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Time wasters that get angry

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By *heekyBethany OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Have any other girls had an issue which this?

So been talking to a guy for three weeks. Two failed meets due to his schedule. So as gently as possible ssud our schedules just not going to work.

Then the angry starts and the nasty messages.

Do others get that? Is it normal for people who have said they are in the scene a while?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block him.Hes probably one of those kind of people who expects everyone to jump to his beat.

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By *heekyBethany OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Thank hun. I have. How do you work out the guys that are just time wasters?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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report him as well. get rid of the knobhead.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Some people think its normal and ok. It isn't. Block anyone who gives you abuse and report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a slag and told I'd screwed half of leeds cause I said a social doesn't always end in sex.

Made no sense. He blocked me before I could reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"report him as well. get rid of the knobhead."

Stop sitting on the fence lady

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By *heekyBethany OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Love all the messages from the ladies. I will report him.

So is there a way or a rough set of rules to find the right Guys?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I will never understand why people send nasty messages, If you're getting frustrated with the lack of meets or being let down just log off and have a wank

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Abuse is not acceptable- report, block and forget

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By *heekyBethany OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

There really does need to be a like system on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank hun. I have. How do you work out the guys that are just time wasters? "

Id just use your intuition.If something seems to good to be true,it probably is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never heard of half the names i been called on here...Sticks and stones lol. They say jump..you say..how high

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"report him as well. get rid of the knobhead.

Stop sitting on the fence lady "

lol. hi sophee.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Love all the messages from the ladies. I will report him.

So is there a way or a rough set of rules to find the right Guys? "

You are kind of learning them. If there is anything 'off' in your communications, trust your instincts.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Funny how the minute you turn them down the name calling starts. You go from someone they'd want to have fun with to the ugliest person on earth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will never understand why people send nasty messages, If you're getting frustrated with the lack of meets or being let down just log off and have a wank "

Honestly. Some of you men should run classes. Big up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, you probably did ruin his wank

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Thank hun. I have. How do you work out the guys that are just time wasters? "

as for this, unless you basically offer fuck and go you're just gonna have to trust the guy is genuine.

there will be guys like that on here who don't mind taking their time but you'll have to do the same thing you did with this other so won't know until he either turns up or doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will never understand why people send nasty messages, If you're getting frustrated with the lack of meets or being let down just log off and have a wank "

This, just this. No more no less. Just this

Looks like I'm having a wank again then...

But seriously there is no need for abuse. Block always and report where necessary

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By *heekyBethany OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks everyone. Really appreciate it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked tonight and a load of abuse because I wouldn't accept his friends request, we'd exchanged about 3 messages in a week and the abuse I got was because I'd been verified by 2 lovely women.....who I'd met at a social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give third chances. Or even second ones. Block when you're let down the first time and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably is stressed because he wants to meet you but real life has got in the way.

After you've said the chances of you now meeting are slim, he's even more pissed off because he liked you and now because of circumstances out of his control he won't get to meet you.

All this frustration led him to send nasty messages to you because he was hurt and angry.

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By *heekyBethany OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks Miss Innocent. Totally I expect that is what has happened. However seriously people should be grown ups on this site and not act like children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think yourself very lucky that he showed his true colours before you met him. Block and move on

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Thanks Miss Innocent. Totally I expect that is what has happened. However seriously people should be grown ups on this site and not act like children. "

Expecting people to act like grown ups on an adult site? Surely that's asking too much isn't it

There are idiots in all walks of life OP, it's just how you deal with them that matters

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have any other girls had an issue which this?

So been talking to a guy for three weeks. Two failed meets due to his schedule. So as gently as possible ssud our schedules just not going to work.

Then the angry starts and the nasty messages.

Do others get that? Is it normal for people who have said they are in the scene a while? "

Hey Bethany, my name is Mr punctual. I am coming down to Manchester in 2 weeks time. ..just saying

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your intuition upon who is even worth spending time chatting with builds up with experience.

I let people know I'm slow to meet and this usually means that many will deselect themselves. I find often those expecting speed are more intolerant or less courteous.

I insist on lots of communication prior to meets - some of them won't make it that far but I've got advance notice if they're not doing what I need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have any other girls had an issue which this?

So been talking to a guy for three weeks. Two failed meets due to his schedule. So as gently as possible ssud our schedules just not going to work.

Then the angry starts and the nasty messages.

Do others get that? Is it normal for people who have said they are in the scene a while? "
i would of blocked him after first cancellation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Miss Innocent. Totally I expect that is what has happened. However seriously people should be grown ups on this site and not act like children. "

Yes they should but who hasn't had a hissy fit at least once in their life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its a lot 2 to with people not getting their 5 day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple that were a little mean due to the fact theres was no times we could meet up for a greet, problem was they were always busy as stated on their profile so if i was busy to then i wasnt making an effort (and by me being busy i mean working)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a similar experience with a woman on here last year. I spent several weeks messaging her, during which time she went from being wildly enthusiastic and definitely wanting to meet, to only vaguely interested and bizarrely lacking in free time. When I asked (after about a month of largely one-way chat) if I was wasting my time, she took a disproportionate amount of offence and unfriended me. People are weird...

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