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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was out last night and got roped into going to some terrible dance club/bar. So i'm chatting with a friend and these two very attractive ladies walk in, and i kindly offer them our spare seats. To which the first thing she said to me was, "Buy me a drink!". If you think that is an acceptable way to talk to someone tell me why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was out last night and got roped into going to some terrible dance club/bar. So i'm chatting with a friend and these two very attractive ladies walk in, and i kindly offer them our spare seats. To which the first thing she said to me was, "Buy me a drink!". If you think that is an acceptable way to talk to someone tell me why?"

Not at all...but mines a pint of Stella if you're buying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was she being cheeky... like with a wink and a smile?

I mean.. I wouldn't approach that way... or at all.. bit traditional that way... but some women these days are a lot more brash...

Maybe she thought you were appealing and was trying it on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheeky cow lol.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

nice = sucker.

try being to polite to men online when rejecting them, they often start being pushy as they think you having manners means they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was out last night and got roped into going to some terrible dance club/bar. So i'm chatting with a friend and these two very attractive ladies walk in, and i kindly offer them our spare seats. To which the first thing she said to me was, "Buy me a drink!". If you think that is an acceptable way to talk to someone tell me why?"

Should've asked for milk at the bar and gave her that.

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By *weeSeekoeieCouple
over a year ago

Richmond


"I was out last night and got roped into going to some terrible dance club/bar. So i'm chatting with a friend and these two very attractive ladies walk in, and i kindly offer them our spare seats. To which the first thing she said to me was, "Buy me a drink!". If you think that is an acceptable way to talk to someone tell me why?

Should've asked for milk at the bar and gave her that. "

A soda water is cheaper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was out last night and got roped into going to some terrible dance club/bar. So i'm chatting with a friend and these two very attractive ladies walk in, and i kindly offer them our spare seats. To which the first thing she said to me was, "Buy me a drink!". If you think that is an acceptable way to talk to someone tell me why?

Should've asked for milk at the bar and gave her that.

A soda water is cheaper."

Touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all in the context isn't it? It could, on one hand, be a cheeky bit of opportunism to get a free drink off of a sucker, on the other it could be an ice breaker and the start of a wonderful relationship ending in marriage and kids!

Without being there and knowing in what spirit it was asked it's difficult to answer your question.

Out of interest how did you respond?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you have offered them your spare seats if they weren't very attractive ladies?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It all depends on the content,it may be her way of flirting in a cheeky way,or she might be used to guy's wanting to buy her a drink if she's attractive.

Dunno it's up to you to decide which it was we weren't there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just buy the drink ya cheapskate

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Agree.

Far too pushy,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 23/07/17 19:12:20]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit pushy but no different to guys on here sending dick pic's and asking for a date

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

These girls go out every week and never pay for a drink because of suckers buying in the hope they might pull. Or guys thinking they're being flash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not.

Case closed.

Don't know why you offered them your seats anyway, they aren't helpless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this life 'if you dont ask you dont get' lol

I bet you resonded with your own question... what would you like?

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Don't think it's rude just as it's not rude to politely decline buying said drink.

I (male) half got chatting to a girl at a bar i said something in conversation to which she replied "What ever you're having" not sure if she was trying it on or genuinely misheard. Anyway bought the drinks and she was really fascinated by my open relationship status and adopted me a few hours.

The post script was she ended up too d*unk to pursue so i made sure she got home with a friend of hers and went about looking for my own pals.

That my friends, is called a tangent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you should have said was 'I'll buy you a drink, you give me a blow job'

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"What you should have said was 'I'll buy you a drink, you give me a blow job'"

Now that would be my response

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By *ewnameCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Is this not a swingers dream lol so I'd just buy her and a drink lol as long as not a bottle of Aramad de Brignac dynasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you have offered them your spare seats if they weren't very attractive ladies?"

This

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