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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Going through a little run lately, of having msg's sat in my outbox that have been read, but not replied to or deleted....

Why?

Surely it's read them..... reply or delete

I reply to all msg's sent to me, even if I don't think it's what the person possibly wanted to hear

What do you do?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i don't read most of them, don't even notice my inbox usually unless i'm already chatting to someone in there.

when i do notice i skim down the page, can read most of them already so don't need to open them, some i look at their pics and decide i'm not interested in them.

i'm not into many guys, don't have a type as such but still whatever it is i like i don't see it much on here.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Christ.

That's unheard of. No wonder you are upset.

I can't think of one reason why some woman you have written to shouldn't reply.

Just wait a while longer. Im sure it'll come.

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So is your inbox full of unwanted and mostly unread msgs?

Why don't you delete them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get messages read them and then mark them as unread ...not that I've done that

I try to reply to all of mine ..some get lost but I do reply eventually

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I can see a message has been read but I haven't had a reply I tend to think they're not interested. I delete my 'read sent messages regularly so I can't think about it too much....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ.

That's unheard of. No wonder you are upset.

I can't think of one reason why some woman you have written to shouldn't reply.

Just wait a while longer. Im sure it'll come.

xx "

Haha.

Story of my life.

I get over it by getting rid of all my yellow messages in sent messages regularly.

Life's too short to worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It wasn't written or meant as how could a woman refuse Granny... don't get your knitting in a twist

I was asking why people read msgs then either don't reply or why they don't just delete them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going through a little run lately, of having msg's sat in my outbox that have been read, but not replied to or deleted....

Why?

Surely it's read them..... reply or delete

I reply to all msg's sent to me, even if I don't think it's what the person possibly wanted to hear

What do you do?"

Story of my fab life...

I don't message anyone anymore, just waiting to be messaged...and waiting..and waiting..and waiting....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can get messages read them and then mark them as unread ...not that I've done that

I try to reply to all of mine ..some get lost but I do reply eventually "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can get messages read them and then mark them as unread ...not that I've done that

I try to reply to all of mine ..some get lost but I do reply eventually

Snap"

Snap .... So when snaps are alike what do we do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't worry now Lady Lick xx

Just don't understand why if they're read & unwanted why they're not deleted

Some peoples boxes must be full of crap!

Hoover Dyson or Gtech required!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete my messages which I've replied to ...to find the lost ones

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By *ensualcouple99Couple
over a year ago

Colchester


"Going through a little run lately, of having msg's sat in my outbox that have been read, but not replied to or deleted....

Why?

Surely it's read them..... reply or delete

I reply to all msg's sent to me, even if I don't think it's what the person possibly wanted to hear

What do you do?"

We don't always delete messages. Sometimes this is just laziness, sometimes it's because we want to make sure that both of us have seen it, sometimes it's because altho we aren't looking for a meet at the moment they may be of interest.

Best thing to do if it bothers you is delete your sent messages and then it won't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can get messages read them and then mark them as unread ...not that I've done that

I try to reply to all of mine ..some get lost but I do reply eventually

Snap

Snap .... So when snaps are alike what do we do "

Jinx?

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye


"

Some peoples boxes must be full of crap!

"

I'm sorry to say that is true - some days 50+ messages, of which only one or two are interesting. There's just no time to deal with all the rest.

Janet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wasn't written or meant as how could a woman refuse Granny... don't get your knitting in a twist

I was asking why people read msgs then either don't reply or why they don't just delete them?

"

What has granny got to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can get messages read them and then mark them as unread ...not that I've done that

I try to reply to all of mine ..some get lost but I do reply eventually

Snap

Snap .... So when snaps are alike what do we do

Jinx?"

And neither can speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Some peoples boxes must be full of crap!

I'm sorry to say that is true - some days 50+ messages, of which only one or two are interesting. There's just no time to deal with all the rest.

Janet"

One message is an event, lol

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"So is your inbox full of unwanted and mostly unread msgs?

Why don't you delete them? "

coz i'd have to fill in 400+ tick boxes or organise my inbox better and i cba to do either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can get messages read them and then mark them as unread ...not that I've done that

I try to reply to all of mine ..some get lost but I do reply eventually

Snap

Snap .... So when snaps are alike what do we do

Jinx?

And neither can speak "

You can speak again, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It wasn't written or meant as how could a woman refuse Granny... don't get your knitting in a twist

I was asking why people read msgs then either don't reply or why they don't just delete them?

What has granny got to do with it?"

The 2nd reply - who I was replying to - was from granny... just didn't quote/reply

Sorry

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"It wasn't written or meant as how could a woman refuse Granny... don't get your knitting in a twist

I was asking why people read msgs then either don't reply or why they don't just delete them?

"

Does it matter what other people do and the reasons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can get messages read them and then mark them as unread ...not that I've done that

I try to reply to all of mine ..some get lost but I do reply eventually

Snap

Snap .... So when snaps are alike what do we do

Jinx?

And neither can speak

You can speak again, lol"

Phew

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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when i first joined here i used to spend ages pissing about in my inbox, over time i decided to spend time doing what i want on here instead.

i presume most people get like that eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I find if I'm replying to messages can be there forever replying and I want to be in the forums

So now I do forums and leave messages till I've finished in the forums ...not all ways the case though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you just delete after you send the message, if it bothers you?

People don't have to reply or delete. It's up to them how they decide to manage their inbox .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It wasn't written or meant as how could a woman refuse Granny... don't get your knitting in a twist

I was asking why people read msgs then either don't reply or why they don't just delete them?

"

I can read. I never mentioned women refusing anything.

What's knitting ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if im not interested i just delete now -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete some but not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wasn't written or meant as how could a woman refuse Granny... don't get your knitting in a twist

I was asking why people read msgs then either don't reply or why they don't just delete them?

I can read. I never mentioned women refusing anything.

What's knitting ?"

I'll have a scarf please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havnt had a message in over a week.i must be a dog

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It wasn't written or meant as how could a woman refuse Granny... don't get your knitting in a twist

I was asking why people read msgs then either don't reply or why they don't just delete them?

I can read. I never mentioned women refusing anything.

What's knitting ?

I'll have a scarf please"

To hide your curlers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is your inbox full of unwanted and mostly unread msgs?

Why don't you delete them? "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My phone is slow and clicking 'delete' on each message takes too frickin' long. I bulk delete sometimes when I've responded to them all. The mail system is just a pain in the arse to use and keep 'clean'.

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