FabSwingers.com forum: What is the appropriate time to stay post-sex?

By *ohnnybadman666 OP Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more.

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By *hadesofmWoman
over a year ago

canterbury

Depends if round 2 is on the cards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've usually got a cab waiting by the time I've wiped my dick on the curtains

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By *hadesofmWoman
over a year ago

canterbury

In all honesty though I would say *averagely* about half an hour. Not getting up and running out the door but not over staying your welcome.

Also think it depends on the length of the session. If you've been at it for 3 hours then maybe it would make sense to stay for longer. Alternatively if you arranged it as a quickie then maybe only 10 minutes.

Just don't watch the clock. Whatever you do. That's off putting.

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

If it's a couple then after breakfast

If it's a 'single' guy it depends what time his wife is expecting him home

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By *ohnnybadman666 OP Man
over a year ago

Warrington

"In all honesty though I would say *averagely* about half an hour. Not getting up and running out the door but not over staying your welcome.

Just don't watch the clock. Whatever you do. That's off putting. "

That's a good reply... it all makes sense. If the meeting didn't match your expectations would you curtail it appropriately?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make a great breakfast

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't think there's any set time OP - it may well vary with each meet, even with the same person, and be dependent on the circumstances. I'd say use your own discretion and common sense is the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows there's no set rule in my book.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"use your own discretion and common sense is the way to go"

this

Is there an average really?

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By *ohnnybadman666 OP Man
over a year ago

Warrington

@ PolarBear73 and Gemini Man

Yes I did say it would depend but the question was framed as an average stay post sex at a meeting they met your expectations?

This isn't personally for me, just hypothetical for debate.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It depends doesn't it?

Is it a regular playmate?

Is it your first sex meet?

Have you/they got to be somewhere?

Was it over a bit quick?

Has he made you feel uncomfortable?

Is he squeezing you so tight you can't move anyway?

Have you fallen asleep?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"@ PolarBear73 and Gemini Man

Yes I did say it would depend but the question was framed as an average stay post sex at a meeting they met your expectations?

This isn't personally for me, just hypothetical for debate."

Yep I know. Talking from my experience an average figure could be 4 hours for me. This on the basis that I've had meets where we've had sex and there maybe a half or an hour before we went our separate ways to those where we've snuggled up to sleep the night away and partied in the morning say 7/8 hours later

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I like a shower and a poo before I leave. That is after an hour of cuddling and telling me i am the best they ever had whilst feeding me chocolate.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"I've usually got a cab waiting by the time I've wiped my dick on the curtains

This

. Fuck and fuck off I say.

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By *ohnnybadman666 OP Man
over a year ago

Warrington

"I like a shower and a poo before I leave. That is after an hour of cuddling and telling me i am the best they ever had whilst feeding me chocolate."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

until the drink has gone they quietly leave

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"It depends doesn't it?

Is it a regular playmate?

Is it your first sex meet?

Have you/they got to be somewhere?

Was it over a bit quick?

Has he made you feel uncomfortable?

Is he squeezing you so tight you can't move anyway?

Have you fallen asleep?

This

Except for the last 2 points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a shower and a poo before I leave. That is after an hour of cuddling and telling me i am the best they ever had whilst feeding me chocolate."

What kind of chocolate?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I like a shower and a poo before I leave. That is after an hour of cuddling and telling me i am the best they ever had whilst feeding me chocolate.

What kind of chocolate?"

Something with nuts.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

It depends. I am out of there pretty sharpish if I hear the Shepherd coming back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to make a women scream twice before i leave..

i do this by

fucking her hard

then wipe my cock on her lounge curtains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends. I am out of there pretty sharpish if I hear the Shepherd coming back."

that will explains dolly and her thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more."
I kinda want guys to leave asap.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It depends upon what you are doing together and how you're getting on Imo -

If there's lots of affection, the final orgasm is just an element of the meet, so I'd also expect that you'd be communicating so that you'd know when to wrap it up.

A meet with less complexity could be exited from more quickly - and so forth. Showering?

I'd recommend that you aim to leave appropriately for the situation and relationship - as close to a quarter of an hour for simpler meets and 20-25 minutes for longer, very involved meets.

Get upfront expectations from your partners - running out or over-staying are both inappropriate, so let them guide your behaviour. And beware that they may be too polite, suggesting you're welcome to stay for ages - don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the meets gone well I stay about half an hour and have coffee if it's offered. If it's not been a good meet, I leave after about 10 mins. Except once a bloke threw me out coz he couldn't get hard, which was rude as I had met him twice before for coffee. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one and I couldnt get rid of her she was a nitemare!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've usually got a cab waiting by the time I've wiped my dick on the curtains

This

. Fuck and fuck off I say."

Because your meets are not worthy of a little respect and a show of manners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it all depends on the person your meeting, I have ladies I consider friends who stick around and we chat which is fine, but I'd find it odd for a new meet to linger or me to hang around. I have no wish to indulge in post coital cuddling with someone I don't know.

I did have one lady who on her our first meet fell asleep (after, not during). I wanted to wake her and send her on her way but thought she'll only have a quick nap. So I went downstairs to watch cricket, 4 hours later I'd half forgotten she was there when her mobile started ringing, her child's school asking when she was going to arrive to collect.

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By *hadesofmWoman
over a year ago

canterbury

"In all honesty though I would say *averagely* about half an hour. Not getting up and running out the door but not over staying your welcome.

Just don't watch the clock. Whatever you do. That's off putting.

That's a good reply... it all makes sense. If the meeting didn't match your expectations would you curtail it appropriately?"

It would depend on HOW it didn't match my expectations.

If I was not satisfied and still wanted more then I would find out if I was likely to get more. I wouldn't be rude but if I wasn't satisfied then I would hope that they would give me time to be fulfilled. If it's not happening that would be ok, I would make small talk for a bit, and then take a clue when they want me to leave. (Sometimes it's obvious)

If something had happened that I wasn't expecting then I may try to talk about it, if I think that person will be comfortable with that. If I know it's going to make them uncomfortable then I'll message them about it later, but as a general rule if you can't talk about something openly then you shouldn't be doing it.

I can't really think of another reason why things wouldn't go as expected, I'm usually fairly thorough about what I want, and expect.

Either way I wouldn't get up and run away but I wouldn't stick around to annoy them either.

Knowing the other persons circumstances helps too. If you know that they are on a time restraint then it makes sense to be respectful and stick to it. If you know that their entire evening is free and they live alone then why not wait for a while, a polite chat, a drink, whatever.

I generally offer people the use of whatever they need/ want. If they want to have a shower, use the loo, want a drink. All/ any of those are fine with me.

You don't want people leaving your home/ or for you to be leaving theirs feeling uncomfortable.

If it's a regular meet it is easier to know how to gage it. Sometimes you know that the wild sex you just had has done them in and your not getting anything else. Other times you know that give it 20 minutes and your good to go for round two.

Communication is key. You need to be able to communicate openly and honestly. There's no point in that person thinking they ve given you the best time of your life if your still hoping for an orgasm.

Hope this answers your question.

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By *hadesofmWoman
over a year ago

canterbury

"I think it all depends on the person your meeting, I have ladies I consider friends who stick around and we chat which is fine, but I'd find it odd for a new meet to linger or me to hang around. I have no wish to indulge in post coital cuddling with someone I don't know.

I'm also not a cuddler. Out of curiousity do you tell people this before a meet? People seem to fall into the stereotype that because I'm a woman that I obviously want a cuddle. I tell people before hand that I don't so there's no confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh A lot of birds out there these days don't do that cuddly shit!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make a great breakfast

Full English?

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Long enough for your date to lick the cum off your cock xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a shower and a poo before I leave. That is after an hour of cuddling and telling me i am the best they ever had whilst feeding me chocolate."

So you eat their chocolate stash, use all the hot water and stink their house out before going on your merry way!?!

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make a great breakfast

Full English?

One egg or two....and how do you like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may mention it! Once I'm spent I firmly shake them by the hand and say 'Good work' and wish them the best for their day.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I like a shower and a poo before I leave. That is after an hour of cuddling and telling me i am the best they ever had whilst feeding me chocolate.

So you eat their chocolate stash, use all the hot water and stink their house out before going on your merry way!?!

Fuzz"

They have had the pleasure of my company, it's the least then can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally just long enough to finish the cuppa they made for me on my arrival . It's normally still pretty warm and drinkable x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make a great breakfast

Full English?

One egg or two....and how do you like them

Would have to be one fried, one scrambled. Im fussy as you can tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a shower and a poo before I leave. That is after an hour of cuddling and telling me i am the best they ever had whilst feeding me chocolate."

If you want chocolate and an hiur of cuddling, you're staying the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make a great breakfast

Full English?

One egg or two....and how do you like them

Would have to be one fried, one scrambled. Im fussy as you can tell.

We are here to please in the man cave...

What the lady wants the lady gets..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more."

This always intrigues me. Or makes me laugh. Whatever.

Clearly the goal and the ONLY goal is sex. Yet people persist in the ridiculous idea that you must 'like' each other and be able to socialise or you 'couldn't possibly' have sex. ( I do get that. I do operate that way in some circumstances )

Folk also persist in the silly idea that it is bad manners to fuck and run.

Look - Adults need to state what they want and what they do BEFORE a meet and if one party doesn't like it then tough tits.

But there's the rub. Some bloke with a hard on gets an agreement from a woman with a cuddle lust. HE wants to cum smile and leave. SHE says..... oh if you leave right away then that demeans me and makes me feel like you just wanted sex...( insert pouty face )

HE thinks of his throbbing cock and says something along the lines of..... 'Oh me too.. I love a good old cuddle with a strange woman I met on the internet too. I love love love it babe. ( whilst looking at his watch )

And so the dance continues.

P.S. If it's of any interest to anyone I like blokes to go pretty swiftly after a meet. You are never as attractive when i've cum as when i let you through the door

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

To answer in brief.....

Once the steam has stopped rising from his cock he should dress and go and don't disturb me cos i'll have been in the shower , got dressed and be going about my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all different. Some men, some women want fuck and go. Some men and some women want a cuddle, or a chat or a coffee.

Like some have said on here, just ensure the person knows what to expect then neither should be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a shower and a poo before I leave. That is after an hour of cuddling and telling me i am the best they ever had whilst feeding me chocolate.

So you eat their chocolate stash, use all the hot water and stink their house out before going on your merry way!?!

Fuzz

They have had the pleasure of my company, it's the least then can do

We'll stock up on air freshener if you ever visit then!

Fuzz

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

In the words of Quagmire........"Why are you still here??"

Giggidy

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"To answer in brief.....

Once the steam has stopped rising from his cock he should dress and go and don't disturb me cos i'll have been in the shower , got dressed and be going about my business. "

absolutely

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By *entonMan
over a year ago

watford

"If it's a couple then after breakfast

If it's a 'single' guy it depends what time his wife is expecting him home

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more."

if I'm there I'm there for more than sex so there would be not set time like its some sort of business transaction where I was being paid by the hour or paying by the hour myself .

sorry op I find the whole thought process in this post rather to business like for my tastes or play style .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make a great breakfast

Full English?

"
can I pre order mine at yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more.

if I'm there I'm there for more than sex so there would be not set time like its some sort of business transaction where I was being paid by the hour or paying by the hour myself .

sorry op I find the whole thought process in this post rather to business like for my tastes or play style ."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make a great breakfast

Full English?

can I pre order mine at yours

No, you can bring your own food. Fed up feeding guys and letting them use my shower and loo . Im not a hotel ffs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make a great breakfast

Full English?

can I pre order mine at yours

No, you can bring your own food. Fed up feeding guys and letting them use my shower and loo . Im not a hotel ffs lol"

Don't have miss Honey round either then.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make a great breakfast

Full English?

can I pre order mine at yours

No, you can bring your own food. Fed up feeding guys and letting them use my shower and loo . Im not a hotel ffs lol

Don't have miss Honey round either then.

Fuzz"

Why would i ? i am only into men

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yeh A lot of birds out there these days don't do that cuddly shit!!!"

This 'bird' hates any form of cuddle!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeh A lot of birds out there these days don't do that cuddly shit!!!

This 'bird' hates any form of cuddle!!! "

I know this might sound daft given the nature of meeting for sex...... but to me cuddling is a level of intimacy beyond a fab meet.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I make a great breakfast

Full English?

can I pre order mine at yours

No, you can bring your own food. Fed up feeding guys and letting them use my shower and loo . Im not a hotel ffs lol

Don't have miss Honey round either then.

Fuzz

Why would i ? i am only into men

I'll only be after your chocolate

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Depends really. Usually it naturally ends. 30 minutes +. Special people get to stay the night

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Depends really. Usually it naturally ends. 30 minutes +. Special people get to stay the night"

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

I once stayed for 2 days at a meet!

We found we got on really well and just lay around having sex and eating.

I haven't done that very often!

Usually it's an hour or so after we've had sex, we go our separate ways.

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

You've shared bodily fluids but you can't offer up a cuddle?!

Odd!

Nothing wrong with a post coital cuddle in my opinion.

Doesn't mean you're looking for more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once stayed for 2 days at a meet!

We found we got on really well and just lay around having sex and eating.

I haven't done that very often!

Usually it's an hour or so after we've had sex, we go our separate ways. "

Imagining a two day meet with you...

I wonder how long you could stay in handcuffs for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've usually got a cab waiting by the time I've wiped my dick on the curtains

Must check me curtains next time you call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 minutes before her husband is due in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've shared bodily fluids but you can't offer up a cuddle?!

Odd!

Nothing wrong with a post coital cuddle in my opinion.

Doesn't mean you're looking for more! "
sorry but i find it more odd to cuddle with someone you have no attachment too.

It would just freak me out. And yes okay im part of a couple now but I wouldn't/ didn't do so as a single either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until a nice sleep and cuddle is achieved. Followed by round 4 of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, cuddling during a meet is no different to kissing. It's an expression of affection and intimacy. Without it, the sex would feel very cold and emotionless.

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By *ohnnybadman666 OP Man
over a year ago

Warrington

"Until a nice sleep and cuddle is achieved. Followed by round 4 of course

You will be getting no cuddles around here judged by most of the female posters here, matey

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me, cuddling during a meet is no different to kissing. It's an expression of affection and intimacy. Without it, the sex would feel very cold and emotionless."

Probably why I dont kiss or be intimate with meets. It's sex for me.. and you know what.... never had a guy see me as cold.. its just dirty sex

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

How long to stay would depend on the chemistry. Once the conversation starts to run dry then it's been too long.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Until a nice sleep and cuddle is achieved. Followed by round 4 of course

You will be getting no cuddles around here judged by most of the female posters here, matey"

Hmmmm Im a cuddle one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Until a nice sleep and cuddle is achieved. Followed by round 4 of course

You will be getting no cuddles around here judged by most of the female posters here, matey

Hmmmm Im a cuddle one

I knew she would be

mmmm

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Until a nice sleep and cuddle is achieved. Followed by round 4 of course

You will be getting no cuddles around here judged by most of the female posters here, matey

Hmmmm Im a cuddle one

I knew she would be

mmmm"

It was more the thought of round 4 ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Until a nice sleep and cuddle is achieved. Followed by round 4 of course

You will be getting no cuddles around here judged by most of the female posters here, matey

Hmmmm Im a cuddle one

I knew she would be

mmmm

It was more the thought of round 4 ha.

I'd stretch to round 5 if you ask nicely

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Until a nice sleep and cuddle is achieved. Followed by round 4 of course

You will be getting no cuddles around here judged by most of the female posters here, matey

Hmmmm Im a cuddle one

I knew she would be

mmmm

It was more the thought of round 4 ha.

I'd stretch to round 5 if you ask nicely

Great starting point 5 we can work with that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's supposed to be a time limit? I'd be mortified if someone was like "right, 30 mins has passed. Thanks for the meet"

I think it depends on the meet itself. I don't think an appropriate time should be set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's supposed to be a time limit? I'd be mortified if someone was like "right, 30 mins has passed. Thanks for the meet"

I think it depends on the meet itself. I don't think an appropriate time should be set. "

I'd laugh if i were told right out! Im meeting someone in 20 mins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me, cuddling during a meet is no different to kissing. It's an expression of affection and intimacy. Without it, the sex would feel very cold and emotionless.

Probably why I dont kiss or be intimate with meets. It's sex for me.. and you know what.... never had a guy see me as cold.. its just dirty sex "

I can't imagine wanting to fuck someone and not wanting to kiss them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me, cuddling during a meet is no different to kissing. It's an expression of affection and intimacy. Without it, the sex would feel very cold and emotionless.

Probably why I dont kiss or be intimate with meets. It's sex for me.. and you know what.... never had a guy see me as cold.. its just dirty sex

I can't imagine wanting to fuck someone and not wanting to kiss them."

I think kissing and cuddling is all part of the process. Especially for me it makes up for the whole experience probably 60 % of it. Other wise i'd go to thailand and pay for a wham bam thank you mam

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"To me, cuddling during a meet is no different to kissing. It's an expression of affection and intimacy. Without it, the sex would feel very cold and emotionless.

Probably why I dont kiss or be intimate with meets. It's sex for me.. and you know what.... never had a guy see me as cold.. its just dirty sex "

You are part of a couple. Perhaps thats why the dynamics are different. I personally wouldn't meet someone if they didn't kiss. I enjoy the intimacy too much.... Plus, I bloody love kissing!

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"To me, cuddling during a meet is no different to kissing. It's an expression of affection and intimacy. Without it, the sex would feel very cold and emotionless."

Nothing worse than to feel like just another fuck hole! Which is what the fuck and go attitudes portray.

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over a year ago

"Until a nice sleep and cuddle is achieved. Followed by round 4 of course

I like the sound of that

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By *ervously excitedCouple
over a year ago

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"To me, cuddling during a meet is no different to kissing. It's an expression of affection and intimacy. Without it, the sex would feel very cold and emotionless.

Nothing worse than to feel like just another fuck hole! Which is what the fuck and go attitudes portray."

Weeeeeeeell to be frank I never feel like just another fuck hole. Especially as I only meet with men that I find attractive and that includes their genitals.

I hope they never cry ' she just used me as another fuck pole' .... as they leave.

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over a year ago

"Yeh A lot of birds out there these days don't do that cuddly shit!!!

This 'bird' hates any form of cuddle!!!

I know this might sound daft given the nature of meeting for sex...... but to me cuddling is a level of intimacy beyond a fab meet. "

I don't cuddle meets and I certainly won't sleep overnight with a stranger.

Probably half an hour of chat after we've fucked then I'd leave.

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"To me, cuddling during a meet is no different to kissing. It's an expression of affection and intimacy. Without it, the sex would feel very cold and emotionless.

Probably why I dont kiss or be intimate with meets. It's sex for me.. and you know what.... never had a guy see me as cold.. its just dirty sex

You are part of a couple. Perhaps thats why the dynamics are different. I personally wouldn't meet someone if they didn't kiss. I enjoy the intimacy too much.... Plus, I bloody love kissing!

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nope 13 years as a single before this... intimacy with a meet would make me feel very uncomfortable. But then im a quick meet or gb girl as a single.

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"Yeh A lot of birds out there these days don't do that cuddly shit!!!

This 'bird' hates any form of cuddle!!!

I know this might sound daft given the nature of meeting for sex...... but to me cuddling is a level of intimacy beyond a fab meet.

I don't cuddle meets and I certainly won't sleep overnight with a stranger.

Probably half an hour of chat after we've fucked then I'd leave. "

what about me ? i might hide them boots

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends on who you're with and the kind of friendship/bond you have.

There are some people I've spent time with that once the party is over I'm happy to bid them farewell, others I'm happy to spend a weekend with.

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over a year ago

yes that makes sense

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"Yeh A lot of birds out there these days don't do that cuddly shit!!!

This 'bird' hates any form of cuddle!!!

I know this might sound daft given the nature of meeting for sex...... but to me cuddling is a level of intimacy beyond a fab meet.

I don't cuddle meets and I certainly won't sleep overnight with a stranger.

Probably half an hour of chat after we've fucked then I'd leave.

what about me ? i might hide them boots

I can't walk in the boots anyway.

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over a year ago

There is no right or wrong answer as long as all involved are on the same page x

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over a year ago

a accom only so not got much chance of leaving

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over a year ago

"There is no right or wrong answer as long as all involved are on the same page x"

Always this.

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"There is no right or wrong answer as long as all involved are on the same page x

Always this.

it should be always that and this lol

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over a year ago

"I've usually got a cab waiting by the time I've wiped my dick on the curtains

Or...

If you notice it running down her leg you've stayed too long

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By *ohnnybadman666 OP Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Charming....

And this is just here to bump this up to 99 replies and see if anyone else can push it past the 100 mark. Shameless, utterly shameless.

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"To me, cuddling during a meet is no different to kissing. It's an expression of affection and intimacy. Without it, the sex would feel very cold and emotionless.

Nothing worse than to feel like just another fuck hole! Which is what the fuck and go attitudes portray.

Weeeeeeeell to be frank I never feel like just another fuck hole. Especially as I only meet with men that I find attractive and that includes their genitals.

I hope they never cry ' she just used me as another fuck pole' .... as they leave.

Ok!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more."

It depends on where you meet.

If I meet a woman or couple at their place they decide when I leave lol.

If I meet somebody at a Hotel I am not leaving until the following morning.

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over a year ago

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"I like a shower and a poo before I leave. That is after an hour of cuddling and telling me i am the best they ever had whilst feeding me chocolate."

Dark or milk chocolate lol?

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"Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more.

It depends on where you meet.

If I meet a woman or couple at their place they decide when I leave lol.

If I meet somebody at a Hotel I am not leaving until the following morning.

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i take it you mean if you paid for the hotel?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more."

30% of the duration of the sex.

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By *ohnnybadman666 OP Man
over a year ago

Warrington

"Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more.

30% of the duration of the sex. "

ha! I am loving that equation... top contribution!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Depends on the person and the place!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more.

30% of the duration of the sex.

ha! I am loving that equation... top contribution!

It's got to be proportional really, i mean we can argue the toss over 30% or 40%, but if someone wants to jibber jabber more than they want to get down then it's crossing the boundaries outside of swinging

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"Talking to my friend on here tonight about this and we were mulling over the appropriate amount of time to stay post-sex after a Fabs meeting... What do you think?

Of course all circumstances would not be the same but as an average what do you reckon? We both thought 30 mins as an average with a meeting that met your expectations and no more.

30% of the duration of the sex.

ha! I am loving that equation... top contribution!

Putting a stop watch and calculator in my toy bag

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