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Survey: How long should sex last?

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By *aptain V OP   Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

In a recent survey of how long should sex should last below are the results.

What do people think? Do you prefer sex lasted longer or shorter with your partner?

41% of people (the majority in the survey) said that it should last 5-10 minutes.

37% of people wanted 10-20 minutes.

10% opted for 20-30 minutes, and 12% wanted more than half an hour of bonking.

That means that 78% of people wanted to have sex for less than 20 minutes.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm not shaving my Minnie for anything less than an hour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why either or?

Sometimes we're in the mood for an all nighter.

Other times, it's bend over now and it's done with in minutes.

The rest of the time, falls in between those extremes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of quick ones, I do like a good long session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not shaving my Minnie for anything less than an hour! "

That's a lot of pubes

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By *aptain V OP   Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"I'm not shaving my Minnie for anything less than an hour!

That's a lot of pubes "

One wonders how often one has sex if pubes need to be shaved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The actual penetration part of sex or the whole thing foreplay as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who cum's first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The actual penetration part of sex or the whole thing foreplay as well?"

You have to do both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From dusk until dawn

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

LMBFAO!

Cheers guys, should have worded they slightly different!

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley


"The actual penetration part of sex or the whole thing foreplay as well?"

Very important distinction!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 'real life' I believe studies show the actual sex act lasts, on average, about 8-12 minutes* (I'll have to go Google to check the data).

On Fab, everyone boasts how they can go all night long. You won't get an accurate measure on here - the average will be measured in hours not minutes if you listen to Fabsters!

(*I'm assuming this doesn't include all the foreplay / build up?)

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

As has already been said, it depends on the moment.

Sometimes only a fast fuck will do, and at other times, you want a more leisurely session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a long session. But that's from start to finish. Obviously that wouldn't be continual penetration x

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By *aptain V OP   Man
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"The actual penetration part of sex or the whole thing foreplay as well?"

Just the actual penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actual penetration I'm not sure, I've never really timed it exactly. I've always been with fast finishers so I've kind of trained my body to cum quickly to beat them! Can cun within a minute of fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cancun? Mexico, meant can cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading that research has made me feel quite pleased as I'm sure actual penetration lasts longer than 12 minute .... on average anyway.

TBH I might only last 12 seconds with some of you on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if it's a quickie ? How long should a quickie last ?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Until my chuff is so swollen it closes up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my ex husband it was 10/15 minutes on average, with half of that being penetration.

Now, with my regular and long term partners it's between 45 minutes and an hour and a half, with between 20 minutes and 40 minutes approximately of penetration.

I'm surprised at how long some man can last during penetration; although we sometimes switch around and have oral in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until my chuff is so swollen it closes up. "
#

dont go there again missy -

me im often in the minority -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With my ex husband it was 10/15 minutes on average, with half of that being penetration.

Now, with my regular and long term partners it's between 45 minutes and an hour and a half, with between 20 minutes and 40 minutes approximately of penetration.

I'm surprised at how long some man can last during penetration; although we sometimes switch around and have oral in between. "

With my ex from foreplay to finish I'd watch the first scene of Constantine when he exercises the demon with a mirror, never ever seen the rest of the film and would finish with the DVD on a loop with the credits!

If Constantine went in the machine, I knew I was getting sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone remind me. What is sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The actual penetration part of sex or the whole thing foreplay as well?

You have to do both? "

Weird huh?

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Saying that on this programme call sexppd state 4 to 5 mins approx for guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With my ex husband it was 10/15 minutes on average, with half of that being penetration.

Now, with my regular and long term partners it's between 45 minutes and an hour and a half, with between 20 minutes and 40 minutes approximately of penetration.

I'm surprised at how long some man can last during penetration; although we sometimes switch around and have oral in between.

With my ex from foreplay to finish I'd watch the first scene of Constantine when he exercises the demon with a mirror, never ever seen the rest of the film and would finish with the DVD on a loop with the credits!

If Constantine went in the machine, I knew I was getting sex! "

I wouldn't have missed any of it. I would have watched the first ten minutes from under his armpit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As people have said depends on the breakdown of foreplay and penetration

I like lots of foreplay over a long duration 20/30 min until you both can't stand it any longer and just want to fuck. Then it's usually over quickly!

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By *J StathamMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I'd say:

5-10 mins for foreplay

10 mins for intercourse

5 mins to get a drink and rehydrate

25-30 time to recharge

30 mins intercourse

15 mins drive home

5 mins applying verification

So lets round it up to approx 2hrs

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By *eandluCouple
over a year ago

Thames Ditton

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By *0shades 2000Man
over a year ago

coleraine

90 mins is perfect.....

Keeps up my stamina for football

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Until she drops and then some....

Part of the holistic, is the support/coming together afterwards.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Why either or?

Sometimes we're in the mood for an all nighter.

Other times, it's bend over now and it's done with in minutes.

The rest of the time, falls in between those extremes. "

Exactly, a lot of the posts here seem to confusing swinging meets, which should last a minimum of 2 hours (foreplay included) with monday night marital sex where people actually need to go to work the next day.

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