FabSwingers.com forum: Collars

By *ehind blue eyes38 OP Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

So who wears them and who like to be on the other end of the lead? I'm thinking of getting g one for a special lady and want opinions on them, thank you please

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I love them

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By *ehind blue eyes38 OP Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

"I love them"

What is it that you love about them Princess?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I love them

What is it that you love about them Princess?

I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)

I love the security of them.

I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Clergyman are the one's to ask.

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By *ehind blue eyes38 OP Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

"I love them

What is it that you love about them Princess?

I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)

I love the security of them.

I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to."

Soft lined that's a good tip, comfort would be paramount. You'd like someone to wear one for you?

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By *ehind blue eyes38 OP Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

"Clergyman are the one's to ask. "

Haha

for some people

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I love them

What is it that you love about them Princess?

I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)

I love the security of them.

I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to.

Soft lined that's a good tip, comfort would be paramount. You'd like someone to wear one for you?"

No, I want someone who wants me to wear one for them. Be theirs completely. Not in a "I'm a dom and you're my plaything" way (by someone who thinks they're the bollocks but actually is simply a bully)

In a "we're completely joined and I'm always with you" way -

regardless of the sex dynamic.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I might know one or two who appreciate them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love them

What is it that you love about them Princess?

I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)

I love the security of them.

I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to.

Soft lined that's a good tip, comfort would be paramount. You'd like someone to wear one for you?

In a "we're completely joined and I'm always with you" way -

regardless of the sex dynamic."

This completely. Had the 'Dom' version. Disaster

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I love them

What is it that you love about them Princess?

I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)

I love the security of them.

I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to.

Soft lined that's a good tip, comfort would be paramount. You'd like someone to wear one for you?

In a "we're completely joined and I'm always with you" way -

regardless of the sex dynamic.

This completely. Had the 'Dom' version. Disaster

Yep, the one I had tried to pimp me out.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I want a collared sub but my Dom did buy me a lovely leather collar as I love the smell of leather.

Wearing a collar for play gives you a different head space especially if you enjoy sensory play.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We love them. We have one we keep for our own use, and one for guests who like to be led.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm certainly a fan.

Different ones can have a different affect on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So who wears them and who like to be on the other end of the lead? I'm thinking of getting g one for a special lady and want opinions on them, thank you please

Love them for the right man.

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By *ehind blue eyes38 OP Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?"

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance. "

Or pets at home if you're on a budget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.

Or pets at home if you're on a budget

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been collared as my husband's slave for 4 and a half years. No lead involved, it's a symbol of our relationship dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been collared as my husband's slave for 4 and a half years. No lead involved, it's a symbol of our relationship dynamic. "

This is beautiful

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.

Or pets at home if you're on a budget

You laugh but I got one from poundland for play parties a few years ago that fit perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been collared as my husband's slave for 4 and a half years. No lead involved, it's a symbol of our relationship dynamic.

This is beautiful

Thanks

Mine is stainless steel and locked. More comfortable than it sounds

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Woofer has some spare ones if you are stuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a fan, my favourite is my latex one

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance. "

Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.

Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to

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By *abbit0140Man
over a year ago

Fife

A collar means so much more than just the physical act of being worn. It's the connection and protection you give her when she wears it.

I am a huge fan of

https://www.fleetilya.com/collections/restraint-cuffs-collars

I hope you find the perfect one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to wear one for the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wearing them and love adorning them on others

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.

Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.

Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to"

No, they are as symbolic as they are intended to be by the people who use them.

Wear one your whole life, or give them away like confetti - it's down to the individuals involved. Heavy symbolism, or none at all - there is no right or wrong if it suits those concerned.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"A collar means so much more than just the physical act of being worn. It's the connection and protection you give her when she wears it.

I am a huge fan of

https://www.fleetilya.com/collections/restraint-cuffs-collars

I hope you find the perfect one.

That's a great recommendation, thanks!

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By *ehind blue eyes38 OP Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

Thanks for the recommendations, I shall check those out. Rather excited about getting one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love them

What is it that you love about them Princess?

I love how they feel around my neck (must be soft lined)

I love the security of them.

I would like to have someone who a collar meant the world to.

Soft lined that's a good tip, comfort would be paramount. You'd like someone to wear one for you?

In a "we're completely joined and I'm always with you" way -

regardless of the sex dynamic."

Hi Peaches.

I'm not Vanilla.

Unfortunately I'm outside the age range to direct message you. Really fascinated by the way in which you speak about the collar. We've literally just bought our first and would love to talk to you about your experiences. Take a look at our profile and let us know if you have any questions or would like face pics we're happy to provide. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was given my Collar over a year ago and have not taken it of since (except to go through Customs )its a beautiful locked Stainless Steel one with a removable ring and it feels amazing and more so when used ... and no I do not told the key ..

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I like the idea of wearing the key to a cock cage around my neck..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the idea of wearing the key to a cock cage around my neck.."

very sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The collar to me has more meaning than an engagement ring.

I would love to have someone wear my collar one day, for me it's not about putting a claim on someone, it's like me saying "this is my collar, and the person who is wearing it, is the one I belong to,"

I've always had a little fantasy, that along with the collar, I would buy her a necklace that would serve as the collar outside of our time, silly I know

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

I've always had a little fantasy, that along with the collar, I would buy her a necklace that would serve as the collar outside of our time, silly I know

Well that makes us pretty stupid as well then because she wears her "collar" 24/7 but it is a subtle necklace to those that do not know otherwise. The significance is what the object means to the giver and recipient not inherent to the object.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got one, its great, especially on a night out, put it on one guy and suddenly there's a queue!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true .. wear mine 24/7 it's what it means to us,mine looks like a piece of Jewelry and has only been remarked on as "a nice collar " by people that know what it is ... lol have had a lot of interest by others and especially if we have been in public with my lead on .. but that is only in certain places and times...

... and have been asked "does it come off "to which we answer No !! With a smile .. which raises a few eyebrows ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to wear one for the right person "

Ditto

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

If its for someone special, I always make a collar for them,much more personal.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"If its for someone special, I always make a collar for them,much more personal. "

That's a wonderful thing.

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By *onny-n-clydeCouple
over a year ago

cwmbran,

Clyde puts on my collar whenever we meet any other swingers be it social,party,event or play. It isn't a sub/Dom thing for us, it's a symbol that whatever happens with anyone else I belong to Clyde

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"The collar to me has more meaning than an engagement ring.

I've always had a little fantasy, that along with the collar, I would buy her a necklace that would serve as the collar outside of our time, silly I know

You are one of a few people, on here, would like to have a glass of beer with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the idea of wearing the key to a cock cage around my neck.."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The collar to me has more meaning than an engagement ring.

I've always had a little fantasy, that along with the collar, I would buy her a necklace that would serve as the collar outside of our time, silly I know

It's sweet, not silly.

If i was collared, I'd like something on the same lines but as i cannot wear necklaces to work, it'd have to be something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The collar to me has more meaning than an engagement ring.

I've always had a little fantasy, that along with the collar, I would buy her a necklace that would serve as the collar outside of our time, silly I know

You are one of a few people, on here, would like to have a glass of beer with."

I don't drink, but I'd love a with ice and a slice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adding to what I said before, I do wear my collar 24/7 and have done since I was collared four and a half years ago, with the exception of a brief period of about two weeks for medical reasons. I love the collar and often find myself playing with it, but it's the symbol of our commitment not the commitment itself.

I'll agree with whoever said collars are as symbolic as you wish them to be. Wear them for whatever reason you wish and to symbolise whatever you wish, your body so do what you want. It's not going to change the meaning of the one I wear in my relationship

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

LOVE my collar!

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By *ehind blue eyes38 OP Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat.

Some great responses

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat.

Some great responses

Enjoy x

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Love wearing a collar...so sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat.

Some great responses

This is wonderful

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By *ehind blue eyes38 OP Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

"Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat.

Some great responses

This is wonderful

Isn't it

we think we may need 2. One for home and one for out and about

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat.

Some great responses

This is wonderful

Isn't it

we think we may need 2. One for home and one for out and about

Yay

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

I adore my collar x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy wearing mine but prefer to see it on a man

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By *ehind blue eyes38 OP Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

"I enjoy wearing mine but prefer to see it on a man

Mine will only be worn by one person

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.

Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.

Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to

No, they are as symbolic as they are intended to be by the people who use them.

Wear one your whole life, or give them away like confetti - it's down to the individuals involved. Heavy symbolism, or none at all - there is no right or wrong if it suits those concerned."

I disagree. Within the context of BDSM, they are incredibly powerful and demonstrate ownership, belonging, security. Wearing a collar in a temporary play scenario is incredibly different to the transference of power and trust that comes with collaring. I play with a lot of people, I only collar a few.

But that's merely my take on it

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.

Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.

Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to

No, they are as symbolic as they are intended to be by the people who use them.

Wear one your whole life, or give them away like confetti - it's down to the individuals involved. Heavy symbolism, or none at all - there is no right or wrong if it suits those concerned.

But that's merely my take on it "

Sure it is. But what you are saying is 'here's my take on it, and that's what it means for everyone within the context of BDSM'.

Which means you are essentially saying your way of BDSM is right, and others' way of BDSM is wrong. Which is symptomatic of many in the 'scene', the desire to be proscriptive of the way others play.

Once again, if it's consensual and safe, any way of doing things is the right one, for the people concerned.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.

Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.

Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to

No, they are as symbolic as they are intended to be by the people who use them.

Wear one your whole life, or give them away like confetti - it's down to the individuals involved. Heavy symbolism, or none at all - there is no right or wrong if it suits those concerned.

But that's merely my take on it

Sure it is. But what you are saying is 'here's my take on it, and that's what it means for everyone within the context of BDSM'.

Which means you are essentially saying your way of BDSM is right, and others' way of BDSM is wrong. Which is symptomatic of many in the 'scene', the desire to be proscriptive of the way others play.

Once again, if it's consensual and safe, any way of doing things is the right one, for the people concerned. "

There is no right or wrong way to do anything, don't be daft. Perhaps I should have prefaced with 'well in my opinion'.

After 17 years in this game, I've my way of doing things and wouldn't pass out collars like doughnuts. But yep, to each their own

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"Could anyone recommend a place to purchase one?

Coco de mer if you want luxury and elegance.

Nah, Coco is crazily over priced. Get yourself to a fetish market or fair where people make them with a touch of love as they're usually into BDSM themselves.

Collars are very symbolic, careful who you dish them out to

No, they are as symbolic as they are intended to be by the people who use them.

Wear one your whole life, or give them away like confetti - it's down to the individuals involved. Heavy symbolism, or none at all - there is no right or wrong if it suits those concerned.

But that's merely my take on it

Sure it is. But what you are saying is 'here's my take on it, and that's what it means for everyone within the context of BDSM'.

Which means you are essentially saying your way of BDSM is right, and others' way of BDSM is wrong. Which is symptomatic of many in the 'scene', the desire to be proscriptive of the way others play.

Once again, if it's consensual and safe, any way of doing things is the right one, for the people concerned.

There is no right or wrong way to do anything, don't be daft. Perhaps I should have prefaced with 'well in my opinion'.

After 17 years in this game, I've my way of doing things and wouldn't pass out collars like doughnuts. But yep, to each their own "

You can count the amount of collars I've given in 25 years on one hand. Each one made by me,a personal gift from me to them. However I do use regular collars during play.

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By *ehind blue eyes38 OP Man
over a year ago

Hunstanton

Wow it got a little heated there, everyone's perception will be different just as it is for anything else in life. If we all thought/like/do the same things it would be a very dull life, variety is the spice and all the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat.

Some great responses

This is wonderful

Isn't it

we think we may need 2. One for home and one for out and about

It really is. You can get some beautiful day collars which are a little more discreet and just look like ' a beautiful necklace' rather than a heavy duty or big thick collar.

It's quite something to water a collar and people comment on a 'pretty necklace' the rush you get from it...is quite something else...and the other person not knowing the true meaning behind it.

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sitting in the car with the one to be collared reading out your posts and she's grinning like a Cheshire cat.

Some great responses

This is wonderful

Isn't it

we think we may need 2. One for home and one for out and about

It really is. You can get some beautiful day collars which are a little more discreet and just look like ' a beautiful necklace' rather than a heavy duty or big thick collar.

It's quite something to water a collar and people comment on a 'pretty necklace' the rush you get from it...is quite something else...and the other person not knowing the true meaning behind it.

Enjoy

*wear

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