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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

As we are not all of one mind, expect milions of different answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP can i have some of whatever you're on please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just fake it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just fake it, "

Like piss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just fake it,

Like piss?

Male squirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just fake it,

Like piss?

Male squirting

My thoughts too

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

As long as he has a good time I won't take it personally.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

As long as I cum I don't care. Joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as I cum I don't care. Joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop wanking so much op and you'll cum when u get real sex

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Just fake it, "

I had a man do that with me. When I realised I explained that I prefer men not to cum and it led to some very happy meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had the other person care.

Normally an excuse for them to ride longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bang her doggy then spit on her back!!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I've a FB who goes for hours and he rarely comes. Only person I've ever tapped out with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

What's dry cum?

I'd be really disappointed if he didnt cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask if he was happy about it, or if he would like me to assist in any way. Some men don't come and they are used to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

What's dry cum?

I'd be really disappointed if he didnt cum. "

It's like an invisible poo. You know you did it but there's no evidence.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

What's dry cum?

I'd be really disappointed if he didnt cum.

It's like an invisible poo. You know you did it but there's no evidence."

Haha that's called a ghost poo where I'm from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer him to say he isn't going too & as long as he's happy to still partake in some mutual pleasuring then all is good...

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Just fake it,

I had a man do that with me. When I realised I explained that I prefer men not to cum and it led to some very happy meets.

Why do you prefer that if you dont mind me asking?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

What's dry cum?

I'd be really disappointed if he didnt cum.

It's like an invisible poo. You know you did it but there's no evidence."

Never had one of those....

Does it still smell??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

What's dry cum?

I'd be really disappointed if he didnt cum.

It's like an invisible poo. You know you did it but there's no evidence.

Never had one of those....

Does it still smell??

Mine never smell.

Do yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

What's dry cum?

I'd be really disappointed if he didnt cum.

It's like an invisible poo. You know you did it but there's no evidence."

So does he have an orgasm but nothing comes out or does he just lose the erection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

What's dry cum?

I'd be really disappointed if he didnt cum.

It's like an invisible poo. You know you did it but there's no evidence.

So does he have an orgasm but nothing comes out or does he just lose the erection?"

Depends

We sometimes take it in turns to tie each other up and basically wank the other person off until they can take no more (and maybe a little more). That can result in a dry (or mini) one.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

What's dry cum?

I'd be really disappointed if he didnt cum.

It's like an invisible poo. You know you did it but there's no evidence.

Never had one of those....

Does it still smell??

Mine never smell.

Do yours?

Only of roses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess some women like that, others don't, some feel its their fault, others that they can't please the man if he doesn't cum.

If men don't cum or dry cum.

Do women want men to explain or say nothing?

What's dry cum?

I'd be really disappointed if he didnt cum.

It's like an invisible poo. You know you did it but there's no evidence.

Never had one of those....

Does it still smell??

Mine never smell.

Do yours?

Only of roses

Not chocolate ones...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know each time a guy cums in a long session there's less and less cum produced each time... but if none comes out at all which im assuming is what your meaning by dry cunning, does he still feel as if he has had an orgasm? or does he not get that sensation because there's no cum being ejaculated to give the orgasm?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cumming *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say cum is a consequence of, rather than the orgasm itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say the tip of the penis is less sensitive in dry cums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eh,,,,,

they ALWAYS cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually too quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"usually too quickly"

Then do it again. And again. And...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Just fake it,

I had a man do that with me. When I realised I explained that I prefer men not to cum and it led to some very happy meets.

Why do you prefer that if you dont mind me asking?"

A fair few men claim to be able to go again but really can't. I'm mildly allergic to some sperm so when they want to whip off that condom for the final finish across me I can end up with red welts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just fake it,

I had a man do that with me. When I realised I explained that I prefer men not to cum and it led to some very happy meets.

Why do you prefer that if you dont mind me asking?

A fair few men claim to be able to go again but really can't. I'm mildly allergic to some sperm so when they want to whip off that condom for the final finish across me I can end up with red welts.

I'm allergic to the taste of it yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say cum is a consequence of, rather than the orgasm itself.

No it part of it for me. The physical sensation of the cum shooting is ecstasy. The endorphin release that washes over you follows this amazing acute sensation in my cock.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Just fake it,

I had a man do that with me. When I realised I explained that I prefer men not to cum and it led to some very happy meets.

Why do you prefer that if you dont mind me asking?

A fair few men claim to be able to go again but really can't. I'm mildly allergic to some sperm so when they want to whip off that condom for the final finish across me I can end up with red welts.

I'm allergic to the taste of it yuk"

I really never taste it. If it leaves red marks on my skin what will/might it do to my tongue and throat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just fake it,

I had a man do that with me. When I realised I explained that I prefer men not to cum and it led to some very happy meets.

Why do you prefer that if you dont mind me asking?

A fair few men claim to be able to go again but really can't. I'm mildly allergic to some sperm so when they want to whip off that condom for the final finish across me I can end up with red welts.

I'm allergic to the taste of it yuk

I really never taste it. If it leaves red marks on my skin what will/might it do to my tongue and throat?

oh its a bit nippy on the throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say cum is a consequence of, rather than the orgasm itself.

No it part of it for me. The physical sensation of the cum shooting is ecstasy. The endorphin release that washes over you follows this amazing acute sensation in my cock."

I'm sure that's the case for most if not all. My point was the ability to experience orgasm in the absence of cum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say cum is a consequence of, rather than the orgasm itself.

No it part of it for me. The physical sensation of the cum shooting is ecstasy. The endorphin release that washes over you follows this amazing acute sensation in my cock.

I'm sure that's the case for most if not all. My point was the ability to experience orgasm in the absence of cum."

Yes I very much agree. Its possible to experience an orgasm and yet not cum. I find I can hold back maybe three or four times, then it wont ever. However one thing personally is that your balls ache for ages after, many hours later, or sometimes the next day, if one has controlled the entire time.

Its like porn stars being asked to cum...when asked...now

i think all men know what to do, how to control, its all just training, bit like pelvic floor exercises, or forcing blood into shaft and out again using the muscles in groin and pressure of blood, maybe others wont understand me, but i like to control myself, i gain the greatest pleasures, and that sometimes results in no cum, or dry cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly never knew there was so much more to a man cumming than just the norm... thanks for the insight.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Just fake it,

I had a man do that with me. When I realised I explained that I prefer men not to cum and it led to some very happy meets.

Why do you prefer that if you dont mind me asking?

A fair few men claim to be able to go again but really can't. I'm mildly allergic to some sperm so when they want to whip off that condom for the final finish across me I can end up with red welts.

O wow. Thats very unfortunate.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I'd say cum is a consequence of, rather than the orgasm itself.

No it part of it for me. The physical sensation of the cum shooting is ecstasy. The endorphin release that washes over you follows this amazing acute sensation in my cock.

I'm sure that's the case for most if not all. My point was the ability to experience orgasm in the absence of cum.

Its like porn stars being asked to cum...when asked...now

I dont mind being edged but i want to cum eventually. I dont want achy balls ta!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seed bags are empty,they need refills lol

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

Ive got this, wrong way round really, insensitive penis sensitive soul.

Most have been understanding, and seem to like how I can stay hard for bloody ages, normally stop due to time,exhaustion, or soreness/pain

But it isn't helped by wanking, but when u horny and alone with no one for ages u wank alot :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as I cum I don't care. Joke

Haha.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I used to see a guy who never did. I was convinced the problem was me.

Then I met one a few times who could just do it over and over and over. His ability to repeat was incredible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to see a guy who never did. I was convinced the problem was me.

Then I met one a few times who could just do it over and over and over. His ability to repeat was incredible. "

That's the thing, I guess it could be a problem for some, but I never used to be so...when I first started having sex...I was just above a two stroke splat guy haha (actually heard that's the norm from women whole life), but seriously I trained myself to be like this, its a personal control thing and also I gain greater satisfaction this way.

I find on average takes about 2-3 weeks, having sex with someone over and over, before I feel close enough to them, for me to feel I want to cum with them. The thing is when I do cum. My whole body vibrates...shakes really quite violently

its something quite special to me and I keep it that way. Yeah one can shag or fuck or go till the woman can't actually take no more because its all to sensitive down there etc. Guess is why in past have managed to be invited to girls houses for mfff and mffff haha but then go all night, not cum and still feel satisfied.

I guess I hold back also quite a bit. Its way better

for everyone concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have saw this from both sides. I have guys that can cum and then be ready to go again instantly.

Also have one guy who doesn't always cum and can't always relax enough to keep hard. I feel it's me when happens and try to think what done differently from last meet when he did cum and stay hard etc but he always says it's his problem and it's cos over thinking etc.

TBH although I worry I know he has a great time and I always do so I won't let it effect future meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the guy hasnt cum and we have been fucking quite hard and for a fair amount of time .. at the end of it I may ask him if hes ok. If he has made me cum then I will probably ask why he didnt cum. I like to know the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose everyone is different. I will take quite a long time to come from fucking, which is fine as I like the lady to have a bit of variety in positions and a few orgasms first (seems only polite) because when I do it's intense for me and I need a short break before we can go again. Time used for other fun stimulation! I've never come from a blow job, much as I enjoy them, but once I am seriously aroused I do need to come or my balls hurt like hell

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i only dry cum ..and i have to do it myself usually...no ones made me cum 4 ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose everyone is different. I will take quite a long time to come from fucking, which is fine as I like the lady to have a bit of variety in positions and a few orgasms first (seems only polite) because when I do it's intense for me and I need a short break before we can go again. Time used for other fun stimulation! I've never come from a blow job, much as I enjoy them, but once I am seriously aroused I do need to come or my balls hurt like hell

Not all women orgasm from penetrative sex. Just thought you should know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all women orgasm from penetrative sex. Just thought you should know "

But it would be OK for a bloke to ask and check everything was OK if they didn't? (As per your previous comment)

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By *eordieslutWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I would want to tell me if it is my fault or not

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By *eordieslutWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I would want to tell me if it is my fault or not it does on sum woman feel bad because they think they cause that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would want to tell me if it is my fault or not it does on sum woman feel bad because they think they cause that"

yes see, from a personal point of view, i tend to find women quite often appear or even say...did they not satisfy one...its a hard enough thing deciding if a woman is satisfied as a man I find, however when you have visually witnessed such events, perhaps a man has the reasoning to believe that he has, but then as some others have stated, she could be faking (although personally having made women cum many times, I could tell a fake one, but not all men can, as women have informed me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all women orgasm from penetrative sex. Just thought you should know "

I'd noticed. One acquaintance would orgasm just from nipple stimulation..always nice to find differences.

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"As long as I cum I don't care. Joke

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By *eordieslutWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I would perfect they explain if woman faults or not I would rather they said sum thing from georgieslut

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