FabSwingers.com forum: Controversial Question...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We keep getting the bareback and the condoms and the safe sex questions.. but heres a quick one to throw in the mix lol...

Ok.. your all doing the safe sex thing... but say you met someone who you knew or even suspected having even a minor std.. (If there is such a thing lol)

Your all horny... would you still play?? Safe....?

Seriously... Would ya????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ummm, are you asking would I play safe if I were a barebacker and knew someone had a minor std?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they could provide me with a space suit and suitable decontamination zone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here's one for you...imagine going down on someone then finding out thay have an std that is obvious...ewwww

do people use condoms and damns for oral sex????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats not controversial ...just plain mental...are you mad man ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok i think th pennt has dropped, would i play with someone with a condom knowing they had an std...ummmm no i fookin wouldnt!

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By *andJ2227Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote

No way, yuk! I prefer completely clean.

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

Umm, no, lol. Think the crustiness and discharges may put me off! But seriously, even a cold sore can cause serious complications, and even "playing safe" a lot of STI's can be transferred orally or front genital to genital contact. So why take the risk? All have a nice cold shower and a cup of tea, then read the forums.....

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

"Umm, no, lol. Think the crustiness and discharges may put me off! But seriously, even a cold sore can cause serious complications, and even "playing safe" a lot of STI's can be transferred orally or front genital to genital contact. So why take the risk? All have a nice cold shower and a cup of tea, then read the forums.....

Lol, that should read "from genital to genital" Think all our genitals are at the front.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now i'm sure that all you ladies will have come across this one which always has me thinking wtf. A man will say that they will fuck you with a condom on cos of std's yet in the next breath are asking if they can cum in your mouth

cos obviously we cant catch anything from a gobfull of their cum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Noooooooooooooooo

All I'm saying is would you still play, safe of course lol.. knowing they had a minor std????

I mean can you know pmsl..

Ok I'll put my spoon away lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U may find tho that some people do ave STD's that they're not actually aware of...thats why SAFE SEX RULES yeeha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"U may find tho that some people do ave STD's that they're not actually aware of...thats why SAFE SEX RULES yeeha"

So..... IF you knew for sure then, would you still have the sex lol...

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

Hands Mr Notts a HUGE spoon to stir with lol

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

We're known as "Ol & Kid" not desperado

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

pmsl....

Yeah ok... But makes you think eh!

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By *irtyduoCouple
over a year ago

nr stirling

"We keep getting the bareback and the condoms and the safe sex questions.. but heres a quick one to throw in the mix lol...

Ok.. your all doing the safe sex thing... but say you met someone who you knew or even suspected having even a minor std.. (If there is such a thing lol)

Your all horny... would you still play?? Safe....?

Seriously... Would ya????

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defintootly not!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We keep getting the bareback and the condoms and the safe sex questions.. but heres a quick one to throw in the mix lol...

Ok.. your all doing the safe sex thing... but say you met someone who you knew or even suspected having even a minor std.. (If there is such a thing lol)

Your all horny... would you still play?? Safe....?

Seriously... Would ya????

defintootly not!!!!!!!!

Nor would we... not in a million years lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd consider it...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Nor us

but ya never know anyway and how would you unless you went to meets with a mini swab and lab testing kit

but an obvious hint of something not quite right makes my tummy turn at the thought

And im just about to eat as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

okay I was just being controvertial there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"U may find tho that some people do ave STD's that they're not actually aware of...thats why SAFE SEX RULES yeeha

So..... IF you knew for sure then, would you still have the sex lol...

Never stopped me before lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We keep getting the bareback and the condoms and the safe sex questions.. but heres a quick one to throw in the mix lol...

Ok.. your all doing the safe sex thing... but say you met someone who you knew or even suspected having even a minor std.. (If there is such a thing lol)

Your all horny... would you still play?? Safe....?

Seriously... Would ya????

No thank you!!!

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone

"We keep getting the bareback and the condoms and the safe sex questions.. but heres a quick one to throw in the mix lol...

Ok.. your all doing the safe sex thing... but say you met someone who you knew or even suspected having even a minor std.. (If there is such a thing lol)

Your all horny... would you still play?? Safe....?

Seriously... Would ya????

It’s a no brainer, the answer has to be NO every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cancelled a meet last week an hour before the time we were due to meet when the woman said she had a coldsore and was it OK?

Errrr no thanks.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cancelled a meet last week an hour before the time we were due to meet when the woman said she had a coldsore and was it OK?

Errrr no thanks.....

never had a clodsore...they look..well sore! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had a coldsore either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cancelled a meet last week an hour before the time we were due to meet when the woman said she had a coldsore and was it OK?

Errrr no thanks.....

never had a clodsore...they look..well sore! lol"

Was wondering what a sore on your Clod was, name I've never heard used for it before

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

never had a clodsore...they look..well sore! lol"

Eww... Those pesky clodsores eh.. Like coldsores but even worse lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cancelled a meet last week an hour before the time we were due to meet when the woman said she had a coldsore and was it OK?

Errrr no thanks.....

never had a clodsore...they look..well sore! lol

hey less talk of my clod...its shy!

Was wondering what a sore on your Clod was, name I've never heard used for it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My crabs didnt put u off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My crabs didnt put u off "

Crabs are Ok if cooked properly, yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My crabs didnt put u off "

love all gods creatures....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well ive become quite attached to them or is it the other way around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My crabs didnt put u off

Crabs are Ok if cooked properly, yummy

Ur not cooking my crabs thats cruel

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"My crabs didnt put u off "

hope yu charge em rent...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My crabs didnt put u off

hope yu charge em rent...lol"

Well some ave been there that long i give em discounted rates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DON'T DO STUPID!

And you'll usually be alright!

People with serious life threatening STDs still have sex, but use quite substantial barrier contraception. It can be effective though, of course, there are always risks.

And many people who have many partners and use no barrier contraception never contract any serious STD.

I'm sure I've seen at least one profile on this site from a person with HIV/AIDS.

Barrier contraception and attention to personal hygene are the only sure methods of reducing risks. Awareness is very important.

Probably most sex takes place either using no barrier contraception or none at all. Anti-biotics can clear most infections. Though of course with ever increasing doses as antibiotic resistance grows.

Other than HIV/AIDS, STDs are generally no longer life threatening as they were until the early part of the twentieth century.

Basically sex happens! STDs happen too! In most cases leaving little or no long-term harm. If it's gone (cured?); it's gone! It would be pointless to create a stigma for people who've had one.

All that can be done is to resist the spread where possible. Simply, don't do stupid! But it may be an unecessary worry.

At the moment, I'm more worried about a musculo-skeletal injury from heavy lifting at work, or getting hit by careless drivers.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"My crabs didnt put u off

hope yu charge em rent...lol

Well some ave been there that long i give em discounted rates "

So long as they are pedigree's - you dont want any old crab staking hold on ya pubes!!!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some sti's have no symptoms so even if you do us condoms its still best to visit a clinic now and again just to be safe as more often than not sti's are transmited oraly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even a no from us on this one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We keep getting the bareback and the condoms and the safe sex questions.. but heres a quick one to throw in the mix lol...

Ok.. your all doing the safe sex thing... but say you met someone who you knew or even suspected having even a minor std.. (If there is such a thing lol)

Your all horny... would you still play?? Safe....?

Seriously... Would ya????

Nope not at all i dont want anything dropping off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats my point really... Nothing is safe safe eh!

Its just less risky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't even consider it for a second!! Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and thinking about it, If we were unfortunate enough to catch an STI...we wouldn't be selfish enough to wanna share it about!!

Some people are just far too desperate for a shag! :D

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