FabSwingers.com forum: do you have to fancy

By *ennythelion OP Man
over a year ago

Derby

Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously!

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

(pulls up a seat, gets comfy and waits to see what comes along..)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*bookmarks thread for later

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Omg yes of course!!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Damn right I do

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Hell yes!

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By *sums.r.usCouple
over a year ago

conwy

It helps lol

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Op. Are you seriously asking this? Or just joking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm.....of course. Id rather DIY otherwise.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Erm.....of course. Id rather DIY otherwise. "

DIY

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

Depends how good you want the fuck to be I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

God yes!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

What about you OP? Do you have to fancy someone?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Really?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.

I have to have my mind turned on, which is why I'm a timewaster to many. They might be pretty to look at but I just can't connect when messaging. I've had sex with Tories because they have interested me and that provides the sexual stimulation.

That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going to get my knickers off (or pushed to the side) for someone I don't fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not fucking someone who doesn't fancy me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. I'd be a wet fish in bed if I didn't feel attracted to the man I was with. Might as well us a dildo.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.

That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.

This

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'm not fucking someone who doesn't fancy me!!

Good for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

please say no, please say no, please say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not going to get my knickers off (or pushed to the side) for someone I don't fancy

Couldn't agree more... definitely has to be a physical attraction.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Hmmm...interesting question...

With a complex answer..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Absolutely. I'd be a wet fish in bed if I didn't feel attracted to the man I was with. Might as well us a dildo. "

I think 'wet fish' might be fine for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you're shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not fucking someone who doesn't fancy me!!

Good for you!

You know what I mean if someone is just going through the motions - what's the point in that?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

please say no, please say no, please say no

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP if I don't fancy someone my fanny will be drier than the Sahara desert. Not a good fuck for either of us then

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's the same for blokes, or at least me. If I don't fancy you I'm not fucking you.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Hmmm...interesting question...

With a complex answer..

Just fuck us . Jeez woman

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.

I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.

So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely, although it's usually about mind and personality rather than looks. I was recently informed by a guy, looking me straight in the eye, that this is not the same for men tho. Made me feel a million dollars. He subsequently seemed surprised that we didn't have sex again.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.

I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.

So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.

You're an attractive man, in a mainstream way, so should appeal to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

why would you sleep with someone who you don't fancy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

please say no, please say no, please say no

You would be more than welcome to sleep with me without fancying me. But while we're at it, will you just pat me on the head and tell me I'm pretty every now and again please. Shouldn't be as awkward then.

Thanks very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too right I do...

Unlike some men I wouldn’t ever ‘take one for the team’ just because they turned up and I was desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So am a little unsure about the concensus of the forum there... are you mostly saying there needs to be a smidgen of attraction before you get naked?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's contextual and on a needs basis too.

Invariably I don't start selection at the wrong end of the list.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Nah. I'm not a demanding princess and up myself. I can go with anyone.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Nah. I'm not a demanding princess and up myself. I can go with anyone."

Be ready for 100000 messages

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"So am a little unsure about the concensus of the forum there... are you mostly saying there needs to be a smidgen of attraction before you get naked?

The 'if it moves' jump on it, is largely absent, requiring a little more than a fragmentary element of attraction.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.

I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.

So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.

You're an attractive man, in a mainstream way, so should appeal to people.

Ouch!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.

That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.

This

*checks aftershave cellar.

Joop!Thrill

Boss Hugo Boss

Armani Code

Joop!Go

CK Crave

Old Spice

Essence of Haribo

One of those should cover it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.

That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.

This

*checks aftershave cellar.

Joop!Thrill

Boss Hugo Boss

Armani Code

Joop!Go

CK Crave

Old Spice

Essence of Haribo

One of those should cover it

60% of the time, it will work everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.

That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.

This

*checks aftershave cellar.

Joop!Thrill

Boss Hugo Boss

Armani Code

Joop!Go

CK Crave

Old Spice

Essence of Haribo

One of those should cover it

60% of the time, it will work everytime

I only need it to work once

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

For an arranged meet with just the one guy , yes there has to be an attraction . We have walked away many times when we haven't clicked with the guy .

However , in a group situation there is less of a need to be attracted in such a way . There still has to be something , and he has to be clean and respectful , but the pre fuck connection is less of an issue .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.

I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.

So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.

If it transpired, after the meet, that you just were anyone, you would likely not be here now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, which is one reason I request a social meet first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely. I'd be a wet fish in bed if I didn't feel attracted to the man I was with. Might as well us a dildo.

I think 'wet fish' might be fine for some.

I don't smell like a wet fish. Just putting that out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but necessarily in looks alone. Personality and sense of humour plays a big part. And being compatible. But that's in a couples scenario.

If I was looking for a single man then yes I would have to fancy him completely x

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

Yes I need to fancy/like something about the person b4 I fuck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.

I mean physically cannot make myself get aroused for someone that I am not attracted to. That last sentence pretty much explains it all really. How does a man make himself have sex with anyone that does not hold some allure for them?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.

I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.

So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.

If it transpired, after the meet, that you just were anyone, you would likely not be here now.

That is true I suppose. Sage words indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.

Alcohol, lots and lots of alcohol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.

Alcohol, lots and lots of alcohol

Ah, beer shpectacles. Never tried them myself

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

No way!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucking hope so.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No. Any dick will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.....

Until I'm in a gang bang situation and my standards have been known to drift a bit

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

Absolutely, the day I fuck a man I'm not attracted to I might as well change my job and be a prostitute instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Any dick will do"

I remember Jason Donavon singing that on top of the pops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely, the day I fuck a man I'm not attracted to I might as well change my job and be a prostitute instead. "

Gotta pay those. Ills somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Any dick will do

I remember Jason Donavon singing that on top of the pops "

All I can think of is those words to the song and I can't remember the real ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Any dick will do

I remember Jason Donavon singing that on top of the pops

All I can think of is those words to the song and I can't remember the real ones

She closed her eyes....i wiped it on the curtains!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm a picky picky so and so. Not only do they have to have aroused me intellectually, I need to look at them and think phhwooaaar!

That's possibly why I have zero meets

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have had a few blindfold meets where the lady doesn't see me until the end.

I agree that she has to fancy me (my profile), but at the meet...well I could be anyone.

So far they have fancied me afterwards as well...but you never know.

You're an attractive man, in a mainstream way, so should appeal to people.

Ouch!! "

How's that an ouch!?

You are attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Any dick will do

I remember Jason Donavon singing that on top of the pops

All I can think of is those words to the song and I can't remember the real ones

She closed her eyes....i wiped it on the curtains!....

Stop it now

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.

That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.

This

*checks aftershave cellar.

Joop!Thrill

Boss Hugo Boss

Armani Code

Joop!Go

CK Crave

Old Spice

Essence of Haribo

One of those should cover it

Try not to mix them all together. No Polo, I notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same for blokes, or at least me. If I don't fancy you I'm not fucking you.

yeah im likewise mate if i don't fancy them the dick isn't rising simply as that

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.

I don't understand this either. I have had men walk out because they just didn't fancy me when they saw me in the flesh or naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op just turn the lights out that should work with a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you do !

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No. Any dick will do"

Now I'm singing this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7aXy-I54gA but with different lyrics.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No. Any dick will do

I remember Jason Donavon singing that on top of the pops

All I can think of is those words to the song and I can't remember the real ones

She closed her eyes....i wiped it on the curtains!....

Ah, you got there first.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Absofuckinglutely!!!

I'd rather stay home with my wand and watch porn than use someone I didn't fancy just to satisfy a biological urge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absofuckinglutely!!!

I'd rather stay home with my wand and watch porn than use someone I didn't fancy just to satisfy a biological urge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally.couldn't go with anyone I didn't fancy especially if he had rank teeth

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Hmmm...interesting question...

With a complex answer..

Just fuck us . Jeez woman

Of course I will!!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.

I sincerely hope that the guys I meet share the same sentiment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.

I sincerely hope that the guys I meet share the same sentiment! "

Yea because I'm sure you will get that issue

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

What about you OP? Do you fuck people you don't fancy?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

No of course not.

But that is completely different from fucking someone who repluses you.

Millions of men and women around the world are fucking someone this minute who the do not fancy, some are even married to each other

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Well of course. I couldn't get aroused for someone I did not fancy.

My vagina wouldn't let them in.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Apart from this one guy, we hated each other but the sex was amazing.

I say we hated each other, there was so much sexual chemistry and I did fancy him

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By *rs spicyCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield near centre

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, but not necessarily in a physical way, for me.

That said, in a club, when I'm in the right mood, you just have to smell right... and not talk too much.

This

*checks aftershave cellar.

Joop!Thrill

Boss Hugo Boss

Armani Code

Joop!Go

CK Crave

Old Spice

Essence of Haribo

One of those should cover it

Try not to mix them all together. No Polo, I notice.

Duly noted

*adds Polo and Polo's to the shopping list just in case

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.

I sincerely hope that the guys I meet share the same sentiment!

Yea because I'm sure you will get that issue

Of course I do. Men complain they don't get meets and messages so I don't know they aren't just seeing me because I was the only one to say yes.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Erm... Yeah!

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on... is the OP implying that he can shag someone that he doesn't find attractive?... Because I can't do that.

I sincerely hope that the guys I meet share the same sentiment!

Yea because I'm sure you will get that issue

Of course I do. Men complain they don't get meets and messages so I don't know they aren't just seeing me because I was the only one to say yes."

Faf?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

There are different levels of attraction.

I don't need to find someone drop dead gorgeous.

However, there has to be something that I find sexy/attractive about them. I also have to like/want to be in their company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

Yes. What a peculiar question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

Yes. What a peculiar question. "

This. Couldn't think of anything less sexy than sex with someone I didn't have the hots for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

Yes. What a peculiar question.

This. Couldn't think of anything less sexy than sex with someone I didn't have the hots for."

I can. I can think of lots of things less sexy than that.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

Well, they're not men for starters!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

Yes. What a peculiar question.

This. Couldn't think of anything less sexy than sex with someone I didn't have the hots for.

I can. I can think of lots of things less sexy than that.

Haha. Ok. Smart arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For nsa sex in fab world i need to be pysically attracted but full on fancying them no...

If they were the full package of looks, personality and good sex I'd fancy them so much I'd probably want more than just nsa.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

"Ladies do you have to fancy someone to fuck them?

I do, what a demented thought

But

Obviously not everyone does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes. If I don't fancy them, then it's like pushing rope and no one wants that;

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Infact it turns me on to be with a guy who is physically unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Infact it turns me on to be with a guy who is physically unattractive. "
your inbox will need a secrtary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Infact it turns me on to be with a guy who is physically unattractive. your inbox will need a secrtary"

No man thinks he's unattractive

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