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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D

This is when it takes males 30mins or more to cum regardless of stimulation & also maybe not even cumming at all. So just wondering from a males perspective if the sex is still enjoyable if there's no release after all that build up? & from a female, would it put u off?

Reason I'm asking is a regular f.buddy I have fun with seems to suffer from this. It was great at 1st cause I just thought he had amazing stamina but now he's started to not cum & I'm struggling to accept that he's still having a great time & it's putting me off.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"This is when it takes males 30mins or more to cum regardless of stimulation & also maybe not even cumming at all. So just wondering from a males perspective if the sex is still enjoyable if there's no release after all that build up? & from a female, would it put u off?

Reason I'm asking is a regular f.buddy I have fun with seems to suffer from this. It was great at 1st cause I just thought he had amazing stamina but now he's started to not cum & I'm struggling to accept that he's still having a great time & it's putting me off. "

Not having an orgasm is utterly normal. Time we stopped thinking that not having one is wrong.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont think 30 minutes is long at all. Id prefer that than cumming every 5 ninutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is when it takes males 30mins or more to cum regardless of stimulation & also maybe not even cumming at all. So just wondering from a males perspective if the sex is still enjoyable if there's no release after all that build up? & from a female, would it put u off?

Reason I'm asking is a regular f.buddy I have fun with seems to suffer from this. It was great at 1st cause I just thought he had amazing stamina but now he's started to not cum & I'm struggling to accept that he's still having a great time & it's putting me off. "

I can repeat but actually prefer not to cum. I tend to enjoy sex more that way.

So I usually only cum at the end of a 4 or 5 hour session, for me it's through preference not because I can't though. Do you know if he wants to cum but can't or if it's his preference like me?

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"This is when it takes males 30mins or more to cum regardless of stimulation & also maybe not even cumming at all. So just wondering from a males perspective if the sex is still enjoyable if there's no release after all that build up? & from a female, would it put u off?

Reason I'm asking is a regular f.buddy I have fun with seems to suffer from this. It was great at 1st cause I just thought he had amazing stamina but now he's started to not cum & I'm struggling to accept that he's still having a great time & it's putting me off. "

If the guy is not complaining there's for you to worry about.

From my own experience of not cuming is that once I cum I can't continue at that scene. I can still continue with other lady at another scene in an hour apart.

So if I want my girl to enjoy sex, I would rather hold it back for her to enjoy. But the consequences is that it will be harder for me reach climax because I have held it back more than necessary.

But I still enjoy the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think this as uncommon as one might believe, just that it's a difficult subject.

There are times when I 'struggle' to cum, and the more I think about it, the less likely it is to happen.

I still get tremendous pleasure from the stimulation and I would never want to makle my partner feel pressurred in any way. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen, but I still enjoy everything else, both giving and receiving.

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By *hocoholic OP   Woman
over a year ago

The big D

Thanks to the guys for their input. To answer a question, it's not thru preference, the urge is there but just can't finish. It's seems from what u say that it's still enjoyable altho it is frustrating at my end.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"This is when it takes males 30mins or more to cum regardless of stimulation & also maybe not even cumming at all. So just wondering from a males perspective if the sex is still enjoyable if there's no release after all that build up? & from a female, would it put u off?

Reason I'm asking is a regular f.buddy I have fun with seems to suffer from this. It was great at 1st cause I just thought he had amazing stamina but now he's started to not cum & I'm struggling to accept that he's still having a great time & it's putting me off.

I can repeat but actually prefer not to cum. I tend to enjoy sex more that way.

So I usually only cum at the end of a 4 or 5 hour session, for me it's through preference not because I can't though. Do you know if he wants to cum but can't or if it's his preference like me?"

Mr.O is like that. He will hold it as prefers not to rather than repeat. I'm good with whatever he likes as I enjoy it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He could be masturbating before your meets too alot of guys do this so they can last longer obviously he is enjoying it if he keeps meeting you and he also has that time and images in his head for ever so he can sort himself out many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This still seems to be an area of widespread lack of knowledge of the male biology amongst women and even some men due to a few myths.

1. Orgasm and ejaculation are not one and the same. You can have an orgasm or many orgasms without ejaculations.

2. Pleasure does not mean orgasm or ejaculation! Yes orgasms and ejaculations are pleasurable but everything about the act is pleasure and some of us prefer to make as many of you cum without cumming ourselves as possible. Yes, not cumming is for some of us a sign of our masculine power and dominance! There's nothing more pleasurable than going to sexual war in the bedroom and completely annihilating your opponent while the two of you moan in pleasure but only one of you will sucCUMb!

3. Semen and sperm is extremely potent. It's not like any other fluid. It is the fluid of life, we can repopulate the planet from one ejaculation and men lose a LOT of their energy from ejaculating often...a lot. Men like myself prefer to keep testosterone at optimal levels for other work etc and I just don't like ejaculating, especially if there's a lot more fucking to do that week. Ejaculating is for making babies or for the pleasure of the woman who enjoys cum on or in her. But my cum is mine. My cum is my money! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is when it takes males 30mins or more to cum regardless of stimulation & also maybe not even cumming at all. So just wondering from a males perspective if the sex is still enjoyable if there's no release after all that build up? & from a female, would it put u off?

Reason I'm asking is a regular f.buddy I have fun with seems to suffer from this. It was great at 1st cause I just thought he had amazing stamina but now he's started to not cum & I'm struggling to accept that he's still having a great time & it's putting me off. "

The sex is still massively enjoyable as your still pleasing your partner It's more of a metal block if anything. If it's been going on for ages and I don't see myself finishing anytime soon and my partner is fully satisfied and "finished" a little oral always tips me over the edge

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I enjoy pleasing the woman I'm with. When she orgasms, I have to try really hard not to also orgasm, as pleasing someone is such a turn on, so fucking and not cumming is also enjoyable as long as they're enjoying themselves.

I used to not cum when I was younger but that's cos I watched too much porn.

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