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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Okay so I get profiles looking at my profile but in their text. It states not into black people. So I am confused because clearly in my avater photo you can see I am a black man. So if you're not into black people why would you have a perv at my profile?

Not really looking for an smart arse answer from anyone, Just a little confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair it's not clear from your avatar.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If you looked at them they will probably look back regardless of preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can still look. Don't stress about it. Looks don't mean they are considering you. Folk can just be nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair it's not clear from your avatar. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so I get profiles looking at my profile but in their text. It states not into black people. So I am confused because clearly in my avater photo you can see I am a black man. So if you're not into black people why would you have a perv at my profile?

Not really looking for an smart arse answer from anyone, Just a little confused"

To be honest mate your profile pic to me, on a phone, looks tanned causasian. My profile says single straight guy, not a couple ... guess what views I get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It genuinely isn't clear that you are black, on the avatar showing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say you're black from your avatar

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

I wouldn't know from your avatar - not that I give a damn what colour someone is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so I get profiles looking at my profile but in their text. It states not into black people. So I am confused because clearly in my avater photo you can see I am a black man. So if you're not into black people why would you have a perv at my profile?

Not really looking for an smart arse answer from anyone, Just a little confused

To be honest mate your profile pic to me, on a phone, looks tanned causasian. My profile says single straight guy, not a couple ... guess what views I get?"

But people don't know you are a straight single guy, until they look. That is what profiles are for. To browse and judge any initial compatibility. They have to look first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay so I get profiles looking at my profile but in their text. It states not into black people. So I am confused because clearly in my avater photo you can see I am a black man. So if you're not into black people why would you have a perv at my profile?

Not really looking for an smart arse answer from anyone, Just a little confused"

Hun not that clear from your avatar

Maybe it's the lighting but I wouldn't have looked at this pic on my phone especially and thought that's a black guy xx

It's a nice pic tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair it's not clear from your avatar. "

To be even more fair,avatars are tiny,particularly on a phone/mobile site,so you got to open the profile to get the clearer picture

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you have got some lovely pics so I can't blame them for having a perve .

Seriously though, avatar pics are very small and often not too clear when you are using the site on a mobile. Unless you view the profile pics it's not always clear what someone's skin colour is.

As others have said your avatar does look like a tanned Caucasian man and it does become clear that you are black when look at your other public pics.

I wouldn't worry too much about who's looked anyway. If they like what they see they will contact you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People sometimes change their minds and also others prefer to find the person that they want, rather than someone - in this instance a black guy - searching for and messaging to them.

In the forum I often click the user, instead of a thread or reply icon, by mistake - so people could assume I'm interested in them, when it was just a fingering error.

With thousands of users, there will always be errors, pervs and nosiness. Let it go.

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