FabSwingers.com forum: Meet preparations

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hiya!

I was wondering what sort of things people who are accommodating do in preparation for a meet and how they feel before opening that door.

I'm always surprised that despite being super horny and so so up for the person or people arriving, I get beyond nervous!

I fret that I should shave again even if its still very trim but then I fret incase the recent shave then hours of fucking gives me a shaving rash that might look off putting (is it?).

I stress about the music we're putting on incase the person isnt into it and I make sure it's got a good sexy rhythm.

I can't eat before a meet even if I know it won't be until late in the evening.

My hands go FREEZING cold and I worry that it's offputting, especially when I'm about to be handling a throbbing hard cock.

I feel so flustered before a meet and then when they arrive and we get naked I'm totally fine.

Is it just me?

Anyone else got any wee pre meet worries and know of anything I can do to chill out about it more?

It's always worth it in the end though.

Debbie x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't accommodate anymore but I used to worry that I didn't have the right nibbles and that the women would make a wet mess of my bed or furniture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make sure your house is clean and tidy with sheets on the location your planning on having fun.

I've been to a house before (meet from fab) where the house was a shithole and stunk so I left after 3 minutes lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't accommodate anymore but I used to worry that I didn't have the right nibbles and that the women would make a wet mess of my bed or furniture.

Haha! Yeah we've had a woman absolutely soak our couch.

Today's worry was that the mattress on the floor wasn't sprung so it might not be as easy to fuck on... I was right! Hard without springs! Memory foam is only for athletes! I'm done in!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I don't accommodate anymore but I used to worry that I didn't have the right nibbles and that the women would make a wet mess of my bed or furniture.

Haha! Yeah we've had a woman absolutely soak our couch.

Today's worry was that the mattress on the floor wasn't sprung so it might not be as easy to fuck on... I was right! Hard without springs! Memory foam is only for athletes! I'm done in!

Memory foam only works for missionary and only then if he doesn't move too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just make sure your house is clean and tidy with sheets on the location your planning on having fun.

I've been to a house before (meet from fab) where the house was a shithole and stunk so I left after 3 minutes lol "

Yeah we hoover and tidy and have fresh sheets washed that day put on and have condoms, lube, bottles of water and towels about etc. I think it's more that I worry about how to start it all off maybe.

So tonight I answered the door dressed to impress and my husband was taking pics. I took the guy into the room and then was so nervous I didn't know how to start so I just undressed him immediately... no prior conversation. How would you expect a meet with a couple to start?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so confident in general but before a meet I get so nervous. When you get the text saying on my way I can't handle it sometimes. I go in and put more perfume on....straighten my hair.... more lip gloss..ask Mr if I look ok bout 10 times ..i have to keep moving or my stomach does somersaults. As soon as they come through the door the nerves just go and its total excitement and back to my confident self x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really would nt be nervous about any of the above ... by the look of your pucs you are hot and i dont think any of what you have mentioned would make the blind bit of duffrence

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Always a social first. For safety and need to get into my head before my undercrackers.

Shit, shower, shave. Run the vacuum around and check the bedside accessories are stocked (condoms, lube, toys).

Rarely nervous anymore but do love the excitement of a first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh we are so glad it's not just us! Can never eat before a meet! And end up clock watching even half hour before time agreed!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Nerves are normal. And other than taking calms i dont know how you could combat that.

Re shaving. As long as your not giving chewbacca a run for his money i dont think anyone would care too much.

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

We get nervous, more me than Fiona. Even a social meet too!

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

Movement can help burn off adrenaline.

I write lists too, so u can go through things..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get nervous anymore. I have a shower, shave and I dress not too provocatively but not lazily either. I dont overdo the make up and make sure I smell amazing. It is a shame that some men dont make the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tactical wank lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clean and tidy home - clean bedding - plenty of towels - maybe a drink or two or a brew and chat- then playtime - never bothered with nibbles and such for 1 or 2 people - if a party then yes but then people often arrive with 'stuff' as well - not what its about though

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

chloroform

plastic sheet

axe

shovel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"chloroform

plastic sheet

axe

shovel

Hahaha

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By *rby38Man
over a year ago

Stoke row

"chloroform

plastic sheet

axe

shovel

My god that's dark!

Your missing lime from that list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"chloroform

plastic sheet

axe

shovel

I dig the hole for you before you get here. But can I have something before you do it i want to go with a smile on my face

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

For my Coffee Morning parties I just make sure the house is cleaned and polished and tidy as if I was having friends or family round for a coffee etc, with the addition of clean bedding in my bedroom, condoms and lube and wetwipes on either side of the bed and a small plastic bag on a wardrobe door handle for any condom wrappers and used condoms etc.

Not worried about any of the lady guests getting wet puddles on the sofa, carpets or bedding... all part of the fun and cleans up easily afterwards.

Then I shave and shower and have butterflies in my tummy while waiting for the first guest to arrive. Once the first one has turned up and I've got the kettle on, the butterflies have gone but the excitement is still there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accom or get nervous.

But going to an untidy house is a turn off. I have left before after about 5 mins of chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man prep:

Get the right wine in

Tidy up

Shower

Relax

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Ladies tipple of choice on ice.

Always have clean house.

New sheets.

Take the dogs for a walk

Shower.

Relax and wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"chloroform

plastic sheet

axe

shovel

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"chloroform

plastic sheet

axe

shovel

I dig the hole for you before you get here. But can I have something before you do it i want to go with a smile on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man prep:

Get the right wine in

Tidy up

Shower

Relax

Who are you? Do you know me from my old profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tidy up shower shave and put the good aftershave on, wine and beer in the fridge and then pace about until they arrive.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

The usual getting yourself looking/feeling as best as you can,along with the house. Few trips to the loo,fair bit of pacing about,clock watching etc

Probably why I can't be bothered meeting at the mo with all that faf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes cant beat a good rug for some hard fucking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes cant beat a good rug for some hard fucking "

A deep shagpile rug on the floor... or a rug on me? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I really would nt be nervous about any of the above ... by the look of your pucs you are hot and i dont think any of what you have mentioned would make the blind bit of duffrence

Thank you! Very kind of you to say so

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I just concentrate on relaxation, as the meet is about me feeling good. The better I feel, the better it is for them.

People with mess in their pics have to empty bins around the floor, so visitors feel at ease - they're not with a scanner

. So just feel good that your environment is welcoming.

Ensure plenty of time to prepare and potentially to curtail your over-done grooming etc. I like the less is more approach.

It's normal to be excited but there's typically just a matter of interpretation over whether you're excited, stressed or anxious. Relaxation is the key to feeling upbeat when you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes cant beat a good rug for some hard fucking

A deep shagpile rug on the floor... or a rug on me? x"

I was thinking shagpile but a rug can be a nice change sometimes

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