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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Are they important? Do you have them? Do your kids? How many do you have?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont have them. Neither does my son as we havent been christened.

I do however have a goddaughter who is like the daughter i never had

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i have 5 coz my family is massive, but my kids have none coz i don't buy into religious ceremonies myself. i'm a godmother too to one of my cousins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Godparents. My family is rather Catholic, so we all have them.

My sister asked me to be her son's godmother but I said no because I'm not remotely religious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have Godparents. My family is rather Catholic, so we all have them.

My sister asked me to be her son's godmother but I said no because I'm not remotely religious. "

Oh, and I have two. One man and one woman. That's how all of my family does it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm an atheist but have a god daughter who is someone that I have accepted responsibilities for throughout her life, ensuring she's cared for and safe.

It's a great concept that doesn't need religious intrusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have none and I'm not one. We aren't a religious family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't have godparents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My godparents were important to me as a child as I spent time with them. Although still fond of them I see them rarely. I am godfather to one of my nephews. I'm there for him if ever he needs me and see him a few times a year, particularly Easter, his birthday celebration and Christmas along with other ad hoc visits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had god parents my kids don't, I don't see the need, and I have politely declined the request to be a god father, because I'm old fashioned and if I was going to do it I would feel partly responsible for their moral growth, and I'm not a hypocrite

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

So quite a mixed picture then

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I read that as good parents

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I read that as good parents "

No kid of mine is getting good parents!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have god parents and I got my daughter Christened more because it was expected.

I'm also god mother to my eldest nephew. I have to confess that it's I was very uncomfortable, especially as it was high church. I politely asked that I not be asked again

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know godparents is something to do with religion necessarily.

I thought if by some horrid way the parents of the child die, the godparents are the ones who then take care of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't know godparents is something to do with religion necessarily.

I thought if by some horrid way the parents of the child die, the godparents are the ones who then take care of it."

Of course it's a religious thing. The clue is in the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in answer to the op, no. No one in my family has them. We aren't that religious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't know godparents is something to do with religion necessarily.

I thought if by some horrid way the parents of the child die, the godparents are the ones who then take care of it.

Of course it's a religious thing. The clue is in the name "

Smart arse

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have god parents but never see them, actually they are quite possibly dead now. I'm a god parent to my nephew. My own children haven't been christened so don't have any, I feel a bit bad about that if I'm honest.

I refused to be a god mother to my friends daughter because they asked a lot of me. Like having them to stay and being part of each other's family. Considering we are quite a distance apart I thought that was quite heavy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have six.

I love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't know godparents is something to do with religion necessarily.

I thought if by some horrid way the parents of the child die, the godparents are the ones who then take care of it.

Of course it's a religious thing. The clue is in the name

Smart arse "

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I have godparents- not in touch with any of them and never really have.

but I am the unofficial godmother to a friend's child- they put it in their will that I take care of little one if something's happened to them. had me sniffle my nose a bit when they asked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't and my children don't.

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have 2, 1 from each side if my family... V close to my godmother, she has been a positive abd constant influence in my life from day 1.

I am a godmother, I see her nearly every week. I am there physically and emotionally for her. Her parents know I'd do anything for her and them. I and my brother (her godfather) take our role seriously and will when she is old enough help guide her spiritually also. Love her so much

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

I have 2 godparents I know my godmother as she auntie as well but don't know my godfather.My son has 4 godparents 2 of each who are all active in his life,I chose them as if anything happen to me I know they will look aft him

I been godmother 3 times to the same family, 2 bothers and their niece, and I see them as often as I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 3 godparents, I'm close to the two women and they've been part of all the major milestones in my life. I'm definitely closer to them than one of my aunts.

Our little un was christened and she has 4 godparents, three of them are regular features in her life and two of them are particularly doting and have a fantastic relationship with her. Although it's based in religion to me it's about having adults outside the family there to provide support and guidance.

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