FabSwingers.com forum: TIMEWASTERS do one!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry I'm sure there has been many rants on here about the time wasters but I wanna scream !!

So annoying when you start talking to someone all is going well and you think you have found someone you want to meet and then they disappear or you find out they aren't who you think they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wanted to fuck a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I'm sure there has been many rants on here about the time wasters but I wanna scream !!

So annoying when you start talking to someone all is going well and you think you have found someone you want to meet and then they disappear or you find out they aren't who you think they are "

Happens all the time, to me a meet isn't a meet until you open the door to them. Anything in between is all chatter and to be taken with a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to use watsapp for instant picture messaging

i also do not engage in profile that do not send pics or demand mine first

it seems to work along with filters

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I've always wanted to fuck a timewaster.

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same. They never turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive just had one... had a chat and she wants to meet, then she hits me with it... it will cost me 30 quid ... i suppose she wouldn't be a timewaster if i paid her though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grrrrrrrr,,,,,,, go-on you lot tell em timewasters what you think of them grrrrrrrrrr......

That'll teach them .....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Ive just had one... had a chat and she wants to meet, then she hits me with it... it will cost me 30 quid ... i suppose she wouldn't be a timewaster if i paid her though

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she won't waste her time she'd take it and run lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once arranged a date with a timewaster and I never showed up. That'll teach 'em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There seems to be a lot more timewasters on site nowadays. Shame fab don't make it compulsory to be photo verified. That might stop a few. Does seem to be plenty of single guys pretending to be a couple at moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once arranged a date with a timewaster and I never showed up. That'll teach 'em."

Ok two questions,

A, How did you know they were a timewaster?

B, Given that they were/are according to you, how did you know they even turned up? You know, being a timewaster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just had one... had a chat and she wants to meet, then she hits me with it... it will cost me 30 quid ... i suppose she wouldn't be a timewaster if i paid her though

she won't waste her time she'd take it and run lol"

She would of had a head start as i would of had my pants around my ankles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a time waster, but I'll do one anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always wanted to fuck a timewaster.

One day son...one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,'ll do one too if anyone wants doing! XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its always couples i find whinging about timewasters

yet its verified couples -- only the guy can meet send abusive messages and so on

its on there way or no way

so i blocked couples messaging me as they are too much of chew

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston

Had a few "couples" and "ladies" that have disappeared during my time here, yet the profile seems to have veri's etc. It's getting difficult to work out sometimes.

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston

Ok, so you can't name and shame, however I've just fabbed a new picture that appeared in my local feed, then upon searching they are using someone else's photo cause I've just seen it on their profile.

I can't message this couple to inform them. Would somebody (admin) like to PM me and I will provide the details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so you can't name and shame, however I've just fabbed a new picture that appeared in my local feed, then upon searching they are using someone else's photo cause I've just seen it on their profile.

I can't message this couple to inform them. Would somebody (admin) like to PM me and I will provide the details. "
you should just click report button and mention profile name

as admin are very busy making tea and coffee

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"its always couples i find whinging about timewasters

yet its verified couples -- only the guy can meet send abusive messages and so on

its on there way or no way

so i blocked couples messaging me as they are too much of chew"
well said kitty x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I,'ll do one too if anyone wants doing! XXX"
can we share as they maybe difficult to catch up with??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couples need to work out:

whether its both of then want real fun

or is the guy just pimping her fanny out so he can get fucks

if the want a considerate bull ( they need to look that up)

it might stop the guy pestering others for sex when they are a verified couple and only he can meet

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all these wanting to do a timewasters

i might open a profile

arrange lots of fucks

do not turn up

then i will have had the fab experiences everyone raves about

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"couples need to work out:

whether its both of then want real fun

or is the guy just pimping her fanny out so he can get fucks

if the want a considerate bull ( they need to look that up)

it might stop the guy pestering others for sex when they are a verified couple and only he can meet

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if only he can meet it needs to be reported to admin so they can change it to a single male profile

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston

I can't message this couple to inform them. Would somebody (admin) like to PM me and I will provide the details. you should just click report button and mention profile name

as admin are very busy making tea and coffee"

Good shout, and have just done so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"couples need to work out:

whether its both of then want real fun

or is the guy just pimping her fanny out so he can get fucks

if the want a considerate bull ( they need to look that up)

it might stop the guy pestering others for sex when they are a verified couple and only he can meet

if only he can meet it needs to be reported to admin so they can change it to a single male profile"

before i blocked couples

it was around 2/3 a day sometimes more would message me and after a few exchanges the bombshell only he could meet

always with lame excuses

and nearly all from verified couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always wanted to fuck a timewaster.

Haven't met a time waster yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the sad thing is there will be some very genuine couples on here

but with the other couples verified and not verified

messing it up

they are overlooked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never managed to fuck a timewaster

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"all these wanting to do a timewasters

i might open a profile

arrange lots of fucks

do not turn up

then i will have had the fab experiences everyone raves about"
couples profile with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"all these wanting to do a timewasters

i might open a profile

arrange lots of fucks

do not turn up

then i will have had the fab experiences everyone raves about couples profile with me?

beach babes again

we are both near beaches lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"all these wanting to do a timewasters

i might open a profile

arrange lots of fucks

do not turn up

then i will have had the fab experiences everyone raves about couples profile with me?

beach babes again

we are both near beaches lol"
yay!!!!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I have fucked a timewaster... he wasted twn years of my life til we got a divorce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have fucked a timewaster... he wasted twn years of my life til we got a divorce

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"There seems to be a lot more timewasters on site nowadays. Shame fab don't make it compulsory to be photo verified. That might stop a few. Does seem to be plenty of single guys pretending to be a couple at moment "
so if a guy copied a couples photo off the internet and used that then got photo verified then they wouldn't be a timewaster? Interesting logic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have fucked a timewaster... he wasted twn years of my life til we got a divorce

This is the quote I was waiting for haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry I'm sure there has been many rants on here about the time wasters but I wanna scream !!

So annoying when you start talking to someone all is going well and you think you have found someone you want to meet and then they disappear or you find out they aren't who you think they are

Happens all the time, to me a meet isn't a meet until you open the door to them. Anything in between is all chatter and to be taken with a pinch of salt

this

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Ive just had one... had a chat and she wants to meet, then she hits me with it... it will cost me 30 quid ... i suppose she wouldn't be a timewaster if i paid her though

She will want 30 quid through money transfer or something and you will never see her (if it's a woman).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah and then you get some of us who want to meet and play but dont get any responses or nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange thread

The OP are looking for a single lady if a single guy said the same about timewasters, girls going quiet, not who they say they are etc no one would dish out any sympathy, would they?

Well OP welcome to the club of chasing single girls be ready for mind changers, no shows, timewasters, chatting then silence etc etc. Single ladies just have too much to do on here and get easily distracted xx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think time waster is used far too often here

Id class a time waster as someone who arranges to meet up,them doesnt show.Or continually cancel arrangements.

Maybe something happened in real life or they changed their mind etc.

Miss.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Happens all the time, to me a meet isn't a meet until you open the door to them. Anything in between is all chatter and to be taken with a pinch of salt

This.

I sometimes think people expect every conversation to result in a meet.

Fab is great if you just take things as they come and enjoy the meets that you do get.

Life's too short to stress about things that didn't happen or could have happen.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are ALOT of timewasters running about here tbh...its really bad. Then again, interestingly enough I am only photo verified though I have had a few meets here (seems like people dont verify unless u pester them a lot of the time).

I think the "mainstreaming" of swinging has been good and bad...whilst its nice to have an increased pool of people, you also get an influx of people who seem to be a little to selective about what they want.

In truth, I think the percentage of people who actually go out of their way to waste peoples time on here is miniscule...what you really tend to get are people who become highly indecisive because of the wealth of options that couples/single women have...said options tend to make you A LOT more selective about who you're willing to meet. Even if the things that you're selective for dont necessarily translate well into real life. Its the same on dating sites like Tinder...they have become so mainstream that they often end up seeing an influx of people who dont usually find in the internet dating world...people who are likely to be far less tolerant of people/experiences who stray to far away from those that they're already used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think time waster is used far too often here

Id class a time waster as someone who arranges to meet up,them doesnt show.Or continually cancel arrangements.

Maybe something happened in real life or they changed their mind etc.

Miss."

Yep. This is my point. I can probably only count truly bonafide timewasting experiences on one hand...the vast majority of people seem to get cold feet/feel they see something when reviewing a forum post/profile that they dont like. Its a shame...but such is the nature of the digital age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange thread

The OP are looking for a single lady if a single guy said the same about timewasters, girls going quiet, not who they say they are etc no one would dish out any sympathy, would they?

Also, some people, during conversation, say something that makes your brain go NO!! And then you have to terminate the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange thread

The OP are looking for a single lady if a single guy said the same about timewasters, girls going quiet, not who they say they are etc no one would dish out any sympathy, would they?

Also, some people, during conversation, say something that makes your brain go NO!! And then you have to terminate the conversation."

And in many cases this "red flags" can be stupid and arbitrary...and in many cases are. Its what I find amusing about the general stupidity of people. Like when people assume some dodgy looking middle aged guy with poor social skills could be a pedo when, in most cases, pedophiles tend to be very good at eliciting trust from both children and adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op cant you turn your filters up to sort some out, well it may stop you getting loads of mail ... But the mail you will get if you set the filters right will be real people who meet others from the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange thread

The OP are looking for a single lady if a single guy said the same about timewasters, girls going quiet, not who they say they are etc no one would dish out any sympathy, would they?

Also, some people, during conversation, say something that makes your brain go NO!! And then you have to terminate the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people new to swinging and these type of sites can be very nervous indeed

and may not meet even though they desperately want to

i would not label them timewasters as it would only add to their fear of meeting

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