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By *litteasingMan OP   Man
over a year ago

Thereabouts

Just wondered if this a common practice...

There's this lady who always advertises to be travelling to various parts of the UK. She joined about the same as I did and we chatted then. We agreed to meet, but she demanded I verify her before a meet, which I didn't as I thought it was not right. Now, I just checked and found she has over 340 verifications...

I wonder how many of those are real...

Is this what Fab is about (accumulation of versification)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah that's not right. If in doubt, report!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly dodgy practice. Report and move on or just ignore and move on

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't veri - report her for trying.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I would doubt that all 300+ are fake, but then *shrugs* what do I know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you verify someone is genuine without meeting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered if this a common practice...

There's this lady who always advertises to be travelling to various parts of the UK. She joined about the same as I did and we chatted then. We agreed to meet, but she demanded I verify her before a meet, which I didn't as I thought it was not right. Now, I just checked and found she has over 340 verifications...

I wonder how many of those are real...

Is this what Fab is about (accumulation of versification)? "

Do you reply to the Nigerian princess emails as well.. Send me your bank details and get 7 million back...

Some folk.. Lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"How can you verify someone is genuine without meeting them?"

Asking literally or questioning motives?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I would doubt that all 300+ are fake, but then *shrugs* what do I know!

"

To answer the actual question...

No. You shouldn't verify someone that you haven't met in person and matches the actual profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you verify someone is genuine without meeting them?

Asking literally or questioning motives?"

Literally. A while back there were 'women' trading verifications for Kik pics etc.

If you verify someone by meeting but don't actually meet them, you could be verifying Big Vern on G wing as being a 21 year old nymphette...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know of someone similar on the site! I've been asked to verify a few! Just report as not worth listening sing your profile over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this how all those fake profile get thier verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would someone with over 300 verifications want another, before even meeting?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why would someone with over 300 verifications want another, before even meeting?"

Because my '100 club' has a special area upstairs for 200's and an even more special place for the 300's.

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By *litteasingMan OP   Man
over a year ago

Thereabouts

I was tempted to message some of thise who verified her, to know if they did meet. But, I thought it will be out character...

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Over 340 verifications in 6 months

Maybe she went to a load of clubs and got everyone in there to give her one

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By *luey manMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

No its not right- I'd be put off by her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds dodgy. Especially considering how long she's been here and the amount of veris she's accumulated... Does this woman even sleep?

It's against fab rules to verify someone you've not met/cammed with. Are they published veris? Or just on her summary? I only ask as I would assume that if this woman did manipulate men into verifying her before a meet, but didn't meet them, she would have been blocked by them by now. So there would be no published veris....

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No,how can you verify someone truthfully without meeting them?

Sounds like an ego boost or something dodgy op.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 340 verifications in 6 months

Maybe she went to a load of clubs and got everyone in there to give her one"

oo-er missus

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Over 340 verifications in 6 months

Maybe she went to a load of clubs and got everyone in there to give her one

oo-er missus "

I did mean veris but you never know

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No, I don't think it's allowed. Perhaps she asked because she's so 'busy' she didn't want to lose you in the scramble of guys who want to meet her!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would someone with over 300 verifications want another, before even meeting?

Because my '100 club' has a special area upstairs for 200's and an even more special place for the 300's. "

I'm not even getting into the basement

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Well well well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt have thought so

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Is currently in my area so I have been adding to private notes and blocking profiles today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 340 verifications in 6 months

Maybe she went to a load of clubs and got everyone in there to give her one"

That's hardly any

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Is currently in my area so I have been adding to private notes and blocking profiles today "

I must admit I was relieved to see that Northampton wasn't on the target list!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered if this a common practice...

There's this lady who always advertises to be travelling to various parts of the UK. She joined about the same as I did and we chatted then. We agreed to meet, but she demanded I verify her before a meet, which I didn't as I thought it was not right. Now, I just checked and found she has over 340 verifications...

I wonder how many of those are real...

Is this what Fab is about (accumulation of versification)? "

People can do cam verifications, maybe she meant that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered if this a common practice...

There's this lady who always advertises to be travelling to various parts of the UK. She joined about the same as I did and we chatted then. We agreed to meet, but she demanded I verify her before a meet, which I didn't as I thought it was not right. Now, I just checked and found she has over 340 verifications...

I wonder how many of those are real...

Is this what Fab is about (accumulation of versification)?

People can do cam verifications, maybe she meant that. "

Now there's a thought

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Is currently in my area so I have been adding to private notes and blocking profiles today

I must admit I was relieved to see that Northampton wasn't on the target list!!!! "

Your safe for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well well well "

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Nah that's not right. If in doubt, report! "

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By *litteasingMan OP   Man
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"Is currently in my area so I have been adding to private notes and blocking profiles today "

What if they traded their verification in hope and never got to actualise their hope? Or is the blocking based on intent to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many men mail me thinking the 'verification summary' is real. I say I shagged 20,000 people in 6 months and they ask when they can meet me.

Blocking people that have verified one profile is futile. Might as well never have sex again if you think you're any more than 6 degrees of separation from this poor woman you are bullying.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Report and let it go

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