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"This isn't going to end well " Its not started well Any larger curvy ladies around would have been a tad better! | |||
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"This isn't going to end well Its not started well Any larger curvy ladies around would have been a tad better!" | |||
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"Been a while any on say hi" You continue to have a way with words . Fat girl saying hi | |||
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"Been a while any on say hi You continue to have a way with words . Fat girl saying hi " Hello beautiful | |||
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"I have no issue with someone using the word fat. " Wow such sexy pics | |||
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"I prefer to be called a fat woman ...hate being called a girl" Sorry you are a very sexy fat woman then | |||
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"Fat girl right here xx" Mmmmmm yes you are | |||
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"Fat girl right here xx Mmmmmm yes you are" xx | |||
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"Ah you're back Him or me? Lol Not been in the forums for ages " Him.i don't actually know you | |||
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"I have no issue with someone using the word fat. " Its all in the context and how it's being used for me. | |||
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"I have no issue with someone using the word fat. Its all in the context and how it's being used for me. " Oh definitely. The OP isn't using it in a derogatory way as far as I can see. | |||
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"So for being so blunt OPs actually managed to get plenty hot ladies attention! Well done OP & jealous cause i luv a big woman too" Don't call me big, I'm not a giant. I'm fat | |||
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"So for being so blunt OPs actually managed to get plenty hot ladies attention! Well done OP & jealous cause i luv a big woman too Don't call me big, I'm not a giant. I'm fat " Ok, sorry my mistake x | |||
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"So for being so blunt OPs actually managed to get plenty hot ladies attention! Well done OP & jealous cause i luv a big woman too" Flabbergasted is the most appropriate term, although I'm yet to figure out whether some women are being facetious. | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it " I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... | |||
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"Try harder. " i always put 100 percent in when trying | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work..." Some hate the term fat and others don't mind it. I personally think the term curvy is overused on here but that's just my opinion. | |||
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"Try harder. i always put 100 percent in when trying " Haha trust me love compared to some on here you're like athletic. | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... Some hate the term fat and others don't mind it. I personally think the term curvy is overused on here but that's just my opinion." I had this very issue. I was talking to a lady who put curvy as her description but she was a small size 10 From that moment on I have either been fat or 'ample' - and I hate that word | |||
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"Fat Bottomed girls you make the rockin' world go round " Damn beat me to it | |||
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"I'm a confident fat girl! Nowt wrong with my body! I eat well, I exercise and a lot of it is to do with build. " I would like to make it clear that I am 100% pro body confidence. In all honesty I just think OP isn't particularly self aware shall we say. I sympathise for his wife. | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... Some hate the term fat and others don't mind it. I personally think the term curvy is overused on here but that's just my opinion. I had this very issue. I was talking to a lady who put curvy as her description but she was a small size 10 From that moment on I have either been fat or 'ample' - and I hate that word " Use the term which best describes you as opposed to one that someone of a different shape describes herself! | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... Some hate the term fat and others don't mind it. I personally think the term curvy is overused on here but that's just my opinion. I had this very issue. I was talking to a lady who put curvy as her description but she was a small size 10 From that moment on I have either been fat or 'ample' - and I hate that word Use the term which best describes you as opposed to one that someone of a different shape describes herself! " That's what I did in my profile The details bit are pretty irrelevant as they don't tell the full story | |||
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"The preferred word is BBW pal. I love women of all shapes and sizes. I would never call anyone fat. Just harsh and cruel" I HATE the term BBW. I much prefer being called fat. It's more realistic. | |||
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"The preferred word is BBW pal. I love women of all shapes and sizes. I would never call anyone fat. Just harsh and cruel" No it's not the preferred term for all of us, I'm fat and under no illusions | |||
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"Try harder. i always put 100 percent in when trying Haha trust me love compared to some on here you're like athletic. " ahhh so i can bounce on your cock then | |||
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"The preferred word for most ladies that think of themseleves that way is BBW pal. I love women of all shapes and sizes. I would never call anyone fat. Just harsh and cruel No it's not the preferred term for all of us, I'm fat and under no illusions " Fixed it | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... Some hate the term fat and others don't mind it. I personally think the term curvy is overused on here but that's just my opinion. I had this very issue. I was talking to a lady who put curvy as her description but she was a small size 10 From that moment on I have either been fat or 'ample' - and I hate that word Use the term which best describes you as opposed to one that someone of a different shape describes herself! That's what I did in my profile The details bit are pretty irrelevant as they don't tell the full story " I just had a look, quite a nice read. Reality comes down to you describe yourself exactly the way you want to describe yourself. For those who disagree with that premise get to peruse through you pics. | |||
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"The preferred word for some ladies that think of themseleves that way is BBW pal. I love women of all shapes and sizes. I would never call anyone fat. Just harsh and cruel No it's not the preferred term for all of us, I'm fat and under no illusions Fixed it " Fixed it for you too | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work..." I'm quite happy for someone I'm fucking to say give me that fat arse/cunt. I'll even laugh when someone shouts oi fatty, in the street. Names have never hurt me. | |||
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"The preferred word for some ladies that think of themseleves that way is BBW pal. I love women of all shapes and sizes. I would never call anyone fat. Just harsh and cruel No it's not the preferred term for all of us, I'm fat and under no illusions Fixed it Fixed it for you too " | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... I'm quite happy for someone I'm fucking to say give me that fat arse/cunt. I'll even laugh when someone shouts oi fatty, in the street. Names have never hurt me. " Everybody loves a fat arse! I'm not saying that fat is necessarily a derogatory term just simply insensitive because in reality, it's a word that could cut deep to some. Those who shout, insult or just generally put people down, especially strangers are just juvenile fuckwits. | |||
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"Popcorn anyone ? " Trying to fatten people up for OP? | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work..." Individual preference as is all of fab.... personally I prefer curvy | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... Individual preference as is all of fab.... personally I prefer curvy " You do say 'fat guys' in your profile though, plump fella's would be more polite. | |||
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"We all have different preferences, we all find different things acceptable, I just wish people wouldn't feel offended on behalf of people who really don't give a toss in the general scheme of things " amazing curves BTW | |||
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"We all have different preferences, we all find different things acceptable, I just wish people wouldn't feel offended on behalf of people who really don't give a toss in the general scheme of things amazing curves BTW " Cheeky minx | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... I'm quite happy for someone I'm fucking to say give me that fat arse/cunt. I'll even laugh when someone shouts oi fatty, in the street. Names have never hurt me. Everybody loves a fat arse! I'm not saying that fat is necessarily a derogatory term just simply insensitive because in reality, it's a word that could cut deep to some. Those who shout, insult or just generally put people down, especially strangers are just juvenile fuckwits. " Isn't calling someone a juvenile fuckwit putting them down?! | |||
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"We all have different preferences, we all find different things acceptable, I just wish people wouldn't feel offended on behalf of people who really don't give a toss in the general scheme of things amazing curves BTW Cheeky minx " Sorry I'm rude | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... Individual preference as is all of fab.... personally I prefer curvy You do say 'fat guys' in your profile though, plump fella's would be more polite." Again that's preference... don't think there is a right or wrong answer xx | |||
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"I don't like being called fat, though I'm many people's eyes I am. Whatever ladies like to call themselves should be ok and accepted x " What about guys lol | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... I'm quite happy for someone I'm fucking to say give me that fat arse/cunt. I'll even laugh when someone shouts oi fatty, in the street. Names have never hurt me. Everybody loves a fat arse! I'm not saying that fat is necessarily a derogatory term just simply insensitive because in reality, it's a word that could cut deep to some. Those who shout, insult or just generally put people down, especially strangers are just juvenile fuckwits. Isn't calling someone a juvenile fuckwit putting them down?! " Double jeopardy, doesn't count. It's like saying arresting someone for kid nap is wrong. | |||
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"Popcorn anyone ? Trying to fatten people up for OP?" Plain popcorn is a low calorie snack. Fucking horrible but low cal. | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. " You are too hard on youyrself. Yes you are overweight but you are not a BBW or SSBBW. | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... I'm quite happy for someone I'm fucking to say give me that fat arse/cunt. I'll even laugh when someone shouts oi fatty, in the street. Names have never hurt me. Everybody loves a fat arse! I'm not saying that fat is necessarily a derogatory term just simply insensitive because in reality, it's a word that could cut deep to some. Those who shout, insult or just generally put people down, especially strangers are just juvenile fuckwits. " Amen to that! | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. " I'm 3stone over according to Bmi | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... Some hate the term fat and others don't mind it. I personally think the term curvy is overused on here but that's just my opinion." I agreee. There is a big difference between curvy and fat. | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. I'm 3stone over according to Bmi " Equally, I am marginally overweight. | |||
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"Been a while any on say hi" Fat Girls Fat Girls Whatch you gonna do Wat you gonna do When he says 'Hi' to you | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. You are too hard on youyrself. Yes you are overweight but you are not a BBW or SSBBW. " True, but I'm still fat. Technically obese. It's funny though; I read so much on here about men fucking obese women, not because they could possibly be attracted to them, but for other reasons like being desperate. We do have people outside of Fab who will sit in a pub, walk down the street with and stick around for years. I'll call myself fat, and smile about it | |||
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"Another fat lady here No need to sugar coat it ( pardon the pun ) I too think "curvy" is over used and I loath the BBW tag " BBW suggests all fat women are beautiful. Nonsense. | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. " Then things up front are probably a stone each, shall we call it an even two? | |||
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"I don't mind the term fat. If someone belts it at me with the word 'bitch' at the end, then I get angry... " I'm not necessarily saying the term fat is offensive but simply that there are far more sensitive terms which could be used instead. | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. I'm 3stone over according to Bmi Equally, I am marginally overweight. " I don't think I'm going by bmi. I used a chart and the weight I mostly was before I got so fat. I knew what looked and felt the best. I have been under 8 stone; which was not healthy, and 11 stone, which is just under the top weight for my age and height. I'll be happy getting back down to 11. | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. Then things up front are probably a stone each, shall we call it an even two?" You should see my arse. That's probably where the other two stone is. | |||
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"Another fat lady here No need to sugar coat it ( pardon the pun ) I too think "curvy" is over used and I loath the BBW tag BBW suggests all fat women are beautiful. Nonsense. " They will be to someone. | |||
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"I don't like being called fat, though I'm many people's eyes I am. Whatever ladies like to call themselves should be ok and accepted x What about guys lol" Equally with men, I think photos give a much better idea of body type. So many people use different descriptions and they're not all the same x | |||
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"I don't mind the term fat. If someone belts it at me with the word 'bitch' at the end, then I get angry... I'm not necessarily saying the term fat is offensive but simply that there are far more sensitive terms which could be used instead. " I tend to say "overweight" and that just stops anyone being offended | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. Then things up front are probably a stone each, shall we call it an even two? You should see my arse. That's probably where the other two stone is. " Bmi is a chart, it's an arbitrary chart made to make people feel insecure. But please share the arse, you can use my face as a scale, very accurate. Did I become a pervert right there? | |||
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"Another fat lady here No need to sugar coat it ( pardon the pun ) I too think "curvy" is over used and I loath the BBW tag BBW suggests all fat women are beautiful. Nonsense. " We know | |||
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"I don't mind the term fat. If someone belts it at me with the word 'bitch' at the end, then I get angry... I'm not necessarily saying the term fat is offensive but simply that there are far more sensitive terms which could be used instead. I tend to say "overweight" and that just stops anyone being offended " Overweight is the most appropriate an inoffensive term. I'd rather just say you've got a chunky arse | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. You are too hard on youyrself. Yes you are overweight but you are not a BBW or SSBBW. True, but I'm still fat. Technically obese. It's funny though; I read so much on here about men fucking obese women, not because they could possibly be attracted to them, but for other reasons like being desperate. We do have people outside of Fab who will sit in a pub, walk down the street with and stick around for years. I'll call myself fat, and smile about it " I have even had people hold my hand in public | |||
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"Just another thread that shows guys can't do anything right in here! If he'd have said curvy/larger/bbw etc he'd have been told to call it as it is and say fat yet he has said fat and now that's wrong. " I'm surprised how positive the response is to the term fat, I'm sat here trying to learn about women whilst also stating that I believe there are less offensive terms which could have been used. I feel like Mel Gibson in what women want. | |||
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"I do something called EFT = Emotional Freedom Technique. It's easy to do ands learn. It makes weight loss a doddle. If anybody wants to lose weight I will help them for free. There is no catch. I am not looking to meet you. Any help would be done via the Internet using skype. That means it doesn't matter where in the world you live I can still help you. You don't need to put your web cam on as we do the EFT. We just need to be able to chat to each other. " I'll be honest, I feel like one message to you and we'd be full of viruses. | |||
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"Just another thread that shows guys can't do anything right in here! If he'd have said curvy/larger/bbw etc he'd have been told to call it as it is and say fat yet he has said fat and now that's wrong. I'm surprised how positive the response is to the term fat, I'm sat here trying to learn about women whilst also stating that I believe there are less offensive terms which could have been used. I feel like Mel Gibson in what women want." Haha. It's always about context, but I don't recommend describing a women as "fat" to their face. You might get a throat punch. | |||
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"Just another thread that shows guys can't do anything right in here! If he'd have said curvy/larger/bbw etc he'd have been told to call it as it is and say fat yet he has said fat and now that's wrong. I'm surprised how positive the response is to the term fat, I'm sat here trying to learn about women whilst also stating that I believe there are less offensive terms which could have been used. I feel like Mel Gibson in what women want. Haha. It's always about context, but I don't recommend describing a women as "fat" to their face. You might get a throat punch. " Once again, women jumping to conclusions. That may be what he's looking for | |||
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"I do something called EFT = Emotional Freedom Technique. It's easy to do ands learn. It makes weight loss a doddle. If anybody wants to lose weight I will help them for free. There is no catch. I am not looking to meet you. Any help would be done via the Internet using skype. That means it doesn't matter where in the world you live I can still help you. You don't need to put your web cam on as we do the EFT. We just need to be able to chat to each other. I'll be honest, I feel like one message to you and we'd be full of viruses. " STIs = Skype Transmitted Infections? | |||
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"Popcorn anyone ? Trying to fatten people up for OP?" McDonald's would be my suggestion. | |||
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"Just another thread that shows guys can't do anything right in here! If he'd have said curvy/larger/bbw etc he'd have been told to call it as it is and say fat yet he has said fat and now that's wrong. I'm surprised how positive the response is to the term fat, I'm sat here trying to learn about women whilst also stating that I believe there are less offensive terms which could have been used. I feel like Mel Gibson in what women want." The word fat isn't the problem, it's what it's combined with..... Often bitch/slag/cow/slob etc. Fat is just a descriptive word and when used in that manner there is no issue. Use it to try and hurt me or run me down then we have a problem. | |||
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"Just another thread that shows guys can't do anything right in here! If he'd have said curvy/larger/bbw etc he'd have been told to call it as it is and say fat yet he has said fat and now that's wrong. I'm surprised how positive the response is to the term fat, I'm sat here trying to learn about women whilst also stating that I believe there are less offensive terms which could have been used. I feel like Mel Gibson in what women want. Haha. It's always about context, but I don't recommend describing a women as "fat" to their face. You might get a throat punch. Once again, women jumping to conclusions. That may be what he's looking for " Oh, like a sexual throat punch-kinda thing!? I'll have to try that one! | |||
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"Just another thread that shows guys can't do anything right in here! If he'd have said curvy/larger/bbw etc he'd have been told to call it as it is and say fat yet he has said fat and now that's wrong. I'm surprised how positive the response is to the term fat, I'm sat here trying to learn about women whilst also stating that I believe there are less offensive terms which could have been used. I feel like Mel Gibson in what women want. The word fat isn't the problem, it's what it's combined with..... Often bitch/slag/cow/slob etc. Fat is just a descriptive word and when used in that manner there is no issue. Use it to try and hurt me or run me down then we have a problem. " Agreed. A descriptive word filled with negative connotations such as bitch/slob/slag. So why would you use a word that is so commonly linked with those words to describe someone you've never met? Also, to the Skype transmitted infections... I hold my hands up to you. I was going to link viruses with diarrhoea, resulting in weight loss but I thought I'd hold off seen as we're approaching dinner time. | |||
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"Just another thread that shows guys can't do anything right in here! If he'd have said curvy/larger/bbw etc he'd have been told to call it as it is and say fat yet he has said fat and now that's wrong. I'm surprised how positive the response is to the term fat, I'm sat here trying to learn about women whilst also stating that I believe there are less offensive terms which could have been used. I feel like Mel Gibson in what women want. Haha. It's always about context, but I don't recommend describing a women as "fat" to their face. You might get a throat punch. Once again, women jumping to conclusions. That may be what he's looking for Oh, like a sexual throat punch-kinda thing!? I'll have to try that one! " The proper term is 'reverse donkey punch' | |||
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"Just another thread that shows guys can't do anything right in here! If he'd have said curvy/larger/bbw etc he'd have been told to call it as it is and say fat yet he has said fat and now that's wrong. I'm surprised how positive the response is to the term fat, I'm sat here trying to learn about women whilst also stating that I believe there are less offensive terms which could have been used. I feel like Mel Gibson in what women want. The word fat isn't the problem, it's what it's combined with..... Often bitch/slag/cow/slob etc. Fat is just a descriptive word and when used in that manner there is no issue. Use it to try and hurt me or run me down then we have a problem. Agreed. A descriptive word filled with negative connotations such as bitch/slob/slag. So why would you use a word that is so commonly linked with those words to describe someone you've never met? Also, to the Skype transmitted infections... I hold my hands up to you. I was going to link viruses with diarrhoea, resulting in weight loss but I thought I'd hold off seen as we're approaching dinner time." Because when people do that they get abuse for not calling a spade a spade! Like I said, can't Fucking win. I guess it's only negative in a negative context. The op clearly likes fat girls and wants to meet them so its a positive thing here. | |||
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"Just another thread that shows guys can't do anything right in here! If he'd have said curvy/larger/bbw etc he'd have been told to call it as it is and say fat yet he has said fat and now that's wrong. I'm surprised how positive the response is to the term fat, I'm sat here trying to learn about women whilst also stating that I believe there are less offensive terms which could have been used. I feel like Mel Gibson in what women want. The word fat isn't the problem, it's what it's combined with..... Often bitch/slag/cow/slob etc. Fat is just a descriptive word and when used in that manner there is no issue. Use it to try and hurt me or run me down then we have a problem. Agreed. A descriptive word filled with negative connotations such as bitch/slob/slag. So why would you use a word that is so commonly linked with those words to describe someone you've never met? Also, to the Skype transmitted infections... I hold my hands up to you. I was going to link viruses with diarrhoea, resulting in weight loss but I thought I'd hold off seen as we're approaching dinner time. Because when people do that they get abuse for not calling a spade a spade! Like I said, can't Fucking win. I guess it's only negative in a negative context. The op clearly likes fat girls and wants to meet them so its a positive thing here. " I accept that, and I accept that it was accepted by many. It's wonderful that people are comfortable enough in themselves to be proud of whether they're fat, think or enjoy reverse donkeys punched. The most important thing is to be comfortable with who you are, in reality no one truly is. But equally, I didn't come across women offended by the term. Just men. Which within itself quite refreshing. | |||
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"Chubster over hereee " I don't mean to offend, but in reality your body is what most women aspire to have. It kind of reiterated the overuse of curvy because you're between slim and athletic. Which within itself makes me a complete hypocrite because I earlier said describe yourself with whatever you're comfortable describing yourself with... Sorry everyone. | |||
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"Chubster over hereee I don't mean to offend, but in reality your body is what most women aspire to have. It kind of reiterated the overuse of curvy because you're between slim and athletic. Which within itself makes me a complete hypocrite because I earlier said describe yourself with whatever you're comfortable describing yourself with... Sorry everyone." All these photos are taken from flattering angles, currently lying in the bath and im definitely not slim and athletic | |||
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"So for being so blunt OPs actually managed to get plenty hot ladies attention! Well done OP & jealous cause i luv a big woman too" It's not the first thread he's started here | |||
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"Most people's tum has folds when sat down unless you really are slim or athletic. It's the norm. Most people will have something they're not 100% happy with about themselves. If you find someone who likes you regardless - happy days! If not - move on Don't sit around wondering why. End of today's words of wisdom " The end? I thought this was the start of something beautiful? | |||
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"So for being so blunt OPs actually managed to get plenty hot ladies attention! Well done OP & jealous cause i luv a big woman too Flabbergasted is the most appropriate term, although I'm yet to figure out whether some women are being facetious." Not if we identify with being fat. | |||
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"So for being so blunt OPs actually managed to get plenty hot ladies attention! Well done OP & jealous cause i luv a big woman too Flabbergasted is the most appropriate term, although I'm yet to figure out whether some women are being facetious. Not if we identify with being fat." I will say that I did continue to say someone should identify with whatever they feel comfortable with. But then became a bit of a hypocrite which we won't fixate on, it's a technicality. | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work..." Curvy can describe a size 6 or 26. It is merely an indicator that the waist is small in comparison to boobs and hips.. It is not a descriptor for fat. Fat is flesh in excess, sometimes flabby like a mummy tummy, sometimes not like a beer belly. | |||
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"Another fat lady here No need to sugar coat it ( pardon the pun ) I too think "curvy" is over used and I loath the BBW tag " So do I. I'm too small to be a BW but still fat. | |||
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"The preferred word is BBW pal. I love women of all shapes and sizes. I would never call anyone fat. Just harsh and cruel" Wrong! | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. " I know exactly how you feel. | |||
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"I understand that individuality is the answer to this question, but I stand by the perception of the word fat isn't appropriate if he's actively trying to get somewhere. Too many negative connotations! At the risk of hurting someone I feel an ounce of sensitivity would be beneficial. " | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. Then things up front are probably a stone each, shall we call it an even two? You should see my arse. That's probably where the other two stone is. Bmi is a chart, it's an arbitrary chart made to make people feel insecure. But please share the arse, you can use my face as a scale, very accurate. Did I become a pervert right there?" No. The BMI chart is a guide to health professional as to whether their patient is under/overweight. It is not perfect but is advocated by the NHS and WHO. | |||
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"I do something called EFT = Emotional Freedom Technique. It's easy to do ands learn. It makes weight loss a doddle. If anybody wants to lose weight I will help them for free. There is no catch. I am not looking to meet you. Any help would be done via the Internet using skype. That means it doesn't matter where in the world you live I can still help you. You don't need to put your web cam on as we do the EFT. We just need to be able to chat to each other. " Am i right in assuming it won't work on people who are fat due to medical issues? | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. Then things up front are probably a stone each, shall we call it an even two? You should see my arse. That's probably where the other two stone is. Bmi is a chart, it's an arbitrary chart made to make people feel insecure. But please share the arse, you can use my face as a scale, very accurate. Did I become a pervert right there? No. The BMI chart is a guide to health professional as to whether their patient is under/overweight. It is not perfect but is advocated by the NHS and WHO." It's correct in most cases unless you work out or have high/low metabolic rates. My friend worked out and was classed as obese. Ridiculous. It should be used as a guide but body fat percentage should be the one used in reality. BMI is flawed in that respect. | |||
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"You know what does really piss me off. People telling me I'm not fat. I'm still 4 stones over my top weight range. That's 4 stones of fat I shouldn't be dragging around. Then things up front are probably a stone each, shall we call it an even two? You should see my arse. That's probably where the other two stone is. Bmi is a chart, it's an arbitrary chart made to make people feel insecure. But please share the arse, you can use my face as a scale, very accurate. Did I become a pervert right there? No. The BMI chart is a guide to health professional as to whether their patient is under/overweight. It is not perfect but is advocated by the NHS and WHO." Yet becomes a redundant tool when factoring boobs, arse and muscle. | |||
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"I'm fat, may as well own the word, I'm not deluded enough to think I'm anything but " It's all them crumpets. | |||
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"I'm fat, may as well own the word, I'm not deluded enough to think I'm anything but It's all them crumpets." I realise that sounded really rude. To those who think I'm a cunt, please refer to her pictures... | |||
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"I'm fat, may as well own the word, I'm not deluded enough to think I'm anything but It's all them crumpets. I realise that sounded really rude. To those who think I'm a cunt, please refer to her pictures..." Good aren't they | |||
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"I'm fat, may as well own the word, I'm not deluded enough to think I'm anything but It's all them crumpets. I realise that sounded really rude. To those who think I'm a cunt, please refer to her pictures... Good aren't they " Indeed. Good enough for me to impulsively make a joke about the crumpets without realising I sounded rather twatty. | |||
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"The preferred word is BBW pal. " Not by me it isn't. I intensely dislike the term BBW. I am big, I am a woman but that doesn't mean I am beautiful. Some may think I am, others probably don't. I am fat. If I get offended by someone calling me fat then I should probably do something about it. *wanders off in search of chocolate* | |||
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"This isn't going to end well Its not started well Any larger curvy ladies around would have been a tad better!" Not all larger people are curvy | |||
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"Hands up here! I'm fat, not proud but working on it I love that this thread is turning very pro confidence, but I'm really struggling who to commend? Someone help?! I love curvy women, which is how I'd say it. Can someone answer whether fat is a preferred term because this is causing me to be unproductive in work... Some hate the term fat and others don't mind it. I personally think the term curvy is overused on here but that's just my opinion. I had this very issue. I was talking to a lady who put curvy as her description but she was a small size 10 From that moment on I have either been fat or 'ample' - and I hate that word " I really hate the word ample. Anyway fat chick here | |||
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"I'm fat, may as well own the word, I'm not deluded enough to think I'm anything but It's all them crumpets. I realise that sounded really rude. To those who think I'm a cunt, please refer to her pictures... Good aren't they Indeed. Good enough for me to impulsively make a joke about the crumpets without realising I sounded rather twatty. You know, I went through a phase of buying crumpets when I took those pics but I haven't had them in ages could just have a crumpet now! Or some crumpet loaf from Greenhalghs " Woah, change of topic guys. What is a crumpet loaf? | |||
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"I prefer "chunky monkey" to fat hehe " A lovely chunky monkey you are lol | |||
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"It's not a nice phrase but it is how I see myself. No point sugar coating it when my mirror and most of society doesn't. I'm not fat and proud or happy with my weight so not likely the idea the OP had when starting this post!" Your mirror maybe says fat to you, but judging from what I can see in your photos.......my eyes say bloody gorgeous and sexy.....beauty is in the eye of the beholder Xxx | |||
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"I prefer "chunky monkey" to fat hehe A lovely chunky monkey you are lol " Thanks very much x | |||
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"I'm fat, may as well own the word, I'm not deluded enough to think I'm anything but It's all them crumpets. I realise that sounded really rude. To those who think I'm a cunt, please refer to her pictures... Good aren't they Indeed. Good enough for me to impulsively make a joke about the crumpets without realising I sounded rather twatty. You know, I went through a phase of buying crumpets when I took those pics but I haven't had them in ages could just have a crumpet now! Or some crumpet loaf from Greenhalghs Greenhalghs crumpet loaf eggy bread! Oh. My. God. Why have I never thought of this?! I only have eggy bread at my mums cos I never get it quite right. That's it I'm off to Greenhalgh's tomorrow then getting mum to cook me brekkie on Saturday " A former forumite, Bussy, told me about Greenhalghs crumpet loaf (it really isn't available anywhere else) and suggested eggy bread. It is the ultimate comfort food. | |||
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"I'm fat, may as well own the word, I'm not deluded enough to think I'm anything but It's all them crumpets. I realise that sounded really rude. To those who think I'm a cunt, please refer to her pictures... Good aren't they Indeed. Good enough for me to impulsively make a joke about the crumpets without realising I sounded rather twatty. You know, I went through a phase of buying crumpets when I took those pics but I haven't had them in ages could just have a crumpet now! Or some crumpet loaf from Greenhalghs Greenhalghs crumpet loaf eggy bread! Oh. My. God. Why have I never thought of this?! I only have eggy bread at my mums cos I never get it quite right. That's it I'm off to Greenhalgh's tomorrow then getting mum to cook me brekkie on Saturday A former forumite, Bussy, told me about Greenhalghs crumpet loaf (it really isn't available anywhere else) and suggested eggy bread. It is the ultimate comfort food. " This is something I need to try. I vaguely know what a greenhalghs is, but not where one is! | |||
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"I'm fat, may as well own the word, I'm not deluded enough to think I'm anything but It's all them crumpets. I realise that sounded really rude. To those who think I'm a cunt, please refer to her pictures... Good aren't they Indeed. Good enough for me to impulsively make a joke about the crumpets without realising I sounded rather twatty. You know, I went through a phase of buying crumpets when I took those pics but I haven't had them in ages could just have a crumpet now! Or some crumpet loaf from Greenhalghs Greenhalghs crumpet loaf eggy bread! Oh. My. God. Why have I never thought of this?! I only have eggy bread at my mums cos I never get it quite right. That's it I'm off to Greenhalgh's tomorrow then getting mum to cook me brekkie on Saturday A former forumite, Bussy, told me about Greenhalghs crumpet loaf (it really isn't available anywhere else) and suggested eggy bread. It is the ultimate comfort food. This is something I need to try. I vaguely know what a greenhalghs is, but not where one is! I thought they had them in Manchester but maybe it's just a weird Wigan thing? *off to research crumpet loaf*" They may be dotted about but I don't know where! I'm just looking now and there's one near my house. Never noticed it. | |||
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" I thought they had them in Manchester but maybe it's just a weird Wigan thing? *off to research crumpet loaf* They may be dotted about but I don't know where! I'm just looking now and there's one near my house. Never noticed it. Crumpet loaf? How is that actually possible? " How do you feel about a romantic date at greenhalghs and we can find out together? A first of many firsts | |||
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" I thought they had them in Manchester but maybe it's just a weird Wigan thing? *off to research crumpet loaf* They may be dotted about but I don't know where! I'm just looking now and there's one near my house. Never noticed it. Crumpet loaf? How is that actually possible? How do you feel about a romantic date at greenhalghs and we can find out together? A first of many firsts " I assume we'll be stood up as generally there's no seatage in this bakery | |||
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" I thought they had them in Manchester but maybe it's just a weird Wigan thing? *off to research crumpet loaf* They may be dotted about but I don't know where! I'm just looking now and there's one near my house. Never noticed it. Crumpet loaf? How is that actually possible? How do you feel about a romantic date at greenhalghs and we can find out together? A first of many firsts " I feel as if I'm taking over the OPs thread but how can you guys never have heard of crumpet loaf when you both live so close to Wigan?! Shocking | |||
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" I thought they had them in Manchester but maybe it's just a weird Wigan thing? *off to research crumpet loaf* They may be dotted about but I don't know where! I'm just looking now and there's one near my house. Never noticed it. Crumpet loaf? How is that actually possible? How do you feel about a romantic date at greenhalghs and we can find out together? A first of many firsts I assume we'll be stood up as generally there's no seatage in this bakery " Romance doesn't need a table and chairs. | |||
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" I feel as if I'm taking over the OPs thread but how can you guys never have heard of crumpet loaf when you both live so close to Wigan?! Shocking " Fat forks sometimes like crumpets. Back on track with the OP I could get lynched with that last comment if someone reads it not knowing the context | |||
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" I feel as if I'm taking over the OPs thread but how can you guys never have heard of crumpet loaf when you both live so close to Wigan?! Shocking Fat forks sometimes like crumpets. Back on track with the OP I could get lynched with that last comment if someone reads it not knowing the context " Luckily we're in a very sexually liberated forum so I think people will just be jealous of the pastry chef. | |||
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