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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In just the last 4 days......

we have had abuse for not wanting to meet a couple who were over 15 years over our age range, and told that we are not real swingers and full of ourselves if we have an age preference.

We have been called timewasters because we woulod not meet a couple we had only just spoken to once, and agree to go off into seperae rooms for fun with them.

We have been given much attitude about us being predudiced from a TV who we explained to that we were not interested in singles of ANY sex.

Can someone please point me in the direction of the rule i missed,

the one about not being entitled to have any rules or criteria about who and how we meet!

lol

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

And as a bonus, you're freely allowed to post on any topic you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore them. Obviously they're too immature to handle rejection well.

Just try to remember that there are some good folk here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

right....all in for a group hug.....

come on....squeeze in......

feel...the love.......xx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Thanks, just what i needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww Group hug!! Seriously tho just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In just the last 4 days......

we have had abuse for not wanting to meet a couple who were over 15 years over our age range, and told that we are not real swingers and full of ourselves if we have an age preference.

We have been called timewasters because we woulod not meet a couple we had only just spoken to once, and agree to go off into seperae rooms for fun with them.

We have been given much attitude about us being predudiced from a TV who we explained to that we were not interested in singles of ANY sex.

Can someone please point me in the direction of the rule i missed,

the one about not being entitled to have any rules or criteria about who and how we meet!

lol"

Sounds like yu're having a rough time there... maybe you could get some counselling from some of the disgruntled single guys, who whinge about having never met anyone, who appear so regularly in the forums.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Seriously, the problem isn't yours at all.

Having viewed your Profile, you couldn't make it any clearer; it's fully detailed!

If no-one can work out from your profile what you require, or they fail to read it all and properly, it's their problem!

Move on from them and look for the more positive approaches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye he's right.

There are some right clowns who just don't read profiles when contacting people

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

massive hug,some ppl need to get over themselves hope u meet better folk soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"right....all in for a group hug.....

come on....squeeze in......

feel...the love.......xx"

Mmmmm... nice... hey, who just copped a feel, own up!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry i couldnt resist....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bottom line is we ALL get messages from people outwith our criteria. If you think about it if we all started threads every time it happened we would crash the servers!

Are these people you never intend meeting or hear from again really worth the time and effort starting threads about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are these people you never intend meeting or hear from again really worth the time and effort starting threads about?

No, we all know that, but it makes you feel better by sharing the frustrations

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

i agree with sassy . i get plenty of messages from ppl whove not read profile and obviously could give two figs what i want as long as ive got a pulse and would meet them asap . yes some throw toys out their pram when shockingly i refer them back to my profile where it would clearly show they are so far from what i want its laughable lol! im actually thankfull theyve showen their true colours so quick and saves me having to have any further conversation with them .i can then speak to the deliously hot olks who are what im looking for . so god bless the dummy spitters , the juvenile and the abusive ! just makes it soooo much easy to spot decent folks .

any abusive mesages id just report and leave in the hands of admin to deal with and not give the people a second thought ! far too much fun to be had to waste a single ounce of energy of the "personality challenged " or the "mannerless " on the site x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The bottom line is we ALL get messages from people outwith our criteria. If you think about it if we all started threads every time it happened we would crash the servers!

Are these people you never intend meeting or hear from again really worth the time and effort starting threads about?"

This was not about us getting messages from people we dont want them from,we are well used to that as we have been swinging for a loooong time. This was about getting abuse, aggression and nastyness from people we have turned down 3 times in only 4 days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i agree with sassy . i get plenty of messages from ppl whove not read profile and obviously could give two figs what i want as long as ive got a pulse and would meet them asap . yes some throw toys out their pram when shockingly i refer them back to my profile where it would clearly show they are so far from what i want its laughable lol! im actually thankfull theyve showen their true colours so quick and saves me having to have any further conversation with them .i can then speak to the deliously hot olks who are what im looking for . so god bless the dummy spitters , the juvenile and the abusive ! just makes it soooo much easy to spot decent folks .

any abusive mesages id just report and leave in the hands of admin to deal with and not give the people a second thought ! far too much fun to be had to waste a single ounce of energy of the "personality challenged " or the "mannerless " on the site x"

oh we totally agree with you on that, we are just slightly bemused by people thinking that they have some sort of "entitlement" for want of a better word to you playing with them, to the extent that when you turn them down it leads to aggression.

lol at personality challenged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are these people you never intend meeting or hear from again really worth the time and effort starting threads about?

No, we all know that, but it makes you feel better by sharing the frustrations

"

indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh, the hugs and stuff sound fun by the way lol xxx

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