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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been a member for a few weeks now but still waiting for my swinging cherry to be popped.what am I doing that is wrong? Im not rude about it.maybe im just ugly.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Having had a quick look at your profile it seems you are limited as to what you are able to offer a meet.

What does swinging mean to you?

What can you offer?

Perhaps clubs would be better for you as you wouldn't need to worry about being able to accommodate.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

A few weeks??? It says 7 days on yer profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm...I can't really say unless you give me the liberty to express my opinion on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get creative with your pictures.

They look like a 14 year old's MySpace page.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Erm...I can't really say unless you give me the liberty to express my opinion on your profile."

And I'd use the term 'profile' lightly

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Don't worry about it buddy. You got your health!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm...I can't really say unless you give me the liberty to express my opinion on your profile.

And I'd use the term 'profile' lightly "

I'm just being safe...I don't think I have many lives left

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Also, been on 7 days, giving this site til the end of the week. What on earth were you expecting?

Just chucking out there that patience is a quality most women look for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also, been on 7 days, giving this site til the end of the week. What on earth were you expecting?

Just chucking out there that patience is a quality most women look for...."

Really? I thought it's a big cock, tats and height

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Also, been on 7 days, giving this site til the end of the week. What on earth were you expecting?

Just chucking out there that patience is a quality most women look for...."

But if anyone says it's the key I'm going to crack up. Wait did I just do it?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Also, been on 7 days, giving this site til the end of the week. What on earth were you expecting?

Just chucking out there that patience is a quality most women look for....

But if anyone says it's the key I'm going to crack up. Wait did I just do it? "

What... did you just say 'patience is key'

I've never heard that before, I thought people were just wanting to shag tonight

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton


"Also, been on 7 days, giving this site til the end of the week. What on earth were you expecting?

Just chucking out there that patience is a quality most women look for....

But if anyone says it's the key I'm going to crack up. Wait did I just do it?

What... did you just say 'patience is key'

I've never heard that before, I thought people were just wanting to shag tonight "

You leave our Shag alone!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just going to stay out of this one, but......

Maybe start by trying to find a social or club meet near you first to meet local people and take it from there.

Also listen to the comments above, apart from patience being the key on this site because that comment has not been made!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest OP. Did you imagine a bunch of oversexed nymphos banging down your door desperate for a shag? You have been on here for 7 days. There are far more men than women on here. Unfortunately for you, that means you don't stand out amongst the thousands. I think you may be misguided about this site. If you are not willing to be patient and lower your expectations, perhaps this is not the place for you. I don't mean to sound harsh. But this place is not instashag. You have to put effort in.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Would you walk to Yorkshire OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you walk to Yorkshire OP?"

Altogether now......"and i would walk 500 miles......."

As for this being a place for a quick shag, if you have zero morales, standards and are attracted to men, women and trans people then i think you could meet a different person every night (not including those with multiple profiles and personalities!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest OP. Did you imagine a bunch of oversexed nymphos banging down your door desperate for a shag? You have been on here for 7 days. There are far more men than women on here. Unfortunately for you, that means you don't stand out amongst the thousands. I think you may be misguided about this site. If you are not willing to be patient and lower your expectations, perhaps this is not the place for you. I don't mean to sound harsh. But this place is not instashag. You have to put effort in. "
is that not what happens here ??? Damn it, time for plenty of fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages"

This so much this.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

He can walk to Yorkshire if he enjoys walking so much. Lots of nice countryside in this wonderful county!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

He can walk to Yorkshire if he enjoys walking so much. Lots of nice countryside in this wonderful county!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been a member for a few weeks now but still waiting for my swinging cherry to be popped.what am I doing that is wrong? Im not rude about it.maybe im just ugly. "

Your location on your profile reads like your having it away with a fella.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"I've been a member for a few weeks now but still waiting for my swinging cherry to be popped.what am I doing that is wrong? Im not rude about it.maybe im just ugly. "

A bit ugly

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages"

And above all the bitches love cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

And above all the bitches love cake "

They sure do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wonder if there are a high proportion of swinging bakers?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

And above all the bitches love cake

They sure do "

This one does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

And above all the bitches love cake

They sure do

This one does "

How would you two like a slice? There isn't much so you'll have to share

Bitches love cake

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

And above all the bitches love cake

They sure do

This one does

How would you two like a slice? There isn't much so you'll have to share

Bitches love cake "

Oh I'm easy on. I'd be happy to listen whilst cooking your dinner and serving refreshments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

And above all the bitches love cake

They sure do

This one does

How would you two like a slice? There isn't much so you'll have to share

Bitches love cake

Oh I'm easy on. I'd be happy to listen whilst cooking your dinner and serving refreshments. "

It was an innuendo for sex...but now you mention it, I am pretty hungry

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

And above all the bitches love cake

They sure do

This one does

How would you two like a slice? There isn't much so you'll have to share

Bitches love cake

Oh I'm easy on. I'd be happy to listen whilst cooking your dinner and serving refreshments.

It was an innuendo for sex...but now you mention it, I am pretty hungry"

I try to cover all bases...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

And above all the bitches love cake

They sure do

This one does

How would you two like a slice? There isn't much so you'll have to share

Bitches love cake

Oh I'm easy on. I'd be happy to listen whilst cooking your dinner and serving refreshments.

It was an innuendo for sex...but now you mention it, I am pretty hungry

I try to cover all bases...

"

I just want you on 4th base and I'll be happy

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

And above all the bitches love cake

They sure do

This one does

How would you two like a slice? There isn't much so you'll have to share

Bitches love cake

Oh I'm easy on. I'd be happy to listen whilst cooking your dinner and serving refreshments.

It was an innuendo for sex...but now you mention it, I am pretty hungry

I try to cover all bases...

I just want you on 4th base and I'll be happy "

As you asked so nicely

Erm... which one's 4th?

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Bloody hell not another one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

And above all the bitches love cake

They sure do

This one does

How would you two like a slice? There isn't much so you'll have to share

Bitches love cake

Oh I'm easy on. I'd be happy to listen whilst cooking your dinner and serving refreshments.

It was an innuendo for sex...but now you mention it, I am pretty hungry

I try to cover all bases...

I just want you on 4th base and I'll be happy

As you asked so nicely

Erm... which one's 4th? "

THE DICK!!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. Don't think of fab as a replacement for your sex life and think of it as addition.

I've said this before but I'll say it again, stick to the forums, have a laugh and let people get to know you. For a single lad who isn't verified, it's much better than sending messages

And above all the bitches love cake

They sure do

This one does

How would you two like a slice? There isn't much so you'll have to share

Bitches love cake

Oh I'm easy on. I'd be happy to listen whilst cooking your dinner and serving refreshments.

It was an innuendo for sex...but now you mention it, I am pretty hungry

I try to cover all bases...

I just want you on 4th base and I'll be happy

As you asked so nicely

Erm... which one's 4th?

THE DICK!!! "

who's tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here. "

I think it took 30 mins for me this time from signing up to meeting somone

20 mins of that was finishing the train journey i was on :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here.

I think it took 30 mins for me this time from signing up to meeting somone

20 mins of that was finishing the train journey i was on :p"

Well we can't all be buff and incredibly handsome can we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here.

I think it took 30 mins for me this time from signing up to meeting somone

20 mins of that was finishing the train journey i was on :p

Well we can't all be buff and incredibly handsome can we "

Ben and Jerry's makes Better bait than cake :p

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here.

I think it took 30 mins for me this time from signing up to meeting somone

20 mins of that was finishing the train journey i was on :p"

Gotta ask.... was it getting your cock sucked by a guy by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here.

I think it took 30 mins for me this time from signing up to meeting somone

20 mins of that was finishing the train journey i was on :p

Well we can't all be buff and incredibly handsome can we

Ben and Jerry's makes Better bait than cake :p"

They say words don't hurt, but you sir just proved them wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Took me 4 month before I met someone off here.

I think it took 30 mins for me this time from signing up to meeting somone

20 mins of that was finishing the train journey i was on :p

Gotta ask.... was it getting your cock sucked by a guy by any chance?"

Nope.

Tbh i haven't met a guy off here in like nearly 2 years i think now.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Just a week....

I've been hear 10 months with nothing

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've been here 4 years and still not a sniff

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP.

You've been on here a week! What did you expect? Instantshag?

It doesn't work that way! It can take months for a first meet unless you are exceptional!

Your profile is one paragraph, which needs to say more, minus the grammar and punctuation errors. Pics show you without any hint of being happy.

At least you say why you can't accommodate but why can't you travel?

As for anyone else who has raised this topic in the Forum pages, the answer is Simple.

YOU have to put in the effort, that is, YOU have to "sell" yourself to make your Profile stand out against the hundreds of other guys all doing the same.

Patience, Perseverance, & even more Patience are the main factors plus getting to Socials or clubs in your area.

It can work but you only get results from what you put in.

Good Luck.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

It's called serving your fab apprenticeship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab needs a BIG FUCK OFF DISCLAIMER on their home page stating that this site isn't instashag.

Been here 7 days and giving it till the end of the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys - A few weeks and not had a shag? Welcome to fab.

Women - a guy stating he's not had a shag for weeks, welcome to the forums.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've been a member for a few weeks now but still waiting for my swinging cherry to be popped.what am I doing that is wrong? Im not rude about it.maybe im just ugly. "

What if it IS that you're ugly? Nothing you can do about it. So that reason is pretty moot, really. See why I did there? so maybe it could be another reason....let's put our thinking caps on and drum our fingers on the table and think 'why aren't I getting meets?'....

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