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By *ntellectualBBC OP   Man
over a year ago

sacramento

I recently attended a sex party at a private residence in Sacramento. There were a couple of private rooms-which seemed to be the most popular, a semi private room, and one large public room. I felt bad about using the private rooms for too long so I decided to play in the semi private room. I had fun with a woman who was was excited to feel my size and test my stamina. We played for about an hour and a half, drawing a crowed receiving cheers, directions, and compliments. I thought it odd no one joined us though, until I was told other men said they couldn't compete with me. I instantly felt bad. I wasn't out to make others feel self-conscious or inadequate- as a hetero male I can't understand being in competition with other males at a sex party. The goal is to please and be pleased to the best of your ability and perhaps sometimes with help. This is not a sexy rant, I know, but I am frustrated that I sort of became the bad guy for having a great sexual experience at a sex party, a place where I thought size, shape, and to a degree appearance shouldn't matter much. Am I completely off base? I am a bit new to the lifestyle so I'd really like to know how those not so new see and approach such a situation. My apologies for being so long winded and not knowing where to post for the best advice.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Who said the BBC don't advertise?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Hitting it off isn't anything terrible, though you will find people do seem to say one thing and do another, just do yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently attended a sex party at a private residence in Sacramento. There were a couple of private rooms-which seemed to be the most popular, a semi private room, and one large public room. I felt bad about using the private rooms for too long so I decided to play in the semi private room. I had fun with a woman who was was excited to feel my size and test my stamina. We played for about an hour and a half, drawing a crowed receiving cheers, directions, and compliments. I thought it odd no one joined us though, until I was told other men said they couldn't compete with me. I instantly felt bad. I wasn't out to make others feel self-conscious or inadequate- as a hetero male I can't understand being in competition with other males at a sex party. The goal is to please and be pleased to the best of your ability and perhaps sometimes with help. This is not a sexy rant, I know, but I am frustrated that I sort of became the bad guy for having a great sexual experience at a sex party, a place where I thought size, shape, and to a degree appearance shouldn't matter much. Am I completely off base? I am a bit new to the lifestyle so I'd really like to know how those not so new see and approach such a situation. My apologies for being so long winded and not knowing where to post for the best advice."

Humble brag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't your fault other men have insecurity issues. As a woman, I would have invited others in, if I found them attractive.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I recently attended a sex party at a private residence in Sacramento. There were a couple of private rooms-which seemed to be the most popular, a semi private room, and one large public room. I felt bad about using the private rooms for too long so I decided to play in the semi private room. I had fun with a woman who was was excited to feel my size and test my stamina. We played for about an hour and a half, drawing a crowed receiving cheers, directions, and compliments. I thought it odd no one joined us though, until I was told other men said they couldn't compete with me. I instantly felt bad. I wasn't out to make others feel self-conscious or inadequate- as a hetero male I can't understand being in competition with other males at a sex party. The goal is to please and be pleased to the best of your ability and perhaps sometimes with help. This is not a sexy rant, I know, but I am frustrated that I sort of became the bad guy for having a great sexual experience at a sex party, a place where I thought size, shape, and to a degree appearance shouldn't matter much. Am I completely off base? I am a bit new to the lifestyle so I'd really like to know how those not so new see and approach such a situation. My apologies for being so long winded and not knowing where to post for the best advice.

Humble brag "

Humble?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently attended a sex party at a private residence in Sacramento. There were a couple of private rooms-which seemed to be the most popular, a semi private room, and one large public room. I felt bad about using the private rooms for too long so I decided to play in the semi private room. I had fun with a woman who was was excited to feel my size and test my stamina. We played for about an hour and a half, drawing a crowed receiving cheers, directions, and compliments. I thought it odd no one joined us though, until I was told other men said they couldn't compete with me. I instantly felt bad. I wasn't out to make others feel self-conscious or inadequate- as a hetero male I can't understand being in competition with other males at a sex party. The goal is to please and be pleased to the best of your ability and perhaps sometimes with help. This is not a sexy rant, I know, but I am frustrated that I sort of became the bad guy for having a great sexual experience at a sex party, a place where I thought size, shape, and to a degree appearance shouldn't matter much. Am I completely off base? I am a bit new to the lifestyle so I'd really like to know how those not so new see and approach such a situation. My apologies for being so long winded and not knowing where to post for the best advice."

I accept your apology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently attended a sex party at a private residence in Sacramento. There were a couple of private rooms-which seemed to be the most popular, a semi private room, and one large public room. I felt bad about using the private rooms for too long so I decided to play in the semi private room. I had fun with a woman who was was excited to feel my size and test my stamina. We played for about an hour and a half, drawing a crowed receiving cheers, directions, and compliments. I thought it odd no one joined us though, until I was told other men said they couldn't compete with me. I instantly felt bad. I wasn't out to make others feel self-conscious or inadequate- as a hetero male I can't understand being in competition with other males at a sex party. The goal is to please and be pleased to the best of your ability and perhaps sometimes with help. This is not a sexy rant, I know, but I am frustrated that I sort of became the bad guy for having a great sexual experience at a sex party, a place where I thought size, shape, and to a degree appearance shouldn't matter much. Am I completely off base? I am a bit new to the lifestyle so I'd really like to know how those not so new see and approach such a situation. My apologies for being so long winded and not knowing where to post for the best advice.

Humble brag

Humble????? "

I'm having a tease, don't pull me into being mean.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"It isn't your fault other men have insecurity issues. As a woman, I would have invited others in, if I found them attractive. "

This

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I did a project on orange groves in Sacramento once. GCSE or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *weeSeekoeieCouple
over a year ago

Richmond

I'm wondering if this is in line with the veri of: "lovely to meet this woman who could finally deepthroat my 12 inch cock in the back of my Porsche as I sucessfully held off for two hours before cumming heavily over her ...." well, whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funniest thing I've read today

Nice to see such empathy for the little fellas

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I'm wondering if this is in line with the veri of: "lovely to meet this woman who could finally deepthroat my 12 inch cock in the back of my Porsche as I sucessfully held off for two hours before cumming heavily over her ...." well, whatever."

Ever tried to get into the back of a Porsche?

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By *ntellectualBBC OP   Man
over a year ago

sacramento


"It isn't your fault other men have insecurity issues. As a woman, I would have invited others in, if I found them attractive. "

Perhaps I am off base but I thought a setting like that was one of the few places where insecurities could be relinquished- no inhibitions or judgement. just enjoy. Good sex is dependent on the level of engagement- not equipment. Am I wrong?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"It isn't your fault other men have insecurity issues. As a woman, I would have invited others in, if I found them attractive.

Perhaps I am off base but I thought a setting like that was one of the few places where insecurities could be relinquished- no inhibitions or judgement. just enjoy. Good sex is dependent on the level of engagement- not equipment. Am I wrong?"

Yep.

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