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Just had a frightening experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and my brother were on our way to the train station to head to Manchester when out of the corner of my eye as we walked past a charity shop, I spotted someone that I hadn't seen since last Christmas and hoped I would never see again and that was my recent ex.

As soon as I saw her, I walked straight past very quickly as we headed straight for the station.

Luckily she didn't see me but that little experience brought back painful memories of what happened last Christmas and the last thing I wanted was to have all that thrown back in my face.

I'm not gonna let get the better of me as I've moved on since then and became a better person than I was in the past thanks to all the friends I've made here who have gave me so much support that I'm very grateful for

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Oh. I was waiting for a Santa costume punch line!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry if the title was a bit misleading but what happened earlier was pretty scary for me

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Sorry if the title was a bit misleading but what happened earlier was pretty scary for me"

I can only imagine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry if the title was a bit misleading but what happened earlier was pretty scary for me

I can only imagine. "

Yeah. I've put it behind me now and continuing to move forward as it's never good to be stuck in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your doing great without her your getting more confident everyday xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your doing great without her your getting more confident everyday xx"

Yeah I sure am. I'll make sure it stays that way as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frightening though?

Actually I'm sure there's guys that would say the same of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you're okay OP, it's never nice bumping into Ex,s and having the wound opened up again. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope you're okay OP, it's never nice bumping into Ex,s and having the wound opened up again. XXX"

Yeah I'm ok now thanks. I agree but luckily I'm not gonna let it get to me as I'm keeping it in the past where it belongs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By talking about it, aren't you bringing back to the present though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah good job she never spotted you sounds like she would of wiped her feet on you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah good job she never spotted you sounds like she would of wiped her feet on you. "

Yeah. I'm sure I won't be seeing her again as she doesn't live in town thank goodness

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Hope you're okay OP, it's never nice bumping into Ex,s and having the wound opened up again. XXX

Yeah I'm ok now thanks. I agree but luckily I'm not gonna let it get to me as I'm keeping it in the past where it belongs"

You sure are .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope you're okay OP, it's never nice bumping into Ex,s and having the wound opened up again. XXX

Yeah I'm ok now thanks. I agree but luckily I'm not gonna let it get to me as I'm keeping it in the past where it belongs

You sure are ."

Yeah. I'm enjoying life a lot more and have had some great fun these past few months

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Damn that was a close one. Me and my brother got off the train at platform 1 and there she was on platform 4 on the opposite side of the station. I'm sure she didn't see me thank goodness.

It sure was lucky that the train arrived on platform 1 otherwise I would have been well in the firing line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is she so bloody scary? The only person who actually shits his pants when he see's me is my ex but he knows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn that was a close one. Me and my brother got off the train at platform 1 and there she was on platform 4 on the opposite side of the station. I'm sure she didn't see me thank goodness.

It sure was lucky that the train arrived on platform 1 otherwise I would have been well in the firing line"

Does she carry a gun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is she so bloody scary? The only person who actually shits his pants when he see's me is my ex but he knows! "

He's her ex. She might be another you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn that was a close one. Me and my brother got off the train at platform 1 and there she was on platform 4 on the opposite side of the station. I'm sure she didn't see me thank goodness.

It sure was lucky that the train arrived on platform 1 otherwise I would have been well in the firing line"

Does she kick the shit out of you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is she so bloody scary? The only person who actually shits his pants when he see's me is my ex but he knows!

He's her ex. She might be another you! "

Oh I'd like to meet her she sounds fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn that was a close one. Me and my brother got off the train at platform 1 and there she was on platform 4 on the opposite side of the station. I'm sure she didn't see me thank goodness.

It sure was lucky that the train arrived on platform 1 otherwise I would have been well in the firing line"

Not to sound harsh, but I think you have to work a bit harder at leaving your ex in the past. I care less about people I genuinely like than you seem to about her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Damn that was a close one. Me and my brother got off the train at platform 1 and there she was on platform 4 on the opposite side of the station. I'm sure she didn't see me thank goodness.

It sure was lucky that the train arrived on platform 1 otherwise I would have been well in the firing line

Not to sound harsh, but I think you have to work a bit harder at leaving your ex in the past. I care less about people I genuinely like than you seem to about her."

I have and will leave her in the past. When she broke my heart last Christmas, it nearly destroyed me and left me really depressed. What I meant by firing line was that I didn't want to have her rip me to shreds and destroying the confidence I had gained these past months. I took the new year as a new start in life for me and it has done me a lot of good and I'm not gonna let the past get to me

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Damn that was a close one. Me and my brother got off the train at platform 1 and there she was on platform 4 on the opposite side of the station. I'm sure she didn't see me thank goodness.

It sure was lucky that the train arrived on platform 1 otherwise I would have been well in the firing line

Not to sound harsh, but I think you have to work a bit harder at leaving your ex in the past. I care less about people I genuinely like than you seem to about her."

It's something he is working on but his Aspergers make processing his emotions a lot harder to do. He's a regular on BBW and if you knew his story on there you'd how hard he's trying and even how far he's come

Spin You're doing great buddy hang on in there x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Damn that was a close one. Me and my brother got off the train at platform 1 and there she was on platform 4 on the opposite side of the station. I'm sure she didn't see me thank goodness.

It sure was lucky that the train arrived on platform 1 otherwise I would have been well in the firing line

Not to sound harsh, but I think you have to work a bit harder at leaving your ex in the past. I care less about people I genuinely like than you seem to about her.

It's something he is working on but his Aspergers make processing his emotions a lot harder to do. He's a regular on BBW and if you knew his story on there you'd how hard he's trying and even how far he's come

Spin You're doing great buddy hang on in there x"

Thanks so much Curvy. That means a lot. I really appreciate it

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