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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

had a meet this afternoon, not for the 1st time we hav met granted, all was ok last time nd was ok this time till ...

well he asked if he could take a foto, i said i didnt mind, then low and behold he sent it too his mate!!

i mean WTF, ok i maybe did the wrong thing, but well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no way you could have known in advance that he would be so indiscreet.

Nevermind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your meet is out of order for doing that, maybe be a little more careful in future.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

just alil nieve . but at least youve learnt a lesson for future and learnt abit more about your playmate too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hmmmm the 1st time in 6 month that i been on here anyone has done that, but grrrrrrrrrrrrr oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

describe the pic

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

At that time I would have kicked them out and told them I would never meet them again

It shows a serious lack of judgement, discretion and trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A total lack of respect and very under handed, hope you don't meet it again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no intention of meeting again, blocked and deleted as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no intention of meeting again, blocked and deleted as well

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Well done, I'd of only sent it to my mum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no intention of meeting again, blocked and deleted as well

Well done, I'd of only sent it to my mum "

ooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no intention of meeting again, blocked and deleted as well

Well done, I'd of only sent it to my mum

ooooooooooo "

not really

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Well done, I'd of only sent it to my mum "

Yes Son, and I wish youd stop sending them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it wasnt a facial pic....er..u know what i mean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well done, I'd of only sent it to my mum

Yes Son, and I wish youd stop sending them "

But mum you want to vet all my conquests to see if their good enough for me, can I have some bitty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hope it wasnt a facial pic....er..u know what i mean lol"

nope face wasnt in it, as he showed me the pic after he had took it,

but am guessing my errrrrrrrrrr bits are gonna be a bit famous in the catterick garrison area 2moro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope it wasnt a facial pic....er..u know what i mean lol

nope face wasnt in it, as he showed me the pic after he had took it,

but am guessing my errrrrrrrrrr bits are gonna be a bit famous in the catterick garrison area 2moro "

Just hope no one shouts "get fell in"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hope it wasnt a facial pic....er..u know what i mean lol

nope face wasnt in it, as he showed me the pic after he had took it,

but am guessing my errrrrrrrrrr bits are gonna be a bit famous in the catterick garrison area 2moro

Just hope no one shouts "get fell in" "

hehe but well i wouldnt mind that i dont think hehe

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I hope it wasnt a facial pic....er..u know what i mean lol

nope face wasnt in it, as he showed me the pic after he had took it,

but am guessing my errrrrrrrrrr bits are gonna be a bit famous in the catterick garrison area 2moro "

Ohhhh dear I think it is going to be famous in Catterick... They don't give a good name for themselves... dated a guy in the army for 6+ years and the stories he used to tell me...

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Well done, I'd of only sent it to my mum

Yes Son, and I wish youd stop sending them

But mum you want to vet all my conquests to see if their good enough for me, can I have some bitty "

No I said some of your conquests should have been to the vets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hope it wasnt a facial pic....er..u know what i mean lol

nope face wasnt in it, as he showed me the pic after he had took it,

but am guessing my errrrrrrrrrr bits are gonna be a bit famous in the catterick garrison area 2moro

Ohhhh dear I think it is going to be famous in Catterick... They don't give a good name for themselves... dated a guy in the army for 6+ years and the stories he used to tell me... "

yeah stupid thing is i used to date an RMP, and the stories i heard there as wel ahh well, unless they see my tattoos they aint gonna recognise me (whistles softly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe his mate was in Afgan was giving him something to boost moral.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe his mate was in Afgan was giving him something to boost moral."

hha nah, he was sitting in the MP's office looking after the prisoners,

this is what i cant understaand, the stupid man bloody told me what hehad done, if hehadnt i wouldnt hav known ad well not be bothered xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like he wanted to brag to his mate, you know what to do next time, take his pic and post it on face book, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sounds like he wanted to brag to his mate, you know what to do next time, take his pic and post it on face book, lol"

well i am pretty sure he could hav had someone a lot fitter then me to brag about lol but yes i a thinking that may be a good idea, esp as most of my mates on facebook are squaddies lol xx

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral


"sounds like he wanted to brag to his mate, you know what to do next time, take his pic and post it on face book, lol

well i am pretty sure he could hav had someone a lot fitter then me to brag about lol but yes i a thinking that may be a good idea, esp as most of my mates on facebook are squaddies lol xx"

hey lots of us guys n here think your

lovely no where my uniform

take care paul lessons learned

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Maybe his mate was in Afgan was giving him something to boost moral.

hha nah, he was sitting in the MP's office looking after the prisoners,

this is what i cant understaand, the stupid man bloody told me what hehad done, if hehadnt i wouldnt hav known ad well not be bothered xx"

HE wasn't stupid. He was open , direct and honest.

I take it you posed for the pic and he asked if he could take it first?

I'd win a bet as to whether you said he could take it but MUSTN'T send it on.

As you ask about nearly all of your meets I'd say you didn't lay down any ground rules with him but congrats on landing another bit of Khaki - well done.

As you ask for advice -

Take a lot more care of who you meet.

Try to see past the uniform.

Lay down a few rules and stick to them.

A few minutes with ANY man isn't worth a woman's dignity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe his mate was in Afgan was giving him something to boost moral.

hha nah, he was sitting in the MP's office looking after the prisoners,

this is what i cant understaand, the stupid man bloody told me what hehad done, if hehadnt i wouldnt hav known ad well not be bothered xx"

Aaah, I was going to ask how you knew he'd done that. That's why I only allowed pictures from my camera: chalk it up to experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sounds like he wanted to brag to his mate, you know what to do next time, take his pic and post it on face book, lol

well i am pretty sure he could hav had someone a lot fitter then me to brag about lol but yes i a thinking that may be a good idea, esp as most of my mates on facebook are squaddies lol xx"

The solution is to cease mating with possible chavs.

Death to the chavs! No sex for them, they must die out through natural selection. \jumps off soapbox/ (-:

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

As with any photo, whether you display it online, send it in an email or by phone or allow someone else to take it..... once it is on someone else's equipment you have NO control over it.

It is always safer to assume it will be shown to other people, no matter how many times you ask them not to show it to anyone or they tell you they won’t.

If (many) guys will share photos of their wives and long-term girlfriends with their mates, why on earth would they keep a photo of a casual shag private.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Casual Shag....

Hmm it should be insulting but has such a good ring to it .......

Casual shag .....

Now I have a label I can build up to being that very thing.....

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


"Casual Shag....

Hmm it should be insulting but has such a good ring to it .......

Casual shag .....

Now I have a label I can build up to being that very thing.....

"

go granny......it's loadsa fun

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Casual Shag....

Hmm it should be insulting but has such a good ring to it .......

Casual shag .....

Now I have a label I can build up to being that very thing.....

"

At least you realised I was using it as a noun and not a verb.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Casual Shag....

Hmm it should be insulting but has such a good ring to it .......

Casual shag .....

Now I have a label I can build up to being that very thing.....

At least you realised I was using it as a noun and not a verb."

It really doesn't do to put images out there for me ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing you can do about it now, its done and dusted so not sure what advice anyone can give you except in fture say no.

however, it worries me a little that you may be considering meeting him again ( the comment about taking HIS pic and putting on face book), as he obviously does not have much respect for you.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Bit of SELF respect saves a whole lot of heart ache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens if you love squaddies do you remember the "pussy wall" as it was called lol at the barracks the guys would put a picture up on a wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is nothing you can do about it now, its done and dusted so not sure what advice anyone can give you except in fture say no.

however, it worries me a little that you may be considering meeting him again ( the comment about taking HIS pic and putting on face book), as he obviously does not have much respect for you."

Well it shouldn't worry you particularly, its her business who she meets and what she does. The facebook comment I think was a joke.

When anyone puts a pic of themselves on the internet it potentially becomes accessible to the world. Most of us have pics on here. We assess and take the risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is nothing you can do about it now, its done and dusted so not sure what advice anyone can give you except in fture say no.

however, it worries me a little that you may be considering meeting him again ( the comment about taking HIS pic and putting on face book), as he obviously does not have much respect for you.

Well it shouldn't worry you particularly, its her business who she meets and what she does. The facebook comment I think was a joke.

When anyone puts a pic of themselves on the internet it potentially becomes accessible to the world. Most of us have pics on here. We assess and take the risk "

Errrr she asked for advice so i gave mine!

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