FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand why people travel away to club but it hasn't worked for me. My first party away from home I ran into my daughters primary school teacher. She left on sighting and now I'm trying not to think about September.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be discreet and don't bring it up or make the situation awkward. She was there too so I'm sure she wouldn't want anything mentioned neither would she mention it to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just be discreet and don't bring it up or make the situation awkward. She was there too so I'm sure she wouldn't want anything mentioned neither would she mention it to anyone. "

I find her attractive though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By September, she will have forgotten the incident.

You should do the decent thing and not bring it up with her. She clearly felt uncomfortable at seeing someone she recognised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By September, she will have forgotten the incident.

You should do the decent thing and not bring it up with her. She clearly felt uncomfortable at seeing someone she recognised. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be discreet and don't bring it up or make the situation awkward. She was there too so I'm sure she wouldn't want anything mentioned neither would she mention it to anyone.

I find her attractive though

Yeah and if she found you attractive or wanted to do anything with you she would have stayed.

Don't make it awkward for the woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just be discreet and don't bring it up or make the situation awkward. She was there too so I'm sure she wouldn't want anything mentioned neither would she mention it to anyone.

I find her attractive though

Yeah and if she found you attractive or wanted to do anything with you she would have stayed.

Don't make it awkward for the woman.

Really? She left because she didn't find me attractive and not because she was simply shy? Well done Dr Phil

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"By September, she will have forgotten the incident.

You should do the decent thing and not bring it up with her. She clearly felt uncomfortable at seeing someone she recognised. "

I really don't think she'll have forgotten. She's probably in a complete panic about her job.

I agree that it shouldn't be brought up though....ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just be discreet and don't bring it up or make the situation awkward. She was there too so I'm sure she wouldn't want anything mentioned neither would she mention it to anyone.

I find her attractive though

Yeah and if she found you attractive or wanted to do anything with you she would have stayed.

Don't make it awkward for the woman.

Really? She left because she didn't find me attractive and not because she was simply shy? Well done Dr Phil"

I wouldn't say shy as she was allready at the party, she was probably embarrassed and didn't want to shit on her own doorstep. I wouldn't want to do things with someone that I would see daily at my place of work.

You've got your answer, she left so obviously she didn't want to be seen by you at that place. So, don't make it awkward for her. Just be respectful and discreet.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Just be discreet and don't bring it up or make the situation awkward. She was there too so I'm sure she wouldn't want anything mentioned neither would she mention it to anyone.

I find her attractive though

Yeah and if she found you attractive or wanted to do anything with you she would have stayed.

Don't make it awkward for the woman.

Really? She left because she didn't find me attractive and not because she was simply shy? Well done Dr Phil"

Either way, she didn't want to play.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Just be discreet and don't bring it up or make the situation awkward. She was there too so I'm sure she wouldn't want anything mentioned neither would she mention it to anyone.

I find her attractive though

What's that got to do with anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alternatively, because you appear to not want to hear those 'don't go there' answers.

At the first opportunity, wish her a 'fab' day. Whip your cock out and as if she 'fancies a fuck'

Btw don't do that, it's tongue in cheek.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP a lot of people worry about seeing someone they know at parties and clubs so they choose to play further away from home. The only problem is everyone does this so you are more likely to bump into them than if you stay close to home.

She is probably a little embarrassed and a lot worried about her job. Swinging is very much frowned upon in some professions.

Be discreet, don't mention anything at all about swinging or seeing her and treat her no differently to how you did before.

If you want to reassure her you could find her profile on here and send her a message saying "I know you recognized me and I want you to know I will respect your privacy and won't say or do anything to jeopardise your work."

You are almost certainly going to bump into someone else you know on the scene. I've bumped into a few friends and a couple of family members in clubs. It's no big deal. Just respect everyone's privacy and they will do the same for you.

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