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Why do some men moan and others don’t?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it hard to understand that only a few moan about things on fab but 99% don’t. What makes you stop your feet and throw a tizzy or alternately what makes you so chilled and relaxed with the way things are on here? Surely if its as hard as some say everyone would be moaning?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It's a 'stupid' thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a 'stupid' thing."

Well it don't make anyone more attractive to meet thats for sure A nice pert bottom pic does though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do some men moan....

Only when the ball gag ain't tight enough..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some folk forget there on a pc in the interweb and not real life, i once got told in a forum to stop being rude and theres no need to shout because i used caps, i mean caps ffs. And then theres those that argue because you poke someone on Facebook! Its a virtual button you press not a clitorus for gods sake. And although were a couple here and get the usual unwanted msg's from guys and couples i might add, all you have to do is delete them, i mean there not knocking on your door or anything like that.... hold on a minute im moaning now arent i......dammit i hate when that happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some have understanding on what swinging and sites like this are about and some don't and expect to get laid instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

breeding

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I dont think they mean to moan actually, they have come onto a swingers site with an expectation and may have found reality is somewhat different.

Some go, the ones who stay and persevere usually enjoy, mellow and have fun.

Some females/couples moan the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks lol!!!

Sometimes sympathy vote wins and election.

On your topic; if the hole is tight why wont I moan? lolxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a loud moaner, but not on the site

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Surely men don't moan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think some have understanding on what swinging and sites like this are about and some don't and expect to get laid instantly. "

I think you are probably right there. I tend to assume the ones complaining are not as bright or lack maturity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to understand that only a few moan about things on fab but 99% don’t. What makes you stop your feet and throw a tizzy or alternately what makes you so chilled and relaxed with the way things are on here? Surely if its as hard as some say everyone would be moaning? "

Probably most of us mature minded men understand that whinging like a brat is a big turn off for prospective meets?

My query is how do these men find this site - Recommended by a friend? stumble upon it? i.e. what are their expectations and how does that influence if they join or not?

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Im a loud moaner, but not on the site "

Now that I'd like to here, again not on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moaning doesn't help so I look towards the positives. It definitely helps.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Why do couples and females moan too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some have understanding on what swinging and sites like this are about and some don't and expect to get laid instantly.

I think you are probably right there. I tend to assume the ones complaining are not as bright or lack maturity."

Things might start to slow down on that front now The News of the World has stopped reporting. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples and females moan too."

'cos I really am that good?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Why do some couples and females moan too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do couples and females moan too."

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Why do couples and females moan too.

'cos I really am that good? "

lol quick on the drawer there, I added a word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to understand that only a few moan about things on fab but 99% don’t. What makes you stop your feet and throw a tizzy or alternately what makes you so chilled and relaxed with the way things are on here? Surely if its as hard as some say everyone would be moaning?

Probably most of us mature minded men understand that whinging like a brat is a big turn off for prospective meets?

My query is how do these men find this site - Recommended by a friend? stumble upon it? i.e. what are their expectations and how does that influence if they join or not? "

News of the World brought swinging to the general public, now most adults are aware so a quick google of 'swinging' will help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Moaning doesn't help so I look towards the positives. It definitely helps."

Thats the way i tend to look at things. Being positive is far more appealing to others and shows caricature.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why do couples and females moan too.

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking."

OK here goes.

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....mmmmmmmmmmm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cuz some of us just need to vent the frustrations every man has

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Why do couples and females moan too.

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking."

I don't believe I said you did.....but it is the one I am asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"breeding"

I'm gonna moan now, what's the point in hiding your profile? how the eck am I supposed to perve, erm _iew it now eh?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't moan because some people on here really ain't worth it! No matter how much they think they are.

I think some guys' ego can't handle the rejection. Especially if they approach a woman/couple who they'd normally wouldn't look twice at in normal circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do couples and females moan too.

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking.

I don't believe I said you did.....but it is the one I am asking."

Feel free to start a thread on it then

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Why do couples and females moan too.

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking.

I don't believe I said you did.....but it is the one I am asking.

Feel free to start a thread on it then "

I am quite happy here thanks.

My point to my comment is, ALL sections of the site moan, so why should single men be any different.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Why do couples and females moan too.

'cos I really am that good?

lol quick on the drawer there, I added a word."

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

i'll be moaning any sec now,

yep i can feel it coming.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Why do couples and females moan too.

'cos I really am that good?

lol quick on the drawer there, I added a word.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

i'll be moaning any sec now,

yep i can feel it coming. "

lol hello Saucy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't moan because some people on here really ain't worth it! No matter how much they think they are.

I think some guys' ego can't handle the rejection. Especially if they approach a woman/couple who they'd normally wouldn't look twice at in normal circumstances."

I hadn't thought about the rejection in that way before but you may have a point. I think you do have a point over people not being worth moaning over though. Life is too short and its more fun to get on with the good sides.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Yeah it's their loss...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have had a few years on fun on here so I have no need to beg, crawl, kiss the ass of females/couples... I am happy with the fun times, am chilled and find it all amusing.

I love seeing happy posts from people saying they have had a great time, fab meet, met someone special etc etc.

Some take it/themselves far too seriously and swinging has taken over their priorities. They want messaged, then they don't want messaged... all to easily solved by the use of filters..

sadly there is not a filter that allows 'ego stroking'

It is a great scene, some great people and fantastic fun to be had. just keep your feet on the ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to understand that only a few moan about things on fab but 99% don’t. What makes you stop your feet and throw a tizzy or alternately what makes you so chilled and relaxed with the way things are on here? Surely if its as hard as some say everyone would be moaning? "

i think it is easy to moan when you first join as it can be quite fustrating being messed about etc but once you get used to how things work on here you just smile and enjoy yourself......happy days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like anyone ive a point that gets me fucked off, takes a good while to get their and i dont ever hold a grudge, my times to important for shagging to get myself all beaten up at a knockback...sometimes for the fleeting moment i think...whats wrong with me then??????- then i think...ahhhh does it fuckin matter , no it doesnt, theres someone else thatll shag me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples and females moan too.

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking.

I don't believe I said you did.....but it is the one I am asking.

Feel free to start a thread on it then

I am quite happy here thanks.

My point to my comment is, ALL sections of the site moan, so why should single men be any different."

hehe! Good point. Actually, this thread is a moan, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it hard to understand that only a few moan about things on fab but 99% don’t. What makes you stop your feet and throw a tizzy or alternately what makes you so chilled and relaxed with the way things are on here? Surely if its as hard as some say everyone would be moaning?

i think it is easy to moan when you first join as it can be quite fustrating being messed about etc but once you get used to how things work on here you just smile and enjoy yourself......happy days! "

I think you have a point there some people get frustrated and annoyed but when they put all sorts on profiles or their status it does make me think 'angry man' and i do tend to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moaning doesn't help so I look towards the positives. It definitely helps."

Moaning do help atimes after all it's got a thread going lol!!!

Everybody moans it depends on what it is you are moaning about and where. You might choose a different terminology but we all moan QED!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i`d class myself as abit of a moaner. i dont make threads to convey it tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do couples and females moan too.

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking.

I don't believe I said you did.....but it is the one I am asking.

Feel free to start a thread on it then

I am quite happy here thanks.

My point to my comment is, ALL sections of the site moan, so why should single men be any different.

hehe! Good point. Actually, this thread is a moan, isn't it? "

Its far from a moan thread its more to do with trying to understand why some do and others chill out and go with the flow. What makes some guys so easy going and ultimately more approachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you have a point there some people get frustrated and annoyed but when they put all sorts on profiles or their status it does make me think 'angry man' and i do tend to avoid. "

And you are on of thousands here lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i`d class myself as abit of a moaner. i dont make threads to convey it tho"

Now thats interesting to read it shows you have inner control to some extent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples and females moan too.

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking.

I don't believe I said you did.....but it is the one I am asking.

Feel free to start a thread on it then

I am quite happy here thanks.

My point to my comment is, ALL sections of the site moan, so why should single men be any different.

hehe! Good point. Actually, this thread is a moan, isn't it?

Its far from a moan thread its more to do with trying to understand why some do and others chill out and go with the flow. What makes some guys so easy going and ultimately more approachable. "

one word...confidence..!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do couples and females moan too.

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking.

I don't believe I said you did.....but it is the one I am asking.

Feel free to start a thread on it then

I am quite happy here thanks.

My point to my comment is, ALL sections of the site moan, so why should single men be any different.

hehe! Good point. Actually, this thread is a moan, isn't it?

Its far from a moan thread its more to do with trying to understand why some do and others chill out and go with the flow. What makes some guys so easy going and ultimately more approachable.

one word...confidence..!"

Well you might just have it there when i think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i`d class myself as abit of a moaner. i dont make threads to convey it tho

Now thats interesting to read it shows you have inner control to some extent "

i just wait til someone else posts one and agree with them

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Why do couples and females moan too.

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking.

I don't believe I said you did.....but it is the one I am asking.

Feel free to start a thread on it then

I am quite happy here thanks.

My point to my comment is, ALL sections of the site moan, so why should single men be any different.

hehe! Good point. Actually, this thread is a moan, isn't it?

Its far from a moan thread its more to do with trying to understand why some do and others chill out and go with the flow. What makes some guys so easy going and ultimately more approachable.

one word...confidence..!"

another word....drugs..!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i`d class myself as abit of a moaner. i dont make threads to convey it tho

Now thats interesting to read it shows you have inner control to some extent

i just wait til someone else posts one and agree with them "

Lol i like your style Cheeky but thats not a bad trait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

one word...confidence..!

another word....drugs..! "

PMSL @ Saucy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think most moan when they dont get any meets etc,when if they just put the energy they waste moaning into improving their profiles and not just expecting people to meet them on the evidence of one photo and the line "man wants fuck" etc they would not have much to moan about apart from god im shattered from all this shagging...ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men moan....

Only when the ball gag ain't tight enough.. "

...or you're not sitting on their faces long enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking."

Yeah!! c'mon guys stick to the original question - FFS!! [ahem]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men moan....

Only when the ball gag ain't tight enough..

...or you're not sitting on their faces long enough! "

ha ha

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Why do some men moan....

Only when the ball gag ain't tight enough..

...or you're not sitting on their faces long enough! "

lmao or the butt plug isn't big enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now, really though...

It could be that those who do moan are simply moaning feckers in life.

When they post their moans and grumbles on here they might think someone's listening. i.e they have an outlet where out in the real world the positive folk in the world just tell them to take a hike or choose to ignore them.

Moving swiftly along....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now, really though...

It could be that those who do moan are simply moaning feckers in life.

When they post their moans and grumbles on here they might think someone's listening. i.e they have an outlet where out in the real world the positive folk in the world just tell them to take a hike or choose to ignore them.

Moving swiftly along.... "

bang on mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had a few years on fun on here so I have no need to beg, crawl, kiss the ass of females/couples... I am happy with the fun times, am chilled and find it all amusing.

I love seeing happy posts from people saying they have had a great time, fab meet, met someone special etc etc.

Some take it/themselves far too seriously and swinging has taken over their priorities. They want messaged, then they don't want messaged... all to easily solved by the use of filters..

sadly there is not a filter that allows 'ego stroking'

It is a great scene, some great people and fantastic fun to be had. just keep your feet on the ground."

+1

Guys here have to feel they have bend over backwards to comply with the desires of others, leaving no thought to their own.

We're all here to enjoy ourselves. If I see a profile (where I meet the criteria ) with "you must..." or list of "requirements," I keep looking. I'm here to be pleased just as much as I'm here to please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think some guys' ego can't handle the rejection. Especially if they approach a woman/couple who they'd normally wouldn't look twice at in normal circumstances."

I know the OP is talking about men but the above is also true of women and couples.

The problem is some people genuinely struggle to understand they will not appeal to everyone. Some, because they do have talking mirrors and believe their own hype, others because they know they're not perfect but blame others for being shallow etc.

Easy to avoid them really and find the fun people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think some guys' ego can't handle the rejection. Especially if they approach a woman/couple who they'd normally wouldn't look twice at in normal circumstances.

I know the OP is talking about men but the above is also true of women and couples.

The problem is some people genuinely struggle to understand they will not appeal to everyone. Some, because they do have talking mirrors and believe their own hype, others because they know they're not perfect but blame others for being shallow etc.

Easy to avoid them really and find the fun people! "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were all moaning now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples and females moan too.

I didn't start this thread about couples or women though that wasn't the question i was asking.

I don't believe I said you did.....but it is the one I am asking.

Feel free to start a thread on it then

I am quite happy here thanks.

My point to my comment is, ALL sections of the site moan, so why should single men be any different.

hehe! Good point. Actually, this thread is a moan, isn't it?

Its far from a moan thread its more to do with trying to understand why some do and others chill out and go with the flow. What makes some guys so easy going and ultimately more approachable. "


"were all moaning now"

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I think some have understanding on what swinging and sites like this are about and some don't and expect to get laid instantly.

I think you are probably right there. I tend to assume the ones complaining are not as bright or lack maturity."

yup, its a very easy way to spot men who i never want to meet.What i don't get is how they dont understand that far more people read the forum than ever comment,why put off potential meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some men moan....

Only when the ball gag ain't tight enough..

...or you're not sitting on their faces long enough!

lmao or the butt plug isn't big enough?"

When they see the size of the butt plug they moan...ergo: blindfold!

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Why do some men moan....

Only when the ball gag ain't tight enough..

...or you're not sitting on their faces long enough!

lmao or the butt plug isn't big enough?

When they see the size of the butt plug they moan...ergo: blindfold! "

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have more realistic expectation than the others. The saddest are those who believe they are god's gift to women when they are nothing special.

It is always someone else's faults expect their lack of initiatives to improve their profiles without asking for help etc...

Those who are successful on FAB tend to be self starters.

If they moan too much, I would block them, as moaners and groaners are not attractive to me.

IMHO, of course!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Those who moan are regaining consciousness. Those who don’t are still out cold.... but just check their pulse to be on the safe side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rather moan in bed than on here

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Later........

Those who moan haven’t been buried deep enough. Those who don’t are a sufficient depth under the patio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moan like fuck but only in bed xx

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