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"Nastiest woman on the internet = _oxy_minx "Fibber  | |||
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"Ok, so your definition of curvy is? what size is curvy to you ? Your definition of plus size, your perception of plus size is ? What age do you start calling people mature 30/40/50/60/70 ? How many people have you met who have messed you about, and claimed to be genuine ? " Fat sized Obese sized However old his nan is plus 1 year Can't be sure 3/4 answers isn't bad  | |||
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"Ok, so your definition of curvy is? what size is curvy to you ? Your definition of plus size, your perception of plus size is ? What age do you start calling people mature 30/40/50/60/70 ? How many people have you met who have messed you about, and claimed to be genuine ? Fat sized Obese sized However old his nan is plus 1 year Can't be sure 3/4 answers isn't bad "I wasn't asking you  | |||
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"So, what do people on here say and what do they mean? Mostly I view and chat to women, so this is not a swip at the women on here, I'm sure the blokes are as bad - examples I've come across, post your own Curvy - Fat Plus size - obese Mature - older than my Nan Genuine - will mess you about Over to you......" Oh my dear lord have you actually just posted that
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"Ok, so your definition of curvy is? what size is curvy to you ? Your definition of plus size, your perception of plus size is ? What age do you start calling people mature 30/40/50/60/70 ? How many people have you met who have messed you about, and claimed to be genuine ? Fat sized Obese sized However old his nan is plus 1 year Can't be sure 3/4 answers isn't bad
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"You calling me fat?
And me? "You're both phat! I believe that's how the cool kids spell Excellent | |||
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"Well, what a happy bunch of swingers on here! Wonder if a few people need to lighten up, if I want abuse from all over the UK I could have stayed in parliament........ Seriously people, why not just go and bitch elsewhere rather than spite your way through something you don't like - really didn't expect a bunch of losers to simply visit my profile and offer a slagging - surely no-one who spends that much time in a playground should be on here! " Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa Mr. Chill your beans eh? Bunch of losers? Get a grip now. You're on a public forum, you need to be prepared to have a little fun poked now and then. From my personal perspective I didn't criticise your post. I commented that the word curvy meant fat. I'm curvy therefore fat if we take what you're thing said as gospel. Obviously yours was jest as was mine. I didn't mention the fact that I have issues with my weight. I could quite easily have done so to make you rethink before you post but why should I? It's my problem not yours. Don't get so sodding defensive and stroppy | |||
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"Nastiest woman on the internet = _oxy_minx "Possibly but I'd still nail her  | |||
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"Princess - if you want to say you are fat that's fine with me - I'm no racing snake! It's about being honest - if I describe myself as a six foot three Adonis with dark hair and blue eyes I am just going to disappoint more women - best to honest up front is my point, I'm not here to judge others people's bodies - much better things to do with others people's bodies than judge them......." And I am honest. I'm curvy (i think) I don't know. I don't know what I am. | |||
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"Princess - if you want to say you are fat that's fine with me - I'm no racing snake! It's about being honest - if I describe myself as a six foot three Adonis with dark hair and blue eyes I am just going to disappoint more women - best to honest up front is my point, I'm not here to judge others people's bodies - much better things to do with others people's bodies than judge them....... And I am honest. I'm curvy (i think) I don't know. I don't know what I am. " Curvy?? I prefer the term rubenesque | |||
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"Over to you......" I'll pass thanks | |||
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"Over to you...... I'll pass thanks "Me too! | |||
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"Well, what a happy bunch of swingers on here! Wonder if a few people need to lighten up, if I want abuse from all over the UK I could have stayed in parliament........ Seriously people, why not just go and bitch elsewhere rather than spite your way through something you don't like - really didn't expect a bunch of losers to simply visit my profile and offer a slagging - surely no-one who spends that much time in a playground should be on here! " You started all this. If you are going to critisise how people decribe themselves, expect your own profile to come under scrutiny. If you can't stand the heat and all that... | |||
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"No about body shaming here - I am not a slim bloke and have had some of better experiences with girls who were not slim either - just about being honest is the point I'm making " Then why is the thread called definitions? You set out to be funny but have now realised slagging off the women on the site doesn't make everyone else laugh | |||
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"Well, what a happy bunch of swingers on here! Wonder if a few people need to lighten up, if I want abuse from all over the UK I could have stayed in parliament........ Seriously people, why not just go and bitch elsewhere rather than spite your way through something you don't like - really didn't expect a bunch of losers to simply visit my profile and offer a slagging - surely no-one who spends that much time in a playground should be on here! You started all this. If you are going to critisise how people decribe themselves, expect your own profile to come under scrutiny. If you can't stand the heat and all that..." ^^what he said^^ | |||
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"No about body shaming here - I am not a slim bloke and have had some of better experiences with girls who were not slim either - just about being honest is the point I'm making Then why is the thread called definitions? You set out to be funny but have now realised slagging off the women on the site doesn't make everyone else laugh "I didn't set out to be funny any more than anyone else, I didn't expect the Spanish Inquisition (though I understand nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition) as opposed to a bit of banter - if you read the posts I have slagged myself as much as anyone else and said women probably have as many examples as men - hopefully a women with a sense of humour will show up soon and make some comments that contribute......... | |||
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"Infrequentdalliance Not an issue that people want to bit h and scratch eyes, and don't think I wanted to slag women - didn't realise eryone on here was so sensitive rather than relaxed enough to have some fun. No heat in this kitchen at all, I lived in Rathcoole via the bottom of the Shankill Road, a few toy throwers on here won't really raise any eyebrows " You can't be at home now then? | |||
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"No about body shaming here - I am not a slim bloke and have had some of better experiences with girls who were not slim either - just about being honest is the point I'm making Then why is the thread called definitions? You set out to be funny but have now realised slagging off the women on the site doesn't make everyone else laugh
I didn't set out to be funny any more than anyone else, I didn't expect the Spanish Inquisition (though I understand nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition) as opposed to a bit of banter - if you read the posts I have slagged myself as much as anyone else and said women probably have as many examples as men - hopefully a women with a sense of humour will show up soon and make some comments that contribute........."No but if you read back, you were the one that went off on one! Yes, the word twat got used, but then you called us a bunch of losers. Go back and read it. | |||
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"Sophee You have the same amount of verifications showing as me - kettles and pots anyone BUT THIS IS NOT THE POINT - do you want to be lied to and have your time wasted? I doubt it, but I'm the arsehole for asking for a bit more honesty? I don't want to be told I am meeting a fat girl and turn up to a stick insect either - it's no more acceptable!! THATS THE POINT! Why is this a problem?" are you claiming you have hidden veris? oh this genuine thing just gets better...  | |||
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"Sophee You have the same amount of verifications showing as me - kettles and pots anyone BUT THIS IS NOT THE POINT - do you want to be lied to and have your time wasted? I doubt it, but I'm the arsehole for asking for a bit more honesty? I don't want to be told I am meeting a fat girl and turn up to a stick insect either - it's no more acceptable!! THATS THE POINT! Why is this a problem?" I do not display my verifications, but I am verified, unlike yourself. I do not publicly declare people describing themselves as 'genuine' as probable timewasters, but be stupid enough to describe myself as 'genuine' on my own profile. I did not start a negative post, then throw my toys out of my pram, when I did not get the response I hoped for. | |||
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"Sophee You have the same amount of verifications showing as me - kettles and pots anyone BUT THIS IS NOT THE POINT - do you want to be lied to and have your time wasted? I doubt it, but I'm the arsehole for asking for a bit more honesty? I don't want to be told I am meeting a fat girl and turn up to a stick insect either - it's no more acceptable!! THATS THE POINT! Why is this a problem?" Stop bleeding shouting!! The point is... people have differing views of what each one is. I think I'm overweight. Some people think I'm perfect Some think I'm skinny Some think I'm curvy. We are all different. Our views and perceptions are different. The rules are...there are no rules
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"Sophee - I didn't start a negative post, I started like most others, a light hearted attempt to encourage honesty that was about far more than you seem able to see. How you know anything about ----my verifications---- or meet history is beyond me? My toys are firmly in my pram, I'm just calling for more honesty - tell me why you object to that, loosen up, or, in the interests of honesty, piss off!" quoted for back tracking later. | |||
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"I agree that some women maybe down play their size. Possibly because we all have different ideas of what curvy/fabulous means so it's no ones fault. Just could have worded it better in your original post. But moving on to calling people losers and calling buxom red a dopey a cow is a huge step too far" So she can make all kinds of judgments about me that are rubbish and I can't respond with a bit of banter - chill out!! | |||
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"Sophee - I didn't start a negative post, I started like most others, a light hearted attempt to encourage honesty that was about far more than you seem able to see. How you know anything about ----my verifications---- or meet history is beyond me? My toys are firmly in my pram, I'm just calling for more honesty - tell me why you object to that, loosen up, or, in the interests of honesty, piss off! quoted for back tracking later." Not sure what that means or achieves at all!! | |||
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"Sophee - I didn't start a negative post, I started like most others, a light hearted attempt to encourage honesty that was about far more than you seem able to see. How you know anything about ----my verifications---- or meet history is beyond me? My toys are firmly in my pram, I'm just calling for more honesty - tell me why you object to that, loosen up, or, in the interests of honesty, piss off! quoted for back tracking later." Report button already activated. Peace and quiet for 48 hours | |||
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"Sophee - I didn't start a negative post, I started like most others, a light hearted attempt to encourage honesty that was about far more than you seem able to see. How you know anything about ----my verifications---- or meet history is beyond me? My toys are firmly in my pram, I'm just calling for more honesty - tell me why you object to that, loosen up, or, in the interests of honesty, piss off! quoted for back tracking later. Not sure what that means or achieves at all!!" good. | |||
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"I agree that some women maybe down play their size. Possibly because we all have different ideas of what curvy/fabulous means so it's no ones fault. Just could have worded it better in your original post. But moving on to calling people losers and calling buxom red a dopey a cow is a huge step too far So she can make all kinds of judgments about me that are rubbish and I can't respond with a bit of banter - chill out!! " I'm like the fucking fonz I'm so chilled
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"I only use on mobile - similar reasons to the Fonz in conisbrough! So, that's that one solved, Sophee and I can be friends now! And they all swung (swang?) happily ever after........" Hallelujah | |||
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"I use it on my mobile....always request full site version.....just saying "Yep, alright smart arse | |||
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"I use it on my mobile....always request full site version.....just saying
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"Princess - if you want to say you are fat that's fine with me - I'm no racing snake! It's about being honest - if I describe myself as a six foot three Adonis with dark hair and blue eyes I am just going to disappoint more women - best to honest up front is my point, I'm not here to judge others people's bodies - much better things to do with others people's bodies than judge them....... And I am honest. I'm curvy (i think) I don't know. I don't know what I am. Curvy?? I prefer the term rubenesque "I like Rubenesque... | |||
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"No about body shaming here - I am not a slim bloke and have had some of better experiences with girls who were not slim either - just about being honest is the point I'm making Then why is the thread called definitions? You set out to be funny but have now realised slagging off the women on the site doesn't make everyone else laugh
I didn't set out to be funny any more than anyone else, I didn't expect the Spanish Inquisition (though I understand nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition) as opposed to a bit of banter - if you read the posts I have slagged myself as much as anyone else and said women probably have as many examples as men - hopefully a women with a sense of humour will show up soon and make some comments that contribute........."unfortunately op when someone puts a post on here no matter how innocent it maybe we all seem to get slated ,talk of varied opinions seem to be replaced by name calling and a torrent of abuse from people who come on the forums | |||
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" Don't get so sodding defensive and stroppy "I think anyone would do the same if they were abused like the OP was | |||
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"I agree that some women maybe down play their size. Possibly because we all have different ideas of what curvy/fabulous means so it's no ones fault. Just could have worded it better in your original post. But moving on to calling people losers and calling buxom red a dopey a cow is a huge step too far" What about the abuse he had thrown at him which I have only just taken off? | |||
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"OP. People will take you, your profile and so on apart, scrutinize it in detail, so maybe you just forgot that could happen. " Which is against forum rules and people get banned for it | |||
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"If people are unhappy with the post or the thread why not leave, or don't comment - what take the thing in a whole different direction? The whole post was a light hearted look at issues of honesty - I can't believe anyone on here wants to deal with dishonesty or get caught up in it and if you don't want to engage with that that's ok - but you can't expect to start throwing judgments and personalising things without something coming back - if you are happy to deal with dishonesty then good luck, or, try to change it........" I haven't read the whole thread so I don't know who's griping at who,but what I do know is that it all depends who started the thread as to how it goes down or how it's taken. If you're a so called forum favourite it will be taken in a whole different light. Maybe you deserved to be snapped at I don't,I'll maybe read it later. | |||
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