I may take a very long time before meeting but when I meet it usually means I'm interested in sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First date yes, first meet yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course! I may take a very long time before meeting but when I meet it usually means I'm interested in sex."

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are great

So is sex

I never set out for a meet with closed options in mind

Go prepared for any eventuality

But don't pin your hopes on anything

Always carry :

- gum

- wet wipes

- a flannel

- Brut

- scratch & sniff tester kit

- excuses for a sharp exit

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big no no. You can ask any of my Veri's too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've done it all, when they can't escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First date and first meet yes.

As an adult who meets adults we were both capable of making that decision together because it's what we both wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't date and I only meet for sex so. ..I guess it's a yes from me

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Hell yes!

We never go on any type of meet expecting sex, but if we all hit it off, and things end up going that way, then why the hell not.... that is what swinging is about , isn't it?

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"Absolutely not what a terrible thing to do! I'm astounded that anyone would

We share the same Snapchat mask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee only on a first social. I'm an

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I've had my share of first date fucks in my time.

Do I regret that? ..... yes, but only because a fair few of those developed into crap relationships and would have been far better off in retrospect remaining as one night stands ...

On here, I've had one social that didn't go any further and a number of 'let's see what happens' meets which turned out rather well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, every time barring a few drink meets. I'm here for sex, not to make friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coffee only on a first social. I'm an

Ha ha.............ha.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"now im not saying that i usually fuck on the first date/meet but if the woman wants to then who am i to say no? but am just wondering who actually does?"

We've even been known to fuck people we haven't met.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ask at least she buys me dinner 1st

before pulling my pants down & hugging my penis with her mouth

on the 1st date/meet

I have standards

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

People have dates?

Yes I've played on a first meet. Within an hour of meeting once lol. Saw him for about a year!

Last time took a whole 4 hours before we had fun lol.

If it's going well and there's an attraction why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a mixture for me - some have just been socials with a follow up meet or not.

Have had a few where we have just clicked and then jumped into bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep both date or meet.

Depends if she wants the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a date with a view to a relationship, then no.

On here, if the intention was to meet for sole purpose of sex then yeah! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes - arrange a meet - have a get to know you drink and chat and if all happy then playtime - hard enough to get people together for a meet - and so far never had to say sorry and kick them out of the door or walk away

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Yes please!!! When and where??!!!!!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it both ways. Prefer to meet first though.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Well, I/we don't date but, yes, we have (numberous) times fucked on a first meet.

Most of our meets are arranged as, see how things go with no expectations. Very few have been arranged as a purely social/ coffee meet only.

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By *un bbw lover OP Man
over a year ago

coventry

"First date yes, first meet yes

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my type of woman already

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By *un bbw lover OP Man
over a year ago

coventry

"yes - arrange a meet - have a get to know you drink and chat and if all happy then playtime - hard enough to get people together for a meet - and so far never had to say sorry and kick them out of the door or walk away

i will say this that i tend to let the woman decide whether to have fun or not on the first date/meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crazy thing... I did fuck on first dates

And on here not even once(1 on 1 meets) always a social first

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By *un bbw lover OP Man
over a year ago

coventry

"Crazy thing... I did fuck on first dates

And on here not even once(1 on 1 meets) always a social first

same here well not yet anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No comment

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By *un bbw lover OP Man
over a year ago

coventry

"I do XXX"

i do too (wait we are not getting married are we?) lol

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Fucking on a first what now??

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By *un bbw lover OP Man
over a year ago

coventry

"No comment

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innocent till proven guilty right? lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's a date with a view to a relationship, then no.

On here, if the intention was to meet for sole purpose of sex then yeah! X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A swinging meet is that, yeah? On a 'date' I haven't had sex before several dates but swinging is a meet to see if we click for sex. Sometimes that is within minutes, others is after a couple of socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a man so obviously I would lol.

However I would never assume it would happen and would always leave that decision to her.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Yes and yes. I will again too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A swinging meet. Yes usually, although circumstantial. Although we like to form a friendship too, it's essentially a sexual relationship, so sex is very much part of a successful meet to us.

Mrs

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"I've fucked people when I didn't even know their name

Yep, it happens

Our meets tend to be in clubs where we can be social. If there's people the we like and the feelings mutual, then why not play?

ClubF has a lockable room but you can see out at who's watching. If we see someone we like out there while we play, we'll invite them to join us.

Sometimes a physical attraction is enough. We usually do get to names afterwards though

P.s. We don't do dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't consider a social a date but I wouldn't fuck someone on the first meet. First meets for drinks, muffins and analysis

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

if I meet someone I fancy I only not have sex if its his request

date I wouldn't know. never dated

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"now im not saying that i usually fuck on the first date/meet but if the woman wants to then who am i to say no? but am just wondering who actually does?"

I have.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

It happens

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"It happens

I wish

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