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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Female here ...Why is it all the couples profiles i look at there is like zero pics of the bloke or maybe 1 or 2 that dont really let me know what i am getting unless a social meet is arranged yet there is loads of her,seem to find i could be attracted to the lady but puts me off messaging becuase there is nothing of him x

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP your profile seems to have far more pictures of the lady than the gentleman too.

Is there a reason for this? Perhaps if you can answer this question itmight give you some insight into why other couples are the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP your profile seems to have far more pictures of the lady than the gentleman too.

Is there a reason for this? Perhaps if you can answer this question itmight give you some insight into why other couples are the same."
There is pucs of him in public and lots in private but still find even when we friend request there is still nothing of him x oh and we still trying to get pics he likes as we not had the profile for that long and only get together on weekends becuase of our jobs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at different profiles then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because pussy sells lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm prettier

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

There's several of me including a face pic in our public pics but there's probably more of other guys than me as I tend to be the one taking the pics.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We've found this recently whilst looking to meet another couple. As a straight female in a couple it's really frustrating that lots of couple profiles seems to have either no pictures of the male half or very few pictures compared to of the female half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's tricky to please everyone as a couple, Fuzz likes taking pics and I like being photographed hence why there's more of me than him

The problem we find is getting good quality pics of Fuzz without making him look too 'camp' lol

Profile overhaul soon, so lots of new pics to come...hopefully more of him and the two of us together!

Peach x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We simply don't have any of me with cum dripping from my mouth over my chest ....... yet

On a serious note I don't think we would get nearly as many meets if our profile was full of me . Oh hang on ... there seems to be a few of my cock plastered over our pics .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because I'm prettier "
xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's tricky to please everyone as a couple, Fuzz likes taking pics and I like being photographed hence why there's more of me than him

The problem we find is getting good quality pics of Fuzz without making him look too 'camp' lol

Profile overhaul soon, so lots of new pics to come...hopefully more of him and the two of us together!

Peach x"
my other half is like this he takes terrible pics of himself but he has surprised me sometimes and took some nice pics of himself he says hes not photogenic but i am but saying that he still tries even if he does shoot down lots of pics of us together because he believes he looks terrible in them x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We simply don't have any of me with cum dripping from my mouth over my chest ....... yet

On a serious note I don't think we would get nearly as many meets if our profile was full of me . Oh hang on ... there seems to be a few of my cock plastered over our pics ..... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's tricky to please everyone as a couple, Fuzz likes taking pics and I like being photographed hence why there's more of me than him

The problem we find is getting good quality pics of Fuzz without making him look too 'camp' lol

Profile overhaul soon, so lots of new pics to come...hopefully more of him and the two of us together!

Peach x"
At least there is a few of his body xx very nice too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on at him for ages to get more pics up of him. I think cuz its me askn he just can't be arsed. He used to be more photogenic but not recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on at him for ages to get more pics up of him. I think cuz its me askn he just can't be arsed. He used to be more photogenic but not recently. "

Forgot to say any pics of him he has in friends only section.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive been on at him for ages to get more pics up of him. I think cuz its me askn he just can't be arsed. He used to be more photogenic but not recently.

Forgot to say any pics of him he has in friends only section. "
even some nice body pics in public is better than nothing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's tricky to please everyone as a couple, Fuzz likes taking pics and I like being photographed hence why there's more of me than him

The problem we find is getting good quality pics of Fuzz without making him look too 'camp' lol

Profile overhaul soon, so lots of new pics to come...hopefully more of him and the two of us together!

Peach x At least there is a few of his body xx very nice too "

Yes. Yes it is rather nice...

Might do some classics...shirt open, belt in hand, naked in the rain....I'm getting all worked up now haha

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's tricky to please everyone as a couple, Fuzz likes taking pics and I like being photographed hence why there's more of me than him

The problem we find is getting good quality pics of Fuzz without making him look too 'camp' lol

Profile overhaul soon, so lots of new pics to come...hopefully more of him and the two of us together!

Peach x At least there is a few of his body xx very nice too

Yes. Yes it is rather nice...

Might do some classics...shirt open, belt in hand, naked in the rain....I'm getting all worked up now haha

Peach x"
Now thats what i wanna see gets me turned on thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I'm prettier "

You do look rather delightful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mr) don't like having my picture taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pops, shouts "cos cameras are to complex for women to operate" dives for fall out shelter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight male here.... For couples it's all about the lady.... But I'm just selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mr doesn't like his pic taken, and gets a bit paranoid about people recognising him on here. As many of the men who work for him are on here. That's why a social is always a good idea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Nessarosa writing)

When we look at a couples profile with mostly the male and/or his cock.... we think...okay,

A. His wife is not into the swinging thing.

B. He has coerced his wife into the swinging thing.

C. Its just him and his wife has no idea he is posting photos of her.

D. There is no wife.

E. She has body issues that she has to deal with....what will she be like in real life.

We have never come across a female pretending to be a man. Just a thought.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Straight male here.... For couples it's all about the lady.... But I'm just selfish. "
typical bloke reply its not always about the lady with couples its about all 4

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Because pussy sells lol"

This lol and also couples aren't daft. Most of the times the men aren't aesthetically pleasing enough to get meets or a lot of meets on their own. It stands to reason really. Plus women have a lot more usp then a man. Just life lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My mr doesn't like his pic taken, and gets a bit paranoid about people recognising him on here. As many of the men who work for him are on here. That's why a social is always a good idea x "
dont need face pics they can be put in private but they dont even show body pics xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because pussy sells lol

This lol and also couples aren't daft. Most of the times the men aren't aesthetically pleasing enough to get meets or a lot of meets on their own. It stands to reason really. Plus women have a lot more usp then a man. Just life lol"
wat a load of bollocks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares, Leave em to it !

Al the more for hunky studs and cute sexpot couples like us

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Female here ...Why is it all the couples profiles i look at there is like zero pics of the bloke or maybe 1 or 2 that dont really let me know what i am getting unless a social meet is arranged yet there is loads of her,seem to find i could be attracted to the lady but puts me off messaging becuase there is nothing of him x"

Anita often says the exact same thing..

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the only one that plays, he just likes to watch! That's our reason for just having pics of me on there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because pussy sells lol

This lol and also couples aren't daft. Most of the times the men aren't aesthetically pleasing enough to get meets or a lot of meets on their own. It stands to reason really. Plus women have a lot more usp then a man. Just life lolwat a load of bollocks xx "

Haha! You have got a particularly cute male in your partnership tho'. Just sayin'..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm the only one that plays, he just likes to watch! That's our reason for just having pics of me on there! "
Thats fair enough least your honest xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because pussy sells lol

This lol and also couples aren't daft. Most of the times the men aren't aesthetically pleasing enough to get meets or a lot of meets on their own. It stands to reason really. Plus women have a lot more usp then a man. Just life lolwat a load of bollocks xx

Haha! You have got a particularly cute male in your partnership tho'. Just sayin'.. "
oh i know i have love him to bits xx even though his pics can be shit lol xx

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I get that some people don't like having their pics taken but as a straight couple looking to meet another straight couple it's pretty crucial that we know what the guy looks like to some degree, even if it's just body pics.

You wouldn't expect anyone to meet a single guy who had no pics so why should it be any different just because he has a woman on his arm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that some people don't like having their pics taken but as a straight couple looking to meet another straight couple it's pretty crucial that we know what the guy looks like to some degree, even if it's just body pics.

You wouldn't expect anyone to meet a single guy who had no pics so why should it be any different just because he has a woman on his arm."
spot on

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Female here ...Why is it all the couples profiles i look at there is like zero pics of the bloke or maybe 1 or 2 that dont really let me know what i am getting unless a social meet is arranged yet there is loads of her,seem to find i could be attracted to the lady but puts me off messaging becuase there is nothing of him x"

I'm afraid I feel this is a bit like the pot calling the kettle black.

Your profile has 15 public pics, only 5 of them of mr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Female here ...Why is it all the couples profiles i look at there is like zero pics of the bloke or maybe 1 or 2 that dont really let me know what i am getting unless a social meet is arranged yet there is loads of her,seem to find i could be attracted to the lady but puts me off messaging becuase there is nothing of him x

I'm afraid I feel this is a bit like the pot calling the kettle black.

Your profile has 15 public pics, only 5 of them of mr. "
Read the post again my g/f was asking why couples don't have pictures of there men on there profiles. As for what you said think you'll see there is probably 5 more pictures of me on there than on most couples profiles. Even face picture as well. She's very lucky she has managed to get any pictures of me on profile as I bloody hate having my pictures taken . Joking aside I know people do enjoy putting negative comments on posts just to start arguments but surely sometimes better keeping quite if can't offer any sensible advice. Have a good Day Simon

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Female here ...Why is it all the couples profiles i look at there is like zero pics of the bloke or maybe 1 or 2 that dont really let me know what i am getting unless a social meet is arranged yet there is loads of her,seem to find i could be attracted to the lady but puts me off messaging becuase there is nothing of him x

I'm afraid I feel this is a bit like the pot calling the kettle black.

Your profile has 15 public pics, only 5 of them of mr. Read the post again my g/f was asking why couples don't have pictures of there men on there profiles. As for what you said think you'll see there is probably 5 more pictures of me on there than on most couples profiles. Even face picture as well. She's very lucky she has managed to get any pictures of me on profile as I bloody hate having my pictures taken . Joking aside I know people do enjoy putting negative comments on posts just to start arguments but surely sometimes better keeping quite if can't offer any sensible advice. Have a good Day Simon "

Nothing at all in our post is intended purely to start an argument, it is a constructive comment that your profile is not too different to what your gf was complaining about.

As the female half of the couple I would have zero interest in ANY couple who have such bias towards pics of the lady, with just a token few pics of the man. There is a reason why the majority of our pics is of us both together. We would look to play with couples together, we want to see equal pics of both.

Of course, were all free to run our own profile as we see fit. If it works for you then fair play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Female here woukd actually love to know were i am biased against a woman's pics think you need to go and re read my thread its a about limited male half some dont even have any not even in friends makes me think fake profile not really a couple x no offence intended x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Female here ...Why is it all the couples profiles i look at there is like zero pics of the bloke or maybe 1 or 2 that dont really let me know what i am getting unless a social meet is arranged yet there is loads of her,seem to find i could be attracted to the lady but puts me off messaging becuase there is nothing of him x

I'm afraid I feel this is a bit like the pot calling the kettle black.

Your profile has 15 public pics, only 5 of them of mr. "
and your point is ... then read what my point was oh and you have 16 public and same 5 of your mr xx

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Simple ...we all run our profile the way we want ...

We have pics of Si in friends.. his choice ..and we are happy to send them if people are interested in us.. x Storm x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Simple ...we all run our profile the way we want ...

We have pics of Si in friends.. his choice ..and we are happy to send them if people are interested in us.. x Storm x "
my original post wasnt really to tell anyone how to run their profile i was curious why there never seems to be pics of the men in friends or public and only replies ive really had are from couples who do have pics of the other half and shooting me down for asking what a few other couples think so the couples who dont have pics of other half please help with my curiosity xx please don't be offended this is not meant to offend anyone and if it has im sorry ... female replying ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever floats people's boats

We just tend to ignore profiles with just the female half on show.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Simple ...we all run our profile the way we want ...

We have pics of Si in friends.. his choice ..and we are happy to send them if people are interested in us.. x Storm x my original post wasnt really to tell anyone how to run their profile i was curious why there never seems to be pics of the men in friends or public and only replies ive really had are from couples who do have pics of the other half and shooting me down for asking what a few other couples think so the couples who dont have pics of other half please help with my curiosity xx please don't be offended this is not meant to offend anyone and if it has im sorry ... female replying ..."

No apologies needed ..

Si just doesnt like having his pic taken ..i keep trying and hopefully we will get some up sooner than later on public ..but we do have some of him on friends ..but i also understand your point we ladies do like to see who we will be playing with too ..x Storm x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Simple ...we all run our profile the way we want ...

We have pics of Si in friends.. his choice ..and we are happy to send them if people are interested in us.. x Storm x my original post wasnt really to tell anyone how to run their profile i was curious why there never seems to be pics of the men in friends or public and only replies ive really had are from couples who do have pics of the other half and shooting me down for asking what a few other couples think so the couples who dont have pics of other half please help with my curiosity xx please don't be offended this is not meant to offend anyone and if it has im sorry ... female replying ...

No apologies needed ..

Si just doesnt like having his pic taken ..i keep trying and hopefully we will get some up sooner than later on public ..but we do have some of him on friends ..but i also understand your point we ladies do like to see who we will be playing with too ..x Storm x

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Thank you and i know what you mean he is terrible in pics all i get is dont like that one i have to catch him not looking to get decent ones so we have hardly any of us together but im working on that xx

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Simple ...we all run our profile the way we want ...

We have pics of Si in friends.. his choice ..and we are happy to send them if people are interested in us.. x Storm x my original post wasnt really to tell anyone how to run their profile i was curious why there never seems to be pics of the men in friends or public and only replies ive really had are from couples who do have pics of the other half and shooting me down for asking what a few other couples think so the couples who dont have pics of other half please help with my curiosity xx please don't be offended this is not meant to offend anyone and if it has im sorry ... female replying ...

No apologies needed ..

Si just doesnt like having his pic taken ..i keep trying and hopefully we will get some up sooner than later on public ..but we do have some of him on friends ..but i also understand your point we ladies do like to see who we will be playing with too ..x Storm x

Thank you and i know what you mean he is terrible in pics all i get is dont like that one i have to catch him not looking to get decent ones so we have hardly any of us together but im working on that xx"

Lol that's men for you ..but your pics are good, wishing you good luck in your continued time on here enjoy yourselves x Storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is due to the fact we're here for Alice to play really, the most I'll possibly do is watch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ours is due to the fact we're here for Alice to play really, the most I'll possibly do is watch"
At least your honest about it and state it in your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Simple ...we all run our profile the way we want ...

We have pics of Si in friends.. his choice ..and we are happy to send them if people are interested in us.. x Storm x my original post wasnt really to tell anyone how to run their profile i was curious why there never seems to be pics of the men in friends or public and only replies ive really had are from couples who do have pics of the other half and shooting me down for asking what a few other couples think so the couples who dont have pics of other half please help with my curiosity xx please don't be offended this is not meant to offend anyone and if it has im sorry ... female replying ...

No apologies needed ..

Si just doesnt like having his pic taken ..i keep trying and hopefully we will get some up sooner than later on public ..but we do have some of him on friends ..but i also understand your point we ladies do like to see who we will be playing with too ..x Storm x

Thank you and i know what you mean he is terrible in pics all i get is dont like that one i have to catch him not looking to get decent ones so we have hardly any of us together but im working on that xx

Lol that's men for you ..but your pics are good, wishing you good luck in your continued time on here enjoy yourselves x Storm x"
Thanks again storm hope your having fun too xx M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of both of us on x

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Because pussy sells lol

This lol and also couples aren't daft. Most of the times the men aren't aesthetically pleasing enough to get meets or a lot of meets on their own. It stands to reason really. Plus women have a lot more usp then a man. Just life lolwat a load of bollocks xx "

Haha. Okay then. I've been on both sides so I think I can say that with a fair amount of confidence. But whatever

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP Which of you is it in the chicken costume?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP Which of you is it in the chicken costume?

Sally"
. Lol Male I'm afraid what can I say fan of onesises. Did turn up at my g/f's dressed in dragon onesise to go to Barnsley social her face was a picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female here ...Why is it all the couples profiles i look at there is like zero pics of the bloke or maybe 1 or 2 that dont really let me know what i am getting unless a social meet is arranged yet there is loads of her,seem to find i could be attracted to the lady but puts me off messaging becuase there is nothing of him x"

I like to show him of just as much as myself on our profile

He's hot and I'm proud

Couples should advertise equally

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we're only looking for single men for me. Mr Jazzy likes to watch but not necessarily join in. We've never been asked for a picture of him either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Female here ...Why is it all the couples profiles i look at there is like zero pics of the bloke or maybe 1 or 2 that dont really let me know what i am getting unless a social meet is arranged yet there is loads of her,seem to find i could be attracted to the lady but puts me off messaging becuase there is nothing of him x

I like to show him of just as much as myself on our profile

He's hot and I'm proud

Couples should advertise equally

Xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because we're only looking for single men for me. Mr Jazzy likes to watch but not necessarily join in. We've never been asked for a picture of him either."
Thats fair enough xx

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Simple ...we all run our profile the way we want ...

We have pics of Si in friends.. his choice ..and we are happy to send them if people are interested in us.. x Storm x my original post wasnt really to tell anyone how to run their profile i was curious why there never seems to be pics of the men in friends or public and only replies ive really had are from couples who do have pics of the other half and shooting me down for asking what a few other couples think so the couples who dont have pics of other half please help with my curiosity xx please don't be offended this is not meant to offend anyone and if it has im sorry ... female replying ...

No apologies needed ..

Si just doesnt like having his pic taken ..i keep trying and hopefully we will get some up sooner than later on public ..but we do have some of him on friends ..but i also understand your point we ladies do like to see who we will be playing with too ..x Storm x

Thank you and i know what you mean he is terrible in pics all i get is dont like that one i have to catch him not looking to get decent ones so we have hardly any of us together but im working on that xx

Lol that's men for you ..but your pics are good, wishing you good luck in your continued time on here enjoy yourselves x Storm x Thanks again storm hope your having fun too xx M "

Trying too x Storm x

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