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"[Removed by poster at 03/08/17 10:33:55] I love to have my arse spanked ![]() I was trying to phrase it better . | |||
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"I used to like my arse slapped but then i met a fella who slapped my arse so hard i nearly got up and kicked him in the spuds. Never again. " They have to hit the right part of my arse. Too high and they hit the sciatic nerve, and that's a killer. | |||
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"Lovely new pic on our profile of my caned backside ![]() ![]() I'll give you a good hard one when I see you ![]() | |||
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"Lovely new pic on our profile of my caned backside ![]() ![]() ![]() I believe we're up to three beatings now pp....you'll be exhausted ![]() | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() Because it feels good,obviously ![]() | |||
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"Lovely new pic on our profile of my caned backside ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Think you can take it ![]() | |||
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"I love a good spanking from my top when I been a good girl ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I enjoy a good caning from time to time ![]() 'Pulls the draw out from under the bed containing, cane and riding crop' Good morning xx | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"OP is that you in your profile pic?" Lol no that was the last woman I gently spanked! | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() Yes I'm weird ![]() | |||
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"Lovely new pic on our profile of my caned backside ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'll take whatever you want me to take pp ![]() | |||
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"OP is that you in your profile pic? Lol no that was the last woman I gently spanked! " I thought the hips looked a bit feminine. | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() I like you answer ![]() | |||
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"OP is that you in your profile pic? Lol no that was the last woman I gently spanked! I thought the hips looked a bit feminine." Is that more clearer that it's me? Lol | |||
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"Cane only for special occasions, flogger, paddle and hand for every day. ![]() Agree, a nicely flogged pussy always sets the mood;) | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;) The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on. So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation. And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Why does it turn you on ? | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;) The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on. So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation. And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh most definitely!;) | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() Exactly! It feels good to some to be spanked,punched,tortured... This is very weird! | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() One persons weird is another persons normality, if it's not for you then just stay away from it, but don't go calling people weird because their into something your not. That's just rude. | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() Firm but fair point ![]() | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() No, it's weird to you. Your attitude stinks dude. How disrespectful do ya want to be? Just because something is different to what YOU like doesn't make it weird. I'm gonna hazard a guess..... missionary is your fave thing, lights off, socks still on. You are probably the person that calls people names who aren't wearing the "cool clothes" A bit of a bully in school perhaps? Something that will make you more appealing to other people is not being so bloody closed minded. For now you're just showing how narrow minded and intolerant you are, but thanks for showing us your true self ![]() | |||
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"So I've been bad, and need to be punished, so hubby has decided that A friend needs to be called round to suitable chastise me. I try desperately to escape my punishment by kissing hubby and kissing the friend and trying to distract hubby but he know me too well and know this is just me trying to get round him. He tells the friend to be firm with me. He sits down on the sofa and takes my hand drawing me to him, but I struggle and try and get away. He is too strong and before I know it, he has pulled me over his knee. He tells me to stop struggling or it will be worse for me. I try and cover my bum with my hands, but he moves them out if the way and pulls my knickers down to my knees. He strokes my bum and I start to relax before he brings the lam of his hand down hard and I squeal. He spanks each cheek at intervals, turning them red and burning. I keep asking him to stop but he won't until he has spanked those cheeks 12 times, my bum is on fire and he finds my pussy is soaking wet as he thrusts his fingers inside making me come almost immediately. " Mmmm I think I need to become friends with your husband;) | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() You think it's rude to call people "weird", others are proud to be weird, different and unique. It's not rude to express an opinion. If you don't like it, who cares. ![]() | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() ![]() With respect it is rude to call people weird. The people that you refer too as being proud, are not proud for being "weird" they are proud for being different and unique, they don't call themselves weird it's people like yourself calling them weird. Also It can be rude to express an opinion. When expressing an opinion which you are fully entitled too, you should always be polite and respective of other people feelings and views, calling people names because they have different views or referring to them in a derogatory way is rude! Your more than welcome to express your views - that you don't understand bdsm or that your not into it but just don't refer to the people that are as weird please. | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() ![]() It may be etiquette but you don't have to be polite at all - stop talking bollocks. If something is werid - it's weird people get turned on by all kinds of weird shit. | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() ![]() I get your point and appreciate that you are being polite even though you seem irritated and passionate about the issue. I meant no offence to anyone. No name calling certainly. People refer to themselves as weird, cokoo, filthy... you name it, not only on this site but out in real life. This is the meaning I put in the word. And becides, hard core masochists who endure hours of abuse and humiliation till their bodies and souls bleed, in my view, were surely able to swallow a word like " weird" even if taken in the extremely offensive meaning. See how Peachfazz replied at my post, for example. I trust you understand my point as you do sound intelligent. BTW, for me, the whole swingers' lifestyle is a study. I take keen interest in the reasons people behave in this way or another. BDSM is still beyond comprehension for me. It's weird. Am I weird to find it weird or are those who enjoyed it weird? By asking questions whether ending with ? or simply making a statement that prompts reaction from others, I get to see it with different eyes. Someone replied ' Because it feels good'. I got that, thanks. But how come actions that without consent would constitute criminal offence and being someone's worst nightmare can be pleasurable for others??? | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() This is the comment I mentioned. No offence meant, no offence taken. She's very cute the way she describes it. I'd winch at seeing her actually doing it, but it gives her pleasure... Lovely girl! ![]() | |||
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"Some people are weird! Why would you want to be spanked??? ![]() ![]() I just spat my tea out laughing so much! | |||
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"I LOVE getting spanked/punished! ![]() Mmmmm and what a lovely arse you have to spank as well;) | |||
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" I love to have my arse spanked ![]() Don't we all! | |||
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" I love to have my arse spanked ![]() I wish you all did!;) | |||
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"Hello, did someone say submissive...? Sorry I'm late to the party... (hmm I probably derserve a spanking for being late...anybody...?) ![]() Would love to spank that ass. Drip hot wax onto it and keave a nice bite mark also! | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;) The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on. So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation. And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() good ploy, pity you so far away... | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;) The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on. So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation. And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Suffolk isn't to far away, especially to have you bent over my lap;) | |||
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"I received a massive paddling yesterday so much so that it hurts to sit! " Pleasant memories for you, no doubt. ![]() | |||
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"I received a massive paddling yesterday so much so that it hurts to sit! Pleasant memories for you, no doubt. ![]() Very pleasant memories indeed ![]() | |||
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"I received a massive paddling yesterday so much so that it hurts to sit! I'm glad to hear that! A good punishment for blocking me!?!? Lol ![]() ![]() ![]() You're not blocked ![]() | |||
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"I received a massive paddling yesterday so much so that it hurts to sit! I'm glad to hear that! A good punishment for blocking me!?!? Lol ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Good Don't let it happen again or your feet will be caned! ![]() | |||
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"I can be submissive but I don't like pain as I have a low pain threshold... for me it's the physiological feeling of trusting someone so much and being so safe and comfortable with them that I'm willing to pass my control to them. Having my hair pulled and a hand gently squeezing my throat are both good fun though. As is a nice tingling spanking as that can make me incredibly sleepy and relaxed when done right ![]() I agree, That's generally a misguided view that people have about Dom/sub though that it's all about pain and it's just not true. Just simple things like making a sub crawl to you or tying them to a chair with senses deprivation can be as effective to controlling a sub as a spanking or caning. | |||
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"I can be submissive but I don't like pain as I have a low pain threshold... for me it's the physiological feeling of trusting someone so much and being so safe and comfortable with them that I'm willing to pass my control to them. Having my hair pulled and a hand gently squeezing my throat are both good fun though. As is a nice tingling spanking as that can make me incredibly sleepy and relaxed when done right ![]() Ah, but some of us neither crawl nor allow ourselves to be made to do anything ![]() | |||
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"I can be submissive but I don't like pain as I have a low pain threshold... for me it's the physiological feeling of trusting someone so much and being so safe and comfortable with them that I'm willing to pass my control to them. Having my hair pulled and a hand gently squeezing my throat are both good fun though. As is a nice tingling spanking as that can make me incredibly sleepy and relaxed when done right ![]() ![]() Lol if you never allow yourself to be made/coerced to do something your def not a sub ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;) The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on. So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation. And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() depends what you want i need a full d/s dynamic, i cant play casually, cos otherwise i get awful sub drop x | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;) The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on. So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation. And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Nobody likes a sulky sub!;) lol | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;) The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on. So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation. And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() no one like a wannabe dom ![]() | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman" Going to make myself even more of an unpopular oddball here... I DON'T I like my women to be my equal in life and in the bedroom. I can come across as a bit Dom, but actually I am just a Leo so a bit bossy, if a woman wants her arse spanked I am happy to oblige but only if they ask as an equal. ![]() | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;) The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on. So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation. And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha - well that comment would get you gagged, put on the naughty chair and your feet caned for starters! ;-b | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman especially when she's over your lap ready for a spanking!;) The feeling of having that person under your control, rewarding them when they're good and punishing them when they're bad! Such a turn on. So subs make yourself known with a picture of a nicely spanked bottom so we can show our appreciation. And yes this is also a ploy for me to find a submissive woman! Mwhahaha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I do! ![]() | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman Going to make myself even more of an unpopular oddball here... I DON'T I like my women to be my equal in life and in the bedroom. I can come across as a bit Dom, but actually I am just a Leo so a bit bossy, if a woman wants her arse spanked I am happy to oblige but only if they ask as an equal. ![]() Equal is good. ![]() | |||
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"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! ![]() Very True, nor does being dom mean that all you do is punish, (which most men seem to think it is) especially physically. it's the little things that keeps a sub happy, the way you hold them or speak to them or things like comforting them after they had to be punished, giving them a new toy to test or outfit to wear. And the big part that a lot of self proclaimed doms get wrong is that they think it's about sex (I admit I used to think this) but it's so much more than that! It's bloody hard work being a dom! ![]() | |||
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"Is there any other submissive woman out there? Come on I'm ordering you to make yourselves known on here so we can admire you ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Mrs J is slightly tempted. | |||
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"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm more of a masochist than submissive, but yaaaaay to spankings ![]() Im same x | |||
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"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! ![]() It also doesn't mean just anyone can spank me. As soon as any guy finds out you have a sub side they think it gives them free reign to spank you and demand you suck their cock. | |||
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"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! ![]() I suppose those people dont believe in respect and more a case of entitlement ![]() | |||
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"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! ![]() ![]() They just don't understand how it works. They are also far more concerned with their own gratification often leaving me wanting a d not in a good way. I don't mind sexual torment and not being allowed to have gratification or being used for sex but to just expect me to suck your cock and then fuck off is not how it works lol | |||
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"Come on chaps or ladies who doesn't love a submissive woman Going to make myself even more of an unpopular oddball here... I DON'T I like my women to be my equal in life and in the bedroom. I can come across as a bit Dom, but actually I am just a Leo so a bit bossy, if a woman wants her arse spanked I am happy to oblige but only if they ask as an equal. ![]() Most men I've met think the same way as you do.......or at least they do with me as I'm not a sub... ![]() | |||
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"Problem with being submissive, which I am(sexually I might add), is that I find most guys have no fekin idea what that means....no it DOESN'T mean servant/slave! ![]() ![]() Bastards lol | |||
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"Is there any other submissive woman out there? Come on I'm ordering you to make yourselves known on here so we can admire you ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Here ![]() | |||
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