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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

1) Put effort into your profile -(i know I havent lol)

2) Dont have 3 million cock pics

3) Dont complain about not having a meet after being on the site for half an hour lol

4) Put time and effort in the forums

4b) Have fun in there, show your personality

5) Dont complain about being ignore...it will happen....alot. Dust yourself off and keep pluggig away

6) Dont just message (fabcy a fuck, free now or suck my cock) im not saying this wont work but statistically its a tough opener lol

Have I missed anything fabbers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7) ignore 90% of the advice given on the forum as it doesn't translate to the rest of the site

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't make assumptions......be respectful.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any more

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Bring cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile in face pics

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure your photos are teasing. Boring ones just don't hold attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bring cake"
and trifle

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Continuously update and improve your profile and approach, based upon your experience. As well as any wrinkles etc that may not be so well reflected by your earlier photos

Don't assume that all swinging happens via the internet - get out and meet real people at clubs and socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is couples treat mens messages disrespectfully 99% of the time. They dont bother to reply.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Lower your expectations.. this is not instashag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignore everything other ask for on your profile be yourself and let that come across on your profile

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Don't have 18-99 as your age range.

At least reduce it to 80 or you can seem a little bit desperate.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Try thinking with the brain in your skull, not the one at the end of your wang

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By *easing_twoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol, Thornbury

8) if your going to message someone read there profile and personalise your message. Copy and paste is not your friend.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

9) Be honest about your sexuality. If you say you're straight don't have 'looking for guys' or show a sexual veri from a chap. You'll be labelled fab straight forever and that'll put some gals off

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

10 If you look at fab as a social media site then it is aksharley a rother good site

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"10 If you look at fab as a social media site then it is aksharley a rother good site "

Fab is no different from Match imo.

Work.out why you are here. It 3% single females so you are more likely to end up.sucking cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10 If you look at fab as a social media site then it is aksharley a rother good site

Fab is no different from Match imo.

Work.out why you are here. It 3% single females so you are more likely to end up.sucking cock"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10 If you look at fab as a social media site then it is aksharley a rother good site

Fab is no different from Match imo.

Work.out why you are here. It 3% single females so you are more likely to end up.sucking cock"

Probably the most stupid comment of the day so far

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"10 If you look at fab as a social media site then it is aksharley a rother good site

Fab is no different from Match imo.

Work.out why you are here. It 3% single females so you are more likely to end up.sucking cock"

Or just never getting any luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed...

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you get your first veri you will unlock the world of fab. Being a site supporter can help also.

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