FabSwingers.com forum: Understanding fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been here a while now and still can't get the grasp of breaking the ice over a phone screen. Met some fantastic people in quest as I can speak and interact with people, but on here it feels like I couldn't pull in a brothel. I don't need teaching to suck eggs but what's the deal with people not replying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is like a woman's mind. Totally unfathomable. Don't try to understand it. Just go with the flow and keep pressing buttons. Most will be wrong, but eventually you start hitting the right ones. More by luck than judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people don't want to reply, they don't have to. It's that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess in Quest you're interacting one to one. On here you're competing, simultaneously, with possibly hundreds of other fellas. So you need to stand out over and above everyone else who is probably writing similar things to you.

In a club you haven't got a hundred guys at the same time trying to pull the same lady. So you get the chance to shine and show what you're about.

That's it in a nutshell. It's the same for most of guys. Try and be unique in your approach to differentiate yourself from the competition!

Good luck fella!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand that I won't be everyone's cup of tea like everyone won't be mine. But surly there must be people out there I'd hit it off with. I feel socially inept on here. Feels like I'm talking to the internet like the proverbial brick wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess in Quest you're interacting one to one. On here you're competing, simultaneously, with possibly hundreds of other fellas. So you need to stand out over and above everyone else who is probably writing similar things to you.

In a club you haven't got a hundred guys at the same time trying to pull the same lady. So you get the chance to shine and show what you're about.

That's it in a nutshell. It's the same for most of guys. Try and be unique in your approach to differentiate yourself from the competition!

Good luck fella!

I was about to write all this but you did it for me

As he says... totally different on here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I find it easier on here to interact with people as I don't go to adult clubs.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I understand that I won't be everyone's cup of tea like everyone won't be mine. But surly there must be people out there I'd hit it off with. I feel socially inept on here. Feels like I'm talking to the internet like the proverbial brick wall. "

I do feel sorry for fellas on here. Don't forget half the time your messages won't even get seen. They fall off the page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is like a woman's mind. Totally unfathomable. Don't try to understand it. Just go with the flow and keep pressing buttons. Most will be wrong, but eventually you start hitting the right ones. More by luck than judgement. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In a club it's not a competition that's why I enjoy it. But I'm not going to start promising the world to girls just to get them. I've spoke to girls on here that have dealings with weirdos but that's because they lie through there teeth to get leg over. Then these girls wonder why it's going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's as much of a lottery as who's vagina your going to fall out of and the actual lottery or being struck by lightning etc; you get the gist.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The difference is that, when I am in a club, if the guy I am chatting to turns out to be a weirdo, I can walk away and find another bloke. On here, I've wasted hours, and maybe days, and got nothing out of it.

Clubs are definitely better, so if you're doing well in one, stick with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a club it's not a competition that's why I enjoy it. But I'm not going to start promising the world to girls just to get them. I've spoke to girls on here that have dealings with weirdos but that's because they lie through there teeth to get leg over. Then these girls wonder why it's going wrong"
I know right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top tip. - Don't break ice over a phone screen, it'll void your warranty.

Other tips, be yourself when talking to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not stick to Quest if it is that easy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll remember that. I always am myself it's maybe why I can't hit a barn door from 10 paces

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not stick to Quest if it is that easy?"

As much as I like quest it can be dead some nights and full of people not my type. I'm looking for group fun with people like me. Organising anything more than three people proves difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was meeting a guy regularly. He showed a female friend a succession of pictures that he was considering posting on his profile. She chose completely different ones from the ones he liked the most. He got far more interest when he posted the ones his friend chose. Moral of the story? whatever you think is right, do the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had 8 meets in 4 months seems to be working.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was meeting a guy regularly. He showed a female friend a succession of pictures that he was considering posting on his profile. She chose completely different ones from the ones he liked the most. He got far more interest when he posted the ones his friend chose. Moral of the story? whatever you think is right, do the opposite

I get told all the time my pics don't do me justice and I'm probably not the best person to sell myself in a profile. So I'll take your word for it and let someone rectify my profile. A photo shoot would be nice too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You had 8 meets in 4 months seems to be working.

All thanks to my fuck buddy. If it wasn't for her I'd of had nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You had 8 meets in 4 months seems to be working.

All thanks to my fuck buddy. If it wasn't for her I'd of had nothing "

What she pimp you out or something.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You had 8 meets in 4 months seems to be working.

All thanks to my fuck buddy. If it wasn't for her I'd of had nothing

What she pimp you out or something.?"

Not at all but having a lady friend certainly helps speaking to others cos she's the attraction. I'm rendered useless without her bless her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all different and respond or react in our own way.

it's hit and miss for us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You had 8 meets in 4 months seems to be working.

All thanks to my fuck buddy. If it wasn't for her I'd of had nothing

What she pimp you out or something.?

Not at all but having a lady friend certainly helps speaking to others cos she's the attraction. I'm rendered useless without her bless her. "

Don't, you'll give him ideas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You had 8 meets in 4 months seems to be working.

All thanks to my fuck buddy. If it wasn't for her I'd of had nothing

What she pimp you out or something.?

Not at all but having a lady friend certainly helps speaking to others cos she's the attraction. I'm rendered useless without her bless her. "

Here's your tip for the day get a bit of self confidence a lot of ladies like a man with a bit of swagger.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be really shit for guys sometimes, I completely sympathise. I'd say to keep trying, keep being respectful and go to the clubs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it's how a guy messages, if he starts with how he'd like to fuck me, or that he's local to me and wants a meet right now I won't tend to answer, have a look back at the messages you've sent and received a message back from, maybe its how your approaching the woman - just a thought xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You had 8 meets in 4 months seems to be working.

All thanks to my fuck buddy. If it wasn't for her I'd of had nothing

What she pimp you out or something.?

Not at all but having a lady friend certainly helps speaking to others cos she's the attraction. I'm rendered useless without her bless her.

Here's your tip for the day get a bit of self confidence a lot of ladies like a man with a bit of swagger.

Just saying.

I'm the most arrogant person you'll meet. Think that's my issue. Fine line between confidence and arrogance I don't know I'm doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me, it's how a guy messages, if he starts with how he'd like to fuck me, or that he's local to me and wants a meet right now I won't tend to answer, have a look back at the messages you've sent and received a message back from, maybe its how your approaching the woman - just a thought xx"

I've tried the niceties. The fantasies. The one liner jokes. Compliments. Think I just live in an area full on nuns ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried the niceties. The fantasies. The one liner jokes. Compliments. Think I just live in an area full on nuns ha!"

Oh bless you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I need to venture out more rather than a 20 mile radius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is a guy could have the most funniest well thought out message that's ever been sent in the history of messages, if the FCH isn't right, nothing's ever going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thing is a guy could have the most funniest well thought out message that's ever been sent in the history of messages, if the FCH isn't right, nothing's ever going to happen. "

FCH???

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

We aren't loooking for single guys but if one sends a nice message that's he's obviously taken time and effort to write and not just copy n paste then I will send a nice reply back, even if it is just to say no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is a guy could have the most funniest well thought out message that's ever been sent in the history of messages, if the FCH isn't right, nothing's ever going to happen.

FCH???"

Face Cock Height

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thing is a guy could have the most funniest well thought out message that's ever been sent in the history of messages, if the FCH isn't right, nothing's ever going to happen.

FCH???

Face Cock Height"

Hahaha sounds like there should be an equation to work a ratio out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is a guy could have the most funniest well thought out message that's ever been sent in the history of messages, if the FCH isn't right, nothing's ever going to happen.

FCH???

Face Cock Height

Hahaha sounds like there should be an equation to work a ratio out"

Don't worry.. you can side skip some of that.. I'm only 5ft 7

If you're not getting messages even read.. then you need a good profile photo and start messages with utter wierd nonsense or half a question.. it'll grab their eye.

then if you're still getting deleted messages.. it's you, your body, your words or a trillion other little things. She may be online chatting in the forum and your message just got lost along with the other 57 she got in that hour.

Keep on plugging and you should bump nasties at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is a guy could have the most funniest well thought out message that's ever been sent in the history of messages, if the FCH isn't right, nothing's ever going to happen.

FCH???

Face Cock Height

Hahaha sounds like there should be an equation to work a ratio out"

Oooh don't get me started on ratios and stats!

Face needs to have a nice strong jaw line and nice chin, maybe a roman nose or one that's been broken a few times. Cock minimum 7 inches in length measured in Ariel mode from base to bell, not gooch to tip. Circumference of at least 5 inches. Height, minimum 5'10, with 6 footers being a massive advantage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thing is a guy could have the most funniest well thought out message that's ever been sent in the history of messages, if the FCH isn't right, nothing's ever going to happen.

FCH???

Face Cock Height

Hahaha sounds like there should be an equation to work a ratio out

Oooh don't get me started on ratios and stats!

There's a lady that knows what she's after. I'm non of that so on that note I'm out!! Haha. Can't even grow a beard me and got like 3 chest hairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is a guy could have the most funniest well thought out message that's ever been sent in the history of messages, if the FCH isn't right, nothing's ever going to happen.

FCH???

Face Cock Height

Hahaha sounds like there should be an equation to work a ratio out

Oooh don't get me started on ratios and stats!

There's a lady that knows what she's after. I'm non of that so on that note I'm out!! Haha. Can't even grow a beard me and got like 3 chest hairs"

Way to go Champ! That's the spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best advice I ever got given was to be myself, the thing is with the site is you can't judge character through it. Yes a lady friend has helped you but you've worked as a team and she didn't do anything to instigate your one on one meets

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By *lackHardDickMan
over a year ago

London

Just pull your dick out lol

Dont blame me if it doesnt work tho hahahahaaaaa

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