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"I know a lot of people who did National Service and loved every minute of it. They said it 'made' them. " im sure it did.. | |||
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"I know a lot of people who did National Service and loved every minute of it. They said it 'made' them. im sure it did.." | |||
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"I say yes but, not necessarily in the military but in the service of the community " Thats what I'd say. In the Netherlands they work with the emergency services too whch I reckon would give a sense of proportion. | |||
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"yes or no personally i say yes " yup From the ages of 16 till 21 for both girls and boys. and.......no not part of the army at all. sod all to do with the armed forces, those who risk life and limb every day. More like a national boot camp... then at 18 if good enough, go into the forces ,.or stick around and do ya time. This country is so bloody lax with the young its no wonder we have the youth we have. couldnt care less and will go thru life the same. Both my brothers were in army, along with two cousins and i did 3 years in the T.A. All now great fellas altho their experiences would make your hair curl. We have to get tough im afraid, or suffer the consequences | |||
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"I know a lot of people who did National Service and loved every minute of it. They said it 'made' them. im sure it did.." No stopping you now Suzy | |||
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"I say yes but, not necessarily in the military but in the service of the community Thats what I'd say. In the Netherlands they work with the emergency services too whch I reckon would give a sense of proportion." +1 | |||
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"Go to greece and turkey and you wont find the younger lads hanging around street corners, annoying their neighbours, graphitiying the walls and being complete morons. They learn respect and bloody hard work... something the youth of today have no idea of " did they learn that from the NS or good parenting | |||
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"I say yes but, not necessarily in the military but in the service of the community Thats what I'd say. In the Netherlands they work with the emergency services too whch I reckon would give a sense of proportion. +1" Heyyy, how you doin' | |||
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"Go to greece and turkey and you wont find the younger lads hanging around street corners, annoying their neighbours, graphitiying the walls and being complete morons. They learn respect and bloody hard work... something the youth of today have no idea of " Shame they don't stay that way really. | |||
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"Go to greece and turkey and you wont find the younger lads hanging around street corners, annoying their neighbours, graphitiying the walls and being complete morons. They learn respect and bloody hard work... something the youth of today have no idea of did they learn that from the NS or good parenting" combination of both .. | |||
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"Go to greece and turkey and you wont find the younger lads hanging around street corners, annoying their neighbours, graphitiying the walls and being complete morons. They learn respect and bloody hard work... something the youth of today have no idea of did they learn that from the NS or good parenting combination of both .. " we need to start to rebuild the family here | |||
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"We have a modern professional army, arguably the best trained army in the world. Would we want to burden them with colleagues who didn't want to be there in the first place?....they totally rely on the guy next to them to be there if and when they need them.... I think not." nope. not into the mainstream at all. Unless after several yrs of training. But could be used in community based projects etc. Why just pay them to sit around to drink and take drugs...along with having bloody kids. then the cicle starts again...and again | |||
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"Go to greece and turkey and you wont find the younger lads hanging around street corners, annoying their neighbours, graphitiying the walls and being complete morons. They learn respect and bloody hard work... something the youth of today have no idea of " Sorry, but anyone who's seen the football hooligan graffiti on the Hersonissos to Malia road will wonder what makes you think that.... | |||
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"We have a modern professional army, arguably the best trained army in the world. Would we want to burden them with colleagues who didn't want to be there in the first place?....they totally rely on the guy next to them to be there if and when they need them.... I think not." But conscription worked historically and the National Servicemen and women were in reserve and served alongside the military in many conflicts in 'peacetime' as well as during wwii and received many accolades for their participation. Why would they be trained to fight then turn against their fellow soldier in combat or not 'cover their back'. It would be instictive by then because of their training. | |||
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"altough i dont live in england,,i think itd be a great idea,for ireland england to do that,,less unemployment less wasters on the streets,,and more productivity" What's the link to productivity? productivity rises from increased skill or increased capital spending... | |||
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"Go to greece and turkey and you wont find the younger lads hanging around street corners, annoying their neighbours, graphitiying the walls and being complete morons. They learn respect and bloody hard work... something the youth of today have no idea of Sorry, but anyone who's seen the football hooligan graffiti on the Hersonissos to Malia road will wonder what makes you think that...." Now we talking footie...and both countries are very anal retentive about that.....nowt to do with national service. | |||
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"Go to greece and turkey and you wont find the younger lads hanging around street corners, annoying their neighbours, graphitiying the walls and being complete morons. They learn respect and bloody hard work... something the youth of today have no idea of Sorry, but anyone who's seen the football hooligan graffiti on the Hersonissos to Malia road will wonder what makes you think that...." or stabbing kids to death in Laganas | |||
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"Having served in the Army would not want anyone other than people who wanted to join, be serving with me Why do people think it correct to make others do things they dont want to? " Jealousy? | |||
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"Having served in the Army would not want anyone other than people who wanted to join, be serving with me Why do people think it correct to make others do things they dont want to? " I think most saying yes , wouldnt want them side by side of the armed forces, but used by communities or doing summat useful. | |||
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"Having served in the Army would not want anyone other than people who wanted to join, be serving with me Why do people think it correct to make others do things they dont want to? " Some people are out of touch, they think national service is a solution when in reality it is so far from it. | |||
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"Yes but not with the regular forces, give them the square bashing and discipline and plenty of community work. As for teaching the little shits how to use weapons............errr no! XXXX" exactly.....i mean we would use some common sense hopefully, unlike some parents seem to be doing..... | |||
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"I'd personally say no. I take children 6 upwards for extra-curricular activities. Even at the youngest end of the spectrum, it astounds me how many don't understand the basic concepts of saying please and thank you, or of sharing equipment. Even at 6 & 7 you get the ones who confidently pipe up that "you cant tell me what to do". The problems are already present way before the (historic) age of National Service! The money and resources spent of enforcing national services would be far better spent elsewhere. The morals, work ethic and basic decency should start from the day nought in their home life and be reinforced throughout their education - but that'll take generations to change! " But why should it... I had it, my son was taught it...so its only this present generation who is lacking. ...what the hell happened ? | |||
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" But why should it... I had it, my son was taught it...so its only this present generation who is lacking. ...what the hell happened ? " I also had it, as did my parents and as do my children. But there are many in parents 'age bracket' or do not share their morals or work ethic. There are far more in my own age group who do not share my values... and I dread to see my daughters age group growing up. You only have to stand in the playground to hear other parents swearing at their children, discussing their exploits and boasting about their latest tax credit rise. My children know right from wrong, they already know mummy and daddy go to work to get pennies, and they understand, albeit in a 5 year old fashion that bad behavior is not acceptable. Out of her class of 24, I expect less than a quarter of them have the same understanding. | |||
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" RESPECT...for ones parents, community and ones fellow man..... something which todays parents DONT teach .......along with good morals and decency " To get respect you have to earn it. I've seen some people treat their children as little more than accessories or worse than I'd treat my dogs. Give respect as well as discipline to them too and reap the benefits. | |||
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"Hang on... we had sod all as kids, less than the average kid today and yet we didnt do what they do or dont do (work) ... Christ they have tons thrown at them and yet it still isnt enough... The difference being is the word RESPECT...for ones parents, community and ones fellow man..... something which todays parents DONT teach .......along with good morals and decency " I daresay, it is a "Generation" thing these days. I come from a time when there was still respect for others, your parents, and yourself, plus and this was important, that your actions could impact on someone else, either positively or negatively. But today's younger parents have been brought up where these older fashioned "values" have been pooh-poohed by the do-gooders, the so-called "experts and so on. Even Dr. Spock who wrote all the Parenting books back in the 60's and onwards, said in later life, he'd got it all wrong!! Putting these eejits from today's society into National Service would be a red rag to a bull. They'd think they'd have won the lottery by having a gun to shoot with. Put them in some form of Civil Brigade, to work on Community projects, and similar schemes. But National Service, No! | |||
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"Hang on... we had sod all as kids, less than the average kid today and yet we didnt do what they do or dont do (work) ... Christ they have tons thrown at them and yet it still isnt enough... The difference being is the word RESPECT...for ones parents, community and ones fellow man..... something which todays parents DONT teach .......along with good morals and decency I daresay, it is a "Generation" thing these days. I come from a time when there was still respect for others, your parents, and yourself, plus and this was important, that your actions could impact on someone else, either positively or negatively. But today's younger parents have been brought up where these older fashioned "values" have been pooh-poohed by the do-gooders, the so-called "experts and so on. Even Dr. Spock who wrote all the Parenting books back in the 60's and onwards, said in later life, he'd got it all wrong!! Putting these eejits from today's society into National Service would be a red rag to a bull. They'd think they'd have won the lottery by having a gun to shoot with. Put them in some form of Civil Brigade, to work on Community projects, and similar schemes. But National Service, No!" I'm with you!! Sound plan is a Civil Brigade, but no doubt some on here would protect the "poor little dears who have had it rough" from our dastardly plan! | |||
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"Hang on... we had sod all as kids, less than the average kid today and yet we didnt do what they do or dont do (work) ... Christ they have tons thrown at them and yet it still isnt enough... The difference being is the word RESPECT...for ones parents, community and ones fellow man..... something which todays parents DONT teach .......along with good morals and decency I daresay, it is a "Generation" thing these days. I come from a time when there was still respect for others, your parents, and yourself, plus and this was important, that your actions could impact on someone else, either positively or negatively. But today's younger parents have been brought up where these older fashioned "values" have been pooh-poohed by the do-gooders, the so-called "experts and so on. Even Dr. Spock who wrote all the Parenting books back in the 60's and onwards, said in later life, he'd got it all wrong!! Putting these eejits from today's society into National Service would be a red rag to a bull. They'd think they'd have won the lottery by having a gun to shoot with. Put them in some form of Civil Brigade, to work on Community projects, and similar schemes. But National Service, No! I'm with you!! Sound plan is a Civil Brigade, but no doubt some on here would protect the "poor little dears who have had it rough" from our dastardly plan! " The youth of today... My 11 year old who raises money for sudan my 19 year old friend at the fringe this week, doing a one woman show, the 15 year old giving up his holiday to do the sound for a free club for infants the 9 year old daughter of a friend who has finished her 7th triatholon the 17 year old teaching my youngest golf The young people i know make me proud,this thread is full of sweeping condemnation which helps no one. | |||
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" My 11 year old who raises money for sudan my 19 year old friend at the fringe this week, doing a one woman show, the 15 year old giving up his holiday to do the sound for a free club for infants the 9 year old daughter of a friend who has finished her 7th triatholon the 17 year old teaching my youngest golf The young people i know make me proud,this thread is full of sweeping condemnation which helps no one." I couldn't agree more!! What I have said elsewhere tonight, is that they rioting, looting etc is being done by a MINORITY. There are youngsters however out on the streets in London etc, whose parent(s) are out of touch & have no control over their offspring! Today's youngsters have so much street cred these days, they know hoe far thy can go and what the authorities can and can't do in response. It's time to take a higher ground with them and show then who is in charge. It will take a brave politician to change the mindset of some of those parents whose little "darlings" are creating havoc tonight I fully accept that the vast majority of people across the UK will abhor what is going on. Equally, there are decent people who have raised decent children and that has to be applauded. But it's the eejits who need to be tagetted more so than others, and their parents too. I watch young couples on the street where I live, who are involved with the Police almost on a weekly basis, whose juvenile offspring are always dismissed from school, and the benefits "industry" pays overtime for them each week. Havinga scrap with the Police, with authority is almost a badge of honour for them, it's an achievement. That's the culture we need to break, and to stop youngsters from copying. | |||
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