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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oral sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oral sex?"

Definitely prefer to give!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both in equal measures

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oral sex?

Definitely prefer to give! "

marry mee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like giving and receiving

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like giving and receiving "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, and lots of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love both, but prefer giving.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oral sex?

Definitely prefer to give! marry mee"

Been there, done that, got the tattoo unfortunately lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give, then recieve, then give again, then receive again, then give again, then receive again, then 69.

Then repeat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely receive but always eager to give

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Both.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like to give but I'm not adverse receiving a little lickety lick now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does rimming count as oral sex? If so give!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oral sex?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to give. I get a lot of pleasure from giving. Something I simply adore.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oral sex?"

Yes please, I'll take some for an hour or two...

Peach x

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By *eek12Man
over a year ago

lakenheath

I like to give but won't say no

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I used to prefer giving, I wasn't all that fussed about blow jobs but love making a woman squirm with delight.

However, I've started to enjoy them now, I never used to be able to cum from a bj but I can now.

So I guess I like them both equally. Anyone fancy a 69 while I'm balancing on this fence.

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

Both, but at the moment I am having a really enjoyable time giving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest. Receive of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both even better if at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def both.... together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does rimming count as oral sex? If so give! "

Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give definitely always like sucking and flicking a clit and make it swell

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Both, preferably giving and receiving at the same time

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Both but love to give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to give , and spend hours !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oral sex?

Yes please, I'll take some for an hour or two...

Peach x

"

I'm guessing your box filled up pretty quick after this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receiving! Providing its good obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recive.

I do like rimming a good bum though.

After a hard day though would love nothing more than a nice slow BJ.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If I have to choose, I'll recieve please and thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I have to choose, I'll recieve please and thank you "

Okay then. If ye insist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just me that thinks this is a pointless question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both definitely. Though not at the same time. Can't concentrate on giving if I'm receiving x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely both in equal measure, I also have the ability to breathe through my ears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that thinks this is a pointless question? "

Thats why i put in about a nice long slow BJ to unwind after a hard shift.

Never know if somone will offer :p

Knowing my luck though it will be Clem

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By *ack with a bangCouple
over a year ago

Hastings

Love both

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Both definitely. Though not at the same time. Can't concentrate on giving if I'm receiving x "

Definitely at the same time no concentration problems here . Storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give deff , lie him back nice long slow deep suck plenty of teasing with the tongue nibbles and licks , keeping eye contact mmmm i love it fill my mouth mmmmm could suck all night me haha my veris prove i good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it. "

Im exactly the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oral sex?

Yes please, I'll take some for an hour or two...

Peach x

"

You've also been known to give for an hour or two

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both in equal measure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.

Im exactly the same."

If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both, preferably giving and receiving at the same time "

This...

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By *odkaredbull23Man
over a year ago

some where central

Both but prefer giving.... It gets me more turned on having a woman cum by oral....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both love giving and reciving

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.

Im exactly the same.

If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off "

Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to give. Receiving can be quite boring

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Male - Receive from a woman .

Give and receive from a guy .

Female - give to a guy

Give and receive from a woman .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.

Im exactly the same.

If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off

Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world "

Me too! Haha. It gets to the point where I'm physically pulling their head up. I've even had to admit that it's just not doing it for me. Some try even harder then, which only makes it worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both!!

Kinky

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Oral sex?

Definitely prefer to give! marry mee

Been there, done that, got the tattoo unfortunately lol"

Sod the marry bit lets just have lots of hot sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.

Im exactly the same.

If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off

Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world

Me too! Haha. It gets to the point where I'm physically pulling their head up. I've even had to admit that it's just not doing it for me. Some try even harder then, which only makes it worse. "

Haha.. i feel relieved its not just me that feels this way.

So funny - bless em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.

Im exactly the same.

If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off

Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world

Me too! Haha. It gets to the point where I'm physically pulling their head up. I've even had to admit that it's just not doing it for me. Some try even harder then, which only makes it worse.

Haha.. i feel relieved its not just me that feels this way.

So funny - bless em "

Weren't you 2 ever told it's the thought that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.

Im exactly the same.

If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off

Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world

Me too! Haha. It gets to the point where I'm physically pulling their head up. I've even had to admit that it's just not doing it for me. Some try even harder then, which only makes it worse. "

Out of morbid curiosity here why not just say something?

Or tell them where/what you want them to do.

This seems pike a guy getting a teeth scraping BJ and just waiting till shes done rather than speaking up

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By *LFB.Woman
over a year ago

Farnborough.

Giving and receiving

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish


"

Weren't you 2 ever told it's the thought that counts. "

Everyone has there own preferences, some give to receive, some just want to give and some just want to receive.

I love to give and receive and I'm very lucky that I'm in a place where my OH also enjoys both. From my perspective if a partner wasn't into receiving I would be interested to find out why?? Although I know that it would be a tricky subject to approach.

Is it a problem with what I am doing?? Is it just the whole scenario that they are uncomfortable with?? I'd be willing to take instruction to improve my skills!! I totally understand that out of all the things that happen during sexy time this is the most intimate time you have with your partner during which all of our vulnerabilities are most exposed.

But that's just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both...

Crawls off back to the man cave trying to remember

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

Love to give. More than receive I would say

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Does it have to be either or? I'd prefer both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receive...

Btw... Literally every guys who says they prefer to give is lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Receive...

Btw... Literally every guys who says they prefer to give is lying.

"

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I enjoy receiving but love to give

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.

Im exactly the same.

If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off

Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world

Me too! Haha. It gets to the point where I'm physically pulling their head up. I've even had to admit that it's just not doing it for me. Some try even harder then, which only makes it worse.

Out of morbid curiosity here why not just say something?

Or tell them where/what you want them to do.

This seems pike a guy getting a teeth scraping BJ and just waiting till shes done rather than speaking up"

I've tried in the past. Some don't take instruction well. Some get defensive and say that other women loved it, so the problem must be me ( they could be right, given the intimacy issues I have). In a loving relationship I am very forthcoming about what I like

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Both equally regardless of the gender

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By *r ed300Man
over a year ago

bradford


"Giving. I'm not the greatest fan of recieving oral... Unless they are very good at it.

Im exactly the same.

If they are not good, it just gets really awkward haha. And I'm praying they will stop and get the fuck off

Obviously not been doing it right give me a try xx

Haha.. im glad im not the only woman who feels this way. I sometimes let my mind go off and it begins thinking about doing the washing, or what im going to wear to work tomorrow. Some men do not notice we are not responding, its like they are in their own little world "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both

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By *Oral_loverMan
over a year ago

Denham

Both is better, 69 anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both is better, 69 anyone ? "

Yes I adore 69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love to receive.....but nothing better than having my head between a woman's legs come here you!!!

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster

I love receiving a very wet saliva bj with lots of ball sucking, then change positions, lay on the bed & let the lady ride my tongue as we finish round one off in a 69.

Heaven is having both your balls sucked by 2 ladies at the same time, then having 2 mouths on your cock.

That would be a strong contender for my perfect groundhog day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give give give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I more enjoy giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give

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By *utonguy2023Man
over a year ago

luton

More the merrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually much prefer to give oral.

Takes a very talented mouth for me to enjoy receiving oral as much as I enjoy giving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually much prefer to give oral.

Takes a very talented mouth for me to enjoy receiving oral as much as I enjoy giving. "

This for me too.

You hear ladies complain that not many men are good at giving head,and i'm afraid it can be the same for us too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oral sex?"

Yes please, and a large cola!

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

69 all the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer giving, and i like to take my time.

I'll receive a little bit but don't be down there all day. I prefer to be fucked.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Give as a first option Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually much prefer to give oral.

Takes a very talented mouth for me to enjoy receiving oral as much as I enjoy giving. "

You haven't met me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to give and take in this life....be rude not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually much prefer to give oral.

Takes a very talented mouth for me to enjoy receiving oral as much as I enjoy giving.

You haven't met me "

Is that an offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receive. I promise I'll return the favour next time.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I believe in equals rights, so a both from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving...can get a bit carried away sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving all the way

Its always nice to receive

But I'd much rather give and reap the rewards later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give but not keen on receiving. Will avoid it at all costs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give but not keen on receiving. Will avoid it at all costs "

But whyyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give. Never got anything out of a blowjob. They're rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give oral, will receive when it happens.

Love to give all day if anyone nearby lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Give. Never got anything out of a blowjob. They're rubbish. "
see this is how I feel

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Both

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Give! 100%

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both more giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give. Never got anything out of a blowjob. They're rubbish. see this is how I feel "

Its understandable, were all different and its the same with women. Some love oral some would prefer cake.

Have you just never been given an amazing blow job .. or it just does nothing for you? what if the woman was sucking you off and fingering your ass at the same time .. or how about a 69? Do you like that?

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By *r ed300Man
over a year ago

bradford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to give but never say no. What's not to love about a good old 69?

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By *iSubSlutWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Receive

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London

Few things are hotter than a 69 for me :D

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By *inifeggMan
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def giving! Prob one of my favourite things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give & receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't beat a good 69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Receive if it's a Monday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give. But yeah a good 69 is very enjoyable

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