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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i was wondering when you finally meet either at a club or 121

and the photo is nothing like the person.

what do u do?

This is just as im bored and the conversation cropped up over the weekend?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Is it not as exciting as meeting behind the bike sheds used to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol depends if im still interested in fucking them..

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We don't have that problem as we all cam to show face and body shape etc...so no surprises for us

But, If we did only swop pics, and it wasn't what I expected, I think we would walk away just for the deception...unless he was hunkier of course and then I would give him one ( or two ) and then tell him he is naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol depends if im still interested in fucking them.."

and Im taller than in my avatar lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I've had it both ways someone whose pic lookged gorgeous only it was taken 10 years ago.

And one that I thought, yep looks nice, got there and went FFS Yessss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a friend of mine met someone based on a head and shoulders pic

when they met, it would appear that the guy forgot to mention he was only 4ft tall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they still sexy I guess. If a huge difference and not a good change I would politely say thanks but no thanks.

I Always ask to see somone on cam before I agree to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" And one that I thought, yep looks nice, got there and went FFS Yessss "

Oh - I 'live' for those moments haha

Have had it happen 4/5 times

One of them meets makes 10 'mmm yeah ur ok' meets more than worthwhile !

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

depends on if they are better or worse in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends on if they are better or worse in person."

i've only ever turned 1 guy away - sorry but men in UGG boots is a big no-no !

(the boots weren't the only reason i hasten to add, but i did think wtf when he came flouncing in)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, happened to us, guy was about 10yrs older than his pic, and another stone heavier. had our get aquainted drink, and told him it was unfair not to supply a recent photo, he was a nice guy, but there was no attraction, and parted friends.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

If they had no hat on but in their picture they had a hat on, I would go fucking mental!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was wondering when you finally meet either at a club or 121

and the photo is nothing like the person.

what do u do?

This is just as im bored and the conversation cropped up over the weekend?"

It depends on whether your swayed by others opinions (as some are) or your still willing to get to know that person and find out yourself if they are worth knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was wondering when you finally meet either at a club or 121

and the photo is nothing like the person.

what do u do?

This is just as im bored and the conversation cropped up over the weekend?"

Smile and make small talk if its in a club. 1 2 1 on a meet if i am not attracted then make excuses and leave. I may tell them i may not depending if they are arrogant or insecure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my pics are a couple years old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they had no hat on but in their picture they had a hat on, I would go fucking mental!!!"

A meet did that to us once

It all got sorted out when hubby balanced the bin he found in the hotel room on the chaps head whilst I shagged him so all was good in the end

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"If they had no hat on but in their picture they had a hat on, I would go fucking mental!!!

A meet did that to us once

It all got sorted out when hubby balanced the bin he found in the hotel room on the chaps head whilst I shagged him so all was good in the end "

top tip!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"If they had no hat on but in their picture they had a hat on, I would go fucking mental!!!

A meet did that to us once

It all got sorted out when hubby balanced the bin he found in the hotel room on the chaps head whilst I shagged him so all was good in the end "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had one problem with this kinda thing

The fem of the couple had pictures of Janice Joplin on her profile instead of her ( I didn't know cause I had ta be told later) when she actually turned up (luckily just a first social meet ) she looked more like Janice battersby (corrie) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Ive never been surprised,well only in a good way and I hope ive never surprised anyone else in a bad way

No-one has run off screaming yet

LOL@ soapy and janis joplin

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Ive never been surprised,well only in a good way and I hope ive never surprised anyone else in a bad way

No-one has run off screaming yet

LOL@ soapy and janis joplin "

Ooops I should add that if anyone turned up that was vastly different from their pics id make sure I pointed it out

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

In general we have found people have looked better in the flesh than in their photos....

If we met and they looked totally different in a bad way, then we would make our excuses and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually have a social meet before any play meet to see if we get on, so if there was no attraction whether the chemistry was missing or if the pics had been misleading, then it's no problem to just walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually have a social meet before any play meet to see if we get on, so if there was no attraction whether the chemistry was missing or if the pics had been misleading, then it's no problem to just walk away. "

not if ive sawn yer legs off laine hehehehehe

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

Meet for a drink first with an exit strategy in place, ie need to get back for the child-minder etc. That way you don't have to worry about hurting feelings, just maybe a polite no thank you if they ask to meet again and you don't fancy them, or a WHAY HAY if you do and they are fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when you meet people in person their personality adds to their attractiveness. I dont mean that in like 'oh personality is more to me than looks' kinda way but their facial expressions and body language can be just as hot.

This can sometimes make up for a 'slightly' misleading photo, but only slightly misleading not completely different .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes when you meet people in person their personality adds to their attractiveness. I dont mean that in like 'oh personality is more to me than looks' kinda way but their facial expressions and body language can be just as hot.

This can sometimes make up for a 'slightly' misleading photo, but only slightly misleading not completely different ."

I have been told that on quite a few occasions. I do take a bad photo and am not a 'natural' in front of a camera but peoples _iews of me do change over a coffee. It's amazing what half a teaspoon of rohypnol can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet socially during my lunch hour so I had an excuse to leave early if they didn't appeal.

Only once have I been glad for that. The picture was a younger Robert Redford lookalike: the reality a ctoss between Bruce Forsythe and Albert Steptoe.

Don't get me started on the loud zoot suit with brown shows!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I used to meet socially during my lunch hour so I had an excuse to leave early if they didn't appeal.

Only once have I been glad for that. The picture was a younger Robert Redford lookalike: the reality a ctoss between Bruce Forsythe and Albert Steptoe.

Don't get me started on the loud zoot suit with brown shows! "

you got his number? I got a semi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you got his number? I got a semi"

Why would he be interested in your house when he clearly doesn't value anything materialistic?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Only ever been pleasantly surprised, most look like their picture/cam. But one guy i know doesnt look like his pic or cam no matter from what angle he does it, mind you hes even more gorgeous in real life.

Socials, ie clubs yes ive had some errrrr strange experiences with people lol, cause obviously if i dont know them that well ive never scrutinized them beforehand.

As for me, unfortunatly i look too much like my picture for someone to have any pleasant or unpleasant surprises

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