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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was reading yesterday that about 25% of guys admitted to faking an orgasm. When asked why the main reasons seemed to be tiredness or not wanting to hurt their partners feelings.

Can't imagine too many fabbers would let tiredness get in the way of a climax but would be interested to see if any of you have faked and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pardon me but how does a guy fake orgasm? I'd know when I wasn't feeling the spurt and there was no cum dribbling out of me afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pardon me but how does a guy fake orgasm? I'd know when I wasn't feeling the spurt and there was no cum dribbling out of me afterwards. "

Haha, yeah it crossed my mind too it's a bit of a giveaway - I guess that's one benefit of bareback

I guess condoms and that most men don't have an endless supply of cum create some ambiguity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have and never would.

There have been times where I haven't orgasmed but that doesn't mean I haven't enjoyed myself. Tiredness is the biggest stopper for me, it just won't happen.

Orgasm isn't the end goal for me, my kicks come from seeing the woman enjoy herself, if she's happy I'm happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good answer! I was thinking of tiredness as literally not being arsed but sex fatigue is definitely a more genuine issue.

I do think a lot of people get hung up on the idea of reaching orgasm at the expense of enjoying the moment though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd think that he wasn't enjoying me if he didn't cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i once sucked deepthroated a guy on and off for 3 hours

he txt me a few times afterwards was the best he had ever had

he never came

he found that a real turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd think that he wasn't enjoying me if he didn't cum "

Not a chance

No different to women not having an orgasm. Some can only cum once, some just keep cumming, others can't cum with anyone other than hubby.

You'd know I was enjoying you, no doubt about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i once sucked deepthroated a guy on and off for 3 hours

he txt me a few times afterwards was the best he had ever had

he never came

he found that a real turn on"

That's what I call a sucker for punishment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd think that he wasn't enjoying me if he didn't cum "

I would too. I like to feel it or at least be covered in it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id sooner a guy say he was tired than fake it. Where not all robots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit I have once.

I invited her was going great but she was making some strange noises so so loud that I asked her not to due to neighbours having kids and it continued so i pretended I did and that was that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd think that he wasn't enjoying me if he didn't cum

I would too. I like to feel it or at least be covered in it."

I like peeing out the cum bubbles afterwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only managed to reach an orgasm last year. Did I still enjoy sex before that?... HELL YES!

An orgasm is NOT the end result of sex.

Sex is so much more then reaching your climax.

I would never fake to please someone else. I try to be as honest as I can with the people I have sex with.

I have said before but I highly recommend for anyone who is interested to read the orgasm prescription for women. It's a really interesting read!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd think that he wasn't enjoying me if he didn't cum

Not a chance

No different to women not having an orgasm. Some can only cum once, some just keep cumming, others can't cum with anyone other than hubby.

You'd know I was enjoying you, no doubt about that "

I'm easy, couple of pumps whilst I rub my bean and I'm there!

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I often don't cum. Call me weird but I am more than happy if the lady is.

It's no big thing for me.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I was reading yesterday that about 25% of guys admitted to faking an orgasm. When asked why the main reasons seemed to be tiredness or not wanting to hurt their partners feelings.

Can't imagine too many fabbers would let tiredness get in the way of a climax but would be interested to see if any of you have faked and why?"

I don't fake it to save any feelings .

I use my orgasm as a stimulate to push for more if someone wants it there dam well going to have to work there sexy arse off for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd think that he wasn't enjoying me if he didn't cum

Not a chance

No different to women not having an orgasm. Some can only cum once, some just keep cumming, others can't cum with anyone other than hubby.

You'd know I was enjoying you, no doubt about that

I'm easy, couple of pumps whilst I rub my bean and I'm there! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would be slightly disappointed if I couldn't make a guy cum. I'd see it as a reflection of me not pleasing them enough. Yes, I have faked it in the past. It takes a lot to make me orgasm. I've done it sometimes to not hurt a person's feelings and other times because they've tried so hard, that a mental block ensues and I know my brain won't shut off enough to let me let go enough to orgasm and I just want the trying to end . I wouldn't now. I just masturbate or use toys to help them along, if they struggle.... Before anyone says " maybe you should teach them how to make you orgasm", it is not their fault. It is my own control issues. My inability to completely let go .

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"I think I would be slightly disappointed if I couldn't make a guy cum. I'd see it as a reflection of me not pleasing them enough. Yes, I have faked it in the past. It takes a lot to make me orgasm. I've done it sometimes to not hurt a person's feelings and other times because they've tried so hard, that a mental block ensues and I know my brain won't shut off enough to let me let go enough to orgasm and I just want the trying to end . I wouldn't now. I just masturbate or use toys to help them along, if they struggle.... Before anyone says " maybe you should teach them how to make you orgasm", it is not their fault. It is my own control issues. My inability to completely let go ."

you opening sentence could get you into all sorts of trouble with a guy like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I would be slightly disappointed if I couldn't make a guy cum. I'd see it as a reflection of me not pleasing them enough. Yes, I have faked it in the past. It takes a lot to make me orgasm. I've done it sometimes to not hurt a person's feelings and other times because they've tried so hard, that a mental block ensues and I know my brain won't shut off enough to let me let go enough to orgasm and I just want the trying to end . I wouldn't now. I just masturbate or use toys to help them along, if they struggle.... Before anyone says " maybe you should teach them how to make you orgasm", it is not their fault. It is my own control issues. My inability to completely let go ."

I would be incredibly insulted If I found a woman had faked it with me. I'd rather they were honest and said it's not going to happen and just enjoyed it for what it was, kissing, intimacy, skin on skin contact, all of that for me is incredibly enjoyable.

If I've had a long tiring week it won't happen. Doesn't mean you've failed,it's just me the same as your mental block holding you back. Forget about the orgasm and just enjoy the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I would be slightly disappointed if I couldn't make a guy cum. I'd see it as a reflection of me not pleasing them enough. Yes, I have faked it in the past. It takes a lot to make me orgasm. I've done it sometimes to not hurt a person's feelings and other times because they've tried so hard, that a mental block ensues and I know my brain won't shut off enough to let me let go enough to orgasm and I just want the trying to end . I wouldn't now. I just masturbate or use toys to help them along, if they struggle.... Before anyone says " maybe you should teach them how to make you orgasm", it is not their fault. It is my own control issues. My inability to completely let go ."

I think self awareness and communication are pretty key, when it's not working for whatever reason trying harder at the same things genrally just makes things worse, whilst it's great when your hitting the right spots - when your not I do find it a turn on when women use their toys or fingers to help things along at times!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd think that he wasn't enjoying me if he didn't cum

Not a chance

No different to women not having an orgasm. Some can only cum once, some just keep cumming, others can't cum with anyone other than hubby.

You'd know I was enjoying you, no doubt about that

I'm easy, couple of pumps whilst I rub my bean and I'm there! "

You didn't strike me as an easy type?! Would you consider more than a couple of pumps it doesn't sound like much fun otherwise!

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