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Can you have sex without Chemistry?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

7 stellas and any warm hole will do me.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i didnt have sex with jonny smith and he was in the same chem class as me

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

If you use the right chemistry (viagra) you can fuck a door if you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nooooo never,there has to be a spark otherwise it would be soul less to me..

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By *punkyboyukMan
over a year ago

bathgate

any port in a storm!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"7 stellas and any warm hole will do me."
Hmm, that sounds like most guys for me. but not me though lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No"
...most ladies would say same. But is it true for them all? lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


" but not me though lol"

yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well i didnt have sex with jonny smith and he was in the same chem class as me "

Hmm, maybe you were absent on the day pheromones were being studied lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nahhhh

didnt like him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you use the right chemistry (viagra) you can fuck a door if you want."

Lol!!! Maybe that's chemically chemistry lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nooooo never,there has to be a spark otherwise it would be soul less to me.."

Yeah, I know especially if they don't belong your preference like if they aren't Caucasians or... whatever sails our boats lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"any port in a storm!!"
I can imagine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There needs to be a sparkage involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"nooooo never,there has to be a spark otherwise it would be soul less to me..

Yeah, I know especially if they don't belong your preference like if they aren't Caucasians or... whatever sails our boats lol!!!"
everyone is entitled to their preferences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nahhhh

didnt like him "

Which took away the chemistry then? lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ...most ladies would say same. But is it true for them all? lol"

No it's not!

If that was the case no woman would go dogging, go into dark rooms in clubs etc.

Personally: not for me, but every pot has its lid!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Has to be some kind of attraction. Not desperate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No ...most ladies would say same. But is it true for them all? lol

No it's not!

If that was the case no woman would go dogging, go into dark rooms in clubs etc.

Personally: not for me, but every pot has its lid!"

I like the last bit!!!

Every pot has got it's lid. And again, the dark rooms would have been useless if it's same for every lady lol xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"7 stellas and any warm hole will do me."

You're an expensive date!

3 would do me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possible, yes.

Probable, no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"7 stellas and any warm hole will do me.

You're an expensive date!

3 would do me."

Lol!!!

Can I host you then? (I can afford 3 Lol!!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Possible, yes.

Probable, no."

Can you elaborate please? Your was double edged lolxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very occasionally the horn can take over, its a basic fact lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeh if shes sexy enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"very occasionally the horn can take over, its a basic fact lol"

You might be right! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yeh if shes sexy enough "

Don't you think the sexy is your stimuli for chemistry? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possible, yes.

Probable, no.

Can you elaborate please? Your was double edged lolxxx"

Sure.

I once made the mistake of going through with a meet against my instinct ie. when he turned up he wasn't like his pic... needless to say there was Biology but no chemistry.

I promised myself I wouldn't do that again, hence the comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to shag em not get a phd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to shag em not get a phd "

Penis hitting device?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think sexy comes in many forms. physical being one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Possible, yes.

Probable, no.

Can you elaborate please? Your was double edged lolxxx

Sure.

I once made the mistake of going through with a meet against my instinct ie. when he turned up he wasn't like his pic... needless to say there was Biology but no chemistry.

I promised myself I wouldn't do that again, hence the comment."

Thanks for the clarity, you almost sacrificed clarity on the altar of brevity!! Lol!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to shag em not get a phd "

Lol!!! Have fun man!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to shag em not get a phd

Penis hitting device? "

Probably lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think sexy comes in many forms. physical being one"

I believe you

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Yes I can. Sometimes it is about the situation rather than the person/people involved. But I couldn't arrange in advance to fuck a munter.

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

No.

Mercedes x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?"

Define chemistry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.. I may just be horny and want a cock and the end result..

I can actually admit to having had sex with guys that I didnt have even the slightest connection with..

and throughly enjoyed it...

I am guilty of seeing men often as just a cock and cum supplier at times.. I have to find them not gross though..

for me Overweight, or over a certain age, hair colour is important etc.. but I dont have to think "mmmm I like you" just.. "oh nice cock"

I quite enjoy impersonal sex from time to time..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible but no where near as good xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once and I regretted it. I stupidly thought I would find more chemistry when I kissed him. But no he was pushy from the moment I met him and now I cringe when I think about it.

I put it down to experience and never again will I not follow my gut instint

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once and I regretted it. I stupidly thought I would find more chemistry when I kissed him. But no he was pushy from the moment I met him and now I cringe when I think about it.

I put it down to experience and never again will I not follow my gut instint "

nice ass x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes like for example at a gangbang, in a dark room, grope box....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe no, maybe yes. Depends on the circumstances

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

A definate no from me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a one to one meet or a couples meet, then yes must have chemistry.

But, in a club situation and all I want is cock and more cock then no need for chemistry just an erection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try asking the bride of frankenstein xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define chemistry?"

The most important element is not to be on your periodic table..;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess some can but i couldnt but chemistry comes in many forms for me

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman
over a year ago

east london

Chemistry makes it so much better but yeah have done and will no doubt will do again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my best sex I have had outside of a relationship, has been with guys I never even looked at...

Just their cocks..

no foreplay, no kissing, just straight to it..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well….. maybe people can have sex without chemistry or maybe people can’t,,,,,, but sure as shit,,,,, ya canna do it without biology…..yayyyyyyy for the ology’s

yikesdidIjustreallysaythatfacehere

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

definately no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

not something for me..... I know some people can "switch off" so to speak, but I couldn't to that extent..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, yes....I did once with an ex after we broke up (I was 17 & naive), I felt SO shit afterwards. NEVER again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not something for me..... I know some people can "switch off" so to speak, but I couldn't to that extent.."

yeh riiight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no words need be spoke for lightning to strike. a brief moment where ur eyes meet can do it

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?"

The doggers might have an angle on this one..

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?"

The doggers might have an angle on this one..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?"

I think this all depends on the sex if its fantasy sex

by that I mean the fantasy is the chemistry so you don't need to feel any chemistry from the other person......hay I could be wrong but if your fantasy is to have sex with a group of men or women the odds are your not going to like every one in the bunch...

When looked on like that the answers no but the truth is its a question of personal tastes so has no right ir wrong answer like so much in life

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Yes. Generally nowhere near as enjoyable though

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?"
No, i always have to have a bunsen burner and a few test tubes around, it just aint the same without them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am loving the different _iew points and the circumstances involved lolxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?

I think this all depends on the sex if its fantasy sex

by that I mean the fantasy is the chemistry so you don't need to feel any chemistry from the other person......hay I could be wrong but if your fantasy is to have sex with a group of men or women the odds are your not going to like every one in the bunch...

When looked on like that the answers no but the truth is its a question of personal tastes so has no right ir wrong answer like so much in life "

I like this answer.

I like darkrooms, I like the thought of guys touching me and I dont know what they look like. I rely on my sense of smell and touch. I can tell that they smell gorgeous from the aftershave they are wearing, I can feel nice fabric from the clothes they are wearing, I can use my hands to feel the shape of their faces and whether they are clean shaved or not. I dont know what they look like. I have no chemistry with them. In my head they are George Clooney. I have chemistry with him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?

I think this all depends on the sex if its fantasy sex

by that I mean the fantasy is the chemistry so you don't need to feel any chemistry from the other person......hay I could be wrong but if your fantasy is to have sex with a group of men or women the odds are your not going to like every one in the bunch...

When looked on like that the answers no but the truth is its a question of personal tastes so has no right ir wrong answer like so much in life

I like this answer.

I like darkrooms, I like the thought of guys touching me and I dont know what they look like. I rely on my sense of smell and touch. I can tell that they smell gorgeous from the aftershave they are wearing, I can feel nice fabric from the clothes they are wearing, I can use my hands to feel the shape of their faces and whether they are clean shaved or not. I dont know what they look like. I have no chemistry with them. In my head they are George Clooney. I have chemistry with him "

So there's an imaginary chemistry then l

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

i would never have sex,without chemistry.

rohypnol didnt invent itself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i would never have sex,without chemistry.

rohypnol didnt invent itself. "

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"If it's a one to one meet or a couples meet, then yes must have chemistry.

But, in a club situation and all I want is cock and more cock then no need for chemistry just an erection. "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt need chemistry looking at _unky monkeys bum.lol.

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"i wouldnt need chemistry looking at _unky monkeys bum.lol."

peeps tut tut lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i wouldnt need chemistry looking at _unky monkeys bum.lol."

Can you expatiate please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, what does expatiate mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly iconi

You are using our biggest and best sex organ your brain..all roads lead to it ....things start there and end with out imagination there can be only instinct ....chemistry is imagining what some ones like in bed because they have got under your skin..

Well that's how it is with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol, what does expatiate mean?"

Clarify, or shade more light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?"

in clubs yes, ive played with guys ive never spoken a word to, in open rooms people join in, if i look at them and they look ok thats good enough for me lol

on private meets no, i have to like someone to play with them privately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i suppose it depends on my mood.

my head says no but my cock says yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its possible to have sex without chemistry, but not without biology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly iconi

You are using our biggest and best sex organ your brain..all roads lead to it ....things start there and end with out imagination there can be only instinct ....chemistry is imagining what some ones like in bed because they have got under your skin..

Well that's how it is with me "

Lots of people don't like the darkroom because of the sensory deprivation but I love it for that reason. People say ooo no I couldn't, you don't know what they're like, they could be really ugly. I love guys who smell gorgeous, I love aftershave, so if I smell something that I like I want to get close to them. My essentials are that they are clean and are dressed smartly. I can smell aftershave and clean skin underneath and my hands and brain tell me all I need to know.

I haven't had penetrative sex in a darkroom because of the fear of not wearing condoms and I'm a bit paranoid about it, I like to see the condom and when I'm on a meet and turn so they can take me from behind, I tend to put my arm through my legs and caress their balls and cock before insertion. If they tried to insert straight away I would say ooo wait a minute, let me feel your balls and the hard cock I'm getting. They think I'm being a really raunchy naughty girl, I'm really feeling for the condom and that its in place. My OH is always with me so he ensures that too.

I've also gone out with my OH blindfolded from the house,wearing only corset, stockings and an overcoat. He drove me somewhere, we met a guy there, he wasn't allowed to speak to me so I only went by touch and smell. He positioned me over some kind of machinery (found out afterwards the guy owned a factory and I was taken over various machinery items including a fork lift truck, very cold on my bottom that was) and the guy and my OH played with me. I was taken home still wearing the blindfold and I have no idea what the guy looked like or where I went. My partner met the guy the day before and inspected the premises to ensure my safety.

For me the chemistry is doing the unusual rather than following the same old formula of finding someone attractive and just playing on that basis. I prefer more imaginative scenarios where my other senses are used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your line of thought icon and than you for sharing .......very interesting and open ....hope you have many more such experience ...intelligence is linked to imagination and you are a very attractive person if you have both ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iconic,

Surely, the sixth sense seems to be where your chemical reactions take place! Hence the seat of your chemistry. That was a superb one, it's been added to my fantasy lolxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met a potential playmate blind-folded while waiting in my hotel room for him.

It is not something I would do normally due to concerns about personal safety etc...

However, I had vetted this young gent for hours, and built up an element of trust to feel safe to do so.

It was exciting, and I would love to do that again in future.

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman
over a year ago

east london

I also did this and what a mistake! I do try and be brutally honest with people about myself before meeting, I wish everyone else did the same. While he was someone I chatted to for a long time prior to meeting and we connected on many levels there was absolutely no sexual chemisrt between us (on my part). Possible the most difficult night I've ever experienced over the past 3/4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive got to be totally honest i very rarely meet guys more than once so personality isnt so important to me as it is to most who are looking for regular meets, because im mainly just after one off meet i do tend to go more for looks, but even tho its probably only going to be a one off meet i still do like to get one with people, but where as lots like to meet socially first for a night of chatting then arrange a meet, for me im happy to meet in a pub and have one drink, thats all the time i need to know if i want to have sex with someone or not lol

its not that i'll shag anyone, i wont and i have met guys and said no thanks but i just dont need all night to decide, and sparks dnt have to fly me to decide i want to have ex with them so long as they are good looking and can hold a conversation over a drink im happy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am sorry but I can't have sex without chemistry I _iew swinging a bit like dating but without the commitment and the other stuff. I have to be attracted to the man both sexually and mentally because otherwise I just don't get turned on.

Don't get me wrong I have had great sex with guys that I have met in a club because the banter has been there. However people are diverse and can get turned on by different things.

I can't sleep with someone I dont fancy it just makes me feel cheap and my mum brought me up to respect myself she always said treat yourself like the most expensive bottle of wine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Pearl in that when you are single you have to be much more careful and its a bigger risk. I wouldnt do the majority of the scenarios I have if I didnt have my OH arranging it.

Like I said the chemistry is the scenario for me. A few weeks ago my OH took me to a secluded forest and tied me naked to a tree with a blindfold on. He started to touch me, and it took a few minutes before wondering how he could kiss me and give me oral sex at the same time. He had arranged for someone to just come across us in the forest and play with me. It was scary but incredibly thrilling and exciting. Noone spoke to me. After the event when I was untied and the blindfold taken off, me and my partner sat on the picnic blanket and I wondered if it really had happened. Was amazing.

There is no way I could have had that experience. My OH chose a guy from our friends list, they spoke on msn so I wouldnt see the messages. They met up for a drink the night before and, what I still chuckle over, my OH took the guy into the forest and showed him the route and where we would be. He was local to that area so he knew it. The thought of my guy going into a forest with another man makes me laugh.

The brain is a powerful tool. Its why reading a book is more enjoyable than a film. The characters are how you imagine them to be, and this is how I imagine the guys that I dont see when blindfolded. I know they are clean, and I trust my OH to choose guys that I am attracted to, and I have a failsafe because these guys are on my friends list so I have seen profiles at some point and been ok with them. I just dont know who it is.

Pearl's experience shows that whilst she enjoyed a blindfold experience too, single ladies do have to think of their safety first and foremost so their is limitations in that regard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?"

If you get hard she is amenable and you are big enough to get it in yes. Not hard is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it possible to have sex with someone you don't have any Chemistry with?

Even if it's once?"

Does without chemistry mean without rohypnol?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Course you can have sex without chemistry.

For me, good sex is a different matter...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Course you can have sex without chemistry.

For me, good sex is a different matter..."

I agree!

How many get pissed at the weekend and regret who they wake up next to eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A horny mind is chemistry enough for me

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By *TUNNAWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

no sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its better sex if you like the person. If not you open your legs and think of England .. I like to be turnd on mind and body and when the two are working together its heven x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Its better sex if you like the person. "

Some of the most fantastic horny as fuck sex I have had has involved people I couldn't even see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its better sex if you like the person.

Some of the most fantastic horny as fuck sex I have had has involved people I couldn't even see."
I had a go at that at xtasia in the box and dark room all i could think of is yukkkk looking old men ...... I like to see make sure thay are ok ..... get some funny looking men hanging around there .. put me right off ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got to be attracted to someone before I can play with them. I couldn't use a glory hole or do blindfolded sex with someone I didn't know.

I'm not desperate for a shag and I have standards to maintain.

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They aren't very high, but they're standards none the less

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Its better sex if you like the person.

Some of the most fantastic horny as fuck sex I have had has involved people I couldn't even see. I had a go at that at xtasia in the box and dark room all i could think of is yukkkk looking old men ...... I like to see make sure thay are ok ..... get some funny looking men hanging around there .. put me right off .."

Yes, being able to completely free your mind from its insignificant worries, constraints and inhibitions is a prerequisite when exploring and immersing yourself in the exciting fulfilment of new and different experiences.

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

beer goggles are a wonderful thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"beer goggles are a wonderful thing "

Offering some Dutch courage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its better sex if you like the person.

Some of the most fantastic horny as fuck sex I have had has involved people I couldn't even see. I had a go at that at xtasia in the box and dark room all i could think of is yukkkk looking old men ...... I like to see make sure thay are ok ..... get some funny looking men hanging around there .. put me right off ..

Yes, being able to completely free your mind from its insignificant worries, constraints and inhibitions is a prerequisite when exploring and immersing yourself in the exciting fulfilment of new and different experiences."
yes if it was a room full of men i liked and never really new ..... i would be fine .... its just i have a pic in my head of sreak with green theeth , I cant go down the gang -bang thing just going into a dark room and feeling ..... I fair i meet him again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got to be attracted to someone before I can play with them. I couldn't use a glory hole or do blindfolded sex with someone I didn't know.

I'm not desperate for a shag and I have standards to maintain.

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They aren't very high, but they're standards none the less "

Its absolutely not about people being desperate, its about wanting something more imaginative than a straight swap with a couple you've chatted about the weather too. Some people get turned on by the taboo nature of going something really naughty.

I can understand people worrying about looks and hygiene. But all your other senses come into play when your eyes are covered. You know people aren't dirty because you have a nose, you know they have good teeth b ecause they don't have bad breath and you can feel bone structure and get a good idea of what someone looks like by touch. Do you think that blind people only date and have sex with dirty ugly people then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got to be attracted to someone before I can play with them. I couldn't use a glory hole or do blindfolded sex with someone I didn't know.

I'm not desperate for a shag and I have standards to maintain.

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They aren't very high, but they're standards none the less

Its absolutely not about people being desperate, its about wanting something more imaginative than a straight swap with a couple you've chatted about the weather too. Some people get turned on by the taboo nature of going something really naughty.

I can understand people worrying about looks and hygiene. But all your other senses come into play when your eyes are covered. You know people aren't dirty because you have a nose, you know they have good teeth b ecause they don't have bad breath and you can feel bone structure and get a good idea of what someone looks like by touch. Do you think that blind people only date and have sex with dirty ugly people then "

It's never crossed my mind to consider how blind people choose their sexual partners.

We all have preferences, do's and don'ts, you've only got to read the "fuckbuddy" thread to realise that.

I couldn't do it without feeling some attraction, and by that I mean some physical attraction.

I've never been the type of guy who sees every hole as a goal.

I've always been able to pull, so I know I would never be in the situation where I'd have to do it "blind" so to speak.

Some blokes will shag a hole in a plank, and the only chemistry they'd have to consider is whether the plank is painted or stained

I'm comfortable in my own little world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a half way compromise between the dark room with if worries and fall on chemistry ..

That's the roman orgy....they put masks on back then.....one type for men another type for women so you still tella little bit about the people around you .....would you need chemistry to take part or would the excitement of the game allow you to play ..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been going to clubs and things years and most are on couples singles nights and seen what go on around the dark rooms and Boxes you stand- in two clubs seats ner there ...... you get really all sorts and alot of the men who would not get a look in ..... and only play there and yes some ladys love it . I love the unknown myself but its with a play mates my eyes coved and i get to feel ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*Standing aside reading the thoughtful contributions on here*

I am loving it xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

In a group or club yes, on a one to one then no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a group or club yes, on a one to one then no"

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a group or club yes, on a one to one then no"

for me it would depend what the one to one situation was.. if it was without kissing..and straight to sex.. then basically a good standard of hygiene and not shreks cousin and I dont need more of an attraction than the hard cock...

If I am going to spend a little time kissing and teasing before we get started then its more important.

Cali

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"In a group or club yes, on a one to one then no

Fair enough "

Is there something wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened before, yes. Was it any good? No, it was pretty dire. Would I do it again? Probably. With the same person? Yes, just to show off. Does that help? No, not really but as chemistry experiments go there is no control!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a group or club yes, on a one to one then no

Fair enough

Is there something wrong with that?"

No not at all. Tried to say you made some sense xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's happened before, yes. Was it any good? No, it was pretty dire. Would I do it again? Probably. With the same person? Yes, just to show off. Does that help? No, not really but as chemistry experiments go there is no control!"

In chemistry some reactions could be controlled though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened before, yes. Was it any good? No, it was pretty dire. Would I do it again? Probably. With the same person? Yes, just to show off. Does that help? No, not really but as chemistry experiments go there is no control!

In chemistry some reactions could be controlled though "

Not the sort you'd want to suck up into a pipette

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's happened before, yes. Was it any good? No, it was pretty dire. Would I do it again? Probably. With the same person? Yes, just to show off. Does that help? No, not really but as chemistry experiments go there is no control!

In chemistry some reactions could be controlled though

Not the sort you'd want to suck up into a pipette "

What sort then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance in hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to now Ive never been into sucking a guy through those glory hole things. Ive tried it out with my OH and another guy came and stuck his cock through, but I ignored him. I do like to feel more of the body and not just the cock.

But I like the imaginative aspect of it. I am all for doing something a little different, I like experimentation. For me I dont need to sit down and chat to them, or they dont need to look like a male model. Yes Ive had times when ive gone to parties where all the guys were model gorgeous, but that was a different night, a different fantasy. Its why I enjoy the BMFC nights, the guys are really hot and sexy.

But I dont judge anyone who goes dogging or who uses darkrooms, or who is into blindfold sex and complete stranger sex or BDSM. Its just another erotic way of playing, one that relies on all the senses.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

To all the guys who have said 'no'.....

Imagine for a moment, you are with your partner/play-partner who you trust totally. She says "I have a special treat for you..... I want you to wear this blindfold, whilst I sit on your face..... and 5 of the very best cock suckers are going to come in and try to give you the best oral pleasure you have ever had"

Really..... you're not interested?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To all the guys who have said 'no'.....

Imagine for a moment, you are with your partner/play-partner who you trust totally. She says "I have a special treat for you..... I want you to wear this blindfold, whilst I sit on your face..... and 5 of the very best cock suckers are going to come in and try to give you the best oral pleasure you have ever had"

Really..... you're not interested?"

Emm, in that case opinions might change :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To all the guys who have said 'no'.....

Imagine for a moment, you are with your partner/play-partner who you trust totally. She says "I have a special treat for you..... I want you to wear this blindfold, whilst I sit on your face..... and 5 of the very best cock suckers are going to come in and try to give you the best oral pleasure you have ever had"

Really..... you're not interested?"

No thanks. Although I trust Kate with 99.999% of all things, at all times, she is blessed with a wicked sence of humour. She would be just as likely to get 5 blokes or 5 mingers, just to provoke a reaction from me

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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No thanks. Although I trust Kate with 99.999% of all things, at all times, she is blessed with a wicked sence of humour. She would be just as likely to get 5 blokes or 5 mingers, just to provoke a reaction from me "

God bless Kate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a man whos into kinky sex ... you go to his door and in the letter box is your eye-cover .... your told in letter before you go in strip and sit on wooden seat ready for him .... to do what ever to you ....and you to him you see nothing at all.. lots of oral play and spanking and toys and sex ........ he is about 69/70 and very fit man and know how to turn woman on .... some who go cum 3 or 4 times in 2 hours .... have i been no ..... but i find it very erotic . In my head i have this pic what he must look like ..and it changes all the time . I now play games like this with my young men now and again x lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know a man whos into kinky sex ... you go to his door and in the letter box is your eye-cover .... your told in letter before you go in strip and sit on wooden seat ready for him .... to do what ever to you ....and you to him you see nothing at all.. lots of oral play and spanking and toys and sex ........ he is about 69/70 and very fit man and know how to turn woman on .... some who go cum 3 or 4 times in 2 hours .... have i been no ..... but i find it very erotic . In my head i have this pic what he must look like ..and it changes all the time . I now play games like this with my young men now and again x lol"

That sounds interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends.. I may just be horny and want a cock and the end result..

I can actually admit to having had sex with guys that I didnt have even the slightest connection with..

and throughly enjoyed it...

I am guilty of seeing men often as just a cock and cum supplier at times.. I have to find them not gross though..

for me Overweight, or over a certain age, hair colour is important etc.. but I dont have to think "mmmm I like you" just.. "oh nice cock"

I quite enjoy impersonal sex from time to time..

Cali "

same for me

sometimes i just like to shag without saying a single word to them although not just anyone i just don't have to find them particularly attractive they are often not my type but that said i do have many limits as in no one too old, young, hairy or smelly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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same for me

sometimes i just like to shag without saying a single word to them although not just anyone i just don't have to find them particularly attractive they are often not my type but that said i do have many limits as in no one too old, young, hairy or smelly"

When are those times you shag without saying a word please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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same for me

sometimes i just like to shag without saying a single word to them although not just anyone i just don't have to find them particularly attractive they are often not my type but that said i do have many limits as in no one too old, young, hairy or smelly

When are those times you shag without saying a word please? "

oh too late now you spoke to me tut

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

same for me

sometimes i just like to shag without saying a single word to them although not just anyone i just don't have to find them particularly attractive they are often not my type but that said i do have many limits as in no one too old, young, hairy or smelly

When are those times you shag without saying a word please?

oh too late now you spoke to me tut

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We can turn back time to when it's right!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a 1 to 1 meet there has to be some sort of spark.

In a club, they just have to have an erect cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For a 1 to 1 meet there has to be some sort of spark.

In a club, they just have to have an erect cock. "

So, for you, chemistry is dependent on scenario then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a man whos into kinky sex ... you go to his door and in the letter box is your eye-cover .... your told in letter before you go in strip and sit on wooden seat ready for him .... to do what ever to you ....and you to him you see nothing at all.. lots of oral play and spanking and toys and sex ........ he is about 69/70 and very fit man and know how to turn woman on .... some who go cum 3 or 4 times in 2 hours .... have i been no ..... but i find it very erotic . In my head i have this pic what he must look like ..and it changes all the time . I now play games like this with my young men now and again x lol"

Oooo I love the sound of this, this sounds fabulous. I don't need to know what he looks like cos in my head he looks like Sean Connery.

I do find it unusual that people have to see what someone looks like and has to talk to them before they could play. Has noone ever been turned on by a voice or the feel of a strong male arm, its amazing to rely only on your sense of smell and touch. But I do accept that some people need to be conventional - I'm glad I've explored the more erotic scenario though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a man whos into kinky sex ... you go to his door and in the letter box is your eye-cover .... your told in letter before you go in strip and sit on wooden seat ready for him .... to do what ever to you ....and you to him you see nothing at all.. lots of oral play and spanking and toys and sex ........ he is about 69/70 and very fit man and know how to turn woman on .... some who go cum 3 or 4 times in 2 hours .... have i been no ..... but i find it very erotic . In my head i have this pic what he must look like ..and it changes all the time . I now play games like this with my young men now and again x lol

Oooo I love the sound of this, this sounds fabulous. I don't need to know what he looks like cos in my head he looks like Sean Connery.

I do find it unusual that people have to see what someone looks like and has to talk to them before they could play. Has noone ever been turned on by a voice or the feel of a strong male arm, its amazing to rely only on your sense of smell and touch. But I do accept that some people need to be conventional - I'm glad I've explored the more erotic scenario though "

I wish I could imagine every lady on here as Marilyn Monroe, but I just can't.

I cannot trust anyone enough, not even Kate, to this blindfold thing.

The dream would become a nightmare if I discovered it was Marilyn Manson that sucked my cock, and not Marilyn Monroe.

No way, not for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I wish I could imagine every lady on here as Marilyn Monroe, but I just can't.

I cannot trust anyone enough, not even Kate, to this blindfold thing.

The dream would become a nightmare if I discovered it was Marilyn Manson that sucked my cock, and not Marilyn Monroe.

No way, not for me "

Different strokes for different folks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know a man whos into kinky sex ... you go to his door and in the letter box is your eye-cover .... your told in letter before you go in strip and sit on wooden seat ready for him .... to do what ever to you ....and you to him you see nothing at all.. lots of oral play and spanking and toys and sex ........ he is about 69/70 and very fit man and know how to turn woman on .... some who go cum 3 or 4 times in 2 hours .... have i been no ..... but i find it very erotic . In my head i have this pic what he must look like ..and it changes all the time . I now play games like this with my young men now and again x lol"

Do you know any woman that does same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There needs to be a sparkage involved"

I agree completely - I've had loads more sex since I started using a taser!!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I know a man whos into kinky sex ... you go to his door and in the letter box is your eye-cover .... your told in letter before you go in strip and sit on wooden seat ready for him .... to do what ever to you ....and you to him you see nothing at all.. lots of oral play and spanking and toys and sex ........ he is about 69/70 and very fit man and know how to turn woman on .... some who go cum 3 or 4 times in 2 hours .... have i been no ..... but i find it very erotic . In my head i have this pic what he must look like ..and it changes all the time . I now play games like this with my young men now and again x lol

Oooo I love the sound of this, this sounds fabulous. I don't need to know what he looks like cos in my head he looks like Sean Connery.

I do find it unusual that people have to see what someone looks like and has to talk to them before they could play. Has noone ever been turned on by a voice or the feel of a strong male arm, its amazing to rely only on your sense of smell and touch. But I do accept that some people need to be conventional - I'm glad I've explored the more erotic scenario though

I wish I could imagine every lady on here as Marilyn Monroe, but I just can't.

I cannot trust anyone enough, not even Kate, to this blindfold thing.

The dream would become a nightmare if I discovered it was Marilyn Manson that sucked my cock, and not Marilyn Monroe.

No way, not for me "

bang goes that idea for the beach party then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeh if shes sexy enough

Don't you think the sexy is your stimuli for chemistry? lol"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yeh if shes sexy enough

Don't you think the sexy is your stimuli for chemistry? lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there definitely has to be chemistry, without it I think the meet would be uncomfortable. I think with my head and cock at the same time I have a very smart penis lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me there definitely has to be chemistry, without it I think the meet would be uncomfortable. I think with my head and cock at the same time I have a very smart penis lol"

Oh, do you? And you don't think I do too?

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