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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know most women get them during there life, i have them myself, i cant stand them as they make me incredibly self concious, Was just wandering what mens opinions are.....if they are bothered by them or not? Honest opinions please!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"He kissed my stretch marks! No one ever kissed my stretch marks."

Shirley Valentine talking about Costas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have 2 heads, 4 fannies and webbed feet and blokes would still tell you how gorgeous you looked, especially if they're standing in front of you with a hard on, so stretch marks ain't going to bother 'em

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


""He kissed my stretch marks! No one ever kissed my stretch marks."

Shirley Valentine talking about Costas"
I just thught of that... tbh I dont think blokes are going to look at your stretch marks when they have bigger nad better targets ie you boobs and fanny to explore...;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha yeah i know what you all mean, its one of those hang ups most women have though, its just natural really, i dont know many people who like them! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does depend on how bad the stretch marks are and the type of body they are on. Stretch marks over a firm body arent anywhere near as bad as when its on someone who clearly doesnt look after themselves. Like you say, everyone gets stretch marks, its part of life. Even guys get them from teenage growth spurts. Id say forget about stretch marks and look at how toned your body is.

But hey, thats just my opinion and as a guy I know that counts for nothing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blokes get them too. I've got them on my biceps, from too much wanking, I mean weight training

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, stretch marks don't put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife has a few but they dont bother me nor her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a big girl and after 3 kids.... ive got stretchmarks, i did have it on my profile along with the love handles & celulite till a guy i met told me to delete it as they were faded and hardly worth mentioning

if youve got them, youve got them, mine show im a mum, simple, how carew what guys think!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well im only 18, ive had them over the past couple of years whilst going thru puberty as my body has grown and changed, theyre usually quite noticable when u first get them then fade over the years, just wish theyd fade quicker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well im only 18, ive had them over the past couple of years whilst going thru puberty as my body has grown and changed, theyre usually quite noticable when u first get them then fade over the years, just wish theyd fade quicker lol"

I can come and rub baby oil in to them if you like. I hear thats supposed to help

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

4 kids and I've got them on my bum, thighs and stomach - they grew a little bit with each baby. Baby no 4 also meant a few appeared on my boobs. Do I feel self conscious about them? No - I used to, but I can't change them and I have them because of my babies. Also they've faded and I'm very fair skinned anyway, so it's not so much of a big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i thought shirley valentine said "he kissed me flaps"

anyway ive got stretch marks where my left shoulder meets my pectoral after fucking up a dip and going too low about 2 years ago. looks horrible to me and i wanna get a tatoo over it.

still researching

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive thought about tattooes over some of mine as ive wanted some more tatts for a while, sure i read before though that it doesnt work as well over skin with strech marks or scars so most places would say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am proud of my strechmarks.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive thought about tattooes over some of mine as ive wanted some more tatts for a while, sure i read before though that it doesnt work as well over skin with strech marks or scars so most places would say no "

ive seen that aswell, but also read if the stretch marks are at the stage where they are silvery/white`ish certain tat ink works well over em. mines still to fresh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah mine are to fresh aswell

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sign of bringing new life into the world and joy into your lives..

cool with me....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well I'll be honest...I don't have any, so fingers crossed (but I don't have kids!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'll be honest...I don't have any, so fingers crossed (but I don't have kids!) "

Would ya like sum?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Well I'll be honest...I don't have any, so fingers crossed (but I don't have kids!)

Would ya like sum? "

No thanks!!!

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

my stretch marks have never bothered me and ive never hade any man comment over them xxx

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

stretch marks,are considerably more noticeable,to the person who has them,than they will be to any partner.

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?

stretch marks are very sexy indeed in fact an incredible turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bother me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'll be honest...I don't have any, so fingers crossed (but I don't have kids!) "

Hmmm, I'm thinking you may be telling fibs, so putting on my walking boots and making my way to you now to have a blummin good look.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

i did 2 years, got a coupla marks and plenty of emotional scars

that's better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like mine..

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

stretch marks are kinda sexy in there own right

they do not bother me at all if i see them or not

as been said before even men have stretch marks

ive got them on my thighs at top of my front legs but thats from heavy lifting or stretching too far on a roof whilst been split legged over the ridge

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

If a guy gets a hard on=they dont bother him

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Don't know about stretch marks, but some guys couldn't care less if a woman has got two heads and feathers down her spine.....as long as she has a pussy.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Don't know about stretch marks, but some guys couldn't care less if a woman has got two heads and feathers down her spine.....as long as she has a pussy.

"
or a willing mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Stiff dick has no concience

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


" A Stiff dick has no concience "
he does if ya rub in with sandpaper and dip him in dettol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know most women get them during there life, i have them myself, i cant stand them as they make me incredibly self concious, Was just wandering what mens opinions are.....if they are bothered by them or not? Honest opinions please! "

To be honest i (mr) wouldnt b lookin at them as id b concentraitin on other things lol, but on a more serious note, they wouldnt bother me one bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep heat has the same effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother us it's part of who you are, would be far more interested in the rest of you honestly don't bother about them I'm sure you look lovely

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

An indian friend once told me that each stretch mark is where the unborn baby has kicked to say ,i am here.

i like that

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

they have never bothered me. if im with someone then i fancy the person not just thr body. no one is perfect. im not so i wouldnt male someone else feel bad about themselfs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of horrendous stretch marks tbh. Siren was paranoid she'd get bad ones during her first pregnancy but she didn't get a single one. None on this pregnancy either yet. She has a couple of faint ones on her boobs that she says was a result of her developing early but they're hardly noticeable.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I have been very lucky. Two children and didn't get any. My otherhalf massaged me with lavender oil every night. Maybe it worked, maybe luck and not getting very big. Various oils out there which can help fade them though. It wouldn't bother us if an attractive lady had them though. Try not to worry about them.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'll be honest...I don't have any, so fingers crossed (but I don't have kids!)

Would ya like sum? "

You're terrible. I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bothered by stretch marks. They're a lot of reasons why both men and women have them.

We're all not perfect and have something we don't like about ourselves but anyone who highlights this is not worth our time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not bothered by stretch marks. They're a lot of reasons why both men and women have them.

We're all not perfect and have something we don't like about ourselves but anyone who highlights this is not worth our time.

"

Well said, I agree totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have them, i'm really self concious about mine and feel quite unattractive, i got them when i was pregnant, S says they don't bother him at all. It wouldn't put me off if someone has them though

I think you always seem to be more critical of your own body than other people's anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine were a result of nearly dying with septicemia after a c section. they are my LIFE lines ..rather have them then the other alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine were a result of nearly dying with septicemia after a c section. they are my LIFE lines ..rather have them then the other alternative "

That's intense. Glad you're ok.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I forget I have them. I remember my midwife telling me that women with the best skin get them, and I refuse to believe otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine were a result of nearly dying with septicemia after a c section. they are my LIFE lines ..rather have them then the other alternative

That's intense. Glad you're ok.

"

Thx....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know most women get them during there life, i have them myself, i cant stand them as they make me incredibly self concious, Was just wandering what mens opinions are.....if they are bothered by them or not? Honest opinions please! "

They dont excite me to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wel i dont think they excite anyone, but unfortunately for a lot of women, its a fact of life.

As guys get a little older, they do tend to a little more understanding

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Wel i dont think they excite anyone, but unfortunately for a lot of women, its a fact of life.

As guys get a little older, they do tend to a little more understanding "

Thats because they tend to have a few themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They sure do.

So ya meet list is gonna be pretty empty if looking for the "perfect" partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive never had anyone say anything about them to me, would be quite offended if someone did though as i got most of mine going through a growth spurt which is a natural part of growing up and getting older. And like someone said earlier if someone is to point them out and say nasty stuff then they arent worth your time. I just find it hard to forget about them when i see them in the mirror pretty much every day! lol

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

nothing wrong with you just be cofident paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know most women get them during there life, i have them myself, i cant stand them as they make me incredibly self concious, Was just wandering what mens opinions are.....if they are bothered by them or not? Honest opinions please! "

i hate my stretch marks too tho they dont bother me one bit on other women, i dont even notice them to be honest

Ive never had anyone comment on mine and ive never played with a guy whos looked at my stomach and lost his hard on so im guess they feel the same as me

tip tho sunbeds really do reduce the appearance of stretch marks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well im only 18, ive had them over the past couple of years whilst going thru puberty as my body has grown and changed, theyre usually quite noticable when u first get them then fade over the years, just wish theyd fade quicker lol"

My daughters are 19, 23 and 28, all size 8 and all with stretch marks...I have them too. No one likes them but focusing on the negative is very unattractive. Who wants to play with someone with body issues when seeking fun?

Also, there are predatory males, knowing you feel insecure will tell you all sorts to get in your pants. Threads designed to massage egos sometimes have a negative affect.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive thought about tattooes over some of mine as ive wanted some more tatts for a while, sure i read before though that it doesnt work as well over skin with strech marks or scars so most places would say no "

My friend has just had a huge tattoo done on her belly ,its a cherry blossom tree with hills and stuff she had it to cover a c section scar and stretch marks and after years of not showing her belly to anyone including her husband now wont stop getting it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well im only 18, ive had them over the past couple of years whilst going thru puberty as my body has grown and changed, theyre usually quite noticable when u first get them then fade over the years, just wish theyd fade quicker lol

My daughters are 19, 23 and 28, all size 8 and all with stretch marks...I have them too. No one likes them but focusing on the negative is very unattractive. Who wants to play with someone with body issues when seeking fun?

Also, there are predatory males, knowing you feel insecure will tell you all sorts to get in your pants. Threads designed to massage egos sometimes have a negative affect.

Good luck!"

Great points there Sassy.

I want to add, A woman with stretch marks and confidence is sexier than a woman without stretch marks or confidence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your opinions will bare them in mind x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never in my life have i had anyone comment on my stretch marks, ive never even thought about them, anyway my stomach apron covers them now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can honestly say never been an issue i dotn find them off putting myself they are what make you yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got my first ones when I was about 9 due to a growth spurt.

I have a few on my hips & arms, but they have never bothered me & no-one has ever mentioned them.

I had a friend who after her 3 kids had quite noticeable stretch marks that she called her tiger stripes!

Honestly I think you're being too hard on yourself & I don't think you have anything to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know most women get them during there life, i have them myself, i cant stand them as they make me incredibly self concious, Was just wandering what mens opinions are.....if they are bothered by them or not? Honest opinions please! "

Don`t worry about it, unless they`re in the same place the missus has hers.............. Around her feckin mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

girls they are love scars you got them from having your babies, take delight in showing them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"girls they are love scars you got them from having your babies, take delight in showing them off "

very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body has nice bits and not so nice bits but they work together in harmony so it seems a shame to pick one feature out as less attractive than other features.

Anyone who sings nice legs shame about the face well they need to be singing from a position of body perfection.... and that doesnt exist.

Its time to realise its against the norm NOT to have stretch marks as it seems nobody fat, thin, childless, male or female is exempt from the possibility of gaining them at any time during their life....

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